mblad99
-
Posts
113 -
Joined
-
Last visited
mblad99's Achievements
-
I have a question for married bottoms and vers, especially if they are still sexually active with their spouses: How do you protect yourself from STDs when you are getting fucked? Do you insist on condoms? Prep? Chose your partners wisely? I know there are some risks for tops, but bottoms seem to carry the greatest risks.
-
I like a hole that's easy to slide into, not a project to open.
-
I think every relationship is different and human relationships are complex. My wife found evidence of my interests in men a few years ago, asked if I was gay. I told her honestly you lost sexual interest in me so if someone else wants to suck it. I go for it. That ended the conversation. More recently, I was horned up and moody and she could tell. She just told me go out and get what you need. I no longer feel getting off with a guy is cheating. She has some knowledge and just closes to look the other way. She also knows I still love her deeply and no one competes against her that way. I thinks it's cheating if you are taking something away from the relationship and giving that something to another person. She can careless about my cock, so that goes to someone else, my heart stays at home.
-
I am a MWM exclusive top. There are a lot of married guys that like to get fucked. Most will take it bare. Interestingly I am seeing an uptick of younger married guys, in their 30s. Generally, its the same story, wife has lost interest in sex, and they havent. I think it also to do with a desire to be wanted and touched in an intimate way. Since I am a married bb top, I cant comment on the married bottom perspective, but would love to hear their thoughts.
-
clean is my preference, but some hair is ok
-
Married to woman and I only top. Never caught anything. Most of my playmates are other married men (75-100 different guys). 90% of those guys bareback
-
Looking around in the locjer room in hs was the first clue. But was totally straight in college. Didnt try anything with a guy until about 25. Something told me to go to a video store to rent a video, I got picked up by another customer and the journey began. We went to his place and started watching porn, and the next thing you know his cock was in my mouth. Still enjoy sex with a woman, but guys are great because there is less drama.
-
My neighbor bred me and he didn't know it was me
mblad99 replied to Bttml00king's topic in Your Last Load...
He is probably on grinder or sniffies too. One way or another, I would definitely let him know your ass is available for his use when he needs it. I can tell you as a married top, I wish I had a guy close to me that I can trust. The big obstacle you will need to overcome is keeping things discrete and on the down and low. But once you gain his trust, his cock will be yours. -
Fuck him good and go deep when you cum. He will get a warm feeling deep inside when you cum. An experience that is unique and he will be your hole
-
Ok, so I thought it was just me. About 3 years ago I told myself I am getting older so I should go out on a grande finale. At 54, I have had more action in the last 18 months than all fours of college ( even if you doubled the college action). I am also surprised how many younger guys are willing to meet with an older guy. I asked one 35 year old on Grindr why he wanted my older cock, he said older guys dont get much action so they are easy.to hook up with and appreciate that you hook up with them. I thought, you realize a good number of those faces next to yours on Grindr are all thinking the same thing. But, yea, there's plenty of good action for older guys.
-
Sorry for the confusion..but the question was "Do you ask if I can cum in you" or something similar. I guess if you ask before you even enter him, then the answer is yes. The situation in which you start fucking and the bottom says "Hey, dont cum in me" wouldnt count for this poll. But those are great comments and discussion.
-
I quit asking.
-
Remote Work - Best place for a horny gay guy to live?
mblad99 replied to Breedingandseeding's topic in General Discussion
If you enjoy winter activity, check out Minneapolis or Milwaukee. Easy cities to find action. Awesome summers. Not too hot. -
try doublelist as a replacement
-
Late start I was 28. Cruising area, he just bent over and I went for it. Got tested right after thinking I was going to catch something.
