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At what point does a bottom become a cumdump?
TownTravellerMan replied to NSABB's topic in General Discussion
This is such a great question and people have great responses. It's something I'm either trying to figure out myself. I did get pretty good advice a little while ago basically someone telling me it's okay to be a whore, slut, or cumdump if you want. Just be sex positive about what you want to be and not let others judge you. I have never really heard the term sex positive before but I love it. I did used to think about getting fucked everyday and I did the prep. Would follow a routine to clean myself out every morning and then be online constantly looking for the next hunt or load or go to bars or clubs and get load counts. Hell I had a system and a good amount of fuck buds and I could sort of plan to start the night getting fucked by a top who liked to fuck quick and was one and done and then go to another top that liked loads in me and liked to add one or two. This is before going to either hook up with someone or several guys or going to a bar or bath house like place and take multiple guys/loads. And yes bending over in a bar or public place was so easy for me to get many guys to fuck and breed me that I lost count of loads sometimes. So strange I rarely caught anything lol prep was just coming out back then and not really available. As fun as it was the issue with being a cumdump for me was letting it take control over everything. Waking up and just focusing on trying to find someone to hook up with or moving onto so many different guys and not really appreciating the ones I had. The hunt has always been fun or interesting whether online or in person. But it can be tiring on all fronts. The reputation thing is also spot on. The reputation of being a cum dump is something you need to own I think. It's probably harder if you don't have a lot of friends or support. Then you have to deal with however guys percive you. But what someone mentioned about a cumdump being someone you don't take home and cuddle just fuck somewhere and leave can definitely be true. But maybe things have kinda changed on views of cum dumps now. Maybe because prep exists, it's really common especially when you see it in public bars or bath houses. Also the guys that are being the biggest cum dumps are usually really attractive so that in itself might keep away some of the stigma. Because in a sense being a whore or slut has been kinda trendy in the past especially those who can pull it off. Eh. I already know why I kinda can't be one right now. Several reasons. But me saying that sort of feels like I'm repressing it which I think I am. I'm not doing it to make myself look better or feel better or superior by not being one especially in public. At the same time this is always something I wondered about it in the back of my mind in the past and even currently. But what if someone potentially that might be a fun hook up, friendship or more saw you out being a cum dump and their opinion of them lowered. Well while I just thought of this using some common rationale what are they doing at a place where guys hook up and whore around whether public or not. And if they do judge you for that then they probably are not someone you really want to get with because their view on sex like that might be negative. I've always been iffy about dark rooms though. They can be fun but It's always amazed me how some guys might not want anything to do with you in a bar or public place or just in the light. But in a dark room even if they see you going in they might follow and play with you. And after might go back on not wanting anything to do with you. I know that's not every guy and every situation but I've noticed it in the past. Or more recently. I've also had the experience at book stores where in a room a guy is really intimate or passionate regardless of what act involved in they state some kind of limit like "Oh I don't fuck guys in places like this or no I don't do that with guys here". But then again they are also at the place. I am probably overthinking all this way too much. I had clear and concise thoughts in my head but thinking of everything is becoming foggy. It could be with my situation where I am kinda "free" that maybe I'm letting it lots of repressed feeling and actions i couldn't do over these past years. Ironically someone I spoke to recently I told him a little of my experiences lately and he told me I'm a cum dump in a good way though. I told him this is light compared to how I used to be and his response was "light". I just might not be able to escape it. I wonder if being subservient natured sexually kinda fates or leads you into it. I can easily tell from past, present and future that if I run into a top that wants to whore me out I will not turn them down. I mean I've already kinda shown that. That makes me kind of wonder if you take any and all loads if a top orders you and you do it be subservient if that also makes you a cum dump. This was probably too much on this but I've thought about all of this way too much. Next my thoughts on couples with open relationships but I think I'll wait until I play with one again I need a refresher. -
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TownTravellerMan replied to Ronitsingh's topic in General Discussion
It's been forever I don't even remember the feeling anymore. I should change that 🙂 It can hurt a little more yes. It also depends on the size of the guys cock. Smaller to average one is a great feeling. I do remember being fucked by a big dick top years ago in a hotel. It's not so much that he was aggressive but he was passionate and forceful and huge. I remember bleeding in the shower the next morning. A little fucked up but I just got hard typing that lol. It wasn't that bleeding part but just how passionately the man fucked me. I was fucked raw and bred by tops with PAs after that just don't recall it as much. I wouldn't refuse a top with a PA. But honestly speaking tops can remove the PAs for the most part. So if you don't feel comfortable doing it they don't have to wear it. Sucking socks that have PAs is fun but if it's the round PA that is literally a fun metallic tasting obstacle challenge. Scratch that I remembered another experience where a large dick boy topped me. He was trying to fuck me gently because he was young and kind. But his Sir or Master was not kind and intentionally got on top of the boy that was on top of me and fucked him so his PA dick would go in me more intensely. I remember screaming how could I forget that. My cock apparently didn't though lol.- 50 replies
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I had a similar situation happen, got sick as hell after meeting up with a couple. I was also told that 90 days would be the 'real' test, but the rapid test was neg. After 90 days, I was still neg, and after a year, still neg.
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Do you live alone or with family etc.? If you're able to be on your own, that's one thing but having people knowing that you had guys coming and going would be freaky. I once knew a guy who had an attendant who set him up before dates and cleaned him up after, disappearing in between. I give him a lot of credit for having the balls to rely on someone for that; I'd be too embarrassed (and credit to the guy cleaning up all the DNA afterwards!)
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I’m an older man, Gen X, and I still haven’t sucked my first cock yet. I talk to a lot of guys on Grindr but have yet to meet anyone. I am talking to two guys the most. One says he’s negative and one says he’s positive, undetectable and on doxy prep. The negative guy is very short in his responses and only talks when I initiate conversation. The positive guy said he wants to be my first, keeps up a conversation and seems the nicer of the two. I guess my question is, would anyone see a a problem with a “straight” guy getting with an hiv positive guy to give his first blow job? The way I see it, the positive guy is honest and the negative guy could be lying. I don’t know…I probably sound really stupid even bringing this up.
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I’m married to a woman, but her strap-on is significantly bigger than my cock, and I love it. She is not a gentle top. Once told her she was going too deep and it hurt. Her response was, “You can take it. I’m not done yet.” I could have used our safe word, but it turned me on when she said that, and I love being a total slut for her.
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I was around 25 or so the first time I got fucked by a guy. It was at his house. We met online in an aol m4m chat room. He absolutely refused to fuck without condoms though.
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So you like cheating sex or sex in public place
Bibttmmiami replied to Ronitsingh's topic in General Discussion
I’m not much on cheating. My wife knows I play and it turns her on. She even had me get on Prep so I can get bred. I absolutely love public sex. Parks, cars, abs, any place where there’s a risk of getting caught, but not arrested is hot.
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