AlwaysOpen

Hey Rick, not sure if you have seen any of the Ft Lauderdale related posts on various topics. Ramrod clamped down on all play in the bar several months ago,tho word is some action is being overlooked after the night gets closer to midnight. But, that is likely dependent on the day of the week, the mood of the staff, or insider tips the owners have been alerted to. The 3 sex venues you may recall, 321, The Club, and ClubHouse II are all still in business. A new place called Wilton Social has opened and seems to be some sort of a hybrid /cross between 321 and ClubHouse II. If you recall ( or ever saw) the Lowes on Oakland Park Blvd, it is near there. Our winter has not been typical, so you may need to pack a few warm clothes- while not sub zero like the rest of the country, we have been in the low 60's overnight and not out of the low 70's several times, and the clouds seem to have taken up permanent residence. Ahh, El Nino! SFGN, the local weekly gay paper when you were here last has now become OUTSFL, you might do the old Google search and read up on what is happening there for more , current info

A friend went there for a special theme night play event and thanks to some Fellow Friends he had an OK time. He did tell me there were some flyers up about a late late night party supposedly from 4 a.m. till 10 a.m. on the weekend when the place is open 24 hours. Maybe for the after bar crowd, or those who cannot get to sleep.... or something. Def curious what others have to say ( I suspect what gets posted on the Sniffies app for that location are being owner or employee generated, but again, who knows for sure )

Fuck, don't worry where this is coming from, just keep it cumming and coming on! Great writing and very good storyline! ( And I am perpetually jealous of everyone who can write these stories so well, and/or strike gold with service/repairmen. I just had to have a plumber fix a few things, and there was zero signs of interest from him, even tho one of the repairs was in the bathroom next to my sling!)

I would never have guessed this was the first time for you writing here- this is already off to a great start and nothing about it needs to be changed- I am already eagerly anticipating the next chapter(s)

Well guys, for what it's worth- I honestly do not care if the guy fists me with gloves on or not. I am just thankful someone is fisting me. Now, that said, a bare hand does not worry me in the least... UNLESS the guy is a tradesman or works in an industry where his hands are calloused, rough and have jagged little bits of cuts and scrapes with dried out skin bits. I do not want my hole being rubbed raw or getting tears and cuts that might stop the play or prevent play for a few days while the damaged hole heals. Another time I would almost prefer the top wear gloves is when he leaves a bracelet on the arm he is using to fist me. Again, for pretty much the same reason as mentioned, I don't want his jewelry involved; or him suddenly realizing he is able to get in deeper but has to stop and wash up so he can remove the item. If a glove was on that hand, I could help work the glove up and over it and the risk of the bracelet tearing my hole, or breaking and dropping into the hole un noticed is not going to be on my mind when I need to be focused on relaxing and opening for him. I have always been a bottom, so it wasn't until the last 10 years or so I have broken my "cherry" and been versatile at fisting. But I am not thrilled at the smell of shit, and definitely not aroused by someone else's giving my hand a mud pack, so when I do fist someone, I prefer to wear gloves "just in case" things are not really as well prepped as the other guy thought. I can quickly invert the dirty glove off and knot the cuff end to reduce the smell, and after he touches up, and is OK, get back into the scene.

Ho! Hoe! Hole!

Another reason a lot of the dark rooms are gone is we spoiled things. Too many guys would head to a bar with a dark or play area and slide around the bar like they were in need of the toilet, and then never even buy a fukkin cheap ass bottle of water- instead bolting straight to the dark area and setting up camp like they were the featured show for the night. Just a purchase or two by everyone might have made bar owners more tolerant of the daily mess they had to clean up from those areas, and the paltry take in the cash register at the end of the night. The pandemic killed many too, not just the dark area, but the entire bar. There used to be a spectacular one in Miami, small, a bit run down in slowly gentrifying area. Good music and reasonable beer or soda prices ( no hard liquor) . And an outdoor area out the back door of the main bar with no lights, no limitations. When all the bars were forced to close in the early days of Covid tho, this place didn't have the cash reserves to meet Miami rent prices and never reopened as things loosened up. But even this place, as much of a jewel as it was- suffered from guys who would show up 10 minutes before the cover charge began, would stay out in back all night chasing cock or hole, and never stop and buy another drink ( the door and the bar were in a line, so the bartender could nab each new person for at least A drink sale , but really- too many took advantage of the place. (Jamboree, I still wish you would be like the phoenix and rise from the ashes , and recreate-reopen a bar somewhere in the area)

Man, I hope you made it over to LABoratory a few times too. It is almost like a Gay Disney land with all sorts of exciting things happening lol

When I posted the previous msg I was on the laptop and could not pull up the picture of the clamps, with some luck it will be on this post

I have been using clamps for a long time on mine , in addition to SupplNips and tit cylinders /vacuum pumping. But a few years ago, I came across Tarp Shark tarp clamps, a pack of 4 were $10 back then, and neither Lowes or Home Depot carry them. I have since found them on Amazon, now a pack of 4, as of todays pricing, is $7.79 and they are now described as ProGrip907040 Shark Clip with Screw. These will grab and hold onto your tit, even during some messier/sloppier play. They have the adjustable jaws to clamp down on your tit or any other body part (foreskin, earlobe, ball sack) and at the opposite end the clamp has a built in hole designed to run a rope thru. I have adapted a couple of 10 oz fishing weights with S Hooks to hang from them, adding to the stretch and tugging with each move. As they settle in on where ever you have put them, a quarter turn of the thumb screw every 5 or 10 minutes will close them down tighter,but not to the point of unbearable pain. The best part is after using them and then removing, the nipple skin is not torn or broken, so going back to tit torture after a little break is doable.

A follow up to my post above. I lost track of the guy in 2019- no idea if he moved, got married, arrested or died. And in the course of the beginning of 2019, I got a new phone and while most of the phone numbers and contacts transferred, his did not- as I realized mid summer. And then, of course, 2020 and the whole lock down happened, one casualty of the lock down was the little gay bar with the playful patio never reopened, further blocking any hope of bumping into him there again. But damn, his embracing of watersports, and the shape and size of his cock, were absolutely the ideal piss delivery device I have encountered. ( And hey, on the outside chance you are reading this F , I'd love to share a 12 pack with you. And with any luck, one of your clients will have tipped you the same way he did the last time we connected. )

Damn, just stumbled across this old post- and it made me nostalgic for the better days in Toronto when the ToolBox was still functioning (and Muthers Guesthouse upstairs) and during the " warmer" weather one Saturday a month Ernie would host a wet party out on the patio with all the beer soda or water you wanted for 4 hours, followed by a really good buffet to end the play. Even when it wasn't the piss party, the back patio did have a bathtub ( or two??) in the back corners of the space, and on several visits I was grateful to be staying upstairs and not having to use a taxi or bus to get back to the Gay Village reeking of piss, not to mention being soaking wet lol

I can vouch for the CBD suppositories relaxing and helping open , prolong hole play time. I have seen a gay sex based company advertise them for about $15 each, however if you embrace dear Google, and type in 100 mg CBD suppository, you will get results. I get mine from Pacific Roots, at $6 per suppository. Quick shipping, never have had an issue in the several orders I have placed- and every so often there are sales, so you can score them for about $5 per suppository. Just be sure before using one you have really done a good job of douching out. Nothing worse than thinking the hole is clear and ready, testing it with a toy and some water based lube ( so you don't grease the anal lining before the CBD gets in there) and believe all is good, so you shove the CBD in and 3 minutes later you discover you were still holding water or crap up thee, and out flushes a partially melted CBD suppository !

I am going to be a bit of an opposite here I guess. To: Younger me- You have a wealth and value you may not even see today. Don't give away your body time and time again to people who do not care the least bit about you. If they won't give a name, a number, invite you to do non sexual things with them, or want to meet for lunch or to just catch a movie, don't give in to your sexual cravings and their sexual pressure. They are only there for the sex, they will never be a friend or available to help you, no matter how often they may have hit you up for , and expected you to be ready for, sex now. As you get older, you will discover , on reflection, how many of the sex hook ups were only because you had a place, had the poppers, and were essentially a free bathhouse for the married, partnered or closeted guys who would reach out to you. Once they cum, they will be out the door, and you will have the mess to clean up, the supplies used your expense to replenish- be it water or snacks or lube or something else. Older you can tell younger you- there will be a few good men in the mix, and smoking hot sex will be a part of your connection to them initially, but the real foundation and value of your life will be doing things with that man or men, to build solid memories, and deep friendships. Some may not last, but the few that do will stay in your head long after the carnal sweat of countless others has evaporated from your brain cells.

Time to send this story back up to the surface, for all the guys who have joined since whtHole4U first wrote this epic!

I suck at movies, I can sit thru one for 3 hours and not be able to tell you who was in it the next day at lunch. BUT- wasn't the movie Caligula ( right name I think) pretty heavy with sex, and at one point Caligula essentially raped the bride at some ceremony, and then fisted the groom while wearing some sort of jagged ring and ripped his hole apart?

As has been posted here, Ft Lauderdale FL has the unique benefit of 2 true bathhouses, The Club which tends to be a younger group, and is appointed more like a higher end day spa, and ClubHouse II with more of a crowd of men over 45; and sleazier/kinkier. And the there is the sex club 321 (Slammer) where it is really just a building for cruising and sex. And with a membership it is also a "bottle club" type of thing where you can bring a bottle in and they hold it for the 3 months of your membership, serving you drinks from your bottle. So, some guesthouses also open their doors during the day for day pass visitors ( I can think of at least 4 that offer this) You can hang by their pool, or , especially at one, hang in someones sling in their guestroom. The bathhouses and guesthouses here I think have survived in a large part to the number of bi or married straight(ish) men who want gay sex witthout the risk of being busted in some park or public space; or the risk of being robbed by hooking up at some strangers address ( that might not be their real address, just one they send to lure the guy over) A man here on business can pay a one time entry fee in cash and have 4 or 8 hours inside where there is less risk ,thus less chance of a spouse /partner ever finding out. I know I have driven past ClubHouse II many times during the 11a - 3p timeframe, and the parking spaces around the place are full. And sure, some are very likely bored retirees, but the one guy who worked their once told me the place stays busy during the weekdays with salemen and company techs in town to service a customers equipment , or tourists in town with their wife- she is having a spa day at the hotel, and he is getting his sex play in at the tubs. As for why so many elsewhere are closing, one issue I have not read in the previous posts. Age or death. A lot of the baths opened in the 1970's , by men who were in their 30's or 40's. Even with the best of genes, that would put many of those men in their 80's or even 90's. And while there are(were) some owned by straight people, most were owned by gay men, who as they got older and less able to keep up with the business found it difficult to sell ( all those years of cash sales at the door were often barely reported, so the financials when it was time to sell sucked. ) Worse, if the owner died and family had to settle the estate, it probably was the last thing they wanted to be involved in, so it just was closed and the real estate value grabbed (like how quickly after Chuck Renslow died MansCountry closed and the property sold to a developer)

PLEASE please please more more more ! LOL Hey, loving the story, but really need more of it. Wrenched my back just about the time the last chapter was posted, and have not been good to play ( with others at least) I have been relying on the great writers like you on the site to keep some of my sex juices flowing until this heals up . So again, pretty please??? lol

Like Andrea True Connections song from the 70's disco era--MORE, MORE,MORE! lol

Definitely hungry for Part 4, I hope the dreaded writers block, or worse, work , hasn't struck the author. LOL

Different people, versus random sex, would be a different number for me at least. I started out around 16 with a few guys ( small town so the offerings were limited) Once I hit 18 and at the time, bars were open for 18 year olds, the college town nearby had 2 gay bars/disco's open up mid 70's, and I was there as often as possible. Especially one, with a disco on the main level, but around the side and down the steps was a private membership club/bar that you had to be buzzed into. That was my first exposure to dark rooms, and I was in it every chance I could. So as far as the coarse number of different men, it is over 6,000 at this point. But actual loads either pumped down my throat or up my ass, or later a fisting, that number is well beyond 10,000. In the early period of my sex life, I had a Day Timer type of booklet that I would log the name pf the guy if he gave it, and what we did. (it was all in code, so it might list as Joe -sf (suck/fuck)MA (middle aged)CTL (cut,thick,long) Later on, I switched to a wall month by month calendar , and each night before I would go to bed I would mark down a hash mark for each action-S-, F- FF- WS-, Without any doubt I played with some guys fairly regularly at various times, but way more were park or baths or rest area one hit wonders. And of course, in the early 2000's, the internet came to life, and sites like ManHunt or BN Skins were great for finding guys looking for fast and now, especially if you could host. And I won out more often than not as I could host.

Actually, he wrote that he has BEEN to all 7 continents, not specifically to a bathhouse in every continent . But of the tubs he has been to, Mans Country was the best. I can say I did Mans Country back in 1980 while in Chicago for a restaurant show. And then I went back in 2006 or so while in town for IML. At the window, the clerk asked if I had a membership ( they were for life) and could not find my card at the counter. I just wanted in,and was ready and willing to buy a new membership- but he would not let me. He went up to the office and dug out 2 cards ,one mine, one another guy with the same last name, and was delighted when I confirmed one was mine. It was that type of customer care that made MC special.

I was doing something online yesterday and ended up Googling MansCountry ( for the young ones, it was a bathhouse of great fame in Chicago) Among the results that came up,there was a YouTube link I followed and I will put the link at the end of this post ( pre approved by a mod, btw) Anyway- I watched the whole thing, 3 older gay men smoking cigars and talking. Recalling how things were in the 60's and 70's, how many of the rights and gains gay folk have today came with a lot of blood, a lot of persistence, and making " good trouble". I found the talk a great reminder for those of us who lived thru those days, and a good lesson for the younger guys coming out in the last 20 years of just how hard the fight was to get where gay people are today. Look, I have no ties to the YT page, I don't even know the 3 kinksters, tho at least one of them does have name recognition. But in the current political and social climate where so much of what has been won is just as easily close to being taken away, I thought it was one YT video worthy of all of us watching and remembering (or realizing for the first time) how fragile the foundation we have been standing on is, and how some would love to destroy it, and in turn, all of us. The link [think before following links] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EyN7WeYU61M

Just a thought on the Link. They obviously HAVE to have a clue their place is a sex motel at its core, but possibly the idea of 70% of the rooms over Pig Week being anon bottoms ass up for walk in action might be too much for them to deal with, so they set the price at the "if you have to ask you cannot afford it" price. 1, or 2 guys with multiple visitors might not be a red flag for the police. But if there were 50 guys all door open, ass exposed with some non Pig Week people staying there ( it is right after Thanksgiving, so between long weekend get aways and people heading out on a cruise, it is possible) could lead to a lot of complaint calls, esp if the guys coming for some anon ass start playing balcony bingo and bouncing in and out of rooms and loitering around.

Tighthole64- write any damned thing you think up! Why would someone elses view have to be yours? As far as it being FTM, would there be the same "gasp" and pearl clutching if it had been a jock guy who was a eunich? As a fellow Floridian, we already have a skid mark on white briefs Governor who feels the need to control what we can see, read, and be. Write on and possibly trigger some curiousity in a reader or 10 who may not have ever seen a FTM or even a vag in their life, and thru the story and what it (they) can do might be the next fetish to explore.Or maybe the next chapter will have a different twist that will spark someones desire to explore something different, new.