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By the time I finished college I had lost count. What was so nuts is that I used to try and remember their first name and where I hooked up with them. This was before the time of phone apps or even hook up sites, I found men at college, in certain areas of the city I lived in, and yes the numerous ABS scattered in the downtown area. I went to the baths, which were a convenient walk from the bars I went to. My home town really wasn't into "carding" like you see today. so it was not difficult for a 19 year old to get into a bar or club. I went out both Friday and Saturday evening from the time I was actually 18, so even if I met one new guy a night the numbers just added up. Take into account the fact that during the week I went to the gym, so I scored there, and Sunday afternoons were a good time to find guys as well. I counted the guys I shot a load with. Doesn't matter if it was anal or oral, if I would cum, he made the list. Tbh, when I sit down and try to calculate the number of guys I have hooked up with it makes me sick to my stomach, not kidding.

All the tops are trapped in an "escape room" in Tampa and since no one can decide who is in charge they are still arguing about who will find the key. I'll keep you posted as soon as they get organized and find their way out.......🤣

I have great sympathy for you. I have had three out patient procedures since 2021 through Tampa General Hospital's Colon and Rectal Cancer Specialists. They said at first it was a fissure, it took two procedures and now I am able to go to the bathroom without pain. I need to use a stool softener every day, Colace is the one I use. Granted, you need to be near the bathroom when the urge to go strikes, but if you are in pain now it might be the best option till you can see a doctor. You can find Colace at Walmart, CVS, Walgreens. Even the hospital recommended I use it post procedure. I had a third procedure because they found I also had HPV and I never knew I was infected with that. The "down time" is frustrating, but between the pain medication (just a small amount) and the stool softener you should be fine in about a month. I would not suggest trying to have anal sex for quite awhile, to be honest I don't think you will have much desire to do so. It may seem like a long journey but there is light at the end of the tunnel. I wish you the best....

Once it is stretched (or damaged) it doesn't close up like that cheap hole you opened in your ear when you were 19. Most tops will tell you if they fucked you a few years back and you run across them again, your hole still feels the same to them, no matter how much "down time" you may have had for "reconstruction purposes". That is, if you were a memorable and talented bottom or had an interesting or extended encounter with them.... Hung tops remember which hole fit like a glove, just like a bottom remembers which guys were the most endowed or talented when they see them again. (That's why it's a good idea to make a great first impression).

If they are going to charge $999 a night for the LiNK it better come with unlimited dick all night because the owners are nuts.....You're not going there to sleep or enjoy the "amenities", you are going there to fuck. Give me a break....

I have Malwarebytes on the MacBook Air I am typing on and have absolutely no problem signing on. None at all, and I even live in the state of Governor DeSatan (Florida)

Well with Caverjet it is a two step process, mixing the saline into the second bottle, then drawing it out and into the final syringe. With trimix, it's already done for you, but it expires more quickly, in most cases 30 days for a bottle of trimix. I have used both products, the Caverjet was carried by Walgreens and if you follow the instructions it is fairly easy and there is less of a chance of using too much. The trimix was done by a speciality, like compounding facility. My urologist faxed the script to them, and when I got the call it was ready, I went down to pick it up and found employees in uniforms that looked like something an astronaut would wear. They were all behind a glass wall, you had to speak through a speaker and the trimix was presented to me in a "dry ice" package. You could see all the scripts lined up, almost like a prep cook would see in front of him if he was working at Denny's. The wait was almost two weeks, this was in the Sarasota, Florida area. I don't have to tell you that neither were covered by insurance. With trimix I felt I had to have sex once every three days, so I got 10 injections for about $175. Caverjet, on the other hand, was even more expensive but there was not the pressure of having to use the product so quickly. Sure, I had to keep it refrigerated. However, as long as I didn't mix the product with the saline they provided, it had a much longer "shelf life" so to speak. Trimix, you have to pay attention, do only the amount the doctor tells you to, or there will be consequences. Caverjet, to me, was like "trimix for dummies". Unless you did more than one injection of it in a day, you were fine. With trimix, some guys just keep "chasing that hard on" and jabbing their cocks. Personally, I do one before the fun begins and make sure no one knows it is in the house, or if I travel I arrive with my dick walking through the front door before the rest of my body, That has been my personal experience using both products.

That is very interesting. I have Malwarebytes on my MacBook Air, and have used that product since 2018. I have never had an issue, never had a problem with signing on to breedingzone.com. Now, I had it on my Iphone and I had to remove it. It seems that if I didn't have a phone number listed in my contacts, it would refuse the call and the caller received some kind of obnoxious message. I took it off my phone because I missed calls from doctor's offices and one cousin who wasn't listed in my "contacts". But when it comes to BZ I have had no issues.

For the record - Caverjet and Trimix are two entirely different medications. Not being snotty here, I have had valid scripts for both. Since the dangers of misuse are enormous, the best bet is to have a valid script from a urologist. Not preaching here, but I have seen what the results can be when either drug is misused. Take as directed and make sure the script was written for YOU, not for someone else. Everyone's needs are different and the strength of the trimix in particular do vary based on the patient.

BBRT - of all the sites, what hypocrites. I am sorry to hear this has happened to BZ members, but that site has been notorious for "enhancement" usage. So they read our messages to each other? Not surprising. Manhunt does the same, so for those of you who are on there, beware.

That helps, and thank you again. You're the first to actually say that I could be have been carrying the virus for months or years. Just looking back at my sexual history and the timing (and I do know who has been in that area, despite the "numbers", I recall the dates based on where I was living) I am happy for you that you have had no recurrences, it sounds like you have been able to go back to your normal sex life which is fantastic. I see the specialist again in late August, for now that area of my body is "under reconstruction". I just don't want to take a chance till she clears me, I would not want to expose someone else nor do I want my ass damaged and be put out of the game for six months. THANK YOU!

He is gorgeous you are right, he can take a huge cock and appear to enjoy - what a find!

I appreciate your response. Two of the four procedures so far have produced "pre-cancerous" warts and they were removed. But my question remains - were they there hanging around for years, or is this result of a sexual encounter say a few months before they were discovered. I am just curious as both of the individuals I asked sort of "shrugged their shoulders' and these two professionals are anal and rectal cancer specialists. I don't think the question is that difficult, I am just trying to wrap my head around when I was exposed. I know what I was doing at certain time periods, and I know when I first was told I had them. Not trying to track down the guys, I just want to know if I could have been exposed in say, 2017 or 2018, and they didn't show up until 2020 or 2021? Either way I have to deal with this, but during "lockdown" my exposure was limited, during 2017 to say 2019, my encounters would be considered "high" even by the standards mentioned here on BZ.

I do have one question that two female providers have failed to give me a direct response to. I asked " If I have HPV was this a result of a recent sexual encounter, or could it lay dormant in my body and decide to manifest when it likes?" Both of them said yes it is an STD, but didn't (or couldn't give me a time frame). I have no one to blame but myself, but I would like a straight answer. Before the Covid lockdown I had multiple partners a week, for a two to three year period. Since I wasn't informed I had HPV until 2021 or so, I am wondering if it was there all along, hiding in plain sight so to speak, and I had no clue. I am not trying to track down the individual, but since the diagnosis I haven't put others at risk. So does anyone know? Does it show up and cause problems right away, or does it just decide on it's own when it wants to become an issue?? I don't go back to my infectious disease specialist until the end of August and the women at the I have been dealing with at the Anal and Rectal Cancer Institute have not really answered my question. I just would like some answers.....

If there are no rules or no moderation then there is no Breeding Zone. Plain and simple. It would become the "wild Wild West" where people will be subject to despicable treatment and have little or no recourse. Moderators are here for a reason. To help, and to draw the line when those of us cross them. Persoanlly, i feel safe here. I am on another Forum regarding sports, and I made the mistake to letting one Forum member know I was gay. To this day, I get an occasional slur thrown at me (i.e "what does he know about football, he's just looking at the player's ass") or worse, "So you think you are going to get Monkeypox?". These remarks just came at me randomly. Eventually they were taken down, and the worst of the worst have been banned permanently. But if I didn't seek out one or two openminded moderators, those guys would still be slinging those kinds of comments at me. The two comments I quoted were mild in comparison to some of the things said to me, so let's just allow BZ moderators and the owner do their jobs and not gripe about it. I believe in free speech, I don't believe in harassing fellow Forum members or posting false or misleading information. Be thankful we have a place to go, because the political climate today seems to be heading in the direction that appears to want to silence us all. That would be a sad thing...

You are not poz, July 1996.

Looking at these stats, it amazes me that nearly 70 percent are negative. Kudos to those who paid attention in sex ed classes and listened to information about safe sex practices. An HIV diagnosis may no longer be a death sentence, but no one is going to convince me that it is not life altering. That is why I stay out of the "bug chasing" threads, despite people proclaiming they are "fiction".

I have been dealing with this situation since mid-2020 and have been told that my warts are "pre-cancerous" and have been removed through surgery. Initially I had a fissure and twice they did "botox" injections into that area, but the warts keep coming back. I am seeing a reputable anal and rectal cancer specialist in my area, despite being told the warts are not cancerous. However, the situation remains and it has screwed up my sex life incredibly. It's too late for a vaccine for me. It looks like this August I will have my FIFTH out patient procedure since the time period I mentioned earlier and I can tell you not only is it humiliating but the recovery process is just awful. Sure, they initially give me a minimal amount of pain killers but after that the fear of either spreading it to someone or having another "tear" due to constipation, or fucking, is really unnerving. Right now I am using a compound written by the doctor but this is only a temporary fix till they do the next procedure. I would suggest to any guy who has not been vaccinated for HPV to do yourself a favor and talk to your doctor about getting the jab. I wish I has known because I have overcome a lot physically over the years and thought I was invincible. Apparently, I was wrong. I would not wish this situation on anyone, it really is life changing if you are used to being sexually active.

I think a smile, a nod and even eye contact can along way in sauna/bathhouse situation. Guys who may not be 100 percent perfect, but have a welcoming, nice attitude are generally someone I would be attracted to and pursue. That's just me.....

Almost all the major studios are gone. Porn stars from the 80s and early 90s made more money than those making videos today. That's one of the reasons things like Only Fans have taken off - because guys create their own content and then hopefully can get enough followers to make it a living. It's equally important to know something about marketing and social media because if no one is aware of you, there will not be any paying customers. Raging Stallion used to have "contract" performers but those days of having a guaranteed number of videos per year are long gone....

Lucky for you, you have a gay Democrat as your Governor. I am sure he realizes there are more important things to do with law enforcement then have them harass men with their pants down in a small cubicle. I always understood Portland to be a very open minded community, but you obviously know better than I do. Unfortunately, I live in Florida, with no ability to escape, and law enforcement and the political climate are very anti-gay so having sex in public has become an issue. At least in the area I am living in. I did have sex opening at an ABS in Bradenton, FL, but I believe that was because the guy I was with was very good friends with the front desk clerk. I miss that ABS in Bradenton, but I wouldn't take the chance of doing it in Tampa right now - their raids on ABS establishments have been going on for quite a while and I just don't want to get arrested. I'll take my chances and find someone online - at least as long as that is possible.🙄

My VPN is set for NYC and say I sign into NKP, and forget to turn it off, all the guys around me are in NY, not Florida. So I think it will be a matter of you remembering what site you are on and if you indeed need the protection of a VPN. I was not aware that Grindr can detect your VPN, I got off that site because there were some real dicks on there (and not the good kind) and I found it expensive. I use free sites and haven't had problems getting laid but if we are going to be subject to these kind of draconian shut downs I may be forced to find other alternatives. Does this mean I will be forced to go out and actually interact with people? Talk? In person? God forbid...... This sucks man and had I not been a member of BZ (shout out to the owner and moderators) I would not know what may be happening in the very near future. Happy hunting!

Unfortunately law enforcement likes to show they are fighting "vice" by visiting, maybe twice a year, various ABS and busting guys for either exposure or L and L. This is generally in the Tampa area and they post their full names and ages. I have a buddy who is a pharmacist for Walgreens and this has happened to him twice, but he still doesn't seem overly upset by it. Someone from upper management for Spectrum cable got caught, he later apologized and went on a "leave of absence". Some guys just never learn. Oh, and if you are ever caught in Polk County, Sheriff Grady Judd will have a news conference and mock those guys caught and show their mug shots as well as who they are employed by. They say they are looking for human trafficing, but he loves to take shots at Disney and the number of employees caught with their pants down. There are many bad things happening in Polk County, getting a blow job really doesn't seem to be that horrific in comparison to some of the other things I read.

What amazes me is that here in Florida I know many guys that are clueless to the fact they may try to log on to their favorite hook up site or porn site in the very near future and find, SURPRISE!, they can't get in. I actually had discussions at a bar during Pride and people's jaws were dropping. "What are we gonna do?', or better yet "they can't do that to us we have paid memberships". Oh, but they can. I told them to get a VPN if they didn't have one already (most didn't!) and keep their fingers crossed.

I'm sorry, I am too old to call my parents to bail me out of jail for sex in some public place. I am smart enough to find an alternative location........🙄 The local newspaper in my area even lists the names of those busted at an occasional sting operation at one of the ABS in my area. Public humiliation and a court date are not my idea of a good time.