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First and foremost- my thoughts are with you in this time. Before even getting to the sexual aspect of all of this-- 1) does your Dad have someone lined up for power of attorney for health care ? If not , he should do it quickly. You, your Mom, even your brother might not be the best choice in this-- he needs someone who can be steady and honor his wishes when the time comes to make some very difficult, as in end of life/hospice decisions. I was that man for an ex- he had spinal cancer, and knew when the quality of life got bad, his family would not or could not sign the paperwork to stop supporting his life. It was a challenge for me, but I knew it was HIS wishes I was signing. To this end- if he has such a person, or whoever he picks to be his POA for health care- they should discuss a code question. If your family never had a cat- then the question could be something like " Do you remember that cat you had back in the 90's with the white face?" This would be the cue to your Dad that things are spiraling down quickly, and the POA needs to sign off on paperwork to begin just pallative care . If he says Yes, or something to that effect, he affirms the decision and will forever give some peace of mind to that person doing his wishes. I wish I had that in place for my ex, and recently for my Mom. In both cases I KNEW the decision they wanted me to make, but it would have been less of a load on my mind if they had affirmed what I was doing for them 2)As far as having sex with your Dad -at this point, he might want to , but his current medical regimen, or the cancer within , might make it just too difficult - or impossible- to actually perform. You should consider this aspect before even going there- the sex you had- real and phone- was always productive and must have been rewarding. Would the failure to get hard or the failure to cum be frustrating to either one of you? And would you rather remember the great sex, or forever recall the last time you tried and it was a train wreck ? It might be far better to just hold your Dad and comfort him at this stage, and save the good days of sex in a pure light, in your memory for years to come. 3) the last thought-- you guys fooled around while Mom was at work. With his health as it is now, she might be around a lot more , and a lot more unexpectedly. (Don't forget- she is bracing for a huge loss too) Is it worth maybe getting caught in an awkward situation by her- causing her even more grief and anger and confusion- as well as your Dad- at this point in the life line? You had some very good experiences- save them in your mind- and your Dad will live on forever. Create a family scandal, and the entire family dynamic will live on, but so messed up ( and with you as the culprit) Death will cause family dynamics to get odd no matter- don't put 5 gallons of gas onto the fire

Hell BlackKninght- sounds like you need a willing trainee to offer up his hole for several days on end, so you can mount and breed it over, and over, and over until you get the art of delaying your cumming down to a science . Ahem, uh, I do have a week off 23 July <veg> And I am a card carrying member of Mans Country <g>

You know whthole- I just have to get cloned with your slut genes- I need this action as much as you seem to be getting it <g> Thanks for another GREAT story insertion !!

Back in 1980 in Cape Girardeau MO - picked a guy up in the park, took him back to my apt and up to the bedroom loft- as I was doing him he moved around and got my head trapped between his legs and began punching my face and trying to poke my eye out- luckily, I was able to get to the top of the stairs on my back , and pushed/flipped backwards, throwing him off and down the stairs with him landing on a glass table. I had my wits and raced out to the van, jumped in and locked the door- and laid on the horn. A neighbor woke and came out - just as the guy was walking out of my apt fully dressed- and I yelled for the neighbor to call the cops. I had some clothes in the van and put them on, so when the cops arrived I was decent. The guy had taken off, and as far as I know they police never nabbed him. I ended up with a black eye, but no perm damage, and a few loose teeth for a month. One thing that has always concerned me was the next day, they found a woman who ran a art/smoke shop dead in her upstairs apartment - and I still wonder if he wasn't in some way involved in that

Dammmitt!! All bottom here, just nutted for the 1st time in over 40 days this morning-- and scanned the posters here hoping to see some Ft Lauderdale top guys -I wish some of you 3 times a day men were closer- my hole would be def at your beck and cum call

Just by sheer numbers- Palm Springs. And, PS is a really active weekend destination. Suggested places- esp for piggy fun, would be CCBC ( Cathedral City Boys Club) where fist fest was just held, or up in Palm Springs you could do All Worlds resorts or Helios

I was in Brussels about 8 years ago- had never been b4, and got the wrong money at the airport in Philly before heading over ( they were still on the Belgium Franc-- of course, the money exchange sold me franc-- FRENCH!! So when I went to pay for my train ticket at BRU airport, I soon discovered my mess. Got it all sorted out, and then had a GREAT time- early Dec, the square had a manger set up, and the bars were FUN-- you really need to get to the Duq- I believe the full name is the Duquesnoy <?> Across from a posh hotel, it has a sort of corral setup dark area where I was bred nightly- and the men of Brussels have some fine breeding tools ! Just dug thru some old e mails, and this is the bars web site from a few years ago- www.duquesnoy.com/ Private me if you need a link for hotel accomodations- I have that also from a local man over there

I had a top guy buzz my ass while fisting me a few months ago- he used a small clipper he said was $10 at the local drug store- the hair fell off, and my ass was slick feeling a day later when I put clothes on- never had any itching or ingrown hairs. On a subsequent visit, he handed ME the clipper and told me to get hairless- and I lost the chest, belly, armpit and leg hair- there was a slight shadow here and there, but it was pretty close cut, and again the regrown hair came in mostly without any hair bumps or itching

They have not been the same since the crash a few years ago- I suspect the guy or guys behind the site have lost their interest and focus-- I am sure from their standpoint it is a lot of work and not a lot of rewards

Mans Country is a tired and frayed old girl, but when it happens it is a hell of a party. Steamworks is the nicer newer all features work facility--BUT- with that comes attitude and a touch of greed. If you happen to be there for the 1st time, learn from my experience- they do not announce your room about to expire- it is on a TV monitor , so if you happen to be there and it is slow, and you lay down , set a couple of alarm clocks. If not, they will charge you overtime fines- in my case, I arrived on a Friday for a long weekend. When I checked in a nice enough guy registered me and checked me in- I got a sling room ( poorly laid out, but thats another issue) and after getting lost, had a cleaner show me the way to the room. Unpacked, stripped and went hunting. The place was sparse and I got a general bearing of the place. Around 4p there was a small bubble of activity, then it died off around 6 p. I went to the room and finally after 20 minutes and no one walking past, shut the door and laid down. I woke and it was about 9p, went out to piss, and saw my room on the TV saying I was 6 minutes overdue. I went right to the counter, explained I had been sleeping and would be out in a few minutes- I needed to shower off. The new guy at the counter looked at my room, and blandly said- You are overdue! I raced off, pissed, showered, repacked and brought the sheet, towel and pillowcase to the counter. A new guy ( a prissy twink queen) checked me out, and said I owed 21.50 in late fees - the fukkin room was only 30 or 35 dollars for 8 hrs when I checked in! I hit the roof- and asked for the manager- prissy would not cede, and announced I could either pay the fee then and there, or I would be paying it before being let in the next time (BINGO!) I took the card and my ID, and split. After that, I was not going back, and ended up getting the sling room at the Ashland Arms ( next door to JackHammer BAr) The next day i did do Man Country, and told the clerk of my experience- and he was not surprised at all- said that they were out for the gay dollars, not customer service. I emailed SteamWorks on their web page contact form, and heard nothing back. After 3 weeks I WROTE ( yeah, the old fashioned way) to the General Manager to explain and maybe let him know of the attitude and issue with late check out-- NEVER heard a word back at all.

For those not following the news or the name- this is the twisted porn actor out of Canada that just got arrested after body parts of his lover were received by authorities in Montreal, and now more parts have been received by elementary schools out in the western end of Canada. He allegedly did porn in the last 10 years, and the media reports that he did a web cast of the killing/ dismembering of the lover, as well as some necro action during or after the murder. So, I don't know mainstream actors and what they have starred in- let alone some flash in the pan hard dick 20 year old-- anyone know what studio ( if any) he worked for, or any of the movies ( again, if any) that he performed in??

I've posted about m y week in London elsewhere- but the ONLY place in a week I got loads was at Vault 139- and not on any of their theme naked nights ( everyone stood off from each other- or jammed around 2 guys who actually were doing something) I got my jizz there on a Friday afternoon- the night b4 had been a naked night event >the Circus, and found myself near the Vault around 2 pm or so - went in for a drink and got fucked within the first 10 minutes by an older guy. ( and at 55 , I am not chicken by any means) I wandered around a bit more after his load, and sucked another guy- a student - off in the back hallway- he nutted and split. Then, the place dried up so to speak, and the late afternoon socializing guys arrived- and the sex was gone

Seed planter Deep driller NEXT! Shitter Splitter

Best pics take 2 guys- the subject and the photographer - but most of us are single ( which is why we are on hook up sites to begin with) So we make do trying to angle the shot while not able to see the viewfinder- the result is piss poor, too close or slightly out of focus pics. And when you have someone over and think about taking some fresh shots, the sex gets in first, the photos get forgotten, and the old pics end up having to do. Maybe the hook sites ought to have photo sessions for their members in many of the cities they are dominant in- tied in withva bar or sex club, and part of a freshmeat membership drive <g> I volunteer to be a fluffer for the photographer !!

What about the TOPS who have ass shots and side profile shots? What are they selling?? I'd rather see the limp dick of a top than his ass-- in my town, thats called a switcher- as soon as he gets in the bedroom his top hat falls off and his ankles will be caught up in the ceiling fan <g>

Hey Breeder- at least you get hits-- here in Ft Bottomdale there are so many bottoms on all the hook sites that you can go all day and only end up with a dead battery ( Grindr especially seems to have a VERY big hunger for my phones battery and never fails to drain it in a couple of hours)

Alright Whthole-- about time you stopped taking all that cock and got back on the keyboard-- there are hundreds of us waiting for your next submission ( and not the ones you are ding in the bedroom and stairwells ) <veg>

I love found underwear- prefer to own all my underwear at someone elses dollar . In the last 5 weeks, I have scored 2 usable jockstraps ( both Nasty Pig brand ) that I found tossed aside by the sling at Slammer- our local sex club. They were both soggy and messy, and i stashed them until I was ready to head home, then retrieved them . At $22 or more each, i figure they paid for my entry and then some both times. I have a Bike jock , white, that I spotted on the on ramp to the interstate near my house. !st time I saw it I was late for work, the next day it had blown to the shoulder, and on the 3rd day, I had a good gap behind me as I pulled on the ramp, so I pulled off just before the jock, ran up and grabbed it- complete with a tire tread mark on it- and have worn often. Probably have about 20 or more jocks in my collection found this way. And for the petty thieves out there- those gym lockers with the mesh air vent fronts, where guys leave their gear hanging- - a coat hanger can fish thru the mesh oening, snag the jock and extract it back ou the front of the locker just fine-- probably scored a dozen like that when I was in high school

As another poster put up on here- a lot of tops do no prep for sex, unlike a good bottom that might take several hours to hose out and make sure all aspects of his hole are ready to go. I do not rim-partly because I do not like the smell of shit in sex, and also- I do not have hep and rimming is just too much of a risk factor. Yeah, I bareback and have anon sex and I KNOW those risks, I just do not want to take any extra scoops of risk with hep C

Time and place for everything. there is a guy that hits this sex club in Ft Lauderdale somewhat regularly, and when he is getting close to nutting a hole he gets VERY loud--as in EVERYONE can hear him throughout the complex,even over the music. While he may think that is highlighting his Alpha maleness, I find it sort of silly- it reminds me of the bodybuilders who have built huge muscles to compensate for a small penis. Yeah, have a great nut man- but really?? What about screaming for over a minute says you are really all that good in bed??After all, shouldn't the bottom be the one making even more noise?? Next time he puts on a performance, I really wish 5 or 6 men would have the balls to line up and hold up score cards with 1's and 2's on them <g>