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There's definitely more specialised language / terminology for what we all enjoy these days. I came out in the 80s and knew I wanted to fuck. I'm well-hung with a thick uncut cock and on student working holidays in New York and New Jersey so many men wanted to bend over / bottom for me. AIDS was ever-present so I 'wrapped up' when I didn't want to do that we just did something else which usually involved me blowing a load. Internet / social media / online porn changed everything. Specialist search terms, descriptors of specific things you are / are not into. Feels like catalogue shopping sometimes so I still say I'm a total top. Dumbest trend I saw some men trying to describe themselves as a 'side' I mean WTF

Which some members of the present government did propose while in opposition.

Love this compliment that I received recently... "can i get in the lineup that Im sure you must be dealing with"

A cucumber and an egg plant hehe 😉

Hey all- this is an older topic, and I may have even replied to it at some point ages ago. Times change tho- so if you can indulge me - read on. I was a pig/slut/open manhole/etc from age 15 on up to about 18 months ago. Or, about for about 52 years. I explored some S&M, Dom/sub, "Master"/slave, and lots of random, one and done play. Even had a semi stable relationship for 19 years with a great man. But about 18 months ago I failed my PSA test, for the 1st time. After educating myself as much as possible and learning the various options, I wanted to do nothing and just monitor the PSA level, and a wiser radiation oncologist agreed, as long as I did 2 more things. Some of the biopsy material went off for RNA testing, and I went off for a PSMA Pet scan. Luckily, there was no signs of and metastatic spread in my body, and unfortunately the RNA sample indicated I was at the top most range for the sample to metasticise throughout my body if not arrested quickly. I had to have immediate treatment , waiting was not an option. The beginning of the long treatment began Sept 1 with me taking a one a day pill that would essentially "castrate" me- no testosterone being produced meant the cancer cells had no food to divide and spread new cells. At day 20, I saw my urologist who injected a product called Trellstar- a 3 month dose of injectable testosterone inhibitor (TIP, in case I need to refer to it again) I was able to get erect and had "dry orgasms " - no cum but def the sensation, for another 10 days or so, and then as my nuts basically stopped working, not only did I lose all sex urges and libido, but my muscle tone went to shit, my metabolism was off and I began having a gut ( I have never had one up to now) On top of all that "joy" fatigue was a regular event, and like a menopausal woman, hot flashes struck over and over for no apparent reason- other than the TIP and the fact I did not have any testosterone in my system. The 28 days of radiation were not bad- other than having to drink 28 ounces of water and hour ahead of the 4 minute treatment ( and if you have prostate issues, let me tell you, holding any amount of liquid can be a challenge, holding that much water was a real " water torture" OK- so the history is behind- the point is this- you might think in your kink head being castrated or Nullo is exciting - but the sex drive and urges you have today driving that thinking will be totally gone should you actually follow thru with it. And even tho all traces of the TIP should have ended in my system about 3 months ago, since I was getting it 90 days apart, I still do not have the urge- or arousal back, tho my testosterone has at least gone from less than 3 to 34- still a far cry from the 790 range it used to be. I would never want to tell you what to do or not do, but from where I have been recently- no T is not the way to go if you want to still have a sex life- even in a slave role- you have to have some arousal or it becomes a major roadblock. And if you have read this far, and IF you are also about to enter the world of prostate cancer patient- feel free to msg me privately- there is an EXCELLENT YT channel that is in layman's terms and covers just about any topic regarding PC and options.

This is so fucking hot

Slow start to this is such a turn-on, the oral, ride, open window load, size. Mmm

In New York you have to situate yourself in a busy working-class area outside of Manhattan. New Yorkers rarely travel outside of their borough for sex. Atlanta is a way better option since its a car-centric city and already has the reputation for being sleazy.

Does seem to be rather temperamental as to when this screen appears. Just thought it quite funny a couple of days after mentioning it I’d finally got the VPNs are blocked messaged.

A true cock lover enjoys sucking it soft or hard. Happy as long as cock is in mouth.

Me next please

I lost my anal virginity bareback in 1984. Had sex with 80 men mostly raw and as a bottom 75% of the time until 1987 when I had my first bf. He was 100% top.and he and almost all the men before him and rhe ones we played together with, rimming was was as typical as sucking cock. I can't recall top, vers and bottom terminology, it was more like he likes to fuck or be fucked. Some of the things I did in the 80s and 90s I still do now but as far as I'm aware off there wasn't a name for it such as ass to mouth, felching, snowballing. Some did such as double fucking, spitroasting, gangbang, orgy, fisting etc. The blatant difference from then and now is the higher proportion of tops then compared to now. Advancement in HiV/AIDS research, medication and prep, less internalised homophonia and party drugs have definitely enabled the rise of the bottom. I know so many men that were always too and are bottoms.

I'm connected via a vpn right now with no side effects.

Reading this statement is very I'll say interesting as a black man (and someone who is informed on hate crime stats regarding the race of the perpetrators of violence against LGBT people and unaliving of trans women in the US. In the meantime, I'll continue to steer clear of single white males, right wing of course, and their predilection towards violence.