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Yeah, but I didn't like the photos after the fact. The piss and my blonde hair did not blend well.....

His name is Dr. Christian Dreshen, known as "Dr. Refresher Lift" in Saint Petersburg, FL. If the twinks agree to a monthly debit from their checking account at age 28, by the time they are 55 they will have enough money to pay for the "refresher lift". That is, if the doctor is still living.....

I'm incredibly afraid to leave where I am at. I watch the news and see tornadoes and floods and I think, "do I really want to move there?" Now, remember I do live in Florida, and I dodged Ian last year as well as other tropical and Cat 1 and 2 storms for years. Everyone tells me it is just a matter of time. The numbers will work against me, kind of like playing card games at a casino. But where do I go? I am clueless, and not embarrassed to say that. I have limited financial resources, I can survive month to month and be just fine, and afford one vacation a year. But other than that, there is not much sitting in a bank account for an emergency. I have maybe three months worth of bills and rent saved in the bank. I have been told that is common with many Americans. I have been here for sooooooo many years, I have NO sense of direction (thank God for GPS) and I have had some friends make recommendations. South Carolina, North Carolina to name two. But will my doctors be as good, will the specialists be as good, will I make new friends? I am always willing to talk to BZ members about what my life is like in little, boring Saint Petersburg, FL, and I have the stats on that. I am afraid if I leave I could never afford to come back. So for now, I stay put. Despite Gov. DeSantis - I really am clueless as to where I can go on the amount of money I get each month and have in the bank. It's easy for me to recommend places where friends have moved to, because I get positive feedback. But I don't know the financial particulars (nor would I want to) to ask "is that affordable for me"? I think about leaving every day, and as I grow older I keep thinking I need to just stay where I am.

No Chris Damned (sp?)???? I follow him on Raw Fuck Club. If you’re not familiar with him, you should check him out. Or maybe you have and he didn’t make your list….

I miss the actual physical interaction with an individual. The bars in particular, but I also liked cruising at my gym. I've gone to bathhouses in cities where I didn't live, and bookstores and public parks always concerned me when it came to law enforcement. I live in Florida, and now Sniffies has become popular in my area. But with so many guys hosting "in their cars" just makes me roar with laughter. I am 6 foot 3, it's tough to have sex in the back of my Kia Forte, you know?

No, it's not the worth the pain so much as the expression on a total strangers face when you mention it at your local watering hole. "Well, I took this 9.5 inch guy bb last night and I swear I had to run to the drug store first thing this morning. I used some cheap water based lube and now I am paying the price because I was out of Preparation H and I had to drive here in the car sitting on one of those inflatable donuts". You'll have total silence for at least 30 seconds, no boring stories about family arguments at the Thanksgiving dinner table. Try it, I bet the you'll have a similar response.....

I would think a foot injury would be one of the most dangerous injuries you could have at a bathhouse. I almost lost my right foot several years back and it was an incredibly expensive injury to deal with. The podiatrist who treated me told me that MRSA (or is it MERSA) was everywhere, he said speaking to his children's pediatrician gave him nightmares. If you have a foot injury or wound you can easily become infected from pool surfaces, group showers or showers at the gym, anywhere where moist surface might come in contact with your foot, ankle, etc. Personally, I would avoid gym showers, pool surfaces and bathhouse surfaces like the kind leading into hot tubs or pools. It's just not a risk worth taking.

I don’t know it it was the “filthiest” but I came across a TIM video featuring a very thin, young guy who wanted to be beaten and brutalized. In one scene he was being punched in the face while his abuser wore pink gloves. While he was being beaten I heard him say “ I want someone to kill me”. Now I haven’t seen this video available again on that site, unless I just couldn’t find it again. I never made it through the entire movie, I have to admit I was really upset over seeing that. in fairness to the video company at the beginning of the flick there is a warning stating “this video is not for everyone. That was an understatement. I just wish I could remember the name of the video just so people could avoid it.

Isn’t it? We should try “mind control” and see if we can talk him into it…..

I had someone jack off for a month, freeze it, and then send it to me overnight mail - it made it from Dorchester, Mass. to Tampa, Fl and he had packed it incredibly well. It was a birthday present, it was a way to share his DNA with me even though we weren't in the same room. I got him on web cam when I had a fuck buddy over and we used it as lube. Probably one of the piggiest things I have done, but he's so hot and it was his idea to send in the first place. He also sent me a black choker with the word "whore" on the front of it. I sort of looked like a shirtless gay waiter at some kind of fuck fest. with the choker and I had a black jock strap on when we first connected via the web cam. He loved it, well worth the postage according to him.

Wouldn't it be fair to say that thirty years ago it was more likely HIV would progress to AIDS than today? My reasoning is this - more routine testing and advances in medication. If you were poz in say 1993, that's 30 years ago, the chances of your HIV status advancing to AIDS was probably higher because you would run out of medication options. In other words, if you became resistant to a certain "cocktail", your choices to go to something else were limited. Today, there are many different routes you can take an if you have an experienced, dedicated infectious disease specialist he knows what they are. The key is taking your medication as directed, and have your doctor run your labs quarterly, as is my case. Now, I left out things like lifestyle choices. I didn't want to get into a discussion with those interested in having unprotected sex with a multitude of men. Nor did I even want to touch the subject of the use of enhancements. We could debate if these decisions do or do not contribute to your illness progressing to full blown AIDS. I'll say this. If you are newly diagnosed today, you have so many options. Your t- cell count and viral load are crucial at the time you are diagnosed, and it's important you find the best infectious disease specialist in your area, or that you can travel to. Of course, insurance becomes an issue, but with the additional funds allocated to ADAP, most guys I know who are newly infected can get on some type of medical treatment. Now, if you are into "bug chasing" and you want to get full blown AIDS, that is your decision. For those of you who wake up, and understand what you are doing to yourself, you do have options. That is my 2 cents...

I think there is some kind of "growth" inflation when it comes to dick size. When I first started having sex with other men, anything above 7 inches was considered big, nice, acceptable, appreciated. I remember traveling and being in Brazil and came across 8, 9 inches and I thought, okay, now those are big. I happened, later in life, to be in Europe. My God, 8 was small, 9 was average, and 9 plus was not uncommon. I was there two weeks. My entire prospective on what constitutes a "big dick" really changed. Then you come to hook up sites like Barebackrt.com, and look in metro area like NYC or San Francisco, and 8.5 seems to be average, 9 is fairly common and 9.5 and larger is not uncommon. So, do men with large dicks migrate to large, metro areas to find other men like themselves? Has porn really changed our expectations in our potential sexual partners? There is no rhyme or reason for this, they come in all color and nationalities. I don't believe in stereotypes because every time I think one way about certain men, I am proven wrong. I don't know I agree with guys "throwing in the towel" because they don't "measure up". Guys will always want to fuck, and I don't think guys with average endowments are going to sit on the couch watching Netflix, alone, the rest of their lives either. I think there is a place for everyone, though for 99 percent of us it won't be the featured top in a Raw Fuck Club video.

I never thought of it that way. I do know two of those that were banned and they would be considered bigger than average. One said he felt his messages were being read, and that the use of drugs was what he felt got him canned. He isn't a dealer, I think he was more searching for it. The other mentioned to me that he somehow posted in his profile the @ icon, I believe referencing his Twitter (or X) handle, or maybe it was Instagram. I don't know if the owner took offense, or if he felt the guy was "soliciting". I really think he did that just so people could find him on other platforms, I have never known him to escort - but I do know he has a larger than normal dick. What's most surprising to me, is that the owner of that site has done little or nothing to update it, or attract new members. Even adam4adam added seems to put more money into it's site, and it's practically free even if you sit on it all night and day. With Bareback, he holds you to 35 messages a day before he makes you pay. I did write him once about the organized party section - I saw the term "Notice: Someone attending this event does not like you, or you don't like them". I looked at the list of those attending, and then looked at who I had blocked (just a few really awful individuals). I didn't recognize those approved for attending the event, so I sent a message to the owner. He did respond, promptly, telling me if I had put someone on "ignore" or "block", or someone did that to me, then neither of us could see each other. I felt stupid after asking the question, but he was, at least to me, somewhat nice. I do recall him mentioning in a message to all new members that he sees every photo posted, so don't bother to unlock your pics for him. I also noticed he has "HOLY SHIT" listed as his dick size. Hmmm, I wonder if anyone from BZ can verify that????

I just have found an online website to hook up is easier and produces more matches for me, as opposed to a phone app. I've noticed guys give you little time on a site like Grindr or Scruff, yet sites where I can at least get one message or two through to the prospective hook up has been advantageous for me. Barebackrt.com, if used at the right time and day, is the most successful site for me. I find the guys are closer in age, say 35-55, as opposed to say Grindr where they tend to be younger and looking for the same. Now that has just been my experience. I also have had luck with adam4adam in my area. I have a friend who lives in Denver, and he said "Is that site even in existence any longer"? I find it is based on geography, and economics. Where I live, rents like in many cities, have skyrocketed. Many guys don't have the luxury of having their own place or maybe share it with someone who isn't there a good bit of the time. I do, so guys are more likely to say yes because they have privacy with me. I'll say this about Sniffies. I live near a park, which has been known to have some police activity. I've heard of guys getting "ticketed", rather than arrested. I suppose they have to show up for court at some time or another. But I have to laugh at the number of guys who hit on me, and want to have sex in the car. Now, that is something I did in high school, and college. But these days, I am less inclined. The profiles are brief, maybe one or two pictures. I'll admit I did it in the car ONE time, and it was next to this guy's house. While having sex, I could hear his BABY crying from it's bedroom. His wife was away, he was in charge, and I was in the back seat of my car with him. Crying babies ruin my erection, but he got off and was a happy camper. After that experience, I swore off on Sniffies, at least when there are crying children involved. I know the reputation of Bareback has taken a hit. The owner is not exactly "customer friendly", and I know of several people who have had their profiles deleted by him. I find it somewhat hypocritical that there is an area for "drug use" and you can answer things like "Hell No", "Ask Me" or "Yes". Now I don't know the particulars as to why these guys were suddenly banned, but I believe it may have to do with mentioning drug usage in their profile descriptions. Correct me if I am wrong but these sudden bans have come within the past 18 months and I haven't wrapped my head around why he suddenly seems to care if drug usage is mentioned in the profiles on his site. It's been that way for years.....

They are here, you just have to catch their attention. Post your pics in the gallery, make sure you mention in your profile you like making videos and taking pics, and tell them you don't turn down any dick. Someone will pop up sooner or later. He may have done a few movies for HDK in 2005, but yes, they are around.

HELP! POLICE! HELP! (okay that's three words but you get what I mean).

See.....had I watched the entire video from beginning to end I would have known that. I watched the various parts that T.I.M. had on their site, I saw him blindfolded and smiling, but I never got as far as the shower scene. You mentioned "he might recognize guys from his village" so this was shot overseas? When I hear the term "village" I think Europe for some reason. Either way Miguel seemed to look happy, he was smiling despite having his hair pulled. That much I could see under the blindfold.

I always make sure the top cums before I do......I resist all temptation to cum. If I blow my load first, and then have to wait for him, it hurts like hell. I find it interesting that many tops feel once they have cum, their job is done and they just wanna pull out and stop. I find the variety of responses interesting, I have seen guys show little interest in me having an orgasm, while others will wait and make sure I cum, no matter how I decide to do so. Their response to my pleasure is a definite factor in if I invite them back or not.

And I wake up this morning to hear that Mr. Scott, has ceased his campaign to become president. What a surprise. His response to questions during that last debate made my mouth drop. Not that he was going to play a part in this process, and oh yes, we found out he had a "girlfriend" (beard). The thing that made me laugh the most was that the article stated his entire staff was "caught off guard". Really? With those kind of polling numbers? I wonder where his 1 or2 percent will go? To Trump I suppose, or maybe someone more "religious" like DeSantis. Certainly not that lunatic Ramaswami, because the majority of those "religious" individuals are far to racist to vote for him. I just wonder how many will last till Iowa? Probably DeSatan and Nicky, not sure about the other two. Christie seems to have some sense, though his opinions on unions and especially teachers unions made me distrust him even more.....

No, but it robbed this nation and the world for almost a generation of men who would have contributed so much. It's incredibly sad.....

I don't turn down a top with a small or average penis for what I thinks is a valid reason. It gets me relaxed and opened up for the bigger, larger guys I will play with later in that session. I have, at times, tried to place them in order, saving the biggest for last. It doesn't always work out that way, but I have met some very hot, very talented top guys who had small or average endowments. I have had huge guys who were awful tops, so sometimes quality does rank ahead of quantity (or size, so to speak).

This term is new to me. I have been referred to as a "side", not because of some sexual interest, but because I was having sex with a neighbor who had a partner. The guy living next door to him referred to me as his "side". I thought it was amusing, "Hey I saw your "side" coming out of your apartment this morning". It made me laugh to hear the term....I thought it was a new term guys in the 20s used. Apparently, I was wrong again....

I think he would "like what he WOULD be seeing " considering the guy fucking him in the opening scene are pretty hot. Funny, even with his blindfold, you can see him smiling, despite have his hair pulled. Too funny.....🤣

Yeah I think they just released the 4th Version of that series according to the T.I.M website. You're right, they are excellent.