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  1. I think I have posted elsewhere, but I grew up in a very small town and the old postmaster was a hawk to all the teen boys, and he managed to lure me to show him my cock one day. Probably 15 , at most 16 at the time. He couldn't get hard (this was the early 70's) so sex ended up being him flopping his limpness as he poked my hole with a cigar tube. I quickly evolved to a guy my age who fucked me often, always on the sly- I'd go to his place to play basketball, and we would hit the shed and I'd be bred, then play ball a bit, then another load. My few attempts at topping were enough to convince me to stick to bottoming. By the time I left for college, I was pretty adept at taking cock, and going to college in NYC made the opportunity all that much easier. By chance or luck, I left NY after college and before AIDS, and was raw even as the west and east coast cities were beginning to identify a gay illness. About that time I also settled in with a man and we never used condoms. I tested poz in 87, he never was, so I may have been carrying it since NY days, or maybe a trick or 100 on the side during the 80's got me. Sex with the partner ended up virtually nil even tho I had purchased a mega bag of assorted condoms from some company that advertised in Drummer or some other gay monthly magazine. Since I couldn't get what I needed from him, I sought it out in the parks, truck stops, bookstores or any other place I could, and did it all raw. IF someone insists on a condom, I do not get bent out of shape or political- I am, after all, looking for the fuck. It may not be the ideal, but then I have had raw fucks as well that have not been all "that" . Of the roughly 10,000 cock I have experienced since 1970, likely less than 100 were ever in a condom, and more likely less than 50.
  2. A BIT more?? Damn, I hope he has a years worth of experiences to tell us about, and they are non stop from tonight in the park. And it is your story to tell, but I could go a year without women getting in the way of twisted hot nasty perverted sex. (and think how much safer from any potential infraction that would be !)
  3. Since the whole pandemic and then as we emerged and monkey pox popped up, it has been my observation that all the sites are pretty much snooze zones. I admit a lot of that falls back on me- I really was not eager to get either covid or monkey pox, and so I did not hit the sites with the same sexual craving as before. Other than Asspig, I have allowed any memberships in the other sites to expire and just revert to limited, since the same guys are on just about all the various sites anyway. I know when the pox hit in Ft Lauderdale , the hook up now ads on BBRT crashed. Before, at least 8 to 10 ads were always posted, and often more than 20. But then early June when pox cases were moving upward here, there were times when only 2, maybe 3 ads were up, and of course they were by the guys who seem to have a perpetual ad going. I don't know, but one thing I do see here that might be at least a part of the issue is the number of guys who list their position as top-vers or top, and then post a hook up ad looking to suck cock and get fucked. I do get it, sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't, but fer fucks sake, when the same top vers guy is always posting wanting to get banged, the truth police need to step in and auto correct his position to bottom, and not even bottom vers. Maybe the rest of the world isn't like Ft "Bottomdale" but I kind of suspect it is, just maybe not the concentration of M4M we have here.
  4. ErosWired earlier posted " I expect that demand would last only until those who found me to be ‘their type’ had fucked me a couple of times, and then I would join the ranks of all the other been-there-fucked-that bottoms who are no longer fresh meat. Because that is what always happens in my experience." I am also in the same gay mecca as HtnHole, and would come here as one of those "fresh meat tourists" in the late 80's and 90's, before making the move here in 2000. What I tended to experience as a tourist who visited for a week at a time, 3 times a year, was I would have plenty of play the first 3 or 4 days, but very rarely from the same person ever. I likened it to the " catch and release' " approach fishermen do. It seemed it was all about nabbing the latest guy off the airport jet bridge. As a full time resident, I found I could have some regular , repeat play and I chalk it up to the fact I could host. And I had poppers. But I also had a lot of guys who would chat me for months until they one day finally made their way here, they would fuck and nut and split, and while they would still sporadically message, the return factor was somewhere below zero. I rationalized it in my head that they were either just out to see how many hash marks for different holes they could amass before they died, or they had a partner and one fuck wasn't a threat to their relationship ( at least, in their mind) but repeat fucks would cross the line and almost be like an " affair" I am surprised there hasn't been any post about those lazy bottoms who wedge in. I used to hit a bar with a very , ahem, festive dark back patio, smoking area. I might make it there once or twice a month, and after grabbing a beer and relaxing a bit, head out back. The usual cruising chase of guys shifting around and around until they would be in the vibe. If good luck had them stop by me and start playing, all too often some pushy bastard would insert himself into the action trying to pull the guys cock out of my hole so he could suck it, or get fucked by the guy. If my awareness was on, I would sometimes manage to step on the guy trying to cut ins toes, and my size 14's def made an impression .
  5. Or it could be several other things. Maybe he is prone to infected hair follicles , especially if he gets sweaty, and his job has him sitting much of the day. He keeps it shaved to reduce the build up of sweat, bacteria, and to maybe catch pimples before they become a ( oh man, I am sorry for this but it is just too easy ) royal pain in the ass. Another possibility might be the wife. Perhaps she doesn't like hairy backs or hairy ass as she grabs hold while being plowed. ( Freud would probably link it back to a trauma in her childhood, or maybe a fucktard boyfriend somewhere in her history who was caked in dense hair and was not very fastidious at keeping crap out of it. No matter- I would never assume anything about anyone. For fucks sake, I am above 6 ft 6 " and for the bulk of my life the first thing a stranger blurts out is " wow, you're tall" immediately followed up by " I bet you played basketball" OK- fun fact. As long as I have been tall, I have KNOWN I was tall, so the first comment is kinda trite. And assuming I played basketball would be like looking at an overweight person and saying " Wow, I bet you work in a bakery and get to eat all the day old things" As a point of transparency, I DID play basketball in high school- small rural school district and my geometry teacher also was the varsity basketball coach. To say geometry was not my best subject would be an understatement, and at his solicitation I joined the team ( sat the bench 99% of the time,but thats another chapter) and "somehow" managed to get a C each quarter in his class. The 2 years I was on varsity, my career score total was 0 . 😃
  6. Well, I got around to cleaning all the porn DVD's last Sunday ( my hand was a little forced/rushed- my sister was evacuating out of Ft Myers post Hurricane Ian, and coming to my place to stay for a bit, so all the dildo's had to find a discreet , inaccessible resting place, the sling came down, and the stack of porn on the dresser had to be dealt with- so while dealing with it, it made sense to clean and return the loose discs to their plastic boxes. I ended up using Dawn dish detergent, a few drops in a pot I use for boiling pasta with warm water (just tap water, not heated on the stove!) At first I was handling 1 disc at a time, dipping it into the soapy water in the pot and gently rubbing the disc to lift any Crisco or other lube from the shiny side of the disc, then rinsing under a trickle of cooler water and onto a micro fiber towel to remove any water. As I got into a pattern, I ended up popping 4 or 5 at a time into the pot, then fishing each out and doing the cleaning ,rinsing and drying. The ONLY issue I had from any of the cleaning was a fisting video from Europe that did not have a printed into the disc graphic, but had some sort of a gel like film image- once it hit the water, the film began breaking up and slipping around - it almost was like old J Lube consistency at that point, so I just went and wiped all of it off the top of the disc, then rewashed the disc to remove any "snot" it may have transferred to the underside. So, all in all, from the 20 or so discs I cleaned ( and some were worse than others,but most had at least smudges and spots before washing) they all came out with nice, clean and shiny playing surfaces--hope this helps anyone else with dirty , "dirty" DVD's
  7. Practice makes perfect. For everyone-- so if you got dinged for something, suck it up and get better at posting, or posting in the correct section. And MODS are always honing and perfecting themselves, and have the same odds in life of having an off moment or day and maybe reacting in a manner that they wouldn't have an hour later or earlier. In the RawTop realm of ID , I have 11 of the merit badge things, so I have been on here more than a month or a year and have experienced all this site has been or is now. BootManLA referred to the legislation that happened 8 or 9 years ago that had a lot of sites scrambling to comply, especially if they relied on ( and wanted to be able to continue to benefit from) credit card companies for merch sales or memberships. At the time, old posts that had gone unflagged got flagged, and a lot of people who had posted perfectly OK, permitted posts at THAT time, were hit with an infraction. I was embarrassed when it showed up on my profile, and wrote to RawTop explaining my argument that penalties for years old posts was wrong, and if the post now was out of step, simply delete it and start fresh. He wrote back saying the points were of a type that would not affect my membership- but they bothered me, and that was what he didn't "get" at that moment. Those points eventually went away, but I think in so many cases of issues raised here, and in looking back at my own experience, the site owner and Mods have to react in real time and do not have the luxury of coming back to rethink a topic or issue. Site rules and guidelines give them the parameters of OK and not OK by and large at that second, and that's where the ruling falls. And they move on to the next problem to resolve or remove or respond to. And to that end, I again go back to the first 3 words of this post. And what YOU may consider perfect may not be, or at least not the version of perfect of this site.
  8. Hey man- best wishes for a fast storm recovery. We had torrential rains for a day, then tropical winds the next, but that was about it in S FL. Poor folk on the SW side are decimated, hope Ian used up all its energy b4 it gets to you.
  9. Isn't the old saying" saving the best for last?" As for the doctor being 2nd from last, I figure he has been in the breeding pool longer than the rest, and as a doctor likely has access to every ED pill ever thought of, every sex enhancing procedure out there, so he would be a long deep and perverted fucker.
  10. Ah, Ed Lugo is a bit more upscale from what I understand ( a local, so really no rational reason to rent a room in a gay guesthouse 1 mile from my own bed lol) If you check, I think Lugo might also permit women. If you just want a hotel room , the Link Hotel on Sunrise and US 1 ( Federal Hwy) is often used by guys who are hosting cum dump parties The Cabanas are another gay mens resort on the river, about 1 mile east of the heart of Wilton Manors. I can attest there is clothing optional around the pool, but since homes across the water could see in, I believe nudity is only in specific areas of the property. A big downer here is parking, if you want to line up Grindr tricks. There is almost no parking here, so this might not be your best shot. Calypso Inn is 2 blocks off the main gay bar and restaurant strip in Wilton Manors, and is made up of 2 or maybe 3 former homes that have been converted into guest rooms. It has a pool, and once hosted a Cum Union party in the early days of those events. There is another option. Right next to Inn Leather is a motel called Crown Inn. I guess some people rent it for more than a night time fuck, but by and large a large part of their business is overnight romances. In the past when Fist Fest had weekend long events at the Inn, the Crown worked out a deal and a bunch of guys rented there. Inn Leather does day passes, so you could stay next door at Crown Inn, and then walk nexxt door and do the day pass at Inn Leather and be as naked as you want in the property. If you want some sun, and nakedness, and a break from the sexual frenzy in Ft Lauderdale, this area has a wonderful nude beach 18 miles away near Surfside /Miami Beach called Haulover. Just be aware, this is a nude beach, not a bath house, so the vibe is relaxed, and out and out sex is not permitted, and could get you a set of stainless steel bracelets and a stay at the jail. But the eye candy and the openess of everyone is honestly refreshing, and there is a concession company on the beach renting umbrellas, chaise loungers, and cabanas. And there is a food trailer as well.
  11. Well, as GingerDaddy pointed out, the Pastor wouldn't be of any use for another bottom. I think if I was lining them up, I'd put the young jock first- he probably lacks duration and technique and cums in 3 minutes when he fucks, but at his age he is ready to rut again in 10 minutes. Then a good cum flood from Peter, then Will, the Dr, and finally Dominic, tho the young jock and Peter the eternal spring of cum could jump in during fucker changes lol
  12. Man , some of you guys have me in awe at how you didn't hurl lunch with the homeless guys. Back in the stone age when I was getting my EMT certification, I had to do 16 hours in an ER working with the doctors and nurses. My first 8 hour stint began with a homeless guy who was drunk and had passed out on the street. I helped transition him from the stretcher to the ER gurney, and just that "aroma" had my gut bubbling. About 5 minutes later he was hollering for the nurse, so one of them had me follow and we went to see what his problem was. Duh! He was a drunk, had been drinking cheap beer all day, and the rental was about up on some of it. She went over to a sink area and produced a stainless steel urinal, came back and handed it to me and told me to help him with it, and she stepped away. Now , the guy had 2 or 3 pairs of stinking pants on and each layer had to be released and peeled back. When his cock was finally exposed, besides being pretty shriveled and unimpressive, it was uncut. He couldn't see to put the urinal in the right position, so I ended up right above the damned thing using the lip of the urinal to sort of get , flip the head in line to piss down into the container. About then he skinned it back- and the stench was probably the worst odor you ould imagine. Not only was there smegma all curdled up under there, there was enough stale piss and other things of the street wafting up and filling the space. I managed to get the task done, but then had to take the urinal to the slop sink and pour it down, then put the mouth of the urinal over a sprayer that rinsed it out and made it "ready " for the next patient ( this was the early 70's, so the concept of single use was not prevalent ) About a year later, my car got the interior soaked when a thunderstorm blew thru, and of course the windows were all down. About a week of keeping the windows down and parking in the sun as much as possible, and the car seemed dry. But with a funky odor. As I pulled the floor mats out it got stronger, and as I lifted the floor covering, the wool batting/padding was a fermented , stinking mess. And the smell triggered my memory- that smell of rotting fermented wool padding was the same retching smell of that homeless guys cock. Oh, if only FeBreeze had been invented back then lol
  13. There is also a KY company called Exotic Erotics , web page is Exotic-Erotics.com They also have a farm, with horses, and make life casts of several of their animals. I have the stallion butt plug and it was a real , ahem, "pain in my ass" to take. However, it somehow has magically adapted and I can now force it in and then head out to mow the yard with it in, but the time I get done mowing I am def ready for play . I scrolled back thru all ( I think) of the posts, and while many of the things mentioned can be dangerous and we recognize that at the get go, a word of caution based on my own experience. Shoving food items up someones ass can be deadly, and not from damaging the lining. IF the person has any sort of a food allergy but it isn't profound, inserting that food item up the ass gets absorbed into the system differently that if it was being broken down in the digestive tract. I never had any real issue with banana's in my cereal or eating one now and then ( tho I was never drawn to them either) One day I came home from work, and the BF had several banana's in the bowl in the kitchen and he was out of town. I probably had just read the newest Drummer (1987) and was horny, so I shoved a peeled banana up my ass, and followed up with a dildo smashing and mashing it. Within 10 minutes I was experiencing the start of anaphylactic shock- face , tongue, throat swelling. I was able to recognize it as it began, raced to the bathroom and force shit the banana mush out, tossed on a pair of sweats and a shirt, and drove 3 blocks to the minor emergency center. I was 70/40 and unstable, in spite of getting 6 doses of epinephrine in one arm, and 6 shots of diphenhydramine in the other arm. I ended up in an ambulance and taken to the hospital, where I spent a day and a half. I was very lucky. I was close to help, and I realized what was happening right off. I was very lucky- under 5 minutes to help, and even at that they couldn't get me stable. If you were in a congested city or rural area where the nearest help was 15 or 20 minutes away, fucking with food could be deadly.
  14. Fuck man, no need to make any apologies - the story is great and has energized my lazy butt to at least hose my hole out in case I can be as lucky as this guy ! As for having to head in to work, be glad you had to-- could you imagine the effects if you were working from home on a Zoom call and accidentally posted one of these chapters up instead of the 3rd quarter financials ?? lol
  15. I wonder if he had issue more with the difference between a feminine mouth/kiss and a masculine mouth/kiss. Not that I have any experience with a woman's mouth, but I would think a female mouth would be softer, and the kiss would be less of an aggressor type of interaction and more following his lead. Whereas another man first off might have a beard and moustache to distract him in the act, and the other person might try to take the lead and make him a more passive part of the process. Hell, he may have even had a person ( of either sex) tell him he was rotten at kissing when he was younger, and it has just twisted his willingness to kiss and perhaps reinforce the negative assessment of his mouth skills. One other thought comes to mind- he may have had problems with bad breath from something like allergies, or bad teeth or gut issues, and rather than kiss and see the other person recoil from the smell, he just says he doesn't kiss. We are all made up of so many layers upon layers of history, I would bet there is a story behind his avoiding kissing.
  16. Are you SURE it was autocorrect, and not just fat fingers... hmmm, you know what they say about fat fingers-- and if you don't , come closer and let me show you what they are really meant for ( just give me a sec while I find Lukes jock and put it on) lol
  17. I had the same idea as you a few years ago. I flew up to Chicago getting in around 11a on a Friday and went to Steamworks from the airport. Got a sling room and had a little action, thru the early afternoon, then it died big time, no after work surge. I ended up falling asleep in the room, and woke up to a bang on the door- the cleaner announcing my time was up.. I grabbed my towel and went straight to the check in, let them know I was grabbing a shower (it was 10 mins before the end of my time)and then would be leaving-that I had dozed off in the room. When I got back, dressed and my towel in hand to check out, some twink advised me I was overdue and I had to pay for being late. I tried to reason with him, but he had more attitude than good sense. I finally got my card and ID back, with him telling me I would have to pay the late fee before I would be let back in. At any Steamworks. In any country! I walked up to JackHammer annoyed and now with plans disrupted- my intention was to do the bars, then head to Mans Country (it was still open ) for the overnight, then either renew or head over to Steamworks and fill the weekend moving between the 2 tubs and the bars. As luck had it, there used to be a guesthouse above the bar back then, and in talking to the bartender about how Steamworks had been, he hooked me up and I scored a room upstairs for the rest of the weekend. Sad to say tho- that guest house is no longer there- but it really made the weekend better than I had planned. 1, a long weekend trying to get any real sleep in a bath house wasn't very realistic both noise, and size of the bed wise. 2- the guesthouse made it possible to leave the room, head down the stairwell,and at the street it was a 5 ft transition from there to the door to the bar- so being barely covered was not a big issue. So, my suggestion would be to find a real place to sleep and have your things, and travel out to whichever tub at that point in the weekend you feel like hitting. At least this way you have a crash pad at the ready in case you need sound sleep, or, in case the tubs are just horrible and no fun at that point in time. It will be some extra money you need to budget, but I really think in the long run you will be better off . ( and, not to be too graphic, but you would likely need to hose out a few times over a weekend, and I have never seen a bath house in recent decades that have the set up to do that comfortably)
  18. I compare the like and the upvote to chocolate. The like icon is like a Milky Way bar- nice, good and agreeably satisfying. But the upvote is like a piece of gourmet chocolate- richer, more substance, the reward is X times more than a vending machine piece of candy. I tend to use the upvote for topics that I am following/contributing to and the like for a topic I have read, agree with a post, but may not return to that thread again for days; if ever.
  19. A vaccine is a layer of protection. A tool in the toolbox if you will. Another way of thinking about it- the police and military issue bullet proof vests to their members. And some still die from getting shot where the bullet breaches a weak spot or an area not as well protected. But the fact is, a lot of bullet proof vests have taken a bullet or bullets, and the wearer has had a hell of a bruise, or even the skin broken. But within a few days they were 100% again, and not 6 ft under. Same thing a vaccine provides.
  20. You are doing great, are you sure this is only your 2nd attempt at writing? I just read all the chapters and you have already pulled a load out of me, so please just keep on doing what you are doing-- it is twisted and dark, and I am eager to see where this all leads to..
  21. Thanks! I am making note of all the suggested ways, and may do comparison tests and see which kicks butt ,grease, the best!
  22. About to embark on doing a little play room maintenance and a lot of the porn DVD's have, over time and play sessions, picked up either some Crisco or other lube in the process of changing one out and inserting a new DVD during play. Just curious if the standard YT suggestions are sufficient, or if any of you have found a method that works better, and gentler, on the types of substances our porn DVD get exposed to. TY all in advance for your input!
  23. Enjoy yourself- hell, you might even live out in real time the next 5 chapters of the kids story ( I certain am hoping you get that lucky ! LOL)
  24. Life is imitating art-- I rushed back to this story today to see what the next page would reveal. Loving this story, and I have fastened the seat belt, I suspect there will be some unexpected twists coming. Thanks for putting up here for us !
  25. No apology needed. 1st of, I just read it and never noticed any. ( way too fixated on the meat of the writing, not the bones of it) And, if you were to ever see ANY text msg I have sent, and all the typo's in 140 characters or less, you would feel very confident about your own typing lol
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