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I suck at movies, I can sit thru one for 3 hours and not be able to tell you who was in it the next day at lunch. BUT- wasn't the movie Caligula ( right name I think) pretty heavy with sex, and at one point Caligula essentially raped the bride at some ceremony, and then fisted the groom while wearing some sort of jagged ring and ripped his hole apart?

As has been posted here, Ft Lauderdale FL has the unique benefit of 2 true bathhouses, The Club which tends to be a younger group, and is appointed more like a higher end day spa, and ClubHouse II with more of a crowd of men over 45; and sleazier/kinkier. And the there is the sex club 321 (Slammer) where it is really just a building for cruising and sex. And with a membership it is also a "bottle club" type of thing where you can bring a bottle in and they hold it for the 3 months of your membership, serving you drinks from your bottle. So, some guesthouses also open their doors during the day for day pass visitors ( I can think of at least 4 that offer this) You can hang by their pool, or , especially at one, hang in someones sling in their guestroom. The bathhouses and guesthouses here I think have survived in a large part to the number of bi or married straight(ish) men who want gay sex witthout the risk of being busted in some park or public space; or the risk of being robbed by hooking up at some strangers address ( that might not be their real address, just one they send to lure the guy over) A man here on business can pay a one time entry fee in cash and have 4 or 8 hours inside where there is less risk ,thus less chance of a spouse /partner ever finding out. I know I have driven past ClubHouse II many times during the 11a - 3p timeframe, and the parking spaces around the place are full. And sure, some are very likely bored retirees, but the one guy who worked their once told me the place stays busy during the weekdays with salemen and company techs in town to service a customers equipment , or tourists in town with their wife- she is having a spa day at the hotel, and he is getting his sex play in at the tubs. As for why so many elsewhere are closing, one issue I have not read in the previous posts. Age or death. A lot of the baths opened in the 1970's , by men who were in their 30's or 40's. Even with the best of genes, that would put many of those men in their 80's or even 90's. And while there are(were) some owned by straight people, most were owned by gay men, who as they got older and less able to keep up with the business found it difficult to sell ( all those years of cash sales at the door were often barely reported, so the financials when it was time to sell sucked. ) Worse, if the owner died and family had to settle the estate, it probably was the last thing they wanted to be involved in, so it just was closed and the real estate value grabbed (like how quickly after Chuck Renslow died MansCountry closed and the property sold to a developer)

PLEASE please please more more more ! LOL Hey, loving the story, but really need more of it. Wrenched my back just about the time the last chapter was posted, and have not been good to play ( with others at least) I have been relying on the great writers like you on the site to keep some of my sex juices flowing until this heals up . So again, pretty please??? lol

Like Andrea True Connections song from the 70's disco era--MORE, MORE,MORE! lol

Definitely hungry for Part 4, I hope the dreaded writers block, or worse, work , hasn't struck the author. LOL

Different people, versus random sex, would be a different number for me at least. I started out around 16 with a few guys ( small town so the offerings were limited) Once I hit 18 and at the time, bars were open for 18 year olds, the college town nearby had 2 gay bars/disco's open up mid 70's, and I was there as often as possible. Especially one, with a disco on the main level, but around the side and down the steps was a private membership club/bar that you had to be buzzed into. That was my first exposure to dark rooms, and I was in it every chance I could. So as far as the coarse number of different men, it is over 6,000 at this point. But actual loads either pumped down my throat or up my ass, or later a fisting, that number is well beyond 10,000. In the early period of my sex life, I had a Day Timer type of booklet that I would log the name pf the guy if he gave it, and what we did. (it was all in code, so it might list as Joe -sf (suck/fuck)MA (middle aged)CTL (cut,thick,long) Later on, I switched to a wall month by month calendar , and each night before I would go to bed I would mark down a hash mark for each action-S-, F- FF- WS-, Without any doubt I played with some guys fairly regularly at various times, but way more were park or baths or rest area one hit wonders. And of course, in the early 2000's, the internet came to life, and sites like ManHunt or BN Skins were great for finding guys looking for fast and now, especially if you could host. And I won out more often than not as I could host.

Actually, he wrote that he has BEEN to all 7 continents, not specifically to a bathhouse in every continent . But of the tubs he has been to, Mans Country was the best. I can say I did Mans Country back in 1980 while in Chicago for a restaurant show. And then I went back in 2006 or so while in town for IML. At the window, the clerk asked if I had a membership ( they were for life) and could not find my card at the counter. I just wanted in,and was ready and willing to buy a new membership- but he would not let me. He went up to the office and dug out 2 cards ,one mine, one another guy with the same last name, and was delighted when I confirmed one was mine. It was that type of customer care that made MC special.

I was doing something online yesterday and ended up Googling MansCountry ( for the young ones, it was a bathhouse of great fame in Chicago) Among the results that came up,there was a YouTube link I followed and I will put the link at the end of this post ( pre approved by a mod, btw) Anyway- I watched the whole thing, 3 older gay men smoking cigars and talking. Recalling how things were in the 60's and 70's, how many of the rights and gains gay folk have today came with a lot of blood, a lot of persistence, and making " good trouble". I found the talk a great reminder for those of us who lived thru those days, and a good lesson for the younger guys coming out in the last 20 years of just how hard the fight was to get where gay people are today. Look, I have no ties to the YT page, I don't even know the 3 kinksters, tho at least one of them does have name recognition. But in the current political and social climate where so much of what has been won is just as easily close to being taken away, I thought it was one YT video worthy of all of us watching and remembering (or realizing for the first time) how fragile the foundation we have been standing on is, and how some would love to destroy it, and in turn, all of us. The link [think before following links] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EyN7WeYU61M

Just a thought on the Link. They obviously HAVE to have a clue their place is a sex motel at its core, but possibly the idea of 70% of the rooms over Pig Week being anon bottoms ass up for walk in action might be too much for them to deal with, so they set the price at the "if you have to ask you cannot afford it" price. 1, or 2 guys with multiple visitors might not be a red flag for the police. But if there were 50 guys all door open, ass exposed with some non Pig Week people staying there ( it is right after Thanksgiving, so between long weekend get aways and people heading out on a cruise, it is possible) could lead to a lot of complaint calls, esp if the guys coming for some anon ass start playing balcony bingo and bouncing in and out of rooms and loitering around.

Tighthole64- write any damned thing you think up! Why would someone elses view have to be yours? As far as it being FTM, would there be the same "gasp" and pearl clutching if it had been a jock guy who was a eunich? As a fellow Floridian, we already have a skid mark on white briefs Governor who feels the need to control what we can see, read, and be. Write on and possibly trigger some curiousity in a reader or 10 who may not have ever seen a FTM or even a vag in their life, and thru the story and what it (they) can do might be the next fetish to explore.Or maybe the next chapter will have a different twist that will spark someones desire to explore something different, new.

Pissboy- how did the trip to Berlin pan out piss wise? I know LAB has the area down some steps that has a steel grating overhead, where guys can piss thru the grates and onto you below, but I did not see that much action happening there the time I visited the club- mostly was there getting fucked and fisted, so I am curious what you encountered. Or, if anyone else has had any experience{s} there, or elsewhere in Berlin, please add the info here!

Stepping back from the human factor at the border with my post here. The US sends planeloads of money south of the border to try and support and bolster struggling countries, in the hope of making them stable and allowing their citizens to live and work without fear or in hunger. The only problem is so many of the leaders of those countries divert much of the funds to either themselves, or to enrich other elites in the country. So the working class are not getting the benefits intended, and risk their lives; and their children's lives, trying to get to the US . As much as those of us on here may think our country is headed in the wrong direction or has so many problems, ask any of the people desperate to come here, to work here, and to see their kids grow up here- they see it as paradise. So why not call the President of Mexico, and let him know his country allowing all these people to pass thru their borders and head to the US border is causing the US problems and expenses. And starting in 1 week, for every person detained at the US border with them trying to cross, the US funds to Mexico will be slashed by $5,000 , $20,000 if they are Mexican citizens. And send the same message out to each of the countries where we provide financial grants and support, with a similar penalty of say $20,000 a head for their citizens stopped, and any that transited their country will cost them as well. If the leaders want to keep their lavish lifestyles,courtesy of the US loans and grants, it will be important to them to stem the flow. Make them put the coyotes out of business. Make them interdict and turn the lines of people around and sent back to their country. BUT- the US has got to also open up real discussion about immigration reforms.Set quotas for how many may emigrate from each country. Process and filter those who would be an asset to our nation from those who are questionable. But do it in THEIR country, closer to their home, where rejection does not leave them stranded in another country. And make it punitive for anyone to just show up at a border without prior immigration intake and approval. Punitive as in, arriving at the border without documents- refused, and a 5 year ban on reapplying. To inhibit the attempt to slip in , any undocumented caught inside US borders would be on a 10 year ban, and the country they came from would be docked $50,000 from US Aid money. I am sure stiffer penalties and fines for any repeated attempts could be fleshed out. But I doubt very many would try when faced with the repercussions back home. We do need labor, in chicken processing plants, farm fields, hotels, construction, etc. that a lot of immigrants, legally entering or not legally entering, work in once here. Often in conditions and with wages that we would almost consider almost slave like--but these folk are so desperate; and grateful for work and money, they do them. With honest reforms, these folk should be able to apply at a US Immigration office within their own country, not forced to a barbed wire fence 1200 miles away begging for entry. The money they give to coyotes to get them across the trek could better be used as their seed money to get a flight to the country, proper intake and a plan for where they will be, a work permit and tax ID, and a requirement of steady employment which the tax ID would be used to verify. And put an apple at the end of the process. No gaps in work, no criminal record in the initial 10 years would permit them to apply for US citizenship.

Hey man- I recently purchased a replacement dildo for my Dick Rambone that had gotten too firm over time from the lubes and use. It is called Armadildo, and here in the US it is available on Amazon, as well as in many sex shops. Tho really, Amazon is so easy, and who knows, you might be one of the very lucky ones who has a smokin hot delivery person who will offer to help you break the new toy in LOL. Anyway- this is the Amazon pathway to get to the dildo section - Health & Household › Sexual Wellness › Adult Toys & Games › Sex Toys › Dildos The beauty of the armadildo is the head of the cock is sloped, which makes coaxing your 2nd ring a lot easier. For me, the 2nd ring was always a tough spot when using the Rambone, with the armadildo I went right thru it within a week of playing,and getting all the way to the base ( and pushing the 3rd ring ) came within another week- no stress, no tearing, and no soreness the next morning. Another thing you might try to help , I have an electric massager with various switchable attachments. I recently realized one was pretty much a suction cup just like the end of a few of my toys- so I put the suction cup against the dildo suction, worked the dildo up as far as I could get comfortable, and then switched the vibrator on and used the bed and my foot to brace it so it couldn't vibrate out, only in. About 10 minutes in I turned the vibrator off to give everything a rest, then back on 5 mins later, and before I realized it, I had vibrated all 18 insertable inches up my hole. And I could feel the vibrating top of the toy near my left hip bone when I ran my fingers around the area.

Living in Fort Bottomdale, AKA Ft Lauderdale, yeah, the ratio of bottoms to tops is probably 50 to 1. Usually, you can tell the frustration level of a bottom by their preferred position they post on hook up apps. If they list Bottom, they are being honest, and are not there to swap positions. Bottom - vers guys have not had many replies when they listed bottom, so they thought by expanding their circle a little, they might luck out. Too often, the guys listing themselves as vers will also have an ad up for guys to come by and stick their dick thru his glory hole and get sucked off, or may be advertising that they will be taking loads all night; blind folded and ass up. As the declared sex role moves upwards to Vers-top, the guy has really become frustrated and is really looking to bottom, but the last 3 options have not worked out, so this is the last chance for a 5 minute romance. And here, at least, if they list themselves as top, and they are online more than 5 minutes, they too often will have something about how good they are at giving head and swallowing all loads. Seriously, I think gay men have culturally grown up in the realm of "faggots take it up the ass or suck cocks" as their very early on foundation, often learned from the guys in gym class or the school bus , posturing and trying to appear more sexually advanced. And with that, higher on the pecking order. So when a gay teen begin to hit puberty and their sex drive awakens, they have this notion of what their role is supposed to be. I wonder if this thread would be lamenting how there are too many tops, if the schoolyard /locker room talk went " gay guys all have huge gym muscles, and their cocks would split any pussy, so that's why they are gay. And they can fuck anything anytime they want, unlike straight guys"

Well, the only problem is, I had a brain fart after buying this dildo, and have been calling it anaconda. And as fate and the Universe would have it, I was base deep on it out on my side patio the other day doing some sunning and hole stretching, as well as pumping. I was getting too hot in the sun, and decided to rinse off with the hose, and take a break. I slid the dildo out of my hole and using the suction base, slopped it onto the window so I could hose it off, and me as well. I got distracted and began watering the garden as well when I heard a noise, turned to see the suction base still on the window but the 13 inch shaft had sheared off, smacked a brick border, and was on the patio. I attempted to Gorilla Glue the base back to the shaft, but it did not hold, and in the fall, the brick had roughed up the edge of the head of the dildo. I went back to the same store today, and discovered it is not called anaconda, but IS call armadillo, and I at least was correct about it being $45. When I got home I did a Google search for dildo armadillo, and damned if ole Amazon doesn't carry them- so for you guys struggling getting depth- I really do recommend the ARMADILLO for punching thru the 2nd and even 3rd rings of uranus.

FUCK! Once upon a time Drakes also had a guesthouse a couple doors away and I stayed there. Included with the room rental was a pass to the Drake bookstore, but with all the action in the back rooms of the bars I , stupidly, never went to the Drake and checked it out. And since then, the Drake Guesthouse has ceased being. I only wish I had read your report back then, and parked myself in one of the booths after the bars closed. Hmm, maybe a return to AMS is in order..

First off, I definitely upvote the toothpaste suggestion. I find the best results are from a mint gel type toothpaste. I suspect the mint oil triggers some mucosal reaction within the anus ,much as it makes your mouth produce saliva while brushing. Beyond that, if you have been hosing deep and moving more mud than pellets in the hosing, it helps freshen the exterior of the hole where , even with washing after douching, trace odors might be clinging to the skin or hairs. As for a worn out hole- a fisting top once advised me after an especially long, hard and expansive fist session to get a tube of A & D Ointment, push a quarter size glob of it up and into my ass, and to finger it all around the ass lining so I would be good to play again the next afternoon. Next day my hole was happy and I was able to play long and hard again. I have passed this along to some of my fist bottom buds, and they all have found it helps a lot with a quick recovery.

Best to just Google Fickstutenmarkt for the website. But, in short, they are sex parties held especially in Berlin, but around Germany, in Amsterdam, and I believe one other EU city. Bottoms {mares} arrive at the location an hour or 90 min before the event, and at the time of the start of the party have either a white {safe sex only} hood placed over their head, or a red one {anything goes} for the duration of the event. The mares are lined up around the bar, tied loosely by their wrists. The tops , Stallions, are let in from a waiting area, and immediately begin checking out the available mares to use, when one is chosen, it is untied and led off to play. A StableMaster and a few aides are in the area monitoring, to make sure rules are being followed ( as to hoods staying on, safeplay being honored,safety in general etc) If at any point a mare needs a break, or wishes to leave, the handlers will escort that person out and away from the event. At the end of the event, the stallions are asked to leave the room, and then the mares are permitted to remove their hood. If there are bar tabs to be settled, that is all handled, and then the event is done, and everyone is outside. The kick or edge to it all is, the mares will not know who was in them, the stallions probably have a pretty good idea of who they were in- so out on the street, there is this awkward sort of glances and "I wonder if..." As you will see on their web page, they do screen who gets invited, so there is a chance some will have their feelings hurt even before the event. And once in the event, even if accepted and invited, there is no promise you will get any action, or the level of play your fantasy expects.

I totally understand the position the MODS are in, and I also know 99% of what members write here is never intended to run afoul of the rules. HOWEVER, I do have some real issue on the methods used. As an example, WhtHole4U USED to be a very active member on here, and contributed numerous writings and stories, which in turn drew more members to the site. In his last story ever written here, he let his imagination get a little too deep into [banned word] , and was suspended 30 days and it pissed him off. He has never returned. And we members are worse off for it, his stories were the stuff of multiple orgasms with each chapter posted. This was an author who posted complete stories, finishing each one .He was involved posting comments. And when he fucked up , instead of delving in and working with him in a kinder/gentler approach, he was suspended. Boom. No, hey, this is hot, but we really need the (...) changed and then we can let it fly high. Not only did it piss him off, I think other terms might be embarrassed, hurt, insulted. Another writer recently got pounced on for one of the chapters he wrote and posted, and was also suspended for a while. Why not just reach out to the person and ask them to edit, or rewrite that chapter, .It is sort of the harsh "kick to the balls" to the very members who contribute to the site, that will result in fewer and fewer guys willing to contribute to this site, for fear of suffering the same fate. And pretty soon, this will just become another internet ghost, much like AOL chat rooms or ManHunt. If the argument for not working one on one with a member with a problem post has to do with the sheer volume of posts MODS have to post, then perhaps the solution isn't to deter members from participating, but to add a few more MODS so the work isn't as overwhelming. As to the OP - I have been on here since Sept 2010, and when the whole scare happened about credit card companies not processing charges from websites promoting/engaged in illicit activities ( RentMen, CraigsList among them) I was nailed with 8 punishment points ,not for creating a post about something that had now become a no- no on the site, but for having replied a couple years prior to something someone else had created. Those stupid fucking points laid there on my profile for ages, and just in the last year or two finally were purged. But for someone who tries to color within the lines, those points were insulting. When I wrote in about it, I was told they meant nothing and not to worry. IF they meant nothing, they never should have been there. And it ought to have been immediately obvious, they did mean something, at least to me. So yeah, I understand your anger and frustration- but I also hope you will let this pass and stick with the site. Perhaps in less than 12 years your punishment points will also disappear from your profile .

I don't know if it is even available for sale still, but I bought a replacement dildo when my dear , old, and worn out Dick Rambone just had to be put to pasture. Not able to find a new Rambone locally (one clerk in a Wilton Manors gayborhood sex shop looked at me when I asked if he had Dick Rambone dildo's and asked me if I was time traveling back to 1990! So fuck him, I went to another shop and they had a wall of HUGE dildo's, and not outrageous prices. I bought one called Anaconda, in black, for around $45. 13 or 14 insertable inches, made up of a large, sloped head and then 4 oval egg like bumps for the shaft, and thick. And the ever needed suction base. While Rambone really fought my 2nd ring, the anaconda with the sloped shape pushed right thru it and within a week or two of use I got all the way to the suction base, the head pushing against or partway into the 3rd ring. The only problem is, the name is linked to a newer dildo, so searching for it has not been very successful. I suspect the "newer" dildo either owned the trademark for the name, or bought it. But if you really want to loosen the 2nd ring, keep an eye out anytime you are in a bookstore/ adult novelty shop- this is the perfect ringer.

Ahh, a long lost ( somehow I never read it back in 2016) story from the epic write WhtHole4U

I disagree, from the standpoint of a certified 110% bottom. Nothing better than a gaped out, sloppy drooling hole after taking on every cock (and perhaps a few fists and a foot or two) available. lol

Now, what was the address of this place, and is there a line of white bottoms waiting to get let in? haha

Here is another hot little story from 10 years ago, now I need those fine UK members to direct me to this Trades Hotel, and if you happen to have a discount code...lol