versamarried
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I would say self identification would be the same as one who tops. The whole being a receiver being less straight is imho a dated concept.
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Were you born a bottom? Or made one?
versamarried replied to blackfeeder's topic in General Discussion
Even before I started having guy on guy fun I used toys on my ass. No idea why but I just had to try it and it felt so damn good. When I started to have sex with guys I tried being versatile but eventually just accepted that I prefer having my ass used more than I like using ass. I can top but have not in about 10 years of 20+ years of being a cheating slut. -
I am always stunned when a hot twink wants to breed me. I am a middle aged bear with a lot of mileage so am always honored when a hot young stud gets hard seeing and using my hole for it's intended purpose.
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Bottoms, how do you convince tops to go bareback?
versamarried replied to Cum1997's topic in General Discussion
In the situation where a top appeared to want to wrap up to fuck I would coyly make the move to position myself so I could gently grind my ass on his raw cock before they reached for a condom. Always as just matter of foreplay, right. Eventually it would just happen their raw cock would slide into my horny hole and I would then just keep grinding until they were deep in me. After that nothing would be said or asked, they always would fuck with wild abandon and release in me. -
Cannot host, live near Scheveningse Bosjes but up for meeting anyplace safe. I have 0 experience with outdoor play so if anyone wants to provide advice on proper etiquette would be appreciated. How do you signal you are a bottom? How do you tell what type of play someone is seeking?
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I encountered this when I first started masturbating in my teens due to being raised Catholic. The minute I came I would be overcome with massive guilt I had sinned. Weirdly I was mostly leaning to Atheism by then but it would just come crashing over me. But like all things, the more you do something and get a positive outcome the more emboldened you become and the negative feelings get pushed back. When I started cheating bareback with guys I would feel terrible immediately after I came. But the more I did it without becoming poz, nor getting caught, the more I just accepted being a bareback cumslut is who I am. I hunt bare cock regardless of status, always feels great even after I cum now.
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I regret that I did not trust my wife enough to open up about my bisexual urges. I sort of did early in our relationship when I mentioned that as a teen I would do self anal play on myself and liked it. She was not skeeved but also did not press for more on it so took it as a sign of disinterest in exploring that with me. When our marriage hit a patch of long term no sex I began actively seeking out gay sex both to fulfill the need to feel desired but also engage in acts I knew I would enjoy. Because I remained mum about it to my wife the kink of cheating became intoxicating especially as I became successful in hiding it from her. Then I came across breedingzone which opened me up to the risk of bareback sex. 15 years later my wife and I had the discussion we should have had ages ago. Turns out she was okay with me exploring bi play, but safe only at least until I had maintained a safe sexual relationship with someone. So while I gave up the kink of playing behind my wife's back I got to keep the kink of cheating via bare sex. Oddly enough being open about it has made finding hosting tops even harder than when I had to sneak around. Other than her and my doctor, I guess I would say I am closted but at my age no one is really asking your sexual preference, nor do I ask others theirs.
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When I was left home alone during my early teens and started playing with my ass while masturbating. Even then it was obvious I would be the size queen I have become as I just kept trying to find the thickest / longest object in me. Did not try the real thing for a out 15 years after.
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Does anyone else get hard when they bottom?
versamarried replied to jmw003's topic in General Discussion
I am limp when bottoming. I can get hard from being stroked during but I tend to only do that when the top shows interest. Otherwise I am just enjoying the feeling of being stuffed and over excited at the anticipation of being bred. -
My speculation is that since he is a top he incorrectly feels he has less of risk of receiving STI from penetration where as kissing there is direct fluid swapping. When I started m2m play I was in my head pretty much against kissing, so never initiated and no one ever had for about the first year. Then one time, cannot remember if I was a bottom or top, a guy just leaned in and went for it and I accepted it. Found that I enjoyed it, did not feel wrong, weird, just sexy. Never got any feels from it, but it was thrilling to add to repertoire of things I was willing to do. To this day kissing is random act, sometimes I try to initiate, sometimes the tops do. I will never reject it beyond hygiene reasons. But if the top does then I do not press for it.
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My post history should inform what I would recommend. Keep getting tested either way. My 2 cents though it is not possible to give up taking BB loads. You started doing it for a reason and no reason to deny yourself something you enjoy.
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What turned you into a bare pig?
versamarried replied to germancumbear's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Being a closeted cheating MWM having M2M fun was always massively difficult to arrange when I cared about playing safe. I could not carry condoms with me and finding anyone who had them on hand at the random moments I had to step out / host was exceedingly rare. So I guess for me it was born out of the need to get fucked becoming stronger than my concerns on safety. Eventually enough men came in me that I stopped feeling satifisfied if a top used condoms or pulled out. That is when my conscious self accepted what my sub-conscious had already known, that I was meant to be a total bareback bottom, that my ultimate pleasure was driven by the pleasure my ass gave to any top who wanted me. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
versamarried replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Last night. Met previous top from before. Wife still thinking I am exploring and playing safe with guys. When I got there door was unlocked and he was freshly showered and waiting in bed for me. I stripped and joined him. Started sucking on his nips and stroking his hardening cock. He motioned my body so my as was in reach and he started, in his words, "Opening up his hole" with his fingers. I moaned and started sucking his now fully rigid pole. The more I sucked the more he used his hole the more I moaned like his bitch. After getting so into it I had to mount him and he slid in his hole. After some intense thrusting he pushed his hole of his cock and we tongue kissed deeply. I whispered in his ear "What would you do if I asked you not to breed me?". His perfect answer, "Do it anyway because it's my hole". With that he had me get on my back and fucked the hell out of his hole. Ending with a loud deep breeding. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
versamarried replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
This Friday night after opening up marriage and telling wife I wanted to explore M2M play Wife's perspective: Hubby going out first time ever to chat with another man, someone he just met via an app, about sex stuff. If he agrees to play he knows to use condoms, I saw him grab some. No way he would risk his health. Me: Gave my bare ass up for a top who had previously bred me a few times a few years ago in my marital bed. This time he could host his apartment and he fucked me so hard and deep and filled me with his full weeks worth of cum. Looking forward to making it on going. -
Wife agreed to opening up and letting me explore safe bi activities solo. So now I will only be semi-cheating when I take loads deep in my ass.
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I love being called a slut, whore cumdumpster
versamarried replied to OzzieCumdumpster's topic in General Discussion
100% agree. Always the best when they say it spontaneously. Also gets my ass hungry when they text / message like that even before we have ever met. Also love it when they 'make' me confirm it out loud. Just something about hearing my own voice admitting it rather than my internal monologue. -
I always fantasized about what having cum in my ass would feel like. When I first started bi play I was pretty versatile. I found over time that I would just get 0 satisfaction from being topped safely even if I jerked off during. And I no longer could cum topping dudes (even bare). So one time I just mounted a top bare even after we had talked about playing safe and the condom was in his hand. Did not take long for him to not care and fuck me hard until he nutted deep. After that I finally found the feeling of satisfaction I had been chasing. Since then, about 15+ years, been a bare bottom slut.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
versamarried replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Previous top was home but only had a short window to host today. I wasted no time getting to his place and getting his thick cock in me. Bucked my ass back as he pounded from behind. Only a couple of minutes before he was grunting and pushing in deep depositing his DNA where it belongs. As I was getting dressed he kept apologizing we had to be quick. I kissed him and assured that while his cock feels amazing stretching my hole wider it is his load that I crave so quicker is just fine. Plus I told him I could be home before my wife gets home from getting her pussy waxed. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
versamarried replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Long dry spell ended today mid afternoon. Was on Grindr and usually just hoping to find a top who hosts and arrange a future meet. Instead this time this older bear top was looking for right now and lived 5 min away. He thought his 6" thick cock would not get in my chubby bear ass and hesitated to invite me over. I laid on the charm and said I am sure my slutty hole would find a way to get his 5 day load in me. Finally he invited me over and I told my unknowing wife that I would go do some grocery shopping while she supervised some Xmas decorating. Top was definitely not what I expected but hole was aching for that load. We showered together and he pushed that thick meat in me. Was so long since last I bottomed that it hurt and I pulled off and just asked to wait a second and try again. After a few minutes he tried again and my hole remembered what it was made for and took all of his thick rod. He pummeled my ass like it owed him money and was soon groaning in pleasure declaring he was nutting and kept pumping hard into me. I thanked him and we ended the shower and I left. Now my hole wants more and I have another top lined up for lunch time tomorrow. -
BootmanLA is on point with his advice. If you have not practiced anal on yourself it would be a good way to know. Since I first masturbated I had the need to pleasure my ass at the same time. I tried topping when I first started playing with dudes and while initially I could fuck to finish I began leaving those encounters feeling less and less satisfied since my own needs to be topped would be ignored. Was there anything going on in your mind that may have kept you from being in the moment?
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Second load but still doesnt feel when he is cumming!
versamarried replied to Ding's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
There has only been 1 top that I have felt pumping his seed in me. He is not particularly hung or thick either. It could be that since he and I have been hooking up regularly that I am more relaxed and able to focus on the pleasure down there. -
Raleigh here as well.
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Definitely deep in me and have been surprised to find that I need to start being more explicit with grindr hookups. Everyone I have met on there recently either asks if I play bare or never ask and when I show up no condom is ever used. But everytime now they pull out and cum on my back, ass or hole. None of which leaves me satisfied. Guess I took for granted that when you play raw the you are supposed to breed/be bred. Sigh.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
versamarried replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Compilation post for the last several months. Been able to get bred about 4 times with a recurring 'anon' top. Same one as in previous posts I made awhile back. Usual scenario, I get to his place walk in, go to his bedroom, strip. get on all fours on bed. Wait. Then I feel his hands on my ass and waiting hole, lubes up his cock then mounts me. He loves fucking me from behind, getting me at all sorts of angles. Best part is he is verbal and loves that I am bi cheating bareback married bottom. Eventually he comes hard, which is amazing as he has been so far the only top I actually feel his cock throb as he is cumming. I did have a new encounter yesterday, young bbc from Grindr. Asked if I played bare and played anon. Could not resist. Got to his place, stripped, made me suck his cock some, insisting I do not look up. Then he told me to turn around. Mounted me and waa gentle at first but after he hit poppers he started slamming me like crazy. Felt amazing and my hole was clenched tight on him. Guess a little too well as he lasted only a couple minutes before blasting inside me. Love new cum.
