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An app almost every Mom would love to follow! You guys could give her an updated count in her Mother's Day Card - like a report card, only for whores!😝

Dating apps? Did you say "dating"? I thought I was cynical 15 years ago when I would read some of the profiles and guys would be looking for their "soul mates". I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I thought the purpose of the majority of apps was to "hook up", not to "date". I hope I am wrong, and some very informed BZ poster will come along and point out various sites that cater to guys who want to "date", but so far I have not found any. I know this sounds "old fashioned" but I noticed posters mentioning "getting out into the community" and I believe that is the best way. Today's apps were designed for a particular purpose and it's not to find your "life partner", that's for sure.

Me too! I was so worried I wouldn't be able to find anyone to shove a fire hydrant up my ass this evening.....😀

@norefusal - surprised to hear that a nurse would respond that way. I thought, like doctors, they were there to provide medical services and not to judge. I think you made the right decision in that case.......

I wonder if they have kept that notorious list of all the guys who "fell out" (for lack of a better term) and they had to call 9-1-1. I had posted quite a while ago about how my friend "fell out on g" and he had to find his way back to the ESC and apologize to management in order to get his possessions back. (i.e. cell phone, among other things). Now, what he did was wrong, I am not defending him. But he was in a city that is 90 miles from his home, he needed to get his wallet and his keys. Now, I don't know what the rules are in NYC, I was not with him, he had no one to look after him. Maybe EMT personnel do not allow any personal items to be taken to the hospital? I am not sure. But he told me he was terrified and lost in NYC yet somehow managed to find his way back to that building. I felt terrible for him, and I am sure there are posters on this Forum who many not be sympathetic, but I can't be like that. I just wonder if there are new owners or if it is still owned by the same group of individuals?

I signed on here just to ask that question - what was up with NKP. Hopefully I will be as fortunate as @cboycam

Guys who took tests the summer before by freshman year in college so they could "opt-out" of Chem 1, Bio 1, Calculus1, anything not to be dragged through those courses. What a waste of time, but It got me on campus and most guys were in a great mood after they passed the test and knew they would not have to take the course !

For those of you who live in southwest or south-central Frorida, the Sawmill has been around for years. It offers a variety of camping, RV parking and various forms of outdoor activities on a very safe (meaning no law enforcement) property. I am terrible with measuring land (I said land) so I can't tell you how many acres it has in totality, but you can check it out for the day and buy a day pass. It was kind of pricey, back even when I bought it, but I do recall an x boyfriend who was relocating from Lauderdale and spent the night at my place while on the way to dragging most of his possessions up to Sawmill. I am not the "out doorsy" kind of guy, but they had a pool and then plenty and plenty of just acres of land to do whatever you wanted to do. I believe if you googled it, there might be a site that tells you the various parties and theme weekends they have going on. I am not a fan of the heat, though laying by a pool with a cocktail works just fine for me. I really am not into going into the bushes to have sex with bugs, snakes, well you get the picture. But that does not mean I wouldn't share that information for those of you who are not aware of the property. At the time I went, I was living in Tampa, and I went on a Sunday afternoon. It was a long drive, into the middle of nowhere. I believe back then I bought a membership for like approximately $30 or so, I recently ran across across that card and I believe it was 18 years old. You do have to check in, show ID, make that membership purchase, but if the "outdoors"is for you, by alll means check it out if you are in the vicinity. Nice people working there, and even though in the Florida summer heat I just about pass out, they do have theme weekends (like bear weekends, Halloween, etc) so you can go up when the temperatures are somewhat more bearable. The majority of you who travel are probably aware of it, but I just thought I would mention it for some of the newbies on here. I did only go the one time. It's dark driving, and it is now even a further drive for me. But for many of you, you'll find it enjoyable.

Tank top, 501 jeans, jockstrap and sneakers. I wear the same thing to a hook up that I would wear to Walgreens or Walmart, no difference. I always have a back pack, to have my wallet and usually my cell phone. For hook ups I always bring my own towel, lube, a small toiletry bag with a toothbrush and something to wash my face with. I never ask a host for anything. I usually have a bottled water with me as well. I really look the same at 2 pm as I would at 2 am if I showed up at your front door.

May I ask you a question, and I know religion is a very personal topic. Do Jehovah Witnesses dislike gays? The reason I ask you is that I am on a sports forum, and there is a member who I like quite a bit. They make it clear the are JW, yet they continue to respond to my posts (about tennis) even though it's rather apparent I am gay. So what is the deal. I lived in an apartment complex where an individual rented an apartment, and bought in no furniture. Sure enough, the number of cars mounted in our complex. and he was told either the "meetings" ended or he was evicted. He decided to leave. The property I lived in was owned by the US Government, the Department of Agriculture, and they made it clear that it was their way, or the high way. He left. So, do JW individuals, as a whole, dislike gays?

I would like that as well, it's difficult to find unattached guys to travel with to gay destinations.

I am aware of the issues in India, I had a friend who declined going to a wedding there because she said the chance of rape was quite high. Because many young men had no privacy, lived at home, their only sexual outlets were to either use prostitutes or rape women. I agree, denying sexuality is a losing battle.

I grew up going to Catholic school and even though my parents were "not-practicing", they made their children go to Church. Now I am from a blue-collar, six day a week working family who were incredibly racist and hated just about every minority. I don't believe I ever spoke to a non-white individual until I was in my junior year of high school, and that was something they could not prevent, or in their terms "protect me" from. Yet I never heard any kind of homophobic remarks. Not one. I remember listening to their conversations from the top of our staircase, they were discussing my grandfathers's purchase of land in the Florida Keys and how "the homosexuals" were really doing wonders for that area by opening "small hotels" (I suppose they meant guest houses) and pumping money into the economy of Key West. Now, maybe they had some idea of my sexual orientation and I was sexually active at a young age, and I know my father was well aware of it. Yet, nothing was ever said. When I finally had "the conversation" with them, they were pretty much accepting. For them, it was all about my career. The liked my first long term partner, because of course he was white, Catholic, college educated and a government employee like myself. My second partner, also the same. Invites to all family functions, my partners were always included. My father did not mince words. He used ever derogatory term while I was growing up, and actually blamed African Americans for him having to close his business, as the security firm was calling the house nightly to report yet another break in to his establishment. So I can't say my parents were homophobic, I don't know of any other extended family members that were gay. My Dad did like to tell stories about him chasing women, and how he accidentally went into a lesbian bar in downtown Philadelphia only to be told he needed to leave. He found it amusing, he said it was an honest mistake. But I never heard him say anything about gays. Didn't seem to faze either parent....

If they (meaning elected officials/law enforcement) feel that age restrictions for certain web sites are required shouldn't that be left up to the parents? I find it almost laughable that those in positions of authority are going to be able to "police" not just the entire internet but any other type of device. To me the only two things that will never go out of business are alcohol and sex. They're going to be around, and people are going to find a way to circumvent the "rules". Even on this site, yes many of us have to use a VPN because of laws in our states, and personally I think that is outrageous. But will it eliminate the ability to obtain porn or access certain websites? I don't think so. They could probably pass legislation that would make it illegal for a company like T.I.M. to send us gigs of porn through the USPS, but what about Fed Ex, UPS, etc? Are they going to have EVERY piece of mail examined. I just don't think it's feasible. Now will they try and shut down these production companies, I am sure that is next. But that's like trying to shut down one weed distributor, only to have five more pop up in it's place. I know this is an incredibly complex issue and I doubt many straight people are aware till they try and access "Porn Hub" in their state, only to find some blank screen. It's like a virus no one is quite aware of yet, it's coming, we just don't know where or when it will strike exactly. It will be interesting to see if other countries will even cooperate. Will movies be shot in Mexico or Spain (a real hot bed of gay porn, FYI), Brazil or maybe parts of Asia. I just don't see how they are going to control adult content. Where there is a will, there is a way....

One advantage of traveling to countries located in Latin America or Asia is that the gay guys you meet often do not have privacy. They understand a 4 or 5 star hotel is not going to allow a "local" in who is not registered, so they have found alternative venues. I've faced challenges in both Brazil and Mexico (and arguments with front desk managers at some very nice hotels) because they would not allow me to bring guys up to my room. Many countries, where these "alternative" locations are can be quite different than what you are used to in North America. Some offer almost "day passes" where you can lay by the pool, and look at the locals, where "rooms for rent" are available, and one very fine place in Rio served lunch by the pool and showed movies (non-porn), It was kind of "hokey" but the bottom line is these places were safe, relatively clean and well organized. I paid a small fee to get in, in my case several American dollars. For each extra I added, a chaise lounge with a table and umbrella, a private room for an hour, was all added to my bill at the end of the day. Guys were nice, not pushy and I think in the end I spent less than $15.00. If I could make a suggestion I would jump on to as many hook up sites as possible and let people know you are going to be in town during a certain time period. A little "advertising" never hurt anyone,,,,,😏

I probably posted this before, but I probably would not. I'm WAY too polite to ask someone to leave. Once they told me they were homeless, I think I could be easily manipulated. Call is a "character flaw", but I have a real problem telling people to get out of my house. Excuse me for my due responses. but I had sex with someone who had just been released from a hospital. I, along with my BF, met him at an ABS. We messed around a little at the ABS and started walking back to our car. Somewhere in the conversation the subject of "So where do we drop you off afterwards" emerged, and that's when the conversation went "south". You know, I do have empathy, and maybe that is a character flaw. But, in the end, we had to tell him no, and I drove away from the ABS feeling VERY guilty.

Excuse me Mr @Cubby8623 - are there direct flights from Cape Town to Miami? Could you get that gentleman a round trip ticket for me, I have CashApp and I promise to return him....

@Primalsole - go to All Worlds, I have had sexvacations all over PS and it’s been my favorite, even dating back to when it was called “Inn Exhile”. Just my opinion, I found the accommodations better and the men just as abundant and sleazy, but that’s just me.

Chicago, really? I am from Philadelphia, I left out of JFK for the Canary Islands. This was a few years back before the entire sex element of that location went through the roof. I find it amazing actually, as I was one of the few Americans who were there during that time, which was in February. Most of the tourists were Germans and Brits. It was a great time, not expensive when I went, and certainly a much different "vibe", something special about those Euro guys! I highly recommend it.......no matter if it is just for a relaxing time in the sun or if you wanna fuck your brains out.

Peto Coast or Cato or whatever name he is using is an insipid thug. That's my recollection of the situation. No regard for security at an individual's home. No concern that his BLUE HAIR and leather jacket in 90F heat might be an indicator that he was there for more than a friendly visit well after midnight. I didn't hire him, I found him mean spirited with his eye on the clock. He's think nothing of picking up things in your home and looking at them, picking up your cell phone, adjusting your computer, etc. etc. My friend was swooning, and at $X dollars an hour, you can have him. RUDE WOULD BE AN UNDERSTATEMENT. I have heard other "nick names" for him (try texting with him on the phone, that's a treat!) like "Crazy Dutch Guy", but I have been around several people in that "profession" or "occupation" and as far as "customer service" in concerned, he's at the bottom of the list (no pun intended, yes he is a big top). I really don't care, I can find guys like that for free whose cocks are just as big. Was I impressed just being in the same condo with him - no. He didn't have to touch me to know that my skin would crawl.

Take a drive over the bridge and check out downtown Philly, I doubt you will have any problems finding that kind of activity. I know it's not your "backyard" so to speak, and parking can be a bitch, but if you meet the right people you might be able to find a group that you can meet up with a routine basis. I would just think if you are anywhere near the Philadelphia area it would be worth an "investigative trip"

Just to make the situation even more confusing. a defendant can be sentenced to several years of "supervised probation" after never having spent a day in prison. In the case of Miles, he was fined $2,000. Now I am not privy to what was said to him during his first visit with the probation officer, but he's required to pay that fine within the timeframe of his probation. If not, that probation officer can and will bring this to the court's attention and if the fine isn't paid they can send him to jail. From what I am told this rarely happens but it is an option. I am sure the first thing Miles will do is get that $2K paid! lol.

I had an acquaintance who worked in Pre-Trial Services for the Department of Justice at the Federal Building in Tampa. One thing he has told me is that, despite their feelings on an occupation like pornography, it wasn't against the law and therefore he could not force an individual to decline employment in that area of work. If this had been the way the individual had been making a living in the past there is not much they can do about that. He'll be required to submit paystubs (or 1099 forms, as well as paperwork should he travel outside the area in which he is supervised). One interesting thing he also mentioned was "pre-trial" drug screening. If an individual passes that test prior to sentencing, and that "hearing" can be held without much notice, then they are NOT obligated to pay for future drug testing of any kind. A normal probationer scheduled for two years of "supervised probation" will probably be called in twice during that time period, and drug tested (and yes, showing up positive for "420" would be a violation, even if a state allows recreational use). If they work outside the commuting area, they usually have to appear in that office the morning following their flight, and for the record those probation officers (at the Federal level) usually work a M-F, 8 to 5 schedule. Certain geographic areas have required more employees to be hired due to an ever increasing number of individuals on probation, and one thing that is NOT guaranteed is that an individual can find an office to manage their supervision in the area that they may want to move to should that be needed (Many find themselves almost unemployable and look to live with cousins and friends in less populated areas, some in areas not close to a Federal facility that could oversee their probation). I guess what I am saying is that two years of "supervised probation" is not some walk in the park, where an individual mails paperwork in monthly. He'll probably have restrictions on who he can have contact with (no surprise there considering he was part of "The Proud Boys", and I am sure computer forensics will want to look at all of his devices as well to see who he is in contact with). The fine he was imposed, which I found to be "on the low end" of $2,000, will also have to be paid over the course of the time on probation. The US Attorney can take him back to court if he fails to pay, from what I am told the probation officers really emphasize the importance of getting the fine paid down as quickly as possible. Even if he is never cast in another porn production again, he'll be required to work at some kind of job (and full time/not part time) as well as provide lists of medications he has valid scripts for. They also require contact information so they can start calling and tracing the minute they suspect someone may have fled the jurisdiction without permission or pre-approval. From what I am told, the probation aspect of the punishment can be as difficult as the actual time spent incarcerated. Frankly, I imagine he'd rather sleep in his own bed in the long run.

@BootmanLA - you know I had a feeling Stephen Miller was Jewish. And of course, he had no problem with his daughter marrying a Jewish guy and converting. What a hypocrite.

He'll be 42 by the time he is released from prison, and one year of supervised probation means his employment must be approved by the Federal Probation Office. He'll be subject to a drug test should he get to travel for filming porn. They can't prevent him from filming, but they can make him report for drug testing the day he returns from filing. So he'll be in the clear by about the age of 43, not elderly, but certainly he'll be hassled by the Bureau of the Prisons. No more smoking 420 for Mr. Miles