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Take him to the party-- better to see how he will relate to you being a pig, and to see just how much of a pig he will be-- now, before you get all intertwined with him ( no, not suggesting china pattern close, but regular FB level) If he stands against the wall all night with a deer in the headlights look, he would have become stale in your 1 on 1 setting sooner than later- you can cull him out quickly. And if he OUTDOES you, then you can see how you relate to this much energy and if it is threatening ( or exhausting) You would test drive a car- why not test drive the pig in him? And if you both are steaming sweaty messes after the party- head back to your place and crash out and cuddle, then compare notes in the morning- and head back in to the bedroom to recreate the highlights and new skills you may have learned the night before

I use a lube called Grease by Swiss Navy that causes my lips to go numb for a very brief minute or so ( usually this happens after the guy has been fucking me using the grease, then switches over to my mouth) The effect though is that my gag reflex goes to rest for a bit, and I can really push down deep on his shaft, then as it gets past the back of my throat I begin small up and down movement and swallowing, and it really slips the cock balls deep into my windpipe. If you have hot wired nips, you might find really tweaking them hard while getting throat fucked will confuse your head enough to forget about the gag action and try to focus on whats happening to your tits- by the time the brain shifts back to your throat, that cock has been planted in and you are beyond the gag reflex point and are licking his pubes with his cock in the back of your head

Wow- Back to the Future, part 9... I was a pig before gay men called themselves that- I knew I was gay from early on, and by 15 was getting fucked by the postmaster of my very small town and a few other guys -but not by anyone from my school or class- this was early 70's. As soon as I graduated high school, I went to NYC for college, and discovered the wide open sex available in the city back then. By 1980 I had probably gotten loads from at the very least 2500 men- out of college I moved to Missouri, and was sort of shielded from the slaughter of the early AIDS epidemic. Settled into a 19 year fairly vanilla relationship in Memphis, where I was diagnosed poz in 1987, he never was. Sex dried up before my diagnosis as we both threw ourselves into careers, and my wilder side was still there and hungry- so I often would cruise the park and get action up in the wooded areas, or later as the park became less accessible I discovered a roadside rest stop- no facilities at all- just a pulloff on either side of the highway where truckers would often pull in and rest-- used to hit it at least once or twice a week for hours --if one side was slow or had a bad troll issue, the other side was just a u turn away. By the time we split in 2000, I had been used by at least another 1500 guys-- beside the parks and rest stops, the gym was active, and I could always head out of town to Ft Lauderdale or Palm Springs for a week of vacation- his work usually kept him from joining- and I would spend the first 3 or 4 days out of town wild and releasing all the pent up sex urges I had been storing. I never saw a rubber in all those encounters, except for the very rare times my partner would fuck me--I had even purchased an assortment pack of 144 condoms for us in the early 90's-- I think when I moved, there were still 140 in the box LOL

Hey Raw- the font/ typeface of RaunchyFuckers on the 3 samples stands out. The style being used for blackbreeders sort of gets lost- maybe it has something to do with the location as well-- the RF watermark is higher in the sample pic- more of a clear background for it, whereas the BlackBreeders is along the bottom and almost melts into the furniture/fabric of the carpet etc. And maybe the Blackbreder gets lost because of television- every news station has that damned crawl along the bottom of the screen(if not 3 levels up)- so maybe people have begun to ignore-tune out words along the bottom of an image. Back to the question as asked-- the RaunchyFucker would get my eye on each of the 3 pics you put up as samples

Your first name (or a name you'll respond to): Pumper Your cell number (for texts and voice calls):954 873 1492-- text me for initial contact- in case I cannot get to the phone A location (be at least as specific as a zip code):33309 Oakland Park FL USA {Ft Lauderdale area} Times you're generally not available: NOT avail Fri through Tuesday, 3pm till 9 am - or, to make it easier- open for use 9a- 3p daily, all day WED and Thurs Age: 57 Height: 80 inches ( c'mon- a little simple division) or 205 cm for the EU men Weight: 214 Ethnicity: swine- the other white meat UNdetectable, all bottom , no recip from you expected or wanted, and eager to hear you shout "I'm cumming ""

Hey - looking for some insight along the fist fuck lines-- I get fisted fairly regularly- maybe 1 x a week or so-- but I have an issue I don't really know a work around for- so hope someone else does. I had a FF top take my hole last week- XL hands- and he got right in and went to work on my hole- he is def working up to getting 2 hands in. 90 mins of play, then we did the beach for a few hours ( nude beach- he had me lay on my front so my greasy and gaped ass would be out there for any gawkers walking by to see) We went back to his place and went back to the play room for another hour-- I ended up getting another load from him, as well as a heavy fisting- but I was pretty uncomfortable all the rest of the night and much of the next day- not from the stretch- but from all the air that ended up getting pushed deep up inside- I think I was farting fist air for 24 hours. So, do any of you have any tricks or techniques that help keep the air out or at least evicts it as it enters ?

I live in Ft Laud, and yeah, from the NorthEast, it is the smartest place to head to. You just have to remember- if you want beach, the bars will be a 4 or 5 mile trip away. If you want to be near the bars and restaurants in the gay area, the beach will be a ways away. The public transit here is less than stellar- you should expect to burn an hour to get from point A to point B by bus. So really, there will need to be a rental car or a budget for cabs. Cool fronts can happen late December , but nothing compared to New York or Boston ! And if the weather goes to crap up in the north, where else is better to be stranded than sunny south Florida!

Hey Cumslut- wasn't meaning to be preachy yesterday- just meant that a video was a minor outcome from the anon scene- and trust me, I do anon a lot- sometimes here at the house - and then mostly with the same circle of anon top men ( most are on the usual sites and I can sort of tell they are regulars and have a history with others on there) and sometimes I do anon in a bar patio- but generally with others somewhere nearby. Fuck- any slew of STD's are more likely than violence- anon comes with a big risk each time -- and yeah, thats some of the thrill/ degradation aspect-- so a little movie of 2 boys grunting is pretty tame and inonculous by all standards..

Geeze- you are missing the bigger picture here--- OK- you are in a strange city, and you post an open invitation to use your ass on a wide open forum. The guy- you have no idea of his history- hits you up and wham he is on his way.You have an open door in a public access building and you wrap your head in a shirt with the lights low. He walks in and fucks you and splits.--- how lucky Rewind and play it again : your ass is hanging up and he walks in. After a little diversionary play, you are suddenly slammed hard in the back of your covered head by a bat this creep has carried in with him, knowing you would not know he had it since you promised to be blindfolded. His 2 friends come in, tie your ass up, and after they make you give up your valuables you have secured so "safely " in the room safe, they head off to the ATM to drain out as much cash as they can.One stays behind to make sure they have the right pin number, and to fuck you up a little, since they really are not into you anyway. The buds get back and they have $400 of your money, but the ATm would not give any more. Pissed, the crack you a few more times with the bat, then run out the door and away into the night. You are found by housekeeping the next day hanging on by a thread..... I would say an anon video on XTube is far and away a much better outcome-- anon seems so hot in writing and reading- but without some sort of safeguards- esp in a strange city- man, you got off scott free in this one

BD- I was out in PS for the Nasty Kink pig party over Memorial Day weekend- got out to the city the Tuesday before the weekend- and rather than pay $150 bucks or more to stay at a gay resort mid week with only a few rooms rented, I stayed at the Motel6 for $48 a night. Rooms were fine for sleeping, and if you want to have locals drop by ( off BBRT or a CL ad for example) the Motel 6 offers very easy access for the guy to drive in, up to the room door, walk in fuck and go--without you having to escort him or sign him in; which you would have to do at any of the resorts. ( and if he has a BF or husband and is a local- that might slow him from wanting to come to you- esp if the guy working the front desk knows him and the hubby!) During the weekend, def do a gay place- they will be crowded and cruisey. NKP used All World Resort, and I spent Friday thru Tues morning there and it was great ! They have 4 properties interconnected, and a pretty busy day pass . I went to CCBC on a day pass on Wed- they do half price passes on Wed with a BBQ from 11a-1p. I had a pigfest that afternoon. If you will be there Tues, Helios has a senior afternoon for $10- it has a draw of 40 or 50 guys- most are retirees- but I had a piggy time in the sling room there . If you want any other info, PM me or ask on here-- if I don't answer it just means I missed the ??- shoot me a tickle in PM and I will get back on here with more info if I have it. BTW- non-sexual--if you love to hike- the Nature Conservancy bought the old trout fishery at the top of Whitewater Canyon just north and west of Palm Springs-- while the Whitewater Canyon used to be very cruisey along the stream- it is all fire zone closed and the BLM people patrol the road- ther eis no parking anywhere going up.BUT-- at the very top- you can park in the Nature Conserv lot, and hike as high up into the mountains as you want-- or hike a short hike to the stream and wander along it--very very quiet and serene , you can actually HEAR the air lifting and moving on the currents and thermals

and in the diet book- not just the food side-- I hate a guys piss when he drinks diet soda with all that fake /chem sweetener in it-- it passes right into his piss. As a non smoker- not sure if it in the piss itself or if the guys cock is just coated with the tars and nicotines- but a smokers cock can be a real gag off for me- give me a cheesey cock anyday over the ashtray smell

maybe you could share this with ArGearCub on WarpMyMind and he could put it up as a MP3 file on the site- I have a couple of his hypno tracks on my computer and listen to them-- he prob would be willing, I am guessing

Sweet - was this at Club Z? I have a week off in September, have not been to Seattle in almost 20 years, and was thinking about seeing the great NW again. Or is there an even rawer club now in the area? ( gawd knows, sometimes things in the gay sex/bar business changes in 20 years time)

I do not use it or poppers, but here in Ft Lauderdale there seems to be a major supply disruption. A bud who uses both reported to me that when he was at the tubs yesterday they were selling the small bottles of poppers at the counter---for THIRTY dollars!! No Max Impact avail anywhere in town, just some other can , and it was about $10 more than the old Max Impact used to sell for. I am fortunate- even the discount store for poppers here has upped their prices- used to be 7 bucks for the small bottle, now 10, and the larger bottles went from 15 to 20 according to him- I hit the discount store just b4 the shortage and bought 2 small bottles of Hell Fire for the guys who come by to use my hole, and got it at the old prices Somewhere I read or heard something about the feds raiding a major manufacturer of the poppers, not really sure thats the cause- or if it is just urban myth getting spread

As a fist bottom, I can take a fist for anywhere from 20 minutes to 2 hours. All really depends on the setting, the man , and the body. One thing my Alpha trainer did that really helped me out was banning poppers from the action. No other drugs or alcohol either. When I take a fist, most of the time it is cold stone sober and focused. When I did poppers, I would cramp after 20 minutes and play was done. Since dropping the poppers, I have had men use my hole for 90 minutes at a stretch, most of that time punch fisting my hole. I think the desire of the bottom to GET fisted hard and long is the first step in longer play. I was fisted out on the patio of a latin bar last week- the 1st guy who fisted me had been in my hole before and knew his way around. He passed my hole off to another guy, who got in and played, but a tad awkwardly - more due to the angle of his hand entering as he stood off to the side of me while I was between the legs of the original fister sucking him off. Since the 1st guy was using me, I was totally open and accepting of the other guys fist and later found out it was that mans first time ever fisting- if I had known that prior to play I might have been tenser and the action could have been less- but since my headspace was to be in service to the 1st man, my level of adaptation/relaxation was higher and , in fact I took the newbie in my hole again later inthe evening One big thing- make sure you have GOOD lube- I have been using the fuck out of Grease by Swiss Navy recently after testing it for them. I also rely on J Lube. But if you try to go cheap and use KY or something like baby oil that has fragrance blended in, you may be irritating the bottoms hole and after 10 minutes a raw or tender spot from friction or the add ins to the lube like preservative or scent will bring play to a fast end. Do you use dildo's before fisting? I have a few a regular uses on me- but if I have not really rinsed the Dawn detergent off them from the clean up after last play, I find my ass shuts the door as fast as they go in. And then I have 1 I used to use, but something has been absorbed into it or a chemical change has occurred to it- it no longer is in the play chest- just pushing it in caused my hole to spasm and cramp and stop any play- after the 3rd time it happened I made the connection that it was THAT dildo, and it has been retired Hope this gives you some answers- if not hit me back and I will try to stumble thru and answer for you. A good connection makes both men very happy

I posted in the CumDump Network listing- in my orig post ( page 10) I listed as being avail all day on Tues and Weds- but now, beginning Aug 19, my days off will shift to Wed and Thursday-- I know posts can be edited for a few hours, but is there some method to adjust or correct CumDump posts- I would think others who have posted there have a similar need to revise availability-- any thought or suggestions?

LOL- you are in Berlin, a gay mecca- and want to go somewhere on vacation. And I am in Ft Lauderdale, another gay destination, and on vacation the 16th Sept for a week and trying to decide where to go -- seems like everyone is restless in their own bit of paradise. So where are you thinking about going-- and what part of September ( please tell me you don't have a full month off from work !!)

Hey TotalAssPig- you need to do a little charity work and let spunkdump tag along -- or at least let him know where you won't be so he has a chance at some of that NYC cock meat ! LOL

OK men- for those who have been logging your totals- time to put up !! So far , as of July 31st, I have had : Anal raw loads 99 Oral loads 66 Fist ( taken) 41 Piss (taken) 18 I had to miss my weekly cum pilgrimage to Miami last night- to hell with worrying about STD's- 3 out of the 5 people on my work team all came down with a cold or flu this past week , and of course, none stayed home sick, so while I was hoping I would avoid it, woke up yesterday achy and stuffed up- as the day wen ton and the allergy/cold medicine got into my system all I wanted to do was sleep and stay in bed. And what really sucks is a FF bud is in town this week , I even took an extra day off from work so I could get very used by him-- guess thats off !

Thank you for being a responsible fuck. I worry with every raw cock that I take that I will end up having to do the STD clinic routine - if the process was quicker and not such a sit and wait process maybe more guys would just casually drop in for regular testing and the cycle could be broken. At least my GP knows me well enough to run a RPR ( syph) test with each quarterly blood draw- but that still leaves 89 days of possible exposure , and in my case as a bottom, exposing others , to it.

Be sure to go to Open Mind- great sex venue on Calle d Arago in the gay Eixample-- I think they open 10 or 11p, great kink and great men

Hey Guys- anyone know how to go in and edit a Cumdump posting? I have been posted with Tues and Weds off, but as of 19 Aug (2013) my days off shift to Wednesday and Thursdays-- the orig post is on page 10, but does not show an edit post icon on the ad- perhaps it is only editable for a day or two after posting?

Uh oh !!! BringIt has gone into a void again-- I think he was typing too many installments a couple of weeks ago and strained something ( broken boner perhaps??) Someone stop by his place and give him some physical therapy so he can get back online and put up a few more chapters --PLEASSE!!! LOL ( No, seriously- someone spur him back to the keyboard-- my nuts are bluer than an old ladies hair !)

I picked up a trio of hollow butt plugs from , I think- Ft Troff a few months ago. 3 sizes in the assortment, and I began immediately with the smallest one. It went in easily, but then would slip out when walking. I pushed in the medium one ( the hollow core makes collapsing them a lot easier so they can go in a hole smaller than the plug is) What I finally discovered was I needed to use almost no lube - and then to use WATER based when I did use lube- after getting the medium one into a dry hole, I let the little bit of lube used absorb or evaporate- then the silicon plug becomes more one with the hole and I can go about the day with it in ( one caveat here tho- it pays to put a rolled up paper towel or wad of fabric into the hollow core so your hole doesn't drool/leak out from the center)

Lets face it- gay men move from site to site as a new option hits, hoping there will be fresher meat hanging on it. ManHunt was big 10 years ago, then slipped with alarming speed as BBRT and then Grindr and Scruff ( and others ) came along. So any new site needs to be a hit quickly to grab on, and then either needs to focus on staying fresh ( think what BN SKin dropped into) or it will become yesterdays hook site in a few months. As far as a name- I would suggest , especially for a sense of community or connection, that it be something that can identified by those in the know, and yet semi innocent for the mainstream folk. I have a couple of the BBRTS white t shirts with the polygon logo shape and the BBRTS.Com under it- and wear it out to Starbucks and the grocery store all the time - guys who know know what I am out for. However, the BBRT guys did a black T shirt, and instead of a subtle logo patch in the upper left like the white shirt, the black has a chest wide design with BAREBACK across the logo in bold -- while I am not shy, it is way too in your face for the average daily running errands wearing-. So, while the ads will make some money, add on items like a t shirt for $18 or ball caps , etc can also help defray costs for you- but need to be a tad bit polite- so , I guess a shirt with BBBuds would fly far better than BAREFUCKSEXFORME.COM would. Both would def get the message out- one a little less sledge hammer to the face tho