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Be up front with those you migth play with, You'll find there are many guys interested in teaching a newbie. THere may be some that aren't. but even if they're not, they're still good resources for friends, and events and tips and tricks. You may want to start small, but eventually, I think you're going to want to go to the parties. Keep practicing and you'll get there!

LOVE it! Also love to eat the ass of a well-used cumdump. Nothing like mixed DNA all swirled around together! #goodsoup

I like SPUNK. They have a water and a silicon based version. Looks like cum and feels great. I also like Fist Powder, spit, cum, jlube, elbow grease...

I'm SO hoping that MAL will happen next year. There have been some other event cancellations lately, but hope that 4 months away is long enough to get things hammered down. Keep checking for hotel cancellations if you're still planning on going. My hole will be there for you (and my cock too. I always pack plenty of trimix - for me and others....).

can't wait to see the footage! If you need someone to film it for you....

Well done! Celebrate personal bests/firsts/goals! Thank you for sharing! My goal is to get fisted more easily. I’ve only bottomed a few times, but have topped for years. Time for me to have some of that ffun too! 🐽

Exactly! I go pretty regularly (love an excuse to get back home). It has definitely changed over the years - less sex on the street, more cover charges and circuit parties, bigger crowds (and all that comes with it), more of the stand and model crowd... There are still a lot of reasons to go, so I continue to go when I can. This year I'm skipping it (as I did last year). Will I go back, definitely. Is it the same as it was? No (but I don't expect it to be). Wear a mask when required. Keep your wits about you (there is crime anywhere there are drunk tourists). Venture out of the Quarter. Be friendly (sometimes someone saying hi, is JUST that). Eat. Drink. Let your hair down. No one cares what you do, but DON'T piss in the streets!

Only once in a while. hte initial entry may be painful, but once tat first wave is done, then it's nothing but pleasure!

Got bred by two different daddies in an adult theater (in San Diego) yesterday. Had a couple of guys watching and jacking. One shot his load and left, but the other one came over and let me suck it a while until he nutted in my mouth which sent Daddy #1 over the edge and he exploded in my ass. They both left and I was sitting on a chair backwards with my ass still hanging out when Daddy #2 walked in. He fingered my ass and as soon as he felt the cum dripping, he whipped it out and pumped his load into me. He really was fast and furious fuck, but he grunted LOUD when he shot in me! LOVED every minute of it! Rest of the day was pretty quiet. Managed to suck a couple guys off, but no more breeding. :-(

I LOVE a man who shoots a big load! I usually swallow it down fast so I don't miss any. But sometimes, it's too much, too fast. I LVOE those times!

Absolutely LOVE it. Love feeling the last spurts inside me. Whether he just stays inside me and begins to soften or he slowly keeps pounding and gives me a second load, I love it. Especially face down with him on top of me. Love the weight of his body on me and his meat deep inside me. Though, as been mentioned earlier, most of the time it’s a wham-bam-thank-you-Sam kinda thing and he pulls out to make way for the next top. (I like that too!)

If you're still looking - Adult Emporium on Convoy, Mercury Books on Mercury (just south of Balboa Ave), Jolar, Barnett, Adult Depot on Kurtz..... All can be fun. Depends on if you're looking for booths, theater or both.

I think you need to decide what scenario you're talking about. We've been talking about a person in a sling with no one fucking him or waiting to fuck him. You can create as many scenarios as you want, but in THAT case, the person in the sling with no partner is wrong for tying up the facilities. Your assertion the "no one is waiting" may not be accurate, as I don't just stand in line waiting for THIS sling to come free. I may walk around to another sling to see if THAT ONE is free. That does not mean I'm not waiting, it means I'm actively looking for a place to play and the person in the sling without a partner is STILL wrong. I did not, at any time, say that you must take every cock or that you owe anyone your hole. I said that if you're in a sling at a play venue, you're already signalling your intention. If you don't give consent, get up. If you don't want guy 1, but want guy 2, use your words and say so. You're being purposefully contrary because you want to put me in a "he doesn't understand/value consent" box, which is not the case. Consent discussions are valid, but you HAVE to take some personal responsibility if you are present in a sexually-driven venue. This was not a consent question. It was an "am-I-the-asshole" question for lying in the sling with no partner. I think the majority of people reading this took at at that. Your last scenario could easily have been a gloryhole instead of a locker room bench and I GUARANTEE that everyone who's ever been at one would respond "if you're not using the gloryhole and just waiting, move, because I want a turn." Which doesn't mean you have to take every dick, but you're wrong if YOU are not taking dick when someone else would if given the space. THAT is the point I was trying to make.

Really @BootmanLA? you're gonna downvote me because I don't agree with you?!?! Don't be a troll.

Most of the vids are for private use, I'd assume - on someone's OF or private collections. There ARE a few professional flicks filmed at MAL, but they aren't marketed as such. Many of them are just hotel room scenes, so you'd have to know the hotel pretty well to be able to tell. Bad Seed Media did one a few years back - Jason's MAL Gangbang, but it's just a group scene in a hotel, no footage of the market or lobby. I'm sure there are vids with footage, but I've never seen videos marketed as "MAL scenes".

If you're in the sling (in a public place), you've given consent. You have made it clear you are there to be fucked. If you don't actively have a partner, being in the sling is, in itself, asking for someone to join you. If you don't like strangers coming up and attempting to fuck you, GET OUT OF THE SLING. You can do whoever you want at home, but in an environment with limited resources, keeping someone else from using those resources while you wait for someone to catch your fancy is a dick move. We're not talking about walking around in a bar and being accosted. We're talking about being in a bathhouse or sexclub. There is, by virtue of the venue, a limited degree of consent when you walk in the door. It is up to YOU to say "no thank you" if it's not your scene, but you can't pretend to be offended when your ass is dripping lube and you're waiting with legs spread in a sling.

Direct is best. "we're not a match as I don't use condoms." Sometimes, they're all "That's fine" (even though their profile says condoms-only). Sometimes they say something like "too bad". Or other times they try to get all insulting and say that I'm a disease-ridden skank and they wouldn't fuck me anyway. If the latter, I block them. If the former, sometimes they come back again later and want to breed. I don't take it personally. ....and in rare cases, I've even let a top wrap it and fuck me - depends on my mood and the dick! :-p

I've been on both sides of that equation and enjoyed every minute of it!!! (There was no option for that in the poll.....).

1. Do you enjoy making a man cum with your hand and mouth or him jerking himself off and feeding you his load? Either. I love to make a man cum, but if he wants to jck it and shoot in my mouth (or on me) I'm good with that too. 2. Do you like cum that shoots out hard, or cum that oozes out that you can lick up? I love cum, however it cums out, THOUGH, A huge shooter - strong pulses of cum or a massive volume that causes me to have to swallow quickly and often, really gets my hole to twitching! 3.How do you like to swallow his cum and why? With his cock deep in your throat? With his head resting on your tongue? With your mouth open and your tongue out? Jerking him off? I love to swallow with him balls-deep down my throat. I also like to go back and lick his head to get every last drop. 4. Do you like thick semen or more watery? What is the sweet spot between too thick or too watery? Either. I don't really see a difference when I'm swallowing. If he's fucking me, I like it watery to provide more lube for the next top. 5. Do you like semen sweet and pleasant with little taste, or salty with a very spermy flavor that has a long aftertaste? Why? I like variety. I like a strong spermy flavor and aftertaste. I like to smell it on my beard after. 6. What's the perfect size load that you like to swallow? Enough to get an nice taste? Or enough to get a big gulp? Or something that overwhelms your mouth that you have to work to swallow? I like a load big enough to taste. 7. For those that have sucked off more than 1 guy at the same time, how is the experience different from eating multiple loads opposed to being with 1 guy? I LOVE LOVE LOVE tasting multiple loads at the same time. Swishing it around in my mouth (or ass) and getting a nice mixed load. 2 guys means double the volume. More to taste or use as lube. Some guys get off on snowballing, which I really like cause I love to kiss. 7. Describe the perfect cock that you'd like to suck and the perfect type of cum you'd want to swallow. yours (anyone reading this)

I'm a mentor. That fits. I like to teach and guide people. Just call me Master Shifu. :-p

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Depends on my goal. If I just want to get bred, I don't need to see your face. If I want to meet up and have someone to hang with during down time at an event like IML or MAL, i like to see who I'm hanging out with. I've never been a size queen or too hung up on looks. If you're hard I'll probably let you fuck me. <oink>

Lots of good suggestions here. A host or a partner in crime will definitely help. You CAN do it all yourself, but having someone to work the door - let them in, show them out, restock lube, see if you need water, keep anyone from walking off with your stuff, etc is a great help. If you're road-tripping it can be more difficult to set up unless you've got a travel buddy - maybe someone to work the camera? If you DO go it alone make sure you can lock up your valuables. You should pick a place with external entrance and plenty of parking. I wouldn't recommend a blindfold if you're on your own, instead opt for dimly lit room with porn playing or some such. Some voyeurs will volunteer to help (or film and probably use your hole too). I've even split a room with another bottom and flipped with him me taking loads/him working the door, then swap, but only with guys I know. Tried it once with a greedy bottom who didn't want to switch once he got some dick in him. Needless to say, he's off my list. Places that have an active cruisy areas can be fun too - usually outdoors in the dark, can satisfy the anon urge. You could also try rest stops or bookstores for variety. It sounds like you're good with anon, no-strings hook ups. You might think of sex parties like Cummunion, Horsemarket, Wallbangers, or events like MAL, IML, Southern Decadence, Dore Alley, etc - lots of anon, no-strings sex that you don't have to put in much effort to get!

I think it's partly knowing I have the power to make him cum. He may think he's using me, but I'm using him. Once I get my lips (mouth or ass) around him, his cock (and load) is mine! I like being the reason he cums and being the hole he wants to use again. Nothing worse (for me) than a top who breeds me once and then doesn't want it again. That means I've failed, and i hate to fail.

Bathhouses in LA are opening back up. In San Diego and Las Vegas, they've been open. Palm Springs clothing optional resorts have been open a while and they're starting to allow day pass visitors again. So Cal is getting back to normal and I can't wait to be able to take anon loads again!