ellentonboy
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Try Mr. S Leather. You can find them online, and they have their own store in the Castro Area of San Fran. I bought as much gear as I could afford during the pandemic, they even sold masks before they were readily available, but that store has all kinds of masks, leather included. I wish had a link (or knew how to do that) but I get about two emails a week from them and they are always selling leather items, masks included. So it's Mr. S. Leather, out of San Fran
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I have been wearing jockstraps constantly since 2001. I was given one at a sex party and never looked back. I wish I had all my money back from some of these online stores that sell them, but I agree with the other poster about washing. If you put it in with your regular clothes, eventually they will soften up, begin to stretch and the texture will soften. Depending on how well they are made, some will come apart and I have few that actually say "hand wash only". But that's me, when it comes to jock straps, they go along with sex (or me, as is the case). I have become so obsessive with my "favorite jocks" that I actually wash them all in cold water and then hang them up to dry in my bathroom, or better yet, lay them on a towel on a piece of old furniture to dry naturally. This way they don't stretch and keep their shape, yet age nicely. Now they may take several days to dry, and if you have the cable guy, the insecticide guy or anyone else "not sexually involved" you may want to put them out of sight, but I value my jocks and they often bring back great memories. You should see me in the laundry room where I live, they don't offer washer/dryer hookups so there are another 250 apartments sharing about 24 machines. I wrap them in a special laundry bag and stand guard as I wash them in their own machine, all together, like a sex party. Then I take them out of the machine and run back to the apartment. Okay, that is probably more than the OP wanted or needed to know but when it comes to jocks, to me, they are an extension of my body and I have actually given them as gifts to some of my hottest tricks (thus, already worn) and even ordered one for a friend's birthday (he wanted mine, but I was not giving that one up). Anyway, I hope my "care" of jocks helped you.
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I agree with another poster who said they should pay you for keeping their customers happy, and spending money. The longer you are in that bookstore, the more money they make. I hope you aren't banned, sometimes these managers have a very short memory, or you go in at a time when he's not working. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I got kicked out of several bars for A. Taking my shirt off or B. Using "enhancements" in the bathroom. Both times I had to apologize to the owners. It's ironic because I have seen them both do the exact same thing. I am sure eventually they will let you back in. I hope you texted your bf from the car to let him know you were sitting there - that sucks to be alone while he's having fun.
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Future of porn (and this site) is really uncertain right now…
ellentonboy replied to rawTOP's topic in LGBT Politics
I knew this was coming but I wanted to ask since I noticed one poster has a LA location - does a VPN prevent this from happening? Correction: I didn't read the entire thread, I see VPN's can help should this nightmare continue. Sorry for being both lazy and stupid. -
It's just a job, so why not? Who's to say that a non-porn performer would make a better partner? Here's one thought: You know what he's doing at work, think of it that way! If he's having sex for a living on film, he's probably escorting as well though I don't have proof of that. I have seen guys do interviews who do porn, escort on the side, and have mentioned how much they appreciate their partners for bringing normalcy to their lives (this was a Lucas Entertainment "audition" interview, not everyone's favorite porn producer these days but the models (?) seemed sincere). But this is the way I look at it. If he's nailing guys, and I sincerely doubt it is 9 to 5, Monday through Friday, he'll be happy to go out to dinner with someone who cares about more that what is between his legs (though I am sure we all do) and actually TALK. Wouldn't it be nice to come home to someone who wants to have dinner and sit on the couch and watch Netflix, or HBO, or sports! I think having someone "outside the business" probably would help keep them grounded and in the end, appreciate you more. Now of course every individual is different, but I see no problem with it.
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Is the author of that post still active on this Forum? I see someone mentioned it was written five years ago so,,,,,,you never know.
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I didn't invalidate anything you said nor am I clueless as to what black men experience. Don't flatter yourself.....you have no clue as to the life I have lead and the people I have had relationships with. I am not clueless, so forget it. Btw, if you look back at the beginning of the thread, I am the original poster. I was the one who posted the question to the Forum. But I am finished going back and forth with you, you are entitled to your opinion as I am. Have a happy life....
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Well, I am sorry you feel that way. I find it interesting that if you read through this entire thread, I would say the majority of forum members do not have issues with race. I understand your experiences have been different.....that is a shame.
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I really take issue with a lot that is said with this posting. Sure, many white men are not interested in having sex with black men. No question about that. But I think this post takes it a bit far with "they won't hire black people, support their businesses or agenda, follow them in stores" etc. Where, exactly, is the data on that, or what caused you to form that opinion? It has been a very long time since I have seen the words "no blacks" in an online profile, I wouldn't be surprised if complaints might force that profile to be removed or edited. Personally I don't waste anyone's time, just like I would expect them to show me the same respect. Your final sentence "it's an ingrained white supremacist belief system" is just that, it's the belief system of white supremacists, not the majority of white gay men.
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Am I the only one who likes Grandpa Porn?
ellentonboy replied to a topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I always associated Silver Daddies as a a site where guys interested in meeting either younger or more mature men hooked up. It wasn't till I looked again did I see they had an area where you could purchase videos. The guy I met in San Fran made it sound as if it were a studio he worked for, he was huge but certainly no more than 40ish. I wish I had still had his info because I would ask for more details..... -
Great photos, thanks for the share. Looks like you had a great time, good for you....
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When one of your favourite studs passes, How do you react
ellentonboy replied to a topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
No, not normally. However, I can't remember how far back there was a photo of a guy who has done porn here in the US and I believe he died as the result of a home invasion in Baltimore. I could have the city wrong but was here in the US, which is why I mentioned it. It seemed rather unusual to me, but I guess it depends on where you live. -
Am I the only one who likes Grandpa Porn?
ellentonboy replied to a topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I know a few years ago, there was a site specifically targeted or meant for guys who like older men. I am talking 60 plus. I happen to hook up, in San Francisco, with the top who fucked alot of these old men. I would say the top was probably mid to late 40s, but the bottoms (from what he showed me) definitely qualified as older. If you search, it's out there..... -
yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss. When I hear what sounds like an s at the end of a word or sentence it is time to move on......
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A quick "How you doing" works for me. Generally they don't have too much to say. Favorite hook ups - when they don't speak English. Has happened to me in South Florida and Spain a number of times and it went fine.
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What Is Your Current Hiv Status? (Poll)
ellentonboy replied to a topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I would love getting fucked by grad school before I begin getting fucked on a reliable basis for law school -
Are Democrats ashamed of Michael Dukakis?
ellentonboy replied to highcountrybb's topic in LGBT Politics
Does your republican/democratic statius remember all that much? all that much? I know I am going to get killed over this comment, but I am too young to remember Dukakis, but to young to remember his opponent? So I digress, I know Duikakis remember flying into Key West but that is all my family remembers? So what is going on and what should I remember or should I NOT remember? -
I just have a question. Haven't most bottoms been "gang banged"? I thought this was part of the process, but maybe I am wrong. Most bottoms desire being "gang banged" and that is one of the PLUS sides of being a bottom. Just my opinion.......
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I see what you are saying. In my situation they were laying by the pool, it was during the day, and most were top less. I agree with you that if there is some kind of play activity going on there shouldn't be any women around. I happen to be laying in front of the main bar where the pool is, and even though there were guys with hard ons, there wasn't any sex. So, with that being said I guess I really couldn't complain much. Granted if it was one of their theme nights, or leather nights, they shouldn't be there.
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Thanks for taking the time to respond. I guess I just hit it on the wrong weekend, it was kind of funny actually. Those darkroom parties are famous, I will continue to check the web site and see what looks good. Thanks again!
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Thoughts on SLAMMERS 321 and CUMUNION
ellentonboy replied to Pig4Fucking's topic in Miami / Ft. Lauderdale / South Florida
Inn Leather is the more comfortable of the two, but that is just an opinion.......You can have your own space, get naked, set up your video equipment, and have some security regarding your electronics. This is strictly a personal opinion. -
Boy would l love to know his screen name but I respect your privacy!
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Jeff Allen from Raging Stallion (filmed me with out my permission and broadcast it live - not a nice guy) Tony Cummings from Raging Stallion (nice guy) Rafael Alencar (after he left his "contractual obligations with RS), nice guy, he still had he braces!
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Has the Meaning of Sex Changed for you lately?
ellentonboy replied to LetsPOZBreed's topic in General Discussion
If a random hook up occurs that is great, but I don't sit next to my laptop or phone, as I did even five years ago. I have enough guys listed in my contacts that I can call and arrange something. I saw read something somewhere "familiarity breeds contempt". Did I get that right????? I don't agree, sometimes, the guy walking through your door, who you have played with dozens of times is such a welcome site as opposed to a stranger who may or may not turn out to be worth your time. -
Should I worry about my Grindr encounter?
ellentonboy replied to Bttml00king's topic in General Discussion
I would not worry. If that individual stated he was of legal age, and if fact was not, he is the one in trouble. A friend of mine went through this kind of extortion in California and when he told him he had screen shots of every conversation they had the kid backed down. I don't blame Ginder ,they can only do so much, and I certainly wouldn't cast the blame on you because he stated he was of legal age. These punks think because a guy is over 30 or 40 or whatever is going to hand over money for fear of being turned into law enforcement need a wake up call. Call their bluff, ask them what their parents would think, their classmates, the police who file the report. They are in fact filing a false police report if they claim they told you they were underage when a screen shot or something on your phone proves otherwise. They will back down quickly.
