I've been with a handful of "long-winded" tops -- a couple of them were amazing and made 3+ hours and 4-6 loads feel like 40-minutes and I still wanted MORE when they finally finished! They were sexy, engaged -- a couple played background music, both used a variety of positions, a little dirty talk, etc., to keep it fresh. The rest basically climbed on top and just rabbit-pounded me for 2-3 hours. Sometimes they'd said things like "I don't nut when I'm really enjoying the sex" or "I rarely cum while fucking -- I have to jack off" or whatever -- for those men, I never met up with again. The sex felt selfish (and not something Sub/Dom that we'd agreed to). To me 4 hours is perfect for an orgy or Fornication Party event, or even 6 men fucking me in the same night (one after the other). While I love bare fucking, I want to be filled with hot, sweet fresh loads as often as possible, too.