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Just a follow up on the East Side Club, the management sucks. I had a friend who had a medical emergency, and it was NOT drug related. I had to travel to the club, speak to management to get his wallet and keys back. The were SO inconvenienced you would have thought you were asking them to go to the moon. I would never go back there again.

Well I know in no means meant to offend individuals and I certainly didn't use the term "If you're not fucking, go away unless your white". Please don't group me in with a specific segment of the white population because I am not.

One video you may want to watch is Cutler X fucking Andy Starr. It is on the Cutler X web site. Now, I believe it was shot abroad, and Andy is so high, he looks almost frightened about what is going to happen to him. Cutler doesn't hold back and Andy takes it like a pro. But if you do get a chance to see it, look at the expression on Andy's face. It's a cross between excasty and horror, I know he has taken alot of huge dicks in his life time but it was obvious Cutler was really into him (literally). I don't know where it was, but I saw photos of the two of them sharing lunch or a bite to eat and they were both smiling from ear to ear. I guess it was a good match and a very good video. I am not a huge fan on one-on-one, but those two truly seemed matched for one another.

Your profile says you were born in the year 2000, so that should be your first clue. Many guys like their tricks to be in their 20s. Don't be offended. On another site, Adam4adam, the term being used is "Can you be generous". Now I never had seen that till I moved from rural Florida into a city the size of Tampa/Saint Pete but if you were born in the 70s, frankly, this is something I see often. Usually guys in college or underemployed, it's a less than tactful way to solicit. I don't turn them in, but I do block them. Enjoy the attention, you have years of it ahead of you. This really is nothing new, people are just becoming more forward imo.

I like how you said "a lot of people", I always review who is attending a party and I don't go anywhere with high expectations. I never think it's "all about me", though a condo full of eight naked men usually works out. Naked oil wrestling? Not for me, but I do agree that cattiness and backstabbing has no place in a location where almost any sexual desire can be fulfilled. I try to think outside the box and enjoy myself. But getting back to this thread, I really have never found situations where too many bottoms was the problem, it was usually those attending that created issues that made the situation uncomfortable for a few.

I find this subject of "too many bottoms" quite amusing. If it were not for bottoms, tops would have no place to put their dicks, they would be standing around in circle jerks. Years ago I was at a group sex party and someone was complaining that there were too many bottoms. Someone stood up and said, "they only people who don't like bottoms are OTHER bottoms". Truer words were never spoken. I don't ever recall a top complaining to me, GEEZ, there are just too many bottoms around, what am I going to do? You don't hear that because tops generally don't make those kinds of remarks. Sure, at times there can be an unequal ratio of tops to bottoms at group parties, but it always seems to work out.

I have kept my head in the sand regarding this subject as long as possible but here goes. Will everything that you mentioned be implemented on every social media and hook up site in the very near future, or has it already happened? Obviously "Meta" and "Barebackrt.com" have an entirely different group of members (at least I think) so I am confused as to how all of these different rules will be implemented, and how it will apply to someone like myself who may come across an app or site and decide to join? I know the responsible thing to do is READ all the TOS but it is very easy to just scroll down and check off the box that indicates I understand and agree. My fear is that once I hit that enter key that site now has enough identifying information on me that there is no question as to who I am and where I am located. I have read posts that BZ was not going to be available in certain states but I thought a VPN would get around issues like that. Like you mentioned apps need to be simple or people won't use them, I just wonder how quickly all of this is going to be part of our everyday lives or has it already happened? I should have been following your posts more closely because this is your site and you have mentioned that things would be changing. It wasn't until I read your most recent post regarding this subject that it dawned on me I better start paying attention. I know it's not possible to have some blanket statement that makes everyone feel comfortable and informed, because that's impossible. You mentioned you would let people give their opinions about how these rules would be enforced, I am hoping at some point there's a reference point that members can refer to. I can't imagine how moderators are going to deal with all of this when you have people joining daily that maybe are new to a Forum like this and may post something that is illegal and can result in a ban. Like you said, it needs to be kept simple and I would think common sense dictates what I post and what I don't, but everyone is different. Any idea as to when things will begin to feel differently here, because personally I've been here about fourteen months and after a few initial bumps in the road subject matters and posting still appear to be the same. Thanks for your time.

Thank you for your response. Thinking back, this video was older in nature, as Cutler himself was thinner and younger than the Cutler we see today. The fixtures, bedding, everything I could see in the room led me to believe the video was shot abroad. It was a part of a collection that actually included Tim Krueger (sp?) of Tim Tales fame, and he too was younger. The video could easily be 15 years old, or more. Tim and Cutler were performing in a three way video with a European bottom and I believe this "bleeding video" was lumped in with that one, only Tim was not involved. Both videos had little theatrical enhancements, not glossy, almost as if they could have been shot within a day or two of each other. In the three way video Cutler looked iike a really in shape college football player, not the bulkier huge guy we see today. Also, the credits (if there even were any) were minimal at best. Thanks again for responding. It was just something I found so upsetting I didn't really want to remember how I stumbled upon it. Thank you again

Since you mentioned CutlerX I thought I would follow up with something equally as, ah, disturbing. Cutler was fucking this latin bottom like he always does, and the camera man swings around, and there is blood just leaking out in a very direct stream towards the bedding. No one bothers to say, hey, we have a problem here. I am not sure if the bottom was aware, if Cutler himself was aware because from that angle I am not sure he could see, but the camera man sure as hell could see. They didn't stop, they waited for Cutler to cum, and that was it. To be fair to Cutler, this film is a number of years old, it's not from his CutlerX site but from another studio and I am not even certain if it was shot in the US. No matter what, the camera man should have put a stop to the production. Anyone else see this? I don't ever recall seeing someone bleed so obviously and no one bother to tell him.

It's been over a year now since I first asked Forum members their opinions on inter-racial sex. Most who responded have been very open minded, thinking my question to BZ members regarding the subject to be a "no-brainer" so to speak. I have seen plenty that have said the subject never crossed their minds, while others seemed to act as if the question was somehow offensive. That was never my intention. It was just a question I felt could be answered in an adult manner, not to be used as a platform for some to state just how difficult their lives are because of the color of their skin. This was about sexual likes and dislikes, not a Forum on racism. I won't mention names but I have had several posters tell me that because I am white I have absolutely no idea what they go through because they are black. True, I don't know what your life experiences have been but this thread has gone WAY off track and if you read my original post you'll see it was a question about preferences, not the colonization of Caribbean nations or anything like that. This is a Forum that touches on all parts of our lives, but the main focus is sex and I think if you read the very first post you'll see that was what I was asking about. It's a shame some people were offended.

So now Doublelist is flagging accounts????? One of the good things I felt about both DL and CL was that I never mentioned "enhancements" so to speak because frankly, the guys that showed up had no idea I was "under the influence" and it was really none of their business. I gave them what they wanted and they did the same for me. This is the first I am hearing of DL flagging accounts. I had even created a new email account because DL required one, but the ones I have either include my legal name or are my gmail account, which easily identifies me. I didn't appreciate DL making us use an email address, but it was the closest thing to the old CL so I agreed. Can anyone just tell me when they first noticed accounts being flagged? This is very disappointing.

It's still by "go to" profile when wanting to hook up. Now that I live in a city as opposed to a more rural area it works well. One cautionary note, I may have mentioned this before. The guys who are are signed on during the day are either very young, very mature or retired/unemployed. Try 2 am on Saturday night and the entire cast of characters changes and it is a much more active site. Funny thing, everyone wants to host because they don't want to drive at that hour. Thank God for Uber and Lyft.

On @Onlyfans I love @Deepvoice7 or @Deepvoice whatever number. What I like is that he shows his face, he is incredibly handsome, and he has no problem getting involved in group play. In other words, the video does not have to revolve around him.....

......Good luck with finding that... Nothing personal, but I doubt there are may here that fill those requirements. Again, nothing personal.

No, I was in something called the "Webelows", which I always thought was a junior version of the Boy Scouts. I didn't last long, I know we took a bus trip from Philadelphia to Washington, DC, and I had to wear this new, itchy uniform. I hated it, after that trip I was pretty much done with that........

I agree - OUTSIDE the vehicle is preferred. On the hood, against the trunk. This thread actually made me think back about how much car sex I have actually had. Usually though, it was a situation where we either didn't want to wait, or there was no other option. I suppose the "I AM HOSTING IN MY CAR" that I see so often, at least in my area, just made my chuckle. But there are many guys worth it. I lived in a rural area for years where the sheriff's department really didn't bother people much, now living in a city I am more concerned about police monitoring. I have spoken to at least one FWB who told me the local park area, which was notorious for sex, has seen a spike in police presence and people have been given "tickets" to appear in court. That's a road I don't want to go down.....

I may take you up on that offer, if and when I can get out of the house. I checked online and it said it was still open. The place, even the parking lot, is always jumping. What surprised me was there was a mention of "closing soon" online, so I suppose they are no longer a 24 hour operation. The upstairs area was truly worth the entry fee. I have never seen so much open sex going on besides being in a bathhouse, the upstairs is enormous. The downstairs area has your typical booths where you drop $1 bills, and they have a large booth in the back that can hold maybe four guys. I am just hoping they continue to operate the upstairs, not sure if Covid had any long terms effects on that location. Much different vibes than the other ABS in that Drew Park Area.

There is that expression "Where there's a will, there is a way". I am 6 foot 3 and I managed to get into the back seat of Kia Forte and everything worked out just fine. Though hearing his baby crying from the house while we were parked out back was a bit distracting - very hot guy though....

They are certainly up and running in Tampa/St. Pete Florida..... My favorite postings: "I AM HOSTING IN MY CAR". - huh? (I am guilty I have done it once, and he was worth it).

Thanks for that, I did upgrade to include the VPN and I was able to get on the Forum. I already had Malwarebytes for protection of my MacBook Air, so it cost me a prorated amount. I had discussed VPN's with other Forum members like myself (who were continually bashed) all of them went to a VPN and their problems ceased. I am hoping the same will happen for me. Even if you changed your screen name or handle, they posted the initial screen name in a "members area" so people could easily see who the "new" member was. I went ahead and created a new account, using a different email address and they made me wait for approval from a moderator before I was able to participate. Even then, my posts were reviewed by a moderator before they were visible to the rest of the Forum. I didn't sign out till I started seeing my posts in the GM area. Thanks again for your input.

I was hoping someone would know about the VPN offered by the company Malwarebytes, offered for Mac users, and it's effectiveness. I ask this question not because I am trying to do anything deemed illegal, or unethical. I am simply asking if I had been on a Forum previously, would the VPN block my IP address and not allow moderators to see that I was a former member. Again this has nothing to do with illegal downloading, I was just prefer the moderators not to know my identity based on my IP address. I specifically purchased the VPN portion of Malwarebytes to rejoin. Does anyone know how effective Malwarebytes is? To end the mystery, the Forum I am trying to rejoin in based on sports, it's not like a Twitter or Facebook, and it is not an adult site. Anyone. use this VPN and can comment on it's effectiveness?

Brazilians, I flew that awful flight from JFK and Miami just to get another go around with the guys down there. They were the friendliest, most sexually aggressive bunch of men I have been around. I loved it there, hoping to go a third time.

Smartphones and cameras have been an ongoing problem at certain ABS and even the bathhouses that have since closed. People were being filmed without their consent from guys in adjoining booths or in some cases, rooms at the baths. I have seen people fist fight over phones and other banned from the property because they were filming guys fucking without their consent. It's different if you are live streaming yourself from your own room at the baths, or a place like Inn Leather where many guys keep their curtains open and allow others to watch (Palm Springs as well). As long as all the participants are aware what is going on I don't see that as a problem. I agree with you. Some people do need to have their phones for work reasons or personal emergencies. But to remove the sticker off of a phone at a group play area like the one you described is just awful. It ruins the fun for everyone and eventually people may lose the phone privilege all together.

I happened to place an ad when Craigslist was still offering personal ads. I had great success with that site, and met guys who became repeats and were not from my regular sources like adam4adam, or barebackrt. I received a notice that a guy was interested and when I communicated with him he told me he was 18. Young guys are not my thing, but he said he was really hoping I would give him a chance when I met him and that he had documentation of his age. When he arrived he was at least 6 foot 5 and was a senior at a Catholic High school in Pinellas county where I live. He had his Florida Driver's license and said he was looking for oral and he seemed determined to get it. So I agreed, he was really handsome and polite. I explained to him that I was old enough to be his father and he just laughed. He told me the girls he dated would not blow him, and he said he was so horny and wanted to experience having sex with a guy. He gave me his phone number, actually put it in my phone for me, and told me to stay in touch. He came over in the middle of the school day and had to get back to class. I wanted to die when he made that remark. He stayed in my mind unlike alot of guys I have met, he was great looking, a great body and very nice to deal with. He texted me again, and asked if I would consider letting him fuck me. I said yes, I didn't talk about condoms, but when he arrived he was well prepared with his Magnum Condom and I didn't say no. The experience was nice, he was very nice about everything and I have to say I had a good time. A few weeks went by, and I received a follow up text. This time he had requests. He knew where I lived, he literally could walk through the front door and neighbors could not see what was going on in the living room. He wanted a situation where I was on all fours, and blowing someone. I asked a guy I played with in my apartment complex if he would participate, this guy was I believe 29 at the time and he agreed. Again, this was going to be in the middle of the school day. The 18 year old came over, we were on the couch in the living room, I heard the friend I was blowing say "hey, how you doing" to the kid and I felt him stick his dick in me. NO CONDOM. Now we have never had a conversation about that, and since our first anal encounter, I assumed he would be wearing a Magnum. This time, he wasn't. After he shot his load, he asked to use the bathroom to wash his hands or whatever, I said yes and my regular buddy was looking at me with a funny expression. He said, "he does know your poz correct?" He came back into the living room, said goodbye to my friend still naked on the couch, and hugged me goodbye. I felt so guilty, I didn't know to text him and tell him or just leave it be. This time period, I believe it was 2017, was when Craigslist pulled the plug on their personal ads. I got a new phone, and to be honest I really could not track him down. I am sure he has fucked plenty of guys since me. However, to this day I feel guilty not communicating better, I assumed he would wear a condom but he didn't. I do feel guilty, and today, I always make it clear as to my status. Had he been in his 40s I wouldn't feel as bad, I could justify it in my mind that someone in my age range would know better. But someone who was a senior in high school? I still feel bad.