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BTW- for BearBandit and others- the book Tiger referred to : Trust, the Hand Book : A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing by Bert Herrman It is sometimes on Amazon, you might also search gay book sources like Lambda Rising

OK- not sure how to put this without getting a violation on here . There is an organization out of San Francisco called HellHole (google and you can get the link- pretty straightforward with a common ending) On the landing page there are links- and one of them is for the pamphlet "The Sacred Art of Fisting" by Larry Shockly. AND you can read it online, via the link. How civil! As for the actual act of getting fisted- I have been getting fisted for years- my first fist was wayyy back in the age of the dinosaurs ( 1980 for those unsure) . It was an amazing experience- I can only make a comparison to the first time you rode your bike without training wheels or the first time you rode a roller coaster- the overcoming of that inner fear and the joy of accomplishment - I went non kink for 19 years shortly after my first fisting- but in the last 13 years, being single again- I have uncovered all those cravings, and with the help of men local and from other web sites, I have become a bit of a greedy fist bottom, and with each fisting my hole learns and grows, yet contrary to what you might have been told Man4Man - that ass muscle will only get better with use, not useless. If it is any help- I find my ass feels far better AFTER a good fisting and fucking than it does during the work week when I often do not get any ass work done

Curious if this has happened to others too. I was deep throating a guy Tuesday night out on the latin bar patio, and was going along fine. He picked up the pace and was basically skull fucking me as he got closer, when I suddenly had this intense pain and pressure from the back of my throat- he had somehow managed to work his cock up into my right sinus and had lodged his cock head in there. Today, 36 hours later, I cannot really relate what it felt like exactly- unpleasant a little, sort of like an electric charge going off. He remained lodged (buried is more like it) for maybe 10 seconds before he pulled back out and I was able to work him up and got him to unload before he went back into my sinus tract again. All day yesterday my throat was irritated/sore. Today it is much better-- but it was a first for me- just wondering if other guys have had this happen too- and if you have it occur more than once ( or try to get it to happen more often once you have had it done)

Hi- I did London a year ago last October- my 1st visit there. I hit Central Station ( damned hard to find- even the bus drivers by the tube station Kings Cross were confused where the street was). Thursd night, upstairs bar was a mixed sex locals kind of group. Went downstairs, and they wanted something like 5 pound to enter- I got a pass so I could look about- spank night- 7 guys-2 playing, 5 idle and sort of vacant in the head. Left, went to Vault 139- naked night. Paid the 7 pound fee, stripped and checked in the basket- and all the guys- 150 naked men- gave true meaning to Wankers- all in the dark halls jerking cock but not playing with anyone in the flesh. Nice seeing Brit meat on the hoof- but it was frustrating not getting any. Went back the next afternoon while sightseeing and in 30 minutes got fed a load and took 1 up my ass ( or arse, if you prefer) Hit Hoist for fist Friday- zzzz- 4 guys playing on a platform to amuse the bartender- the slings elsewhere empty and only a few men . I hit HardOn on Sat, and a lot of men in jocks, the orgy area was asshole to hip - by 3 am the floor was covered in rubbers- but no one seemed to fuck to any sort of completion-hell- I was so frustrated i began gathering the rubbers up hoping to score some cum from them - and I came up dry in the ones I was gathering. Even hit the Pleasuredome on my last afternoon in the city- it was a rainy day- and played a little, but never came away with anyones load-- Maybe I just didn't know the secret handshake or something- but....

Ft Lauderdale has been raining like all get out for the last week- and of course today is my "Saturday"- never easy to get bred on a Tuesday for the real world men- but one of the anon fuck guys hit me up asking if I was taking loads- I finished hosing and was in position on my fuck bench, blindfolded and ass up, with the usual lay out for him- a dildo, lube, poppers and a rubber. He came in thru the side door and pulled out the small hollow butt plug I had in, lubed up the large dildo I had put out ( his requested one- about 11 inches long). He dipped it in the grease, then pushed it in and out of my hole for a couple of minutes until I was beginning to get a pucker, then shoved in raw and fucked me for another 3 minutes until he dumped his load in my guts. Sweet thing- not only did he skip the rubber ( even when he wears them, he ends up dildoing the used condom up into my guts) but yesterday he was doing a cum dump on BBRT- and told me he got 5 loads in HIS hole- so I guess in a way I got fucked by 6 guys just now... and I have a hungry hole growling for more

Not sure about the 401K retirement plan, but the other benefits sound ideal-- and I bet the attendance policy allows for a lot of missed days ( as long as sex is directly involved) I want in !! LOL

bringit- weekends almost here- and that means its mid workweek for me ( and at least 3 days since I got cock !) PLEASE add another chapter- i so need to at least read kink if I am too involved with work to actually get some ! <g>

I am in agreement with ffoz- I probably have cum more inthe last week than I have in a couple of months!! Bringit- before you drop out of sight again, stockpile more chapters for us!! My cum cravings just keep getting more and more twisted

You might hit Cubby Hole for underwear night- it has a reputation for being frisky. And if it isn't, Slammer is just 3 1/2 blocks to the west

I would shy away from any triad- 3 legged stools are very unstable if one leg is shorter ( or in the case of a man feels shorted) The tribe concept- in a group home setting perhaps- sort of a motel or apartment building kind of layout with each having their own room and sitting area for solo time, but a large communal gathering place where clothing is rare and sex is common. I joined one of the groups on here - gay men looking for work- recently. I am employed full time, but would love to retire ( 57 now) and get into a setting where I might work 5 days out of the month for someone, in some setting where sex would be very common ( bookstore, resort, store) so I could continue decent insurance coverage, while having the maximum time free for giving up my mouth and ass for sex with as many men as I could; be it locally or traveling. The employer could be a mentor type- a friend and someone to do non sexual as well as sexual tings with--but not to the point of being envious or jealous with every strangers cock fucking me. And if he were to pimp my ass out now and then, or at least have me take care of someone he knew and set me up with , I could deal with it. Def not looking to just fade into oblivion and total sexual obsession - but while I am still sexually charged and motivated and able, I would love to be a total, fuck sex pig .

I went into slut mode on Wednesday after striking out all day Tues and most of the daytime Wed- put the details up in the blogs section rather than write a book here

Hey men - was going to put this in the Where did you give get your last load forum- but then thought this was a better location I have crap days off from work- bitched about it before- but Tuesday and Wednesday are not the hottest hook up days. I was online all day Tuesday on all the sites- A4A,BBRT,Asspig, etc. Nothing- a few hello messages- but mostly from men 200+ miles away, or fellow bottoms just bored. After a long day of nothing, I decided to head south to Miami and the latin bar with the fun patio. I wasted way too much time at home looking for the test lube I am using, never able to find it, and finally gave up and made a fast batch of J Lube up; then tossed a small jar of vaseline in my pocket just for good measure. By the time I got there, happy hour had ended by 5 minutes, dammit ! Bought a beer and after a little talking with the new bartender ( sweet, cute and shy) I hit the patio-- and then the patio hit me! Seems the owners dog had died a day or two earlier, and in a sentimental move he buried it out behind the bar patio. Unfortunately, not deep enough and with the Miami heat and humidity, the patio REEKED. I stayed for about 2 hours, but the smell and the energy were definitely not there. Wednesday picked up where Tuesday left off- I was all hosed out and if I had strung pork chops around my neck and laid down at the dog pound I don't think I would have gotten a sniff! I gave up and called a FF brother to see if he wanted to do lunch- we met and hung out for an hour shooting the breeze. He needed to run errands, and I was still horney as all hell, so got back online when I got home. After an hour, I finally had a guy who was ready to play. Gave him the directions, and he was on his way. As he was coming over, a FF regular hit me up- I explained the issue, and he was good with waiting a bit- so we set up plans for an hourfrom then. 1st guy arrived, and we used the fuck bench and the sling in rapid order before he loaded my ass nice and deep. He washed up and left thru the bedroom/driveway side door, and I got online with the FF bud and let him know I was open and ready, and if he worked my hole sloppy open I was taking it back to the bar in Miami for a redo. He walked over ( hmm, now I know he must be a neighbor ) and came in thru the same door- ( I need to put a revolving door in there) I sucked his uncut meat for a while, then we hit the sling and for 20 minutes he dildoed and fisted my hole, then he put a rubber on and fucked my ass until he came. As is our agreement, he rubbers at his preference, but I get the used rubber pushed back into my ass after he pulls out. So I pulled my legs back over my shoulders and pried my hole open for him , and he pushed the rubber in nice and deep- then washed up and headed home. I tossed on a jock and some cammo shorts, a white sleeveless t shirt that has "FUCK MY ASS HARD AND DEEP" on it, some construction boots, and raced to Miami with the 2 men swimming around in my hole. The bartender was pleasantly surprised to see me again ( I am generally a once a week visitor) Got a beer ( happy hour too!) and he told me the patio was perfect - no smell and everything had been corrected! Then he focused on my shirt and a big grin came across his face. I headed for the patio, and damned if he wasn't right- the patio had no bad odors, and a good number of men there for this early. I was on a cock in less than a minute- older guy and he got close too quick, so he bent me over and fucked quick and left. A guy watching took my mouth as soon as the 1st guy left, and fed me a load. I love the end of happy hour- the guys are in a hurry and all the pretenses are gone. After the 2 in quick order, I went on back to the lighter area of the patio- a guy there read the shirt and began rubbing his crotch, so I moved over by him and he fed me his meat, shoving a hand into my shorts and feeling my hole. He was hard in my mouth, and fairly soon was hard in my hole and power fucking me - a few guys watched, and soon he announced he was close- so I made sure to advertise and I told him to plant his load as deep and hard as he could - which he did with some fanfare ! A black guy had moved in and I sucked him for a little bit- he was digging in my hole with 2 or 3 fingers- not sure if he was just fingering or scraping my guts /pinching the ass lips as I was totally focusing on his cock - at the angle i was in it was a close call not to hit the gag reflex, so ... After playing my ass open, he fucked me and gave me at least one load- he stayed in and I though at first he had cum, or then maybe he was going to piss in my ass, then he began fucking hard and fast again- I know the 2nd time he unloaded as he fed me his cock and cum was still oozing out from it. After a beer break, I came back out , and the feeding frenzy went into overdrive. Ilost track of cock and cum, but I know I ate a lot of cock, most were buffet samplers- suck but no semen- and was fingered and fucked untold times, before calling it a night- walking out of the bar with the ass of my shorts saturated with cum and lube

I was at the sleazy latin bar last night, went there with 2 loads and a fisting in me before hitting the bar- and in a full , raging slut mode. I got a beer when I walked in, then went to the patio and went to work getting cum. Kind of lost track of men and cum. At some point I was leaning against a wall out in the open area of the patio and a guy sitting on the bench seat spoke- at first I didn't realize he was talking to me, so I had to ask him to repeat- He said I was fierce cock sucker, the best he has had in a long time. ( at this point I was trying to recall who he was and when I had sucked him) I stammered something about thank you, I love cock, and excused myself-- still trying to recall if I had even sucked him earlier in the evening or at some prior evening

Tiger gave you a pretty good accounting of Slammer ( no S at the end, BTW) As for the door- a one time entry is something like 23 bucks and you cannot bring in your own liquor. A 3 month membership is 32 bucks, and includes your entry that night. With a 3 month, you CAN bring in beer, wine, or hard booze. The hard liq gets a label with your name and ID on it, and will remain behind the bar for your use only, for as long as you keep your membership active ( believe me- I had a brand new, FULL bottle of Bacardi rum there in Dec. My membership expired early Jan, and due to work and MAL, I didn't get back to renew until the beginning of Feb. The weekly expiration purge had taken my bottle and dumped it ( I assume) As a matter of economics- if you are piggy and buy a one time entry, like the place and go back a 2nd time- you will be out 46 bucks. If you buy a membership , and go back the MOST it will cost for 2 visits is $46 (various nights have reduced entry- they open at 8 most nights, but on Sat and Sun they open at 5p, and from 5 til 8 the entry is only $8. Thurs is leather night- wear leather and entry is $9, etc. So really - a 3 mo is CHEAPER if you go 2x and catch a discount night too! And you can bring in your own alcoholic beverages to enjoy- free from the bar (tip the bartender!!!) Oh- on that note- if you like beer- only bring what you will drink- they do NOT hold beer or wine over from night to night And anyone going- please douche 4 hours before going all nice and deep, and then do it again 3 hrs b4, and then do some light rinses. There is nothing sexy or appealing about a guy who just finished eating everything at the all u can eat buffet, not hosing, and then bending his nasty hole over inthe dark room and his crap gets punched right off the bat ( and onto some poor unsuspecting tops bat!)

I have several of the BarebackRT Sex T shirts- the white ones have the BBRT logo where a T shirt pocket would go, and is sort of innocent- I wear it out everywhere, and have had a few guys approach me because of it. I ordered a black shirt from them when they 1st introdued it- and the entire front of the shirt screams BarebackRT- I may be a pig and a slut and whatever else, but that one is not really street smart. I used it in my window at All Worlds Resort when I was out for the NastyKinkPig/Memorial Day weekend as a sign/advertisement-- but got no action off it. I think sometimes less is so much more-- there was a lot of BB sex there - I got 31 loads over the week, many at All World-- but I think guys like to sneak in raw, not always fly a banner plane about their sex life. Now, this thread reminds me its time to go back to the BBRT shop and order a few fresh white t's

Aww fuck me hard! June was definitely NOT busting nut all over ! I barely got a bump in any of my load counts !! So, for the 1st half of the year, I have ONLY been able to score the following : ( all received) Anal 84 Oral 56 Fist 35 Piss 16 / Hell, some of you guys get this many in a month ( OK- so you have all of NYC to score from- but still...) I def need to start getting more tops in my ass ! LOL

A guy out on the bar patio last week was just like this guy- I was getting my hole power slammed by a heavy black guy, this other guy kept getting within reach but would not let me get on his cock- I could grope him , but no skin contact. He finally left, and reappeared with a condom- as soon as the other man finished and flooded my hole, this guy slipped a rubber on and fucked me nicely. As soon as he came( and in that post orgasm mode of distraction) I swiped the rubber off him- freaked him out when there was no rubber on his cock when he went to take it off ! I was going to suck him clean of any cum, but he quickly covered his cock and split-- I am certain he was a germa phobe- but not so much so that he wouldn't fuck my ass <g>

Ah, the old Black Tulip-- what a great place- too bad it has gone now, just like Drakes and Stable Master

A question/- I did Palm Springs for Memorial Day weekend-had a fuck fest in spite of allergies. Just before going out had my quarterly labs pulled- but the tech failed to do a RPR test for syph. I am 110% honest with my doc regarding my activity level, so when I wen tin for the lab results and there was no RPR in the tests, he had me redrawn for it, and it came back 1:4. It has always bounced around, 1:1, 1:2, 1:4 and often no meds are done and it is 1:1 the next blood draw. This time ( prob since I took 31 loads) he put me on doxy for 3 weeks, 1 pill 2x a day. I just wonder if other guys have result numbers that fluctuate without any medical involvement like mine do- and at what point your doc intervenes ( I don't mind the pills- actually feel freer on them- I can take any cock and feel like a shield of sorts is in place to block any exposure that might happen)

You seem to have a pattern-- what happened on Friday <g> ??

Or it may have been taken down, since the story named a real person with lots of lawyers hunting anything and everything associated with the mans name- and could have easily become a talking point in the media, drawing way too much attention to BreedingZone ( all of it negative) Toss in any legal ramifications it might have heaped on RawTop, and I can easily see why, and support, taking it down. Why couldn't the name have been Joe Smith? Then it would have been below the radar of search bots and probably gone unnoticed on here

200% piggier in the last year, prob 600% piggier in the last 5 years. Hell, in the last 2 years I have added a fuck bench and a sling as permanent room additions, getting fisted at least once a week, usually more like 2 or more times a week. I did Palm Springs for my birthday week and got 31 loads. I only hope this is just the warm up for an even more active sex life to come !!

Only been to Barcelona ( so far). I did Berlin Dark on my 1st night in town- small, and not really all that active- the guys seemed shy and mostly into oral action, although a bud I had set up a pre planned session with did fuck me nicely(and raw) 2 different times. The next night I found Open Mind, and every night after that I only went there. What a great energy and level of raw hedonism.2 levels, 4 or 5 slings, piss trough, bathtub, bar, glory hole cabins, exam tables- just a lot of fun, and no signs of vanilla anywhere. Never made it to any of the saunas, even though I was a couple of blocks away from one--and the bookstore that everyone seems to get directed to(BoyBerry, I think) was OK- but the guys in the booth area struck me as rental and not just sexual pigs looking for sex. There was even internet access computers in the back- I guess so the hustlers could keep up on tricks; or maybe to invite prospects to the store for service. If you don't want to spend the bigger bucks to stay gay at Axel, I stayed at Barcelona City Hotel- 3rd floor of an office building- rooms were small and ugly, but it was very close to Familia Sagrada, 1 block off Placa d Gracia and on Arrago . The train from the airport had a stop right across from the hotel entry. Only caution- the front desk is 3 steps outside your door, and you turn your room key in each time you head out- so you have to have the desk person hand you the key on your return each time--

Don't look for another chapter anytime soon-- CubLad is showing BANNED under his profile now-- I wonder what he wrote or what word he used that caused the system to boot him?

hmm, extra virgin coconut oil...now, if I put that in my ass as lube, I can honestly tell guys I have a virgin hole, and still defend against STDs at the same time <g>