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Several nights over the last decade or so, I've been lucky enough to swallow so much cum that I've felt cum drunk and my gut felt FULL of cum - usually at baths or sex clubs with gloryholes. I'll routinely swallow 5 or 6 loads in a bookstore or theater, so for me to lose count, would easily be in the double digits. LOVE the taste and smell and feel of cum in my mouth (or ass).

Tucson isn't that far for me. I'd love to be there for that! Maybe get an introduction to your alpha top. too! :-)

Exactly! I LVOE the idea of this, but I'd have to know the top whoring out my hole. I'd love to wake up with an already overflowing hole (and knowing that my top was gonna add his to show me what a good hole I am!)

Ideally, 7. I like both my ass and mouth full of cock, but I've been every one of them before - topped, bottomed, sucked, been sucked, watched.... It's all good as long as I get cum in me!

Good advice above. Remember to relax and get out of your head. Sometimes a big play party can be overwhelming. Relax and either watch or participate as much as you want. Be prepped beforehand, most places don't have clean out facilities on site. Bring anything you need - if you like a certain lube/poppers, bring them. Depending on the venue wear shoes or boots. I've had way too many crushed toes over the years. I prefer a jockstrap cause it frames my ass nicely and reminds people I'd rather bottom than top. I look forward to hearing about your experience!

I WANT it every day. I need it every week. How often I actually get it depends on the supply and my schedule. There are days I don't have time or the energy to hunt down an anon load. There are other days, I'll hit a bookstore or bath or sauna or theater or cruising area or app and take cock all day/night. I love a good quality fuck, but I really enjoy ANY fuck. For me, it's not a quality vs quantity question. I like more dick, because i like the variety and the newness of an anon load. I enjoy repeats (as it lets me know they liked my hole), but I LOVE new cock and trying to figure out how HE likes it, what he responds best to and how that load is gonna taste/feel... If I could take very cock in the world, I would. Just to say I've had all of them! <oink>

Some guys really love my foreskin, but most like to grab (and fuck and eat) my ass. Rugby was kind to me and built a nice, thick, fuckable ass on me. Once they've been IN my ass, most guys want in again, which I'm happy to oblige! Been told I suck amazingly well too, so maybe my mouth. I don't really know. Who wants to try each out and we'll start a poll? <oink>

Lots of good points made above. Most of it is in your head, and as such, you need to deal with it before it can go away or you can get over it. The post nut clarity is indicative of a good amount of guilt or shame over what you like. As was mentioned above, you have a good deal of societal pressure to slough off there. If I were in your shoes, I would plan a weekend away to a bigger city and have as much gay sex as possible and after each encounter, I'd post my experience here. People will respond and comment and you'll begin to feel acceptance of your needs and desires instead of shame. If you had someone locally to confide in, it would do much the same thing since it would give you validation that you're no MORE different than anyone else, which I think would go a long way in making you more comfortable with who you are/what you like. As far as being picky, go to a bookstore or sauna or theater and hit on someone randomly. Give in to the moment and the sensations or climb in a sling and slip on a blindfold. Gloryholes can be good for this too. When you don't know who is on the other side of the hole, pickiness isn't so much of an issue! I, personally, LOVE anon sex and love to be blindfolded and gloryholes BECAUSE it removes any issues of types or preconceived expectations. Give me that dick. I've been happily surprised by who fucked well and who was sporting the mega-dick. Years later, I KNOW this in my core and it makes me much more comfortable with sex with anyone.

YES! I will kiss you. If he doesn't kiss, I will be disappointed no matter how good the dick is.

I do and have. Love that they are young and full of hormones. Fuck me , then fuck me again, what another? you're ready again?!?!? keep it cumming, stud! I'll keep taking it!

44 is still my record in 24 hours. Twice I've hit that number - once at IMLand once at MAL. I don't know why I can't find a 45th, but it'll happen once I get back out there! <oink>

I would love to! I love road trips and I love getting bred, so it'd be a win-win.

End of another era. 😞 Some other bar will have to step up and take up the slack. Any action happening at Cell Block these days? They went from very popular and fun to kinda quiet and boring, but I hear they're back to the fun again.... I USED to love that bar back when it was Loading Dock (yes,I'm THAT old).

That would be consistent with the last time I was there. Shame. It was always a good source of cum for my holes. Agreed the Hole at Jackhammer is also fun, but I’d heard it was sold or they were threatening to be closed or something?!? Must not have happened, so that’s good.

LOVE it! Mostly a bottom, but a cummy hole always gets me rock hard. Love to eat it and refill it! Love it die to me too. Would love to have been your friend offering you MY hole at the end of a good night!

I love the suggestions provided so far and agree with all of them. Personally, I use trimix, but then I’m primarily a bottom and don’t tip on a regular basis. I am fine with that, but when I do too, I want to be able to perform. Anxiety, body image, blood pressure - all add to my, specific, ED contributors, but trimix eases that and I can perform. Find the things that really turn you on a partner that enjoys that and you should be good to go. It sounds like you’re cockblocking yourself. You need to be your own wingman instead. ❤️

I'll also throw my vote towards Banana VIdeo. Have had some fun upstairs there... If you're fairly mobile, I also like the backroom of Touche, Ram bookstore, Manhandler Saloon (down in Lincoln Park) and Teejay's Adult Books (down in the loop). Shame Bijou closed a few years back, that could be fun as wel.

Slowly bringing my numbers up - 227 total this year. Only 48 in my ass, though. 179 down my throat. This has been a very weird year. Hitting bookstores/theaters only so far - no play parties and no big events yet. Doing Horsemarket party in LA over CLAW. That should jumpstart my return to true sluttiness!

[think before following links] https://horsemarketsf.com/laagreement/ [think before following links] https://www.clawinfo.org/ ALSO a WARNING: DO NOT MENTION Horsemarket on BBRT. They will cancel your account. I had mine cancelled because i was "Promoting a commercial party". I updated my profile to read "Where are the stallions? I need to practice for Horsemarket next month." He apparently doesn't like the horsemarket party and is so petty that he will cancel your account for mentioning it. I think references to CLAW are ok, though.

I've aways loved assplay and toys. It was a natural progression for me to slide my hand into a gaping hole... Still working on getting mine there regularly, but it'll happen!

You will see every body type and every level of fitness. There will be men who eat, breathe and sleep leather and those that just put on their first piece. There will be alphas and uber-alphas all trying to out peacock each other and you will see omegas trying to catch their attention. You will see the preeners and the average, the hairy and the smooth, the pups and the cubs and the bears and the otters and the wolves and every other archetype you can imagine. You will see leather ...and rubber and pups and furries and sports gear and everything that turns people on. Be yourself. Be confident. (Confidence is sexy.) Take my tips above and enjoy. It CAN be overwhelming. There is nothing wrong with withdrawing and chilling for a bit. Remember it's a marathon. Don't peak too early. 🙂

chatted with a dude on one of the apps and he was SUPER horned up. Said he was housesitting over by where i live (we'd exchanged what part of town we lived in already). He asked if I wanted to get fucked and I said yes. Showed up to this house and parked and he was on the side of the house and waved me over. I walked over and he dropped his pants. Not one for formalities, I dropped down and sucked him a bit. He grew to about 7 inches and had a lot of foreskin. Yummy! He pulled me up and grabbed my ass and I knew he wanted to fuck. I pulled down my gym shorts and started to pull down my jockstrap , but he wanted to fuck me in it He fuck and fucked and shot a big load inside me. He pulled out with a plop as some of his load leaked out. He fingered it and fed it to me. then he pulled his pants up and I did the same. Turns out it was a vacant house and he wasn't watching it for anyone. Best driveway sex I've had in years!

Sniffies - logged in and posted that I was looking for some lunchtimes fun. Got a few hits, nothing serious, but one guy I had chatted with before. He asked when I was free and we made a plan for me to cum by his place and get bred Yay! Got close and he said he had a call and it'd be a 1/2 hour later. Was that still okay. Still worked for me, but I was thinking maybe he's gonna flake. We'll see. Time came and I showed up. He buzzed me in and I was pleased with the tent he was already pitching. We got down to it. I dropped down and sucked a bit before he pulled me up and spun me around to fuck me doggy style. He fucked me good and hard and eventually blew his load, but stayed inside me. He said "Damn, I'm still hard." I told him to keep fucking me, then. It feels great. He shot a second load in me and I was on my way. I got to my car and realized I'd left my poppers and lube (hazard of bringing your own.) I texted him on sniffies again, but go no response. He'd mentioned that he had another call immediately after, so I told him to keep them or throw them away. I was about to drive away when another guy hit me up and said "You're really close. Are you taking loads?" I said yep, just got bred and he said want another? I said send your address. He did and t was the building next door to the first guy! I walked in and took a third load. His dick was bigger, but slid in nicely as I was already full of cum! He fucked me hard and furious. Not too long later I was finally driving away with a leaking hole and a smile!

I agree with @Cumslut943. Unless you are into the contest, there is no need to buy the full package. They've changed the tickets a bit. I usually get the contest base or dance base tickets (the dance parties ARE a lot of fun and can get quite frisky). Access to the shuttle bus can be helpful too if you plan to hit the bars on the north side of the city. They're a bit far. I highly recommend seeing some of the city, if yo've not been before. If the weather cooperates. Chicago when it's warm is an amazingly fun town and EVERYONE gets out to enjoy the sunshine after being cooped up for the winter. There have been years when I just bought a market pass and wandered the halls. Make sure you check the hotel policy, if you're not staying there. They have limited access to attendees before. If I go I stay at the host hotel (which is a dump), but is FULL of horny men fucking everywhere - stairwells, bathrooms, quiet hallways. LOTS of room parties and open doors al over the hotel. If anon sex is your thing, you can get your fill. It's a great time. Some helpful tips for your trip: Pace yourself. There are so many things going on. You will not be able to do them all. Pick the ones that you HAVE to do and build your day/night around them. Enjoy whatever you're doing while you're there. Don't be too caught up in what's next that you miss out on the stud eyeing you up right now. Be friendly. Everyone is in a good mood. Sometimes that makes people say hello. Reply. It doesn't mean you have to fuck them. I've met many men over the years at IML. Some have become really good friends, but I wouldn't have met them had I not been willing to socialize. ...and lots of times they know about a party that you don't. Don't be afraid to tag along, it might be JUST the gangbang you're looking for! Hydrate. Regardless of what else you drink (or take), drink some water. Be aware of your surroundings. It's still a big city and where there are tourists, there are pickpockets. Keep your valuables secure and only take what you expect to spend. Keep an eye on your drinks. You probably won't have any issues at all, but no reason to tempt fate.