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You can get an RSS feed of my porn blog... http://www.rawtop.com/porn/feed I'm also working on launching a big picture gallery section on Wily Willy (one of my other sites). I'm waiting on a designer to "skin" it for me and make it look presentable - it's not really ready for public consumption. It's a gallery site of all types of gay porn, but there is a bareback section. However, there's no RSS feed of images in that category. Let me think about how to best come up with an RSS feed of images for you...

Hey guys... Jesse Santana just did his first bareback scene it was released in the last day or two over at Raw Fuck Club. Check it out

Did you not read the beginning of the thread? We don't delete accounts.

So far the discussion here hasn't gone too far. The Backroom forums are devoted to more particular topics - this is more general. And also this is largely about fantasy - not reality... So my darker fetishes... I have a lot of gift giving fantasies (even though I'm neg). I fantasize about beating a guy to a pulp (even though I don't think I've ever been in a proper fight). And race play and slavery turns me on big time...

All Gone. Too bad though.

In case you're wondering what the problem is... I'm guessing it was caused by a hardware failure and no backup - or something along those lines. I'll let you know more when I hear it...

I edited your post and inserted links to the sites. If you click on the links before you buy I'll get credit for the sale - which helps support this site... Anyway, on a personal level RFC is run by my best friend where the guys over at TIM have sorta been jerks to me lately. But the fact that they've been jerks only says something about their business skills - not the quality of their porn. Those are the two best selling sites for me. Head and shoulders above just about everything else. I'm not sure which site has more internal cumshots. To me the difference between the sites is that RFC has "hotter" guys and a more professional production. TIMFuck is more about average pigs and their shoots tend to be in hotel rooms rather than proper sets. RFC gets the big name condom porn stars the first time they do a bareback scene. TIMFuck gets average guys off the street to take loads. It's sort of an apples and oranges sorta thing.

Please take discussion of bisexual sex to the Straight & Bi forum. The responses in this thread are at the limit of what's allowed here. Don't take it further in this thread - start a new thread...

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There's a recent article in the NY Times that's rather fascinating... It's the story of Spencer Cox - one of the leaders of ACT UP back in the day. http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/24/fashion/what-really-killed-spencer-cox-aids-activist.html?_r=0 He died in December and his death was a bit of a shock to his friends. After he died they found half-full bottles of HIV meds in his apartment - bottles that were 6 months old. And things weren't particularly bad for him - he was one of the stars of the Oscar nominated documentary "How To Survive A Plague" and he seemed completely normal and OK to his friends. But he stopped taking his meds and apparently didn't talk to anyone about his decision. And as a result his body just stopped working and he died rather suddenly. It's a really sad story. One of his issues was that when the AIDS crisis ended so did much of his purpose in life. He had spent so much time and energy getting ARVs to market, etc. that when he achieved his goal and the crisis went away there wasn't much left for him. While others (like me) had been focusing on their careers, he found that his skillset wasn't really all that great and he wasn't all that employable. Take some time and read the article. It'll make you think... Oh, and he was pretty cute too...

IMHO, that sounds about right... Though I picked the "no age of consent, just increased penalties for rape if the victim is a minor" option in the poll. Personally I think a lot of places the age of consent laws are pretty fucked up and Germany's sounds pretty well balanced.

This has been fixed.

You can take pictures on the iPhone without unlocking the phone. If you have an iPhone that's an option...

So I thought I'd start a new series of posts... Threads that review sex parties, sex clubs, bathhouses, bookstores, etc. When you rely please use the format shown below. And feel free to start similar threads for other cities... Venue Name: How many times have you gone? Location: Rough percent of guys barebacking: How easy is it for bottoms to get loads? How easy is it for tops to fuck bareback? How many guys go? How exclusive is the crowd? Best times to go: Other Details: So I'll start with a couple... Venue Name: RawRiders Bareback Parties (hosted by Danny) How many times have you gone? Twice Location: South Harlem (private apartment) Rough percent of guys barebacking: 100% How easy is it for bottoms to get loads? Tough to semi-easy depending on how many guys show up How easy is it for tops to fuck bareback? Fairly easy to very easy, but selection of bottoms may be that great How many guys go? 8 to 30+ depending on the night How exclusive is the crowd? All types, all races Best times to go: Blackout nights, and nights with a Bear Party after the Bareback Party Other Details: These parties only happen occasionally now - mostly disbanded. It feels like a pretty big waste of time on the nights when not many guys go, or it can be a lot of fun on the nights that are busy. Venue Name: Omega Room @ Rainbow Center How many times have you gone? Once Location: Long Island City (near subway) Rough percent of guys barebacking: 25% (lots of oral) How easy is it for bottoms to get loads? Not easy, but possible How easy is it for tops to fuck bareback? Fairly easy How many guys go? 50+ How exclusive is the crowd? All types go - lots of Latinos, Blacks & Asians Best times to go: Not sure - only open on weekends Other Details: The crowd didn't seem all that focused on fucking. There were plenty of bareback bottoms available to fuck, but they weren't getting a lot of action. They seemed to wait endlessly with their asses up for just the occasional fuck - which is good for tops, but not so great for bottoms. That said - there were a few bottoms who had gotten enough loads that their asses were cummy. So bottoms are likely to get a few loads in a night - just not a lot of loads. Also, the bed in the dark area tends to be hogged by a few bottoms who are just waiting - making it difficult for guys to find a good, private place to fuck. There are other beds, but they're pretty public. All in all the vibe is a lot about public sex - if you like having sex in front of other guys, you'll like the place.

Interesting question... StumbleUpon was really hot a few years ago. It's still popular, but not nearly as popular as it was back in the day. I'd say Twitter & Tumblr fill the role you're looking for - but not quite in the same way that StumbleUpon does it.

It's a "he said / he said" scenario - I doubt it would ever go to trial. Unless you happened to be videotaping it, there would be no proof. And how many guys who are that uptight really want it in court documents that they let a complete stranger fuck them raw?

That's actually a really interesting idea... I could totally see it working. There would be a tribe/pack leader and then a bunch of guys in the pack/tribe. Besides contributing to the workload and finances of the house/tribe/pack, tribe/pack members would be expected to contribute sexually to the tribe/pack and could be voted out if they pulled back sexually.

There are many ways people talk about "enjoying the disease". IMHO, some of them are quite normal others indicate either a form of mental illness or plain stupidity. In the normal category is thinking guys with "the poz look" are sexy. That's no weirder than thinking 450 pound chubs are sexy. Then there's the people enjoy the sexual freedom being poz gives them - that's just making the best of a bad situation - making lemonade out of lemons... Unfortunately, more guys on this site than I'd like are meth addicts. Meth has fucked with their cognitive processes and honestly, they're mentally ill/damaged. They think it's hot to waste away and die. And the sad part is meth gets them to actually do it. There was a study out of British Columbia a few years ago about who was actually dying of AIDS the short answer was "people with drug problems". I had one the IM me on Skype the other day and at one point I said "Meth is going to kill you. You know that, right? Is that really what you want?" His answer was basically "yeah, bring it on". It was sad. I don't think there's much you can do with that group - it's the drugs talking and they're addicted. Then there are the ones who just have no clue how bad AIDS can be. Young guys today never saw someone really sick from AIDS. They're young and think they're untouchable and they can beat it or that can't be nearly as bad as people say it is. When reality hit them in the gut with a bad OI, they'll wake up and take their meds and probably be just fine.

Huge difference. Regular STDs you can get rid of with a pill and/or a shot and you get them many times over the course of your life. The objective is to get them treated quickly when you get them so you can go back to being STD-free. HIV is completely different - you get it once and it stays with you for life. Hence people want to make an event out of getting it - they want getting it to be memorable. They want to feel in control when they get it. Etc.

I think bug chasing is a logical and rational decision for many guys. If a guy understands that he really like taking loads in anonymous situations, then he's being realistic to acknowledge to himself that he will become HIV+ as a result. What's not a healthy response is to think he can stay neg in that situation or to beat himself up for what he desires sexually. One he understands he will become poz, there are two rational responses. Just be at peace with it and let it happen. Or take control of the situation and enjoy it (since it will only happen once). Bug chasers are essentially just taking control of an unfortunate event in their lives. It's actually a very healthy response to their situation. Now chasing and spreading other STDs - that never makes sense to me.

That reminds me - if you've got a little money ($99) you can do a 23AndMe test and know whether you're resistant or immune to HIV or if you're an HIV controller who can stay off meds for years without any problems. For the more analytical among us, it's data that can help you come to a decision more easily.

You do understand that I'm only talking about restricting maybe 5% of the site, right? Please go back and read the first message in the thread. Only a small part of the site will be restricted. OK. That's the end of it. I'm done repeating myself. This discussion is over.

That's like a drunk saying "hey, this is a free country - why can't I be all in your face and puke all over your shoes?" I want everyone to have a good experience here and be able to use all the various tools. It will be even safer since it will be less open to the general public who may find the whole notion rather shocking. I was just IMing with HungLatinDom. He's been traveling the past two weeks and now on the site so much. He totally gets what I'm saying - spend a few weeks off this site in the real world and then come back to the site. This site isn't anywhere close to "normal" or "mainstream". I'll let this discussion go on until sometime tomorrow mid-day then it will be over. I've pretty much made up my mind already. So far I haven't heard any compelling reason not to do what I'm planning.

I explained it a bit above. But the issue is that the "What's New" Activity Stream and the "New Posts" links, which a lot of people use, mix everything together. It's difficult for people who want to avoid it to avoid it. To some people it's a bit like walking down a street and seeing someone urinating in a doorway. They think "do I really need to see that right now?" and they go somewhere else. I want them to stay - while still providing a place to piss for the people who want to do that... Saying you have to have so many posts before you see X, Y, Z, is one approach, but the problem is someone may be a great contributor and then get turned off... I want them to stay. But from a moderator's perspective we're constantly getting people who are high coming on the site and doing stuff that requires our intervention. I don't have the desire or energy to herd cats like that. But I've also heard from other people that the site is a bit too much about bug chasing. Even some comments here have been "oh, I thought that was the point of this site". No, that's the point of a couple sections of the site. Good memory. Right after I launched this site Bug Share was going down in flames. Oddly the member email list was sitting on that site in one big beautiful file, so I sent out an email to everyone on the list inviting them here. It was the mailing list that was available at the time, but my intention was always to be more than Bug Share - much more - which is why backroom discussions have always been limited to the backroom. But I think the important point is that the discussion will still be available. It just won't be as public.

BTW, people who've contributed a lot to the site up to this point will get free access to any parts of the site they want. By "contributed a lot" that means about a hundred or more posts. Here's the current list of people who match that criteria... Hotload84 - 956 TheBreeder - 893 HungLatinDom - 820 evilqueerpig - 632 Pig Bottom - 618 Belfast-Bottom - 584 einathens - 516 JoshLandaleXXX - 483 MascMountainMan - 458 Bttm2go - 432 NastyRigPig - 425 JizzDumpWI - 421 seaguy - 404 BBSeroMan - 399 hungry_hole - 376 Bear4Breeding - 371 AlwaysOpen - 364 MAIKOL20 - 358 slobbvers - 358 pulszer - 340 slowfuck - 336 PissPigBrooklyn - 333 cumaddict71 - 312 RawPozLust - 308 GermanFucker - 304 pigskintop - 298 Matias47 - 292 NiceHard1 - 291 TigerMilner - 285 Ingulphus - 285 cuntspunker - 282 thick - 276 fuckboy20 - 254 not_sure_bb - 253 Slut4anyload - 241 les_evil - 233 toxiclover - 230 breedme420 - 229 wammt - 226 pozpig46 - 218 Inception - 218 Party Cum Hole - 215 boycunt - 215 bearbandit - 212 HardhatBB - 212 totalasspig - 211 youngwolf87 - 211 NLbear - 211 gkz68 - 207 Male22192 - 205 bbfan74 - 202 faggot hole - 197 LBRaw - 190 bobbie - 187 Hook Scott - 185 BrotherDeposit - 183 brayton - 182 bbzh - 181 Vacant Poster - 180 likaleather - 178 vrsbbltn - 170 pisspig - 170 YorkshireLad - 162 HotSeed - 160 calrockxxx - 157 i69nwind - 154 Deaner - 153 versbbtm - 153 loadme68 - 151 ff-whole - 151 BiAggieGuy - 151 btm2bbred - 150 jimmy01420 - 149 barefootbob - 148 Btm! - 147 Dirtysouth - 140 mike43 - 140 xxww - 138 k9cuteboy - 138 FelchingPisser - 137 bottomcub85 - 136 bottomcumwhore - 134 BreedingBear - 134 rawversjock - 134 cam1972 - 132 skinster - 132 HolePunchSD - 132 Grunt - 131 Tailgunner - 131 submissivefaggot - 129 Tucsonmale - 128 rawpozbtm - 128 cumpig6969 - 127 MightyMouth - 127 bbplayfulcat - 124 TonyRedux - 124 FatFuckPigMA - 123 GoodExercise - 122 uclatinosj - 122 blackserpant666 - 122 SpunkJunkyPissHound - 122 Jimmy1212 - 122 fairlygay - 121 ExtremeCumHole - 120 virgoz - 120 RyanWolff - 119 rubio2001 - 119 Able_101 - 118 kinkydawg - 118 wl101 - 117 whtbt4blkck - 116 TxBBTop - 116 whthole4u - 116 Alaric - 116 bottomGuy - 114 flexbtm - 113 BREEDmeRAW - 113 Fickloch - 113 neg4poztop - 111 tboyer - 111 boywonder - 109 johnny3000 - 109 cboycam - 109 Italynocondom - 107 aidsfukka - 106 kwhotboi - 105 lurker - 104 subtenor - 104 shadowgames - 103 bigdick4you - 101 pozpopperpig - 100 Lodeit - 100 TastyTannedCock - 100 KYcumdump68 - 99 MattDan - 99 If you're on that list you'll probably get whatever you want configured for free. I say probably because I need to review the list with my moderators. If you've racked up a lot of infractions I may say 'no'. But if after 100+ posts you've had few or no infractions then it's pretty certain you'll get comped. Not sure if that makes anyone think differently about the policy...