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  1. My few cents. f you continue to have unprotected sex with others then it is bound to come out one day when you catch an STI. Then you're in an awkward position and would have to explain where that comes from and admit you are having sex with others. It depends om your relationship I think. Are you sure your bf is 100% faithfull to you or do you suspect he is havng some fun on the side as well? Do you know what his opinion is about open relationships? If you don't know then you could bring up the subject of couples who do have an open relationship and ask him what his opinion is about that. He could be totally against it and wants to stay monogomous. He could think that once you open the relationship the relationship itself will detoriate. He could be willing to try (even if only starting with a 3some for instance) if he is secure about the relationship. He could be willing as long as you both tell each other. Or the opposite, a "don't ask, don't tell". Or he could be willing as long as sex with others is safe only. There are many possible reactions. If he is willing to try you could start (in one form or another) and don't tell him you have been doing this for a while already. What he doesn't know doesn't hurt. Or he could be dead against it. In that case you will have to make a choice what is more important to you. Your relationship or the ability the fuck around as much and with as many as you want and break up. It would not be fair to your bf to continue if he is against it. As I said it is bound to come out one day. If he thinks he is in a monogomous relationship and finds out he is not it will be a blow to him that probably will end the relationship. My opinion of course, mine ended that way. I am sure I am not complete in my answers but there will be others replying with their views.
  2. Last time I was in Rome I spent two afternoons in gay Sauna Mediterraneo (Via Pasquale Villari, near San Giovanni in Laterano) . Was surprised how busy it was that time of day. Had fun there although it was limited to sucking cock and getting some. I could hear guys fuck in other cabins though. Audience ranged from young(er) guys to mostly more mature types. From average to stunningly handsome. Atmosphere was very sexual. Most guys did not speak English but that was a turn on for me. I saw they have a reduced entrance fee after 19.00, which tells me it is not that busy in the evening and they are trying to attract more visitors then. Correct? I am thinking of going back to Rome and when there go to Mediterraneo again. Those Italian guys are hot although I suspect most of them were married. What is the best time to go? Afternoons or evenings? Certain days of the week? I am more into bearish hairy guys but would not turn away a younger Italian stud :-) Is BB the norm or condoms? I didn't see guys walking around with condoms. Any more information would be appreciated. Also information about bars or clubs as that info is not easy to find about Rome or the info is outdated. It doesn't seem to have a vibrant gay scene like some other cities in italy (Milan, Bolgna etc.) and certainly not for somewhat older guys (or in general for that matter). Thanks.
  3. Love his cock! Looks too, fucking hot guy. But I agree I would also love to see him shooting bigger loads.
  4. It varies from city to city and country to country I guess. Also sometimes which day of the week. Can be a hit or miss. The same club may be horny fun all around one evening and the next it's filled with guys with an attitude who won't even look at you and think they are God's gift to the world. I know clubs which are known for the latter so I avoid those mostly. Pity is those are usually the best so you keep giving it a try now and then only to realise it was another wasted evening and you should have known better. Just give it a try, visit on different nights and see what the atmosphere is. And sure, at first go with a friend if that is a possibility.
  5. At least he is very open about it. And he's getting his share of that from two commenters... Good fuck vids
  6. Years ago I bumped onto a site called milking.com. Site was only one or two pages ("More coming soon!)" and advertised a facility where guys (gay or straight) could go to get milked by machines. Upon arrival you would have to undress and were blindfolded. You would then be led to a barn with benches with holes in them. Guys would lay face down on a bench and a milking device (similar to cow milking or nowadays the Venus2000?) would be attached to their cock. The machine would then milk you over and over and over as long as you wanted or until you couldn't take it anymore. Even though it was totally anonymous and the guys wouldn't be able to see the other ones getting milked they would still hear each other moaning and cumming (was the idea), adding to the experience. Once done you would be led back, unmasked, get dressed and be on your way. The idea was fucking horny and I returned to that site many times to see if it was fully up and running. Of course at one time when I went back again the site didn't exist anymore. I just tried again and all you get in Google is pics from chicks milking guys.
  7. Thanks KptNLine, Aneros is one of the few I tried afterwards and it didn't do anything for me. Maybe, as you said, I should have practiced more. But the buzz of the vibration of the one which did the trick added to the pleasure and it worked the very first time. On the other hand, contracting the pelvic muscles is a good workout as well :-) Maybe I should try again. Scotsfan71, the Rude Boy or Bad Boy I mentioned do have a bullet (at least I read that somewhere, not on the company's site though), and are about 11cm (3.5-4") and 4cm in girth (1.5"?). Maybe an idea for CumPump as well. I am not sure if I am allowed to add a link to the company here, but you can easily google it. Buying from a distributor may be cheaper than from them directly I found, at least in NL.
  8. Some time ago a guy I hooked up with used a prostate stimulator (on batteries) on me. I don't remember the brand or model but he put it in me and turned it on full speed. It massaged my prostate and I started to leak precum. Sensational feeling. Here's a very short (and not too good) clip of it he filmed with his phone. http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=vbyjl-G749-#.VDtmrnkcTIU I have tried one or two others but never got the same feeling again. Either they didn't feel comfortable or the vibration wasn't good enough. I'd love to buy one (for those quiet evenings at home LOL!) but want to be sure it's a good one that does the trick. Does anyone own one or has experience with it and can recommend one? Brand and model please. I heard that the "Bad Boy" and/or "Rude Boy" (one is thicker than the other I believe) by a company called "Rocks Off" are good ones.or a brand called "Nexus" but would love to hear recommendations from those in the know. Lost the contact details of the guy who used it on me unfortunately.
  9. I am not really into cam so videochat is not really an option that would enhance the site for me (or bbbh once operational). As Seaguy says there are lots of alternatives. So I would not spend money on software unless there is a strong demand for it.
  10. Try gaydar.com or gayromeo.com. You can filter on safe sex (always, sometimes, never, blank etc) and other sexual preferences.
  11. Apologies if that has been posted before __________________________________ http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=QTAI5-G592-#.VDeWOHkcTIU That guy in a threeway part two They get a little kinkier in this one. One of the guys gets really oral with the the fucking action going on in front of hiom. His face is just where mine would be. all in that ass and on that dick while the fucking is going on.
  12. If you want more storyline then I would suggest you have a look at ericvideos.com. Although the storyline is limited to the first minutes of the video and then when the setting changes. Usually a hot set up of the story. I like them a lot.You see them here and there on porn sites. French site by Eric who started years ago by posting vids of himself years ago getting barebacked but which is now a much more professional looking site with models. Usually the more scruffy, thug type of guys. Keiran XXL, Peto Coast, Darko are models there. Lots of oudoor stuff or run down factory building type of vids. Usually in French (hot!) but subtitled where necessary. Eric also flimed in the US, those are in English. I haven't subscribed (yet) and I see they work with credits you have to buy for VOD. I don't know how many credits you need to watch one video though.
  13. It may be true there is an obsession with big dicks. Certainly by Bottoms. I think tops could care less what size their bottom is. Read the responses from tops on similar threads here. I too start to drool when I see guys with 9" or bigger. But reality is I don't often meet guys like that.Some here seem to get fucked every single day by a guy with a 9,10 or 11" cock, I haven't met that many. 7 or 8" will do nicely for me, even 6". And most guys I have met are in that range. Truth is the bigger guys more easily get to my prostate which makes me precum or cum handsfree and that is always a hot experience. But I have met guys with 8" or 7" who can do that too sometimes. It's more a visual thing I think. Guys with a massive dick make me weak in the knees just fantasizing what it would feel like getting fucked by that monsterdick. And the truth is that the few times I did I found I could not deep throat them, or they they needed some time getting in ballsdeep. But I do fantasize about what it would be like to have a 9" or more (even as bottom), stuffing it in yourpants every day and showing off a massive bulge (I have a thing for big bulges). All and all 7"or 8" do it for me. A 9" or more is an occasional treat.
  14. Just found out there's going to be a Bear Carnival in Playa del Ingles in 2015. Starting around when the "regular" Maspalomas Carnival ends (Feb 20-March 1). Dates are from Feb 28th up and including March 8th 2015. First time it is organized but the organizers are also included in arranging the GC Fetish Week and were involved in earlier bear events in GC. More info: http://www.bearcarnival.com/en
  15. Would love to see a vid of you on Xtube being fucked to oblivion by that machine with a massive dildo on it! With or without sadistic top...
  16. I too wonder if those ads are true. Imagine being stuck on a ship for 7 days with a 1000 guys, all with tanned gym built bodies and I could only oggle their perfect bodies and bulging crotches (which they will make sure they have). Torture!!! LOL I don't think those ads are true. Not a 100% at least, but they put me off booking one. I rather prefer a cruise with a much smaller crowd with more "joe Averages". Changes would be bigger to hit it off with others. Older men (without young companions) tend to go to the Czech Republic with their twink porn business and brothels, not the Baltics, I think. And I think the younger companions of older men on a cruise have a lot of fun between themselves when Daddy is away :-)
  17. I never booked an all gay male cruise because I thought they were full of party boys and muscle marys showing off their perfect bodies. I would not feel comfortable there. Plus I am not much of a circuit party guy. Can imagine there's lots of sex on those. I think Atlantis and RSVP organize a lot of those? I did go on a Seattle-Alaska cruise organized by Aquafest. It's a gay/lesbian group on a regular cruise on the Norwegian Pearl. The cruise was spectacular. Also Aquafest had organized it perfectly. Our own happy hour and performances in the theatre. The owner and his boyfriend were there as well. But the group (60 or so) consisted of a few lesbian couples and mostly older male couples. No sexual tension at all. But that was not the purpose of the trip anyway. It would have been fun though being banged on my balcony :-)
  18. A bit off-topic: What happened to Mike Dozer? Where is he now? I saw a message here that he is out of prison on bail? I saw his FB page hasn't been updated since 2013. Would he (be able to) go back to doing porn now that he is "tainted"? He is/was one of my fav pornstars. The total package, even if he is mostly Bottoms. Fucking gorgeous guy.
  19. Wow! With a cock like that the top should be in porn himself! Maybe he is? Big and thick and absolutely delicious. He has the looks too (His face is visible in his vid "blindfolded & bred", see below.. Funny seeing him plowing the alleged "pornstar" as he lists "pornstars" as one of his turn-offs in his profile...... http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=obyO9-G189-#.VCpisHkcTIU
  20. Jock or nothing. When I wear nothing I love the idea that the top can see my hardening cock (I usually get hard when fucked, not always though) to show him that his fucking my hole arouses me. When wearing a jock I love the feeling of my cock stretching the pouch. I don't get thongs. Not for fucking at least.
  21. Was chilling on the couch watching TV last night when around 11pm I got a text from my horny neighbor (HN) again. Up4fun? he asked. Does a bear shit in the woods? Went downstairs and saw another guy, buttnaked. Peter, one of his FBs from up north staying for the weekend. Not my type at all but he was sporting a rock hard erection. A veiny 7"or so. Bottom/vers (bottom only for HN of course) but apparently in vers mode.I saw cum on his inside leg. HN pointed to the bedroom. Porn playing on the TV, bottle of Scotch and a selection of poppers. Bed was a mess and the room smelled of sex and poppers. What I expected to be quick fuck by HN turned into a 3way orgy. Can't remember how many times I got fucked or how many loads I took or how much cock I sucked but it must have been plenty. Staggered back upstairs to bed around 04.00, drunk on scotch, still high on poppers and with a throbbing headache and sore ass. Passed out in my bed. But I do remember they promised more this weekend if I was up for it? Stupid question :-) Didn't have that much fun in a while, much better than a quick pump and dump. Had cleaned earlier as I was hoping for a Friday night fuck and wanted to be ready, but this was much more than expected.
  22. Hell......6 soft inches bulging in a jockstrap or skimpy swim suit will do it for me. Would be even more arousing when he gets hard in them! Next time...make pics! :-)
  23. What do you find "ancient guys"? Anyway, in a darkroom I don't really care. It's just about the cock, not who is attached to it. I do care when I agree to an online hookup for a 1-1
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