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As a long term ( 24 or 25 yr so far) bearer of the HIV marker, I always have been upfront in my profiles where possible and put out poz in the profile details. I have assumed with that out there and some drooler asking if I am clean, they are asking if I am dripping gonno from my cock or syph out my ass, or maybe they are worried I have crabs, scabies, or some fungal growth -- . well, I make sure I am tested if any symptom crawls out and to the front, so I guess I AM clean !! So I guess it would be correct to reply that I AM CLEAN!! Oh, like a fine mist of Febreeze , pure and perfect ! Uh, unless of course that guy last night or 3 days ago who said HE was clean wasn't, in which case.....

I recently added a coworkers cell number to my phone, and sent him a test text to make sure it went thru. All was good, and that was that. Then about 5 days later I was texting to this fist pig I know, telling him about a night out- somehow in sending the first part of the text, then typing in the 2nd part- with " I was asked by the bartender to fist him , so I did over the bar then and there " and somehow the recipient line had changed from the guy I was texting to the guy I work with. As soon as I saw what had happened, I jumped in and deleted the msg- not sure if he ever got it or not-- he has not said a word about the msg to me. I did plant some suggestions at work with OTHER coworkers tho that my phone had been acting up since a recent download ( GEICO pig squeal) and that I was concerned my phone was hacked or hijacked. Maybe that covered my ass, maybe not

I just got fisted again last night by a new FF top- had a session 2 weeks ago that went 7 fantastic hours, so I was eager for another. Stripped as soon as I was in the door ( he wanted it the 1st time, just assumed that was the rule so didn't even wait to be told) He had to bite some hair off my ass the 1st time, so this time I had shaved my ass lips back about an inch for nice, smooth mouth to ass connection. After a beer, some chat and relaxing, he wanted to see my hole- saw the trim job and complimented me on it, and began fingering my ass. After he had a dildo up my ass, he told me to hold it in, and to hold my position. He came back a few minutes later and began fingering my ass, then I felt the cool metal and the click as he turned on his sideburn trimmer, and without a word my ass went from hairy to bald- then he buffed off the remaining strays and any stubble with some pad. Once my ass was good and smooth, he had me stand and look at my boy hole in the mirror- as I was doing that, he handed me another beer, and clicked on the trimmer and went to my crotch and began the process all over on my groin. No asking, but then I told him I was his to play with-- and it was as it should be. When all was cleaned off, I got a punch fucking from him over the next 2 hours mixed with a few beers and some breaks and small chat. When he had worn my hole out, and he was worn out, he directed me to the shower, and fisted my hole one last time as I rinsed off the J Lube from the rest of my body- toweled off, dressed and was walked to the door with an order to let him know when I had arrived home safely. I would go back in a heartbeat for his call-- which is where it is at- when HE wants my hole, he just has to call and I will work it to get to him

Or go more mainstream for the straight/ bi- men, and get a room near the east end of the Motel 6 on Indian Canyon at Ramon. You will be about 3 blocks from the Warm Sands gay resorts ( walking distance) very close to the gay bar ToolShed, even Jack in the Box and Starbucks are just to the left of the motel. And as benefits:A) guys can drive right up to the room door, walk in , fuck and leave without needing to come thru a lobby or be escorted by you back to your room a room at Motel 6 will be about 25% of what a gay resort will hit you up for C) a lot of Marines on weekend leave come to this motel and crash 4 or more to a room- while you might not get lucky with one or two of them, you MIGHT ! WiFi was $3 last time I stayed there- a card system you buy at the front desk and enter the code into your computer after signing on.

I was a tourist to London last October- I would say hit Central Station for a few nights, you ought to get your fill ( bar is behind the station at Kings Cross- takes a bit to find it, even the bus drivers parked along the side of the station had no idea where the bar was)

UNDERWEAR- but not from the store. My best underwear finds are from the side of the road or from lovers lane parking spots. I used to have access to a college dorm as a part of my work, and it was prime picking there- the guys would leave them in the showers all the time after a hard night of partying- and when I would go thru on my rounds, there were always briefs hanging on the hooks. At one point I had a collection packed into 4 boxes- the type of box 4 1 galllon bottles of wine come in. As time degraded a lot of the elastic, I began tossing or using them as dust rags, but still wonder what that cock that once rested in them looks like or is up to these days. And if you have a spare pair and are near Ft Lauderdale, please feel free to toss them out along the road somewhere ( Oakland Park would be ideal ) And drop me a heads up-- I will be looking for them <g>

Hey Raw=don't feel bad-- i have had the same problem over and over with CL- I made a post, looked for it, and never saw it-- or heard any response , yet I had the confirmation it was sent out. Maybe they don't like guys with breedingzone . com saved in their favorite places <g>

I love the toys these men make- and having seen the men and their toys in person at IML last year- well, I would be only too happy to be a test pilot for their creativity department <veg> https://www.exotic-erotics.com/store/ if you have XTube , he is studlover there- and what he can do with that stallion dildo is amazing !!!

Hair comes and goes ( grows?) It really is not about what I care about- its what the guys I am doing is into. If he likes his cock bushy, I am going to get fucked or suck it with hair. And if it is as bald as the current gay hair style, I am going to get fucked or suck him without a hair in sight. As for myhair- it can be there or not- really isn't important to me. That said, I just did a 7 hr fisting session last Friday night- the guy was a new player ( to me, but obviously not to fisting ) He asked casually about my hair, but wasn't overly focused on it. When I arrived, and stripped, he appeared out from the bedroom, and proceeded to pull several mouthfuls of my chest hair out. Then he had me get on all fours, and he went to town eating my hole out- and chewing away at the hairs around my ass. Every so often he would swap spit with me and return some of my ass hairs back . To be honest, I cannot tell you how hairy he was- most of the night my ass was up and my head down,his fist in my ass the bulk of the night. As a good fist bottom should be <g>

Hey Tasteless- come on down- and then wrestle for room at the trough- the area is swarming with bottoms, but we still welcome another brother into the sty. Now, Inn Leather guest House can be piggy- they offer day passes for ten bucks and the pool and hottub are nice- locals tend to drop by here, once in a while the sling by the hot tub even is swinging. And the whole property is clothing optional At night, you will be tempted by all the bars, but if you really just wnat to wallow, hit Slammer sex club. There are 2 ways to enter- a one time entry ( like , maybe 23 bucks) or a 3 mo membership for 32- which also includes : entry the 1st night ( about a 15 buck cost) and with a full membership, you can bring in your own liq and leave it with the barman, who will serve it back to you for free. If you think about the overall cost- a bar in town will charge you 5 or 6 bucks for a cocktail- Slammer will charge 15 to walk in after you have a membership, and you drink for free from your own liquor.(And yeah, it might cost you 20 bucks for a big bottle at a liquor store, but you know what you are drinking at least) BTW- the bartender works for tips- hint , hint. One other thing- no nudity in any of our bars- even the leather bar requires the ass crack be covered by 2 inches of material to conform to local law- which makes for a silly sight during the weekly battle of the butt contest as they drape a bar towel down each contestants crack. Slammer, as a private club- as bare as you want, and sex throughout the building Cum, have fun

LOL- ah, the upstairs play area at WEB Amsterdam--- love it ! But i have heard the city isn't what it used to be a few years ago- Black Tulip hotel gone, Drakes B & B closed, Eagle and Dirty Dicks closed- and I don't see anything for StableMaster anymore. I guess you have to pig out while the trough is there- and seems like the Amsterdam trough has narrowed down a tad bit---

Back to the question at hand; how do you feel, is there a disconnect. Hell yes there is a disconnect. Unless you are deep into a circle of guys who play all the time, you tend to hunt around the edges looking for others not in the " pack" . For me, single now 12 years and 55 -well, almost 56- working fulltime and not really a bar goer, that limits the choices. Gay men in this beach city are in love with the tourist- strange fresh meat with no intentions of getting serious or even remembering each others names after 5 or six days of hedonism. I can get laid at the sex club- often by an older, also alone man who is just looking for an outlet. Or by a tourist, looking for sex he doesn't get at home from his boyfriend or wife. As far as me- I have been poz (known by testing) since 1987, although my pozzing happened in 84 I am fairly certain. Whenever I get a flu or cold, I head in to the doctors- not that he can do much for a cold, but to assure myself that it doesn't progress. This week my throat got sore and my sinuses got infected from allergies. Once upon a time I probably would have weathered it out- now, I do the Dr and make sure it doesn't open the doorway for something else to get established and weaken my immune system. A mild infection was detected, antibiotic ordered, and I was on my way-- but the shadow of the HIV hangs overhead with each bruise, cough or lazy do nothing day. Oh yeah- another thing- if you are neg today, and want to make some investments in life insurance for the long term, do it now before you convert. Once you get sick and tested poz, you can forget about any insurance policies, or in many cases of ever leaving the job you are in today. After all, if you quit, what will you do for health insurance? And a new employer, as a part of the hiring screening, can filter you out in the physical part of the hiring process. I would love to retire at 55, but cannot- I need the insurance to cover my ass for the meds ( they still cost me $200 for a 3 month supply- without insurance, it would be almost $2300) Do I regret being poz? Sure. But, I AM poz, so it is what it is-- I have come to realize I don't always see the purpose of something at the time I am living it- but I always see how things in the past fit together to bring clarity to my lifes path and where I am at the moment. Maybe being poz has been a blessing I have not come to wrap my head totally around- yet.

Hey- I was in London in Oct and came home 7 days later with just 2 loads- both from a Fri afternoon at the Vault 139 bar. The naked night Thurs was busy, but the term wanker really lives at most events with nudity in London for some reason- guys standing and jerking, but scurrying away if anyone tries to touch them. That said, the Vauxhall area was festive, although not cum worthy. Hoist for Fist Friday and SBN (stark bollock naked) on Sunday- not crowded, not active. Maybe it wa s that time of the month- but slim to no action.

Hey Tampa- glad you loved our best little whorehouse in FLL. Now, there is an unspoken house rule that you appear to have broken, and need to resolve quickly. All out of towners who have more than 5 loads in their hole must return those loads to a starving local bottom before leaving the club, or face a month of no sex in their own hometowns once they get home. Since you left my city with all those loads ( which I really should have been getting ) you must return immediately and deliver your hole full of Tampa cum , or face a month of sexlessness ! You have been served, and have 1 week to comply <g>

Damn - I read the 1st three parts in one sitting and blew 2 loads (into the dish of ice cream I was eating- nice topping, BTW) For me as a total no recip bottom, that was very rare- last time I had cum was over 40 days earlier.Then part 4 hit, and I was rock hard and shooting before I was 1/3 of the way thru. 3 loads in less than a week- ehad! Whats next? Am I going to turn vers? Or move to DC and search for a new GP? Thanks for writing this- really has me boned up for weird reasons

Ft Lauderdale here too- lots of guys, but like the other local pointed out- difficult here to make long connected friendships-. It seems after 10 yrs here, I know guys, but it isn't really connection type of friends. The men tend to be hunting the weekly tourist in town for hedonism, and once they have had some strange or new meat for a day or two, they drop and hunt the fresher tourist that just stepped off the plane. And all the guys who are partnered, but play on the side , is just numbing. I am at a point where I could leave, but really Ft Lauderdale is paradise in so many ways. Very gay, nice and warm with lots of beach, watersports and nature ( the Everglades are an amazing place to explore) But still, I have been wondering if there is a better place too....

Just finished having every toy in the line up shoved up my ass- except for the small ones ( why waste time) by my ass trainer, once he felt my hole was wrecked out, he began fisting and punch fucking my hole. Always puts a rubber on after he works me out, and fucks my ass-- I get to pinch the rubber off his cock as he pulls out, so I can keep it and his cum inside me. Sitting here ass throbbing, hunting for more cock or play, the rubber somewhere up in my hole swimming with the J lube- we went thru 16 oz of it today

If I am on my days off, well hosed out and got a few good fucks in already, I love it when a guy puts every ounce of his body into trying to fly up my ass. Had a guy power pound me a coupl eof weeks ago at Slammer ( sex club) and I couldn't get enough- pretty sure his pubic bone was bruised the next morning. One ting I do do tho- I pop a half a vicodin b4 doing the sex club- not so much for the fisting or fucking, but it helps me take the biggest cock as deep down my throat as they can go with little to no gagging from me. The expression on the tops face as his cock is finding new ground it normally cannot get to is priceless

Trying to find a regular ring of men who want/ need a morning BJ - 8a till noon availability. Also could be avail after 11p for a pre bed BJ. Totally no strings- I am there for your hard cock and the cum boiling in your nuts. You only need to relax and let it fly. On my days off from work; generally Thurs and Fri- I am always hosed out and looking for a lot more hole play-- but for quick use, BJ work best. This is for real- try my throat out and if you like it you can be in it daily if you need to

I was in London in Oct- my 1st visit. Found the term wankers really was birthed in London- no matter the venue, most guys were standing off and jerking; afraid to have anyone touch them. I got 2 loads the whole week- and it was at Vault 139 on Friday afternoon ( a break from tourist 101) Vault had naked on Thur night- 150 guys bare assed- and only a couple were actually hooking up- with about 20 others crowding around them like cavemen discovering fire for the 1st time. I did Hoist for fist Friday, 20 guys at best.The HardOn party Sat was packed- the 3 slings held 3 sling lizards- and after 5 hrs they climbed out asses dry and bored- the floor was covered in rubbers- all unrolled, but since I was frustrated I began picking them up and checking- and I never found cum in any of them !! Good luck- I hope you hit it on a very cum filled and productive week

Sove- don't let the doom sayers ruin your hopes. I am 110% bottom, NOT a 30 yr old contortionist, and you know what? With a good attitude, a smile and saying Hello once in a while, I have ALWAYS had great times at Inn Leather and Slammer. Of course, there are some guys lost in space- either drugs or booze or , in the Inn Leather scene- sitting poolside on their smart phone looking for guys online- as a parade of willing men sit 4 feet away. Come on down and join the DNA pool- there will be men who will look twice, and some you will want to overlook! BTW- as for Slammer- if you will be here more than a day or two, get the 3 mo membership- with it you can bring in your own liquor <or beer or wine> and the overall cost will be a savings if you think you will be back more than once over a 3 month period. Feel free to pvt me if you want to know any more-- and come on down !! ( just don't crowd me off that big cock I am working on)

Back to the meat of this post. Thank you topman for the thank you. As a bottom who is very obsessed with presenting a clean hole for the top, it is nice to know at least some guys take the time to appreciate the effort some of us bottoms put forth. So how soon do I need to have the playground ready for you to do some seed planting

I had a 19 year, pretty vanilla and tame relationship. And it was what I thought I wanted- just like Ozzie and Harriett, complete even with the dog. Then we grew in different directions and I went poz ; he stayed neg. He got terminal spinal cancer, and I stood by him. But the impending end sent him hunting strange ( which I supported) but also had him nesting with one guy, which eventually killed our relationship before the cancer killed him. Been single, not dating for 11 years now- I hit the sex club or the bookstore or hunt online on my days off . I'd love to hook up with a guy for the long haul again, but this time it would have to be based on kink and caring, cruising and cocks. Since being single I have gotten VERY good at taking a fist or an 11 inch cock, but there is still something nice about being able to recall details of a place or a trip or a gangbang with someone else who was sharing that with you years from now. Even tho my ex has been gone 5 years , I still catch myself wishing I could give him a call to ask about something we did or saw many years ago.

I have a fist fuck player who will drop by every other week and fist my hole- but he always uses gloves ( and all of my toys) When he has my hole gasping , and gaping, and only then, he puts a rubber on and fucks my slop hole while sucking on my toes until he cums. I have gotten him used to the fact as he nuts, I will be milking more of his seed into the rubber, and as he begins to pull out, my fingers ring the cock behind the rubber and guide it off, and back into my hole as his cock head pops out- I get his raw load- and a rubber to fish or fart out of my ass later