ellentonboy

@Ellentonboy - same as here.

Hey I did a UPS driver, who was in full uniform, in the parking lot across the street from the Ramrod in broad daylight. This was Lauderdale, like in the month of July. It was hot as hell, like having sex in a tin cup, but I enjoyed every minute of it. I should have asked him why he was drinking Corona's as opposed to making a delivery, but he made a delivery for sure. Just not the kind they leave in front of your door....

My doctor told me almost all sexually active gay men have or get Hep B, there wasn't much to be done about it. However, I got Hep C in 2018 and that scared the hell out of me, my urine was brown, and he had me on Mavyret for twelve weeks, not the normal eight. The medicine had no effects, when I saw the retail cost it blew my mind. Thank God I had no copay, and the way the medication is dispensed makes it easy to remember to take. Now every time I go to have my labs drawn he runs the Hep C numbers, so far it looks like I am undetectable. I am glad I mentioned it to my doctor. I initially thought my urine was that color because of "enhancements" leaving my body, but after awhile the pain was so great when I urinated I finally had to tell him. I am glad I did, Hep C had never crossed my mind. Using Mavyret was so convenient, easy, I'm thankful to be aline and not have to deal with it any longer.

I believe it is. I spent a summer hanging with a guy, around my age, whose number of sexual partners, per day, per week astounded me. In his home, he had a play room and sometimes he and his partner would have maybe 4 to 5 guys over at a time. I met him, randomly, though a mutual friend and he invited me back to his house to meet his partner. This new friend of mine, Johnnie taught me so much about sex being a "numbers game". and he proved it time and time again. Those participants who used to come to his house to play with Johnnie and his partner, would also come over within an hour of his partner going off to work. Johnnie was on unemployment that summer, and had me come over and meet some of these guys who he had sex with 4 to 5 times a week, many of whom were married with children and were unemployed. After finishing with them, we ate a small lunch, and got in his car. He would proceed to head to every book store in the Tampa area. He knew where to get the lunch crowd, he knew where to get the "just left work crowd" and there was one guy who he had a standing 6 pm fuck reservation with at a larger bookstore that had a huge booth in the back where they could get completely naked. There was also an upstairs area, where for a $10 fee, you could take all your clothes off and no one said a word. This upper floor was divided into different movie rooms, showing a variety of porn. I saw my friend going from video room to video room, stark naked with the exception of sneakers. We wore tank tops, shorts and a jock under our shorts so our clothes could come on and off easily. There was a downstairs area that was a maze, where there were dark corners, small areas where two to four guys could fit. In ONE day, he was fucked by 47 different guys. I valued his friendship, he and his partner even set up a room in their house so I could crash there, with a day bed and a private bathroom for me. I never got the impression that his partner resented me, but there were many mornings where I was already at the house and his partner was getting dressed for his ten or twelve hour shift at a hospital. He had to know we didn't sit around all day watching tv. I purchased the two of them a web cam program, and Johnnie got on that and showed me the video-private messages he had received from all the "elite" top guys in Tampa (in other words, those with 9 plus inches). Some would just send a pic of their dick, and that meant for him to head on over. I don't exaggerate the totals of men who went through that house, that play room had a camera set up in it. and they recorded EVERY session, just no sound. I mean I spotted the camera the minute I got there, they had merely put a piece of tape over the red light so people wouldn't notice it. Everything, at that time, was shot onto VHS. Oh, they didn't tape over those videos, not by a long shot. In the play room, behind a wall, were all the videos from over the years, with the dates on them, 100s of them. You could see some guys would actually look directly into the camera, but from the exterior it looked like it was non-functional. My favorite night had to be when I had lost my ignition key, and I was waiting for AAA to make me a copy. A French tourist drove up, looking for Johnnie's house. I just pointed, and said "That's Johnnie's house". While waiting for the AAA guy to finish making my key, we heard something like a crashing noise. Here. the French man had fucked Johnnie so hard his sling came out of the ceiling and the two feel forward. No penis was injured in this accident. They just finished on the floor. I asked him, after one 9 am to say 10 pm day, how many men he had sex with. He was unimpressed with his tally - he modestly said "47". 47 guys in one weekday, like a Tuesday or Wednesday. Johnnie got a job that fall, and I told him I thought we should slow down on the amount of time we spent together. I don't work, I wasn't working then, and I was a bad influence. I didn't want him to lose what was a very good job offer, and hanging out with me can be a distraction and will only deplete your sick leave balance (because you will be calling in and taking the day off, no doubt after listening to me rationalize why that is a good thing). So, do 47 partners in a day, (and that was an "average" day) prove that sexual addiction exists? I think it does. Sure I have read posts from individuals who say there is documentation from certain medical associations who claim "there is no such thing" or "no, it doesn't exist". But I am not here to go back and forth over who may be right. However Johnnie proved to me that sex can be a "numbers game". We are still friends to this day. He has mellowed some, he is still with his partner, but he does now work from home while his partner is still at the hospital. I don't ask personal questions because too much time has passed. He's having a Christmas party this year and I was invited, in the past, they have locked down the "play room" and I am sure that routine will continue. They're something creepy about getting fucked while Santa watches. They are big into Christmas, they have a huge home I don't know how long it must take to decorate but it must take days. Sorry, but I think sexual addiction does exist, some of us are better at controlling our addictions than others.....

I agree with what you are saying. It does depend on the individuals, I have had 40 year old men act like they were in middle school, and I also have enjoyed a recent high school graduate (over 18) who was mature, polite, and there for only one reason, because he wanted to have sex wit me. I do try to take it on a case by case basis, online I am not really the aggressive type, if I see someone in their 20s I don' normally message them. However, if they reach out to me first, and I even bring up the age difference, then I figure it's fair game and if they want to play that 's great. I know of one couple I played with who were 30 years different in age, and I have to say at first I found it a bit creepy. They seemed to be very fond of one another, but once the sex started I just let it happen and both times I have been with them it has been drama free and fairly good sex. So I am going to worry less about the numbers, again I don't hit on the twinkish 20 somethings but if one should be genuinely interested I might decide to go for it.

I have been to Maspalomas, I flew from JFK and changed planes in Barcelona. I was in my 20s and totally alone. Now Maspalomas had beautiful beaches, some top less, some totally nude. My air/hotel package included a breakfast buffet and dinner. What I found lacking was the night life. I ended up meeting a Lybian shop owner with a huge piece of meat who would continue to come to my hotel night after night, so I had my fair share of dick. Here is my question - is Grand Canaria the same as Maspalomas, the area with the beautiful sand dunes you walked across that eventually led to the beach? I am just a little confused if I go back again, where exactly do I decide to stay if I want to fuck around?

I would like someone to state what "old" exactly is? I do get somewhat "upset" when threads involving age pop up. I'll say this.....having sex with an 18 year old is not exactly my idea of a good time. Sure, it does wonders for my fading self-confidence, but in the end I am disgusted with myself. To me it feels rather gross. Now 28 is a different story, that does get my self confidence booming and I do feel like a new man after an encounter like that. I have had guys says "Oh, but fucking a guy your age is great because they have so much experience and they feel so....accommodating. Okay I used the word accommodating because I don't want to repeat what the man said to me. I would like to pose this question to BZ members - at what age is too old? Now I am smart enough to realize that this topic has already been discussed but I would like the 2024 versions. Should there be no more than a certain number of years between the two (or three) guys involved? If. you are in your 40s are guys in their 20s off-limits? If you are in your 50s, should the youngest you sleep with should be in their late 30s. It gets very dicey to me, when I meet someone who is obviously sexually interested. If he asks my age, do I tell him the real number (I mean the REAL number).???? I ask this because I run across guys from say 25 to 35 on a routine basis, and I hear "You look great for your age" or "Man I bet any guy would want to hook up with you". Well, not really. I just don't want to cross the line and sleep with someone who I could have fathered . I obviously am not holding a gun to anyone's head and telling them to get naked, but at some point I just would like to know what is "appropriate" rather than "inappropriate" Feedback, responses, slurs, have at it guys, Curious what BZ members think.....

As long as I don't mention"torrents'" correct? I am just giving you a hard time, our banter on this subject goes WAY back...For the record , between you and I, I have not told anyone how to go about getting a torrents account.

I had a very open and honest conversation with my doctor regarding this subject. He told me, in his opinion, he had no concerns with blindfolds, slings, sound depravation, live streaming, pic taking. What he did have an issue with is restraints, especially if you are alone and have no one to look out for you. We had issues in my geographical area with this kind of activity, and I am not saying that getting gang banged at a sex club, in a sling, is a bad thing. What I am saying is risky is having someone whose name you don't know, restrain you to the point you can't get up and leave when you desire. That's dangerous, and here in Florida we had two guys die and the murderer is now sitting on death row. I knew that murderer, a contractor with a beautiful home who seemed as harmless as could be. Turns out he had no problem with dismembering and disposing of bodies all over parts of Tampa, FL. Just saying guys......fantasies are great, but safety should also be considered.

I haven't paid in a long time, I will on occasion if I am going to travel and may want to meet as many guys as possible in a short period of time. However, the majority of the time I use the free service and if I can't get laid after sending out 30 some messages I have a problem. Usually the free version works fine for me, I live in a tourist area so there are always new people visiting the area. What struck as as odd was that I had the VPN for months, I purchased it for another reason unrelated to BBRT. It wasn't until this week that the block suddenly appeared. I thought it was something in my setting but only BBRT was giving me an issue. Now that I understand it was not directed at me personally, I'll use the site, but I doubt I'll give him my money anytime soon. have a good one!

Sure I use Malwarebytes for my MacBook Air and my VPN is set for New York City, actually downtown Manhattan. I purchased it awhile back and it wasn't until this week that when the VPN is turned on, I can't sign in. Again I found it so strange I can sign directly in if I turn the VPN off. I think the owner is trying to keep a number of former members off the site, so maybe he feels this is just a way to keep a large number of banned Apple computer users off BBRT. Funny, if I happen to go on Nastykinkpigs and forget the VPN is turned on, I get hit up by so many New Yorkers. I guess they don't bother to read the profile that clearly states I live in Florida. At least I get to look at pics of some very hot men - lol. Thanks for responding.

Considering it was Barebackrt.com, and no other site that was blocking me, I figured it had something to do with the owner. Now I haven't had any problems or issues with the owner, I have been on there for years and I haven't complained or done anything to piss him off. I do know, however, that lately he has been banning a number of long time members for various issues. I have tried not to "rock the boat". I figured it was not directed at me, but was a way for him to keep those out that he previously had issues with. When I turn the VPN off, I can sign on with no issues. The whole thing struck me as odd, I had become comfortable with using the VPN, now I will just turn it off when I want to go onto BBRT. That added layer of privacy, if there is such a thing anymore, made me feel somewhat better considering I have been hacked, and had devices ruined. Needless to say I don't want to relive that again. Thank you for responding, btw.

I noticed Brazil mentioned in this thread. Now, I have been three times and I had some interesting encounters with this whole situation. The first, which really pissed me off, is I stayed at a 5 star resort during the Christmas/NewYear's Eve period. In the room next to me were four young men from NY who were Jewish, wore black long sleeve pants and dress shirts in that God awful heat. Then New Year's Eve came around, and my hotel faced the ocean and you could see the people dancing in the streets and celebrating. I also heard, and noticed, that the chairs and table from my patio had been moved. It turns out that these fine young NY men had four female guests, all wearing skirts pulled up to their, you know, area. Earlier in the week I had invited a woman up for a drink to my room along with my bf at the time. Security grabbed me in the lobby (in their three piece suits - they didn't look like "rent-a-cops"), and told me I could have drinks with her, but only in the hotel lobby. So imagine my surprise to find the four young woman next door, having cocktails, and wearing little or next to nothing. I called the front desk immediately and reported the removal of my patio furniture. So I inquired as to why my fellow guests could have "visitors", and I could not. The man from the front desk politely told me if I wanted any kind of "companionship" it needed to be requested through the front desk, and they used certain "services" where the employees provided had been "screened" and were safe to have in my room. So in other words, if I wanted an escort for the evening (or hour I suppose) it had to go through the front desk of the Rio Palace Hotel. I was pissed not to be told of this rule. Secondly, the summer Olympics were in Rio in 2016. All you saw were billboards asking sex workers to get tested for STDs as the city was about to have many foreigners and they would be quite busy during that time period. It seemed to me the Brazilian government, or Rio's local officials, turned a blind eye to the whole subject. Either way, if you wanted sex and were willing to pay for it, it was available. So Brazilian posters, what do you say about my experiences ? I didn't post about smuggling a guy up through a service elevator or going to a sex club because there were no charges for the men I met in those instances. So why the double standard????

Hoping to get some input from other BZ members. For the last week or so, I have been signing in and out of my BBRT profile. One interesting point, if I turn on my VPN (and I have Malwarebytes for my McBook Air) I get an error message which reads "The owners of this website has banned the autonomous system number (ASN) your IP address in a (9009) from accessing this website. Now if I turn the VPN off, I have no problem logging in. Does anyone have an idea as to what is going on here? I would think if the owner had an issue with me he would have just banned me completely, especially from my home IP address which I have had for several years. I am NOT good with computers, or these kinds of issues, so if anyone can shed some light on what might be going on, or what may happen in the near future, I would appreciate it. For the record, I have had no issue with the owner, no communication from him that I had done something wrong. I live in Florida which may be part of the issue. But why let me in any old way, but not with a VPN??? Anyone know????

Well, I wish that has been my experience 100 per cent of the time. I happened to meet a guy off of the site Doublelist, who was dressed in a suit which was odd considering this is Florida. He came over during his lunch break. Since Doublelist guys are not the same as those you meet on a "conventional" hookup site, I went by the dick pic he sent and he turned out to be downright handsome. I gave him a great blow job, something he seemed to appreciate, and I thought - that was it, he's part of my "ONE AND DONE CLUB". Not necessarily a bad thing, in most instances from sites like Doublelist, it's nothing personal, we who make ourselves "available" are merely a "vessel" so to speak. Okay, so maybe a week later, he appears again in my inbox This time, with requests, and a new pic of him looking down over the top of his penis, which looks, seriously, like a boomer rang. I asked him if he had ever been told he looked like someone famous, and he immediately responded, 'Yes, the former baseball player, Alex Rodriguez". So apparently, despite his broken English, he was quite willing and able to spout the compliment he had heard previously. Like I mentioned, he had requests, this time to fuck me, as well as to walk in and have someone fucking me as well. Now I value my residency so I had to decline on the "open door policy". As far as finding someone to fuck me at high noon, with a few hours notice on a weekday, is not that easy (even for someone with my dubious reputation). So, I said yes he could fuck me, but I had to knix his other requests. Here's the funny part. I would say he was in his late 20s. He screamed "MARRIED" it was very obvious, and guess what. He had never used a condom before, He insisted on one, I was not about to pass up the boomer rang (you know the theory they keep coming back), so I had to find one that they used to give out for free as you exited your previously favorite bar. AND I HAD TO PUT IT ON HIM, HE WAS CLUELESS. It was not a Magnum, and he needed one. It fit barely on the tip of his dick. I was actually hoping it would come off inside me so I could keep it as a souvenir. He could not put it on, he had no clue, and I shuddered at the thought of how many times he had fucked his wife and how many children he had to feed. To think I had that dick in my mouth, ugh. But this is an example of a married man who did not want to fuck raw. I suppose I am a guy who is an example of a gay man who will make an exception when it comes to getting fucked raw. It was worth every boomer rang inch.

I did my research as well. There was indeed a doctor (if not surgeon) who was arrested, in the past week or two, on a DUI charge and they found quite a bit of t in his vehicle He was in his "scrubs", on his way to work. I watched the clip that was recorded by law enforcement and what amazed me is he had an attorney on some kind of speaker phone, while in handcuffs, advising him not to make any statements to the police. This doctor looked to be in his 50s, eyes WIDE open, but it wasn't the 70ish Dr. Christian Drehsen, known for his "Refresher Lift". lol. I really was hoping to see him in the back of a patrol car in handcuffs, but unfortunately it was another doctor having a very bad morning. One interesting side note, the attorney on the speaker phone was telling his client "I'll have you out of jail by this evening". Thought to myself, "this is Pinellas county, no you won't". Well, unless it was a very slow day...

Kind of reads like a Zodiac sign scenario to me. I mean, sure, some of these things may apply to an individual, even just one. Does that make them all Sigma males??🤔. Not sure I buy into all of this........it can be applied to many men, at least in part.

Fellow over achievers who had "helicopter parents" who watched our every move. Taking AP courses during the summer for extra credit and any other route to get away from my Catholic parents without them watching me was a treat. I always tried to take advantage of those rare situations. If I could have taken the prep class for the GSAT's as a 15 year old I would have but they had some stupid rule about already have to be an undergraduate student. 😉 Stupid rules...... ANY chance to be with a college freshman who needed a "hand" in moving into his dorm room, I was always SO willing to help. Didn't matter if I was attracted to him, there were so many guys around, and even though privacy was limited, a creative imagination was key to getting some action. God I miss those days.....

Well, it's WaWa, so anything is possible. I doubt it's the first time there has been a guy with his pants down in that "pumping area" so to speak.🫢

WHAT? Are you kidding me? Damn do I have some research to do. He did crystal, and plastic surgery? OMG?

Signal and Telegram, if you were not aware of them already.....

Only WaWa management knows for sure......at least he was in the car when his pants were down.

You know, I was having fun with Dr. Dreshen, and the "Dr. Refresher Lift". I probably (more likely) should not have posted that, but that cosmetic surgeon queen is on the television 24/7 and I just had enough of him. For those of you who live in this area, I know you have seen the commercials. Sorry for having some fun at that particular doctor's reputations, but if you lived in my area you would see him on television non-stop and you would get the joke. I understand it was a bad joke but still it is funny for the locals. My bad......

All I can say is guys, "move to Palm Springs or Florida", you'll find plenty of 60 plus men who bb. Sure, they are in other locations, but California and Florida are going to have quite a number of attractive 60 plus men.

Unfortunately, just once at a Wawa gas station. I pulled in to fill up my tank, and this very cute guy got out of his car at the adjoining pump. He had his shirt off, this is Florida, so driving without your shirt off is fairly common. I went to pump my gas and I saw a sign saying, "pay inside, cash only". Okay, I thought, no big deal. I went inside and paid cash, and went back to my car to pump my gas. The cute guy was now in his car, and said something I could not hear. When I went over his pants were down and he had a massive hard on, and said something like "do you see anything you want". He told me he was new to Tampa, but I could follow him back to his new place. I was in my car in a New York second, I followed him back to his place and he forced me to do unspeakable things (actually I volunteered). It was one of the few times, over all these years, where I was totally oblivious to the potential of someone offering me sex. I look back fondly at that encounter.