Ravenholm
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Giving Him What He Didn't Know He Wanted
Ravenholm replied to PartyandBreed's topic in Chem Sex FICTION
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I'm in town but I'm really more of a bottom than a top. Don't think you guys should have a lot of trouble looking for tops in this town.
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Line works. What's your Line ID? I'll add you.
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Hey you, just saw your message. I'm also a bottom but wouldn't mind hanging out or chatting. I'm rarely on here anymore unless I'm tweaking out of my mind and fucking myself reading chem sex fiction. You got Telegram or some other way we can talk?
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I just joined, looking forward to meeting everyone in there.
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Are the baths any place for a neg guy?
Ravenholm replied to smoothbottom's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Back when I first started, barebacking in sauna was not exactly common, condoms were a perquisite to action. But now that I've travelled some and been to some other saunas - depends on the scene. Like bars and clubs, some are about as sleazy, raunchy and dirty; some try and act posh, classy and somewhat sterile. I've been to both, I ended up helping the sauna staff clean the shower area because I was bored in the sleazy one and I'm a neat freak; I watched the entire Band of Brother series on the TV inside the sauna inside the classy one (it was inside a waterproof box) because it was quiet. You will play how you want and you will go to places that you like because the chances of you meeting people more likely to share your 'interests' or particular 'niches' are higher. -
For me, personally...in this hypothetical "if I was a poz top, or a neg btm...etc." scenario or any other combo, the question is always: "Are both parties making an informed decision based on what they know at that point?" If the answer to "Are you +/-?" is "I don't know, I was last tested a day,a week, a month, a year, before you were a twinkle in your father's eye", then answer that. If you're gonna go bare, don't be a coward and try and weasel in another fuck with a guy who'd otherwise be unwilling because of whatever reason. Not worth it, not worth the drama and very much not worth the legal trouble.
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Even when you're on PreP, it's still not a free pass. There will always be risks. Wearing a condom, going on PreP, your partner being on meds, living 'healthy' (eating right, sleeping enough, not going overboard with drugs&alcohol)...etc will all decrease your chances of getting HIV. But it doesn't remove it. My personal recommendation is to use a condom for the duration. If you insist on going bare during your 10 months, I'd recommend you and your partner to stay fit, stay healthy; don't go overboard with any recreational drugs (or alcohol, if any); don't get too roughed up (open sores and bleeding wounds are not your friends); and your partner pay close attention to his health. Any spike in say, the VR would be a sign of concern and maybe stop until that particular issue is addressed.
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In Hong Kong till the end of Feb or so (might be sooner, might be later - not 100% sure yet). Would love to meet the local talent. Met a few on my trip around town last year but had to cut the visit short. Looking to make up for lost time now that I'm back. Tops, bottoms. Asians, Expats, Aliens...come at me. I'm looking for more than a fuck, sometimes a chat and some story swapping is hella awesome too. And believe me, I've got some stories to tell.
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I use MH, BBRT, Grindr, Skout (mostly social chatting and browsing there), A4A, MJ, CL and Squirt. Each has their own little clientèle, which one I go on really depends on what mood I'm in. When I'm looking for action, it's mostly MH, Grindr, BBRT, CL and Squirt. The rest are a little bit more social...or maybe I just don't attract the folks on there.
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The road to being a chem slut is paved with good intentions
Ravenholm replied to Ravenholm's topic in Chem Sex FICTION
Odd, a sentence that I typed out magically disappeared. I'll PM rawtop to see if he can give me temporary post editing powers for posts made earlier... The point was that he needed money to organize a send off for his friend but being didn't have a job. Good catch. Thanks. -
The road to being a chem slut is paved with good intentions
Ravenholm replied to Ravenholm's topic in Chem Sex FICTION
In between stories, I am open to you lot asking me anything you might want to know about 'the main character'. I will answer any questions except those which are personal, because characters from stories don't usually get a Social Security Number nor do they have credit cards.
