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I'm a natural cynic so scammers don't get far with me. Very low BS tolerance. I have friends who used to send money to their "friends" abroad. They knew better but always believed "This one is different." Thankfully, he could afford it but still... Just happened to me. Texted (recent, clear) pics to a potential hookup. He wouldn't meet without more pics. Buh bye! 🤣
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At what point does a bottom become a cumdump?
phillygwm replied to NSABB's topic in General Discussion
I learned about those people early on and have tried to avoid them. I don't need that kind of toxicity in my life. But it's a reason why guys choose to go to the next town over, or play in bookstores/darkrooms where there's some anonymity. Back to the OP, that requires a lot of planning if the next bar is 100 miles away but might be worth considering a mini-vacation where you go to a big city for a couple days and let your inner filthy whore out 🙂 -
PGN. And even Philly Mag for a while. I never liked ads which were full of "thou shalt nots" Sure, if there are hard nos, include them, but many people are looking for one race, must be muscle bound, young, self-suffient, etc. A fantasy, though I suppose someone like that would be available for rent 🙂
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At what point does a bottom become a cumdump?
phillygwm replied to NSABB's topic in General Discussion
Interesting take. I guess I've always thought of anonymity as one of the attributes of a cumdump. It's the anti-Cheers: NOBODY knows your name. I suppose that doesn't need to be the case but I think it usually holds true. I think of BBRT where guys go to a different city for a weekend and setup a party in their hotel. Maybe it's to get some fresh meat, maybe it's to go somewhere you're unknown, especially if your profession is one where it isn't helpful to be known as the town fleshlight. -
OF COURSE they can read. They just think that the comments don't apply to them. When I was young, I relied on old fashioned personal ads in these things called newspapers 🙂 I stated that I wanted guys under X years old (i.e. my age range.) I couldn't believe the number of responses that started "I'm 64 but look and act much younger." Now that I'm much closer to 64 than 24, I'd like to think I'm not like those guys.
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Do you live alone or with family etc.? If you're able to be on your own, that's one thing but having people knowing that you had guys coming and going would be freaky. I once knew a guy who had an attendant who set him up before dates and cleaned him up after, disappearing in between. I give him a lot of credit for having the balls to rely on someone for that; I'd be too embarrassed (and credit to the guy cleaning up all the DNA afterwards!)
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At what point does a bottom become a cumdump?
phillygwm replied to NSABB's topic in General Discussion
I've always thought of a cumdump as someone with few/no standards. They're there to take on all cummers. Often face down/ass up and impersonal. I'm merely a sperm donor and they're a human fleshlight. Cumdumps are there for body count. Not someone you cuddle/make out with. -
Wish you'd video that and share it with the rest of us 🙂
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It's funny, I've always considered myself gay. I once did a 4 way (me, two other guys, and a girl.) But I was repulsed by her. The guys told me she gave great head so I let her suck me. Couldn't keep it up. But I blew like a volcano when I saw one of the guys pull his condom covered dick out with his load hanging off the end. Now, I'm a bit more openminded about it. I still probably wouldn't be interested in a one on one with a female (unless she was one of those Justin Bieber lesbians) but a 3+way? Maybe. A F2M? Probably.
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Almost always balls deep. Hate those porn creampies where the head is barely inside. If I'm being sucked off, I still want it in his mouth but I don't need to make him choke, unless he asks me to. 🙂
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Me too. I used to look at other kids legs and underarms to gauge where they were in puberty. My freshman year in HS there was another kid my age (Italian background) who had a full beard. I wasn't super hairy and didn't shave until I was 18, so I thought I was a late bloomer. In retrospect, I was on time and maybe a bit early but I was fixated on it. To this day, I like hairy underarms, especially on guys who are otherwise smooth.
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Given how small and insular your town is, this might not work but what about the tourists? Probably not a lot of relationship possibilities but you can occasionally get off. Even if you need to go to the next town over. I'd also not give up on your cousin...if you know he doesn't have a gf, maybe drop a small hint. Something that can be construed more than one way. Maybe talk about what good times you had as kids (not specifically when you were playing around sexually but he will connect those dots if he's interested.)
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Huh. Learned something new! So you can't choose to be vers (if that's your thing,) you need to pick a side?
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Or like a woman in labor: Check how much their hole is dilated when they enter versus when they leave 🤣🤣
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How do they enforce this? Make all tops wear a wristband and throw them out if they're found bottoming? 🤣
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Fertile, shooting blanks or do-not-care?
phillygwm replied to bbboyfucker's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Gold Star gay here so won't be having kids. Never had a fertility test etc. but I've always kind of wondered. If I knew that the woman would abort (or otherwise not come after me for support) I'd like to see if I could get someone pregnant. Semi-related, I have a bit of a fetish for potent guys. Obviously, I'd generally have know way of knowing but when I'm with a guy who is a biological dad and hasn't subsequently gotten snipped, it turns me on for some reason. I used to have a FB who was a divorced dad. Usually, we met at his place and I always finished him in my mouth. I'd try to sneak a peek of the family portrait when he was shooting. Not into the kids but knowing I was swallowing the stuff that made them turned me on. -
Anything sex acts your don’t particularly enjoy?
phillygwm replied to Tiboer's topic in General Discussion
Makes perfect sense. Most guys, myself included, lose the mode once they're done. I've shared this previously but I fucking LOVE using a guy after he's finished, precisely because he isn't in the mood anymore. It's so hot using a guy while he endures it. Most of my sex is more traditional, sharing pleasure, trying to cum roughly at the same time, etc. I found this kind of accidentally when a partner asked me to "rape" him. I found out later that this was more than he had in mind but he took it like a champ, even though he always had a chance to stop. I rarely do it this way because most guys who say they're submissive mean they want to submit only until they cum, then they want to GTFO. But when the opportunity presents itself, it's so hot. -
Different strokes, literally. The biggest benefit to being with someone is I don't have to jerk off at the end. I want you to take it deep: if a guy is talented, I actually prefer his throat but obviously ass is always a good option. When I used to shoot a big load (medical issues, not so much now) there would be rare occasions when I'd blow it on his face. It happened most often with my ex when we were doing something spontaneous (he couldn't clean out and he couldn't get me off orally.) He always had perfect hair and I made sure I gave him extra "product". Accidentally, of course 🙂
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The second ring. What does it feel like to the top?
phillygwm replied to neg4charge's topic in General Discussion
When I was younger and more sexually active, I frequently hit guys second ring. I don't know that I'd describe it as wildly stimulating but it was hot knowing I was going that deep into a guy. I always tried to shoot in there. As I've gotten older and had some medical issues, I don't get as hard (and I swear I'm not as "big".) I also don't fuck as much as I used to. I've consequently not gotten past a guy's ring in a while. But when I'm with someone who is "fun sized" it seems to be a bit easier. Yet another reason I like guys smaller than I am 🙂 -
Touching myself? I can't remember a time when I didn't! Even before I knew what sex was, even before it produced a pleasurable sensation, I just liked diddling with myself. I always found my cock fascinating. I didn't know what circumcision was or that anyone looked drastically different than I did (except a couple adults, who were just bigger) but I was cut pretty loose so I liked pulling what was left of my foreskin over my head. I remember as a small child my grandmother telling me to stop playing with myself. Maybe 4-5? It's one of my earlier memories. Probably around 8-9 I found out about sex. First orgasm at 10, I believe. Haven't stopped since 🙂
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Why do I like being watched and shared?
phillygwm replied to Watch-me-share-me's topic in General Discussion
To clarify, it's usually not an entirely anonymous situation. I can see where that might be unwelcome 🙂 I don't do baths or sex clubs often. If it IS among a group where I don't know anyone, which frankly doesn't happen as often at this point in my life, I might talk to the guy but I wouldn't say I'm exactly giving orders/direction. -
Why do I like being watched and shared?
phillygwm replied to Watch-me-share-me's topic in General Discussion
I don't mind being watched but I LOVE watching. Especially if I'm speaking to/directing/coaching the top while he's fucking. Love seeing them as they blow balls deep but want to see them squeeze that last drop out when they've pulled out. I also like a bottom who effectively has no say in the matter -- nothing more than a breathing fleshlight -- especially if he's been forced to cum before he's penetrated. Maybe they're blindfolded or at least face down ass up so they don't know what I look like, or broadly what I might do to them (obviously fuck, but might I slide some fingers or have them arouse me orally first?) -
Seeing his load leaking out of your ass was probably the giveaway. 🤣
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With a real biological dad, with his kids in the next room where you can hear them playing (no, they wouldn't hear us.) Years ago, I had a chance with a guy who had an infant and he had to babysit. He wanted me to fuck him in the room (the kid was way too young to know what was going on and obviously wasn't involved in any way.) I chickened out, which I regret to this day. Just swallowing the sperm that made that baby would have been hot as hell.
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Creampie - some advice on making a good one
phillygwm replied to Eagerindayton's topic in General Discussion
This is why I don't love porn. I want to see a guy (or woman) get bred deep. Why would a bottom want cum leaking out? I mean, gravity is going to do what gravity does, especially as the load liquifies after a while. But I want a bottom who is going to try to retain it as long as they can. My ex couldn't stand that leaking feeling so he'd run to the bathroom as soon as I finished which I found disappointing. I wouldn't go as far as "insulted" but when I empty in a guy, it's like I'm marking my territory. If I ever produced straight porn, it would be pregnancy bingo: 100 guys on one girl (ovulating, no birth control, maybe high as a kite), only sliding in to her pussy when they're at the point of no return. No more than 10 thrusts until his balls are empty. See who has the most potent sperm 🙂
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