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Ah IML.......Idling, Milling, and Looking. BUt too often, all those hot fukkers are doing nothing much beyond that- the lobby full of brand new fetish gear bought in the market and getting worn to its max for 3 days, before getting hidden deep back in the closet at home in Swamp Tick Arkansas. And the men afraid to actually connect and fuck and cum, because, well, of course, if they do A) Adonnis will walk in the lobby just after they have gone up to fuck and they will miss the chance to get swept up in his arms and live happily ever after, and if they cum, they might not be as sexually excited ( post cum guilt?) Oh, and then toss in 90% of the guys are all bottom and looking for 100 cum loads a day, and the sad truth is too many guys never get the loads of cum they spend all that money hoping for. Oh yeah- one other Debbie Downer-- the leadership of IML has goten on the soapbox and decried barebackers as sinners and the scourge of the earth- they have banned all the BB video companies from the marketplace. The market last year was half what it used to be, and really was dull. 4 years ago the spokesman for IML went on the stage and ranted about the guys who were PNP'ing, then the next year it was the BB'ers. Did anyone else find it odd that the man who owns Mans Country- among the rawest, sleaziest and druggiest bathhouses, is taking our money at the window there and railing against us in the public spotlight??

Hey men- put up that quick post yesterday afternoon complaining about the lack of cum during my vacation so far. Less than an hour later the 1st of 3 fuckers was seeding my hole. I had expected to connect with him by 2p, it was more like 3 30 when he finally pulled in my fuck drive ( I have 2 driveways- 1 comes right up to the bedroom door- so tricks can drive up- hop out of the car and walk in the bedroom in 3 steps or less. Yeah, I bought the house based on that , among other things) So anyway- the guy finally connects an hour later than he said he was going to. Then he gets lost and is 30 additional minutes late-- but he shows. And he wanted an anon scene- door unlocked, me on the bed on all 4's lubed and blindfolded. I have a few guys like this, so I have all the equipment. Oh yeah- he wanted me to have a few dildo's out for him to use on me- said he would get harder doing that. OK. And Boy Butter. Oh, and poppers ( this was getting a little sketchy- was I outfitting a yacht for a 6 month sailing??) So he finally shows- I had been keeping an eye out for his car coming down the street, so when a strange car came creeping down, I quick popped the blindfold on and hopped on the bed- with a dog dick /knot dildo already in my hole. A minute later he was in, and I felt him go for the dildo right off the bat- he poked and jammed it in a few times, then he stuck his cock in my ass and fucked, pausing for poppers now and then. About 8 minutes into the action he pushed a larger dildo in my ass a little, then pumped his cock back in and shot his load. I told him there were towels on the chair behind him, first words spoken. He had already grabbed a paper towel and was on his way out the door in 10 seconds. I plugged the dog dildo back in my ass, and went out to get back on the computer. Got a birthday call from a relative, and was on the phone over 45 minutes ,all teh time plugged with the dildo and the guys cum . When I got off the phone, a new guy from BBRT who had wanted to breed me for the last 10 days hit me up- as well as another guy who likes the anon action but has been a no show on a couple of occassions with no explanation. The new guy needed 30 min to get showered and ready , and needed me to come to him. The other guy said he wanted to hit my hole right away. So i had the new guy plan on me after he was done showering, and set the other guy up to come over right away. He wanted me blindfolded too-prob has fucked me 10 times and i still have no idea who he is or what he even looks like. He was good- showed as promised and fucked my ass, he had his own poppers and hit them a few times , at one point when he pulled out to hit the poppers, the 1st guys load shot out- not a dribble, but a full out hurl of cum and lube. The anon guy used some on his cock, and unloaded in my ass in less than a minute. He pulled his pants up and was out the door in 30 seconds. As soon as I heard the car engine, I got up, took off the blindfold, and gave a fast towel wipe to my ass and put on a jock, my shorts and a t shirt and got ready to go pick up the 3rd load. I got to his condo, and the man was not his picture- or in this case the camera had removed about 60 pounds. But it was raining, I was whoring, and he had a load. So I went in, sucked his cock and made out, then sat down on his cock and rocked him every which way I could to work whatever cockmeat I could in . Big boy gut wise, but like they say- nothing grows in the shade. I was working hard on it, and finally suggested we do it doggy style- which was the magic pill for him. He fucked for a minute, picked up the pace, and shot a 5 day load into me. I laid there ass up and his load leaking upward into my gut as we chatted and got to know each other a little. About 25 minutes passed, and I felt good that his cum was in deep enough not to leak down my leg, and I got up, dressed and headed out. Grabbed dinner at a fast food place, holding the load in the whole time. Got home, took a couple of calls, and just as I was preparing to do the sex club, had an offer from a big cocked man I had not played with in a long time. As tempting as it was, I just did not have the time.He suggested he might do me at the sex club, and I agreed to that. OK- so I headed off to the sex club (think of a slang term for a jail or a drug injecter) getting there later than I planned- about 10:30. Said hello to the guys at the bar, had a cocktail, and made a tour of the place. Some really weird troll like guys were there- but I could tell they were burning out and would be leaving soon. I made a trip thru the maze, stopped at the sling, and just watched the guys moving thru the area. An older trollish guy walked up and pulled my jock down, sending my bottle of J Lube flying- no attempt to pick it up, so I went for it and told him he was too fucked up to play. He wasn't even focused, and he just sort of stood there for a second and then shuffled off. Another older guy moved in, nice big cock, but he was looking for me to top him. Sorry. I spotted a 25-30 ish latino player eye balling me as the older guy groped my cock. Hmm. As the older guy moved on, I slipped into the sling, moved the J Lube bottle to the front of the jock, and waited. A solid short guy walked by, came back, and felt my hole. I had a squirt of J Lube on/in the hole along with old cum. He worked his fingers in, I got the lube bottle free and coated his hand with it, and he went back to my hole and pushed, as I pushed outward. His fist sunk in to the wrist, and he began sliding it in and out. As he worked my hole, a small crowd formed, including the latin guy, his cock out and hard. The man in my ass was not a public kind of player, and within 5 minutes he was spooked and pulled his fist out and split. Latin boy stepped in quickly and began his fist drive. I suspect he was pretty new to fisting- no style and , dammit- he had some flea market grade leather wrist band decorated with pyramid aluminum studs on the wrist he was pushing into my hole. I lubed his hand heavily, and he got in- he seemed really shocked/amazed/confused, and he ploughed and pumped at the hole for a bit- the wristband was awkward and a little rough, so as he was pulling his hand out one time, I reached down and grabbed his cock and guided it back towards my hole. He shoved it in and was definitely into showing off- pounding in as hard and deep as he could. I tried to time it and brace each in stroke so the sling would not swing away as he pushed forward, but would be swinging in to him for even deeper dicking. He popped out once or twice, but now I was open and he had fun driving in from being out totally. He deep shafted me a few more times in rapid order, and then unloaded his cum. As he pulled his cock out, he rapidly shoved his entire fist into my hole, taking me by surprise. He went in deep too- past the wrist band for sure- and twisted and turned his wrist and hand all round in my hole- making sure his load was painted on every inch of my hole- and then with the same suddenness, he jerked his fist, clenched, out of my hole and stepped away. I laid there for a moment to see what was next- and this lanky, sort of bony guy with worn nipples stepped in and after a fast feel pushed his fist back into my hole. Guys were still watching, and he began crawling his fingers up my chute- I knew the wrist was already past the outer ring, but not all that sure how far up his fore arm I was at that point. He grabbed the lube and coated my hole and his arm well, and went to work on my ass. After the studded gauntlet, my ass lips were getting tender,and the position in the sling was getting awkward. I guided his arm out of my ass, and eased out of the sling.Before he lost interest, I moved him to the bench nearby, had him sit , and then backed onto his arm . In this angle, he was able to push back up my ass even deeper, and he took full advantage of my openness. We played like that for about 4 minutes, but the lips were really sore, so Ipulled off his arm, and told him I had to take 5, get a cocktail , but then I wanted round 2. we both went to the bathroom to wash up- my hole gave off a little pink, but nothing much. Grabbed my cocktail from the bar, and chilled with the bartender for a bit. when I returned to the back play area the last guy I had been playing with was in the hall, and we began playing again right there- chewing tit, pulling balls, and of course, him prying my hole open. We moved into a small cabin and he went to work really chewing and biting my tits, pulling my nuts as low as he could working around to punching his fist up into my ass. He got really into the groove, and was slipping in and all the way out, punching back in and getting deeper and deeper. We finally took a break, and that was when I discovered he had been past the wrist and was almost mid arm into me. I went out to the bathroom, got a paper towel and wiped off some of the J Lube- not even a fleck of pink now, but my hole, and my body, were both getting tired. I walked around a little, nothing was outstanding, and I was beginning to yawn. Spotted my fist bud, told him I was shot and headed home to bed, but that i was def going to be back on Thurs night for more play. He agreed it was time to leave, and left me thinking he will be out Thurs- I might even get that PA'd cock in my hole this time tearing a new path

Well, thank you - thank you very much !! Actually, birthday boys are listed already- on the launch page, click forums, then next to the FAQ is Calendar, and when you click on it, it will bring up the current month and all events for the month- parties, etc- and the men who are having a birthday on any given day that month ! NOW- since you offered-- my hole is waiting ! Managed to get fucked 3 times this afternoon/evening, grabbed a little dinner, took a few phone calls, then got an offer to service a semi fuck bud with a huge cock-- but I had already posted the availability of my hole at the sex club, so I had to pass on him- did the sex club for 3 hours and had a very successful night. Watched the cruise for abit , then got in the sling in the dark room, and a burly guy began playing with my hole- I hit his hand with some J Lube and he quickly pushed his hand in past the wrist. About 5 minutes of play, a crowd, and he split. As quick as he moved away, a latino street boy stepped up and began playing withmy ass-he had watched the 1st guy, and went right for a full insertion. Again I slopped his hand with some lube, and he pushed right in- except he had a studded cheap leather wrist gauntlet on, and after a few minutes I pulled my ass off his wrist and guided his cock into my ass instead. He fucked deep and hard, and unloaded. Then he shoved his fist back in, just to make sure his cum was safe and deep. Kind of took me by surprise, actually. As soon as he moved away, the crowd began to break up, except for a lanky 50ish guy in flip flops and old nylon shorts. A little fried, but he knew his way into my hole, and slid in . We played in the sling, with him sitting on a bench and me backing onto his arm, in the hall near the BJ platforms, and in a small private booth. As of now, I think my tits and hole are sated for at least 7 hours-- but HLD I never refuse a birthday present <veg>

turned 56 today- the action up till 3p here has been slow- then got a load from a guy who wanted me on all 4's and blindfolded- a new fuck, and was supposed to happen at 2p- but finally got his load in - and a HUGE load. Plugged my hole with a dog dick with a knot dildo, took a few b day phone calls ( about an hour) -then got hit on on BBRT by 2 different guys- 1 was a reg anon walk in- told him to be fast, he came over in 10 mins, I was on all 4 and blindfolded- he loaded my ass and left- forgot his poppers-- so he will have to return tomorrow to get those. On my way to a new guys place for his load, then going to the sex club 321 tonight and laying my hole open for any breeders or fisters- as a good birthday pig should

For luck like this, I should have headed on up to Chicago and done IML again- banged 11 days off from work for vacation, began last Saturday- and woke Sat with a head cold or flu.Fuck- at least I wasn't traveling like that. Ate a shitload of NyQuil over the next 48 hours and slept it out of my system. Yesterday was domestic stuff, still a bit groggy/tired from all the Nyquil. Woke extra early today- checked online and a few birthday hellos- but none of the guys online I had tried to get a fuck from were online. Now after 2 p- did a very serious, very deep hose out- and still have not replaced the void with any cum or even a fist

22 May- hey guys- just an update. Began vacation last Sat, woke with the flu and spent the entire weekend eating NyQuil and sleeping. Flu is over and done as of yesterday. TODAY is my birthday and still no cum ( a 2p fuck dropped off the internet at the point of getting the last bit of hook up info ) All hosed out and my hole is dry! Totally looking for seeding, breeding, gang bangs and perversion- IML is out, my hole is open and ready

I was over inOctober 2011 and hit it- lots of gym built guys, great music, and the play area upstairs. And without exception, any fuckers only jammed for a few minutes, most rubbered up- none cumming, and the 3 slings-- had the same 3 guys in it the whole night, never saw as much as a fist in any of them. I managed to get raw fucked by a thick long black cock 3 different times- obviously he had tri mixed his cock as hard as he was fucking and still not nutting. As the party died, I began looking at the spent rubbers that covered the floor- never found a single one with a load in it. Maybe I missed something- but just seemed like a great place for lots of action, and no one doing anything

Hey Dickluva- we ran similar paths. I was tested poz in 87- my partner insisted I get on meds (AZT) and I refused. I was med free, symptom free up till the point he disclosed he had been having an affair with someone for a year- -in 1998. At that point the stress of fighting with him daily, work, and his own life ending health issue ( cancer- he was HIV neg) wore me to a frazzle and I ended up on meds, and the meds sucked.Gut issues,rash, etc. Finally left his ass in 2000 and after staying with a psycho and his boyfriend for 6 months I ended up on my own, in my own place, and gained back all the weight I lost ( 10% of my skinny to begin with ass) and began seeing my T count increase from 45 to 225. My new doc was a bit of an ass, and I found a new one- we switched meds- I do 2 types- Isentress and Truvada- once a day, and my numbers are up at 500, VL undetectable. And as I relax more and more- the ex died 4 yrs ago from his cancer, the psycho has been out of sight and hopefully under his rock for 10 years-- my gut issues have greatly improved. The one time my new doc had me stop meds so I could have a viral load and have a test done to see what I was resistant to, my VL shot up to 200,000 in two weeks- and he gave me some stop gap meds until the labs came back. I guess for the original poster-- if you are healthy now, and do a decent job of eating well, staying fit, and seeing your doc when you do feel unwell, then holding back on meds is an option. But if you don't take care of yourself to begin with- smoking, drinking,PNP and fucking all the time included- then maybe you should rely on meds early as a line of defense

Man, as a total service bottom, I have to say 1) you flaked and 2) you wasted this guys night. He had to get prepped at some point if you were going to fuck him, and that took more than 2 minutes of his time ( more like an hour if you were going to get serious in play) You both agreed to a time, and you were not considerate enough to be there on time. I assume you live in New Orleans- don't you know your own city? If someone contacts me and I give them an address and neighborhood at the point of making a commitment- thats the time for them to say something like I cannot drive to that area, sorry, or excuse themselves. What you did was leave the guy hanging- he got hosed out for you, was waiting for you, and never got a word from you. In my book, you would be on the ignore list- no matter how fukkin hungry my hole is

I get fisted, and while my hole will be loose after a long session, within a day or two it is right back to its normal range of looseness/tightness. However, I had an experience with a FF top a month ago where I tried my damnedest to give him my 2nd sphincter - had been getting fucked and fisted for a few days running, and my hole just would not open up for him. Took a day off from play and let it rest, then I went back. Once in the sling, he was able to work in and negotiate the curve of my lower hole and got in past the second ring in no time at all, then worked on up deeper and hit the 3rd ring of resistance . A lot of trying , but he could only get 3 fingers in past it. We took a beer break, and then he went back in for another try. As he slipped in, he got a funny look on his face. I asked him what was up- and he said my ass had gone straight- no curve or kink to the lower 10 inches, and his arm was going straight in and up, as he proved when he pushed from the inside on my abdomen and had me rub his fingers. So while a lot has been said of the changes to the asslips, I had a change to my inner plumbing- not sure where the curve went, or if it returned after a day- but that afternoon- I went from having a J hook shape in my rectum to a straight I line right up and in

Age wise I guess my attention roams towards guys 40 to 55- the younger are fine, but too often lack a twisted enough imagination ( or just don't have the experience level yet to be truly twisted) What really clicks for me is that the top be really connected during play- which rules out the PNP guys , and the electronically obsessed guys who just have to check msgs every 5 minutes. I do not really focus on guys who have big gut/sagging pecs- my wiring just prefers the long and leaner kind of guy. Used to always use the rule of thumb that if the result of dividing the guys waist size by 5 yeilds a number smaller than his cock length, then we could figure a way to make it happen ( so even a guy with a 50 inch waist, but packing 11 inches, would be included- 50 div by 5 =10, his cock =11, so magic happens !!) But the biggest aspect of a top- he can use the fuck out of me, but we both need to be able to laugh and giggle and smile like a pig in shit throughout the play. If it is so tense and uncomfortable during the session, the play is never going to be able to overcome the negative energy of the room. Sex, no matter how extreme, just has to have some reward in it

Have a vacation week, added a few days to each end. Had planned to do Berlin or Amsterdam or San Fran, but thanks to a roof leak, will now be staycationing in Ft Lauderdale , and looking for a great week of fun and play. All bottom, not into scat, blood, or pec/gut punching. Other than that, I probably have been there and tried that at least once-- or may very well be excited to try . I know there are a billion bottoms here in FT Laud always on and looking- but give me a try- I really do work harder to make you smile and cum

I had my hole put thru fist training about 2 years ago by an Alpha boy at the porno bookstore. After about 4 or 5 sessions there, we moved the weekly encounters to his place, and he really got going on making my hole pop open on command whenever he would have me over- no foreplay- he got it where it would just open and eat his fist. He moved away about 9 months ago, and I thought I had another guy, but after a 7 hr play the 1st session, then 5 hrs the 2nd, it turned into him talking the next 2 visits and no hole training. Now he is moving out of the area, so I guess the hunt will go on. In the mean time, the local sex club has 3 slings, and I hit it about every 10 days and have been averaging a fist a trip. And in Ft Lauderdale- known as Ft Bottomdale for all the bottoms to the very few tops- getting a fist is a lot more of a sure thing than a hard cock. And, beginning 19 May I will be off work for 11 days- had planned a trip anywhere, but a new roof is eating up all my travel money- so will be open, and looking for FF tops, on a daily basis

Played with a guy one night who was into this-- I was sort of taken aback by it- we hooked up at the bar and went back to his motel - one of those beach type ones with a small courtyard and a pool, each unit had a small kitchen and a bedroom. We stripped once inside, then he began face fucking me in the kitchen ( linoleum floors) He just kept ramming the back of my throat, and it was causing me to gag and retch. I tried to pull back, but he told me to just let it go and began throat fucking me harder, causing me to heave all over myself and the floor. He continued face fucking me in a puddle of my own puke until I heaved more- before it was done we were both coated and slimed in the stuff, the floor was a mess, and he was getting off on all of it. He ended up giving me his load, then wanted me to head out to the street with him naked. i was still caked in pieces of my dinner, and declined- used some paper towels and wiped as much off as I could, got sort of dressed and split. Funny thing- the guy was a food manager for a major airline-- I guess it was some sort of extension of his career to wallow in others puke Not sure I would go there again, but it was weird enough to stick in my head-- of course, I can still remember vividly the time I stuck a hairpin into the electric outlet too- so maybe it isn't a good memory <g>

Aw hell man- you are going to make my nuts dry up with these twisted ( and really hot) posts. As a service bottom, my getting off is of no interest, but I'll be damned if I don't shoot a couple of rare loads every time I read one of your stories-- only made it to the Metro station before I was spurting this time !! So- THANK YOU for the effort and time put in these stories man-- I may just have to hit Washington for my vacation 19-30 May and checkout some libraries and Metro stations <g>

No, not really- maybe alpha in personality, but he is neurotic and on ADD and other meds, as well as medical pot ( didn't even know FL had that!!) No, I think he is just sort of loosely wired- the 1st couple of times he had the wiring good, last 2 times he was just in some sort of manic state-- and yet I consider going back for more !!! Maybe some of my wires are crossed too ! <g>

I do it for the contact-- in a town of billions of bottoms, and the bulk of all the guys here are already partnered, i am on the hunt for a guy who wants to fuck just for the endorphine rush I get from being used-- and if by chance there is some sign of appreciation, maybe a little conversation- hell, thats a cherry on top of the sundae. Maybe the 20 year old are doing it because it is all a new experience for them-- for me pushing the door open to 56 very soon, I crave man contact and if this is the way I have to get it, then fuck me thats how i WILL GET IT, when I can get it. I don't expect love- i know who is fucking me- married/partnered/cheating guys or guys afraid of commitment . But for the 5 minutes or 2 hours , i am connected

You tell me.... I played with a FF top who used my hole for 7 hrs the 1st time we played. 2 weeks later he called my ass down for more, and used me for 5 hours of fucking and toying and fisitng, and a crotch and ass shaving. He called the next afternoon and told me to come back again that evening- making sure I had a grocery list of things to pick up for him- beer, smokes, dinner. And once there- he talked and never even fingered my hole for 9 hours --until I finally got up and split at 6 am(with a splitting headache) 30 days later, he has me back- more beer and smokes, and a whole day of things planned supposedly. Got there and he ended up on his computer for most of the day and night, and talked again nonstop . 15 hrs later I gathered up my things- all hosed out and never as much as 3 fingers in my hole. And yet, I sort of think I would probably head back if he called and there was a ghost of a chance of getting another fisting session to actually happen. So, what standards ???

Hey boys-- don't think a part 4 is anytime soon coming, as they say. The last post this author put up was Feb of 2011, and the profile names for BBRT and A4A are both not found-- I think he has dropped off the radar ( or found a boyfriend or has been busted)

Hey man- you and your boyfriend have 5 years of history, shared experiences to live off from. If you get banged up and either infect him too, or he cannot stand who/what you have become, you will lose those 5 years- and the good memories- forever. He will not be there for you, you will always have that gap in your life line. Wild sex is alluring, but as one who has been single for 12 years- there is damn little of the last 12 years that I have any connection to. Lots of anon sex, some very wild action- but no real life person to sit with and recall it with. I had a 19 year relationship, and almost every day I think of something the 2 of us experienced as a pair, and wish like all hell I could pick up a phone and ask him a question about the details. I have posted about him b4 in other forums- but I got diagnosed poz in 87, and he stayed by me. In 96, he was diagnosed with cancer and passed 11 years later from it- and along the way we split so he could be with a new lover who "got " him- looking back I suspect the new lover was a ploy to push me away from the ugly of the last years of his cancer. Sex is great, but love is the real glue in life. Sounds like you need to address your self love issue first, and then the love with the boyfriend. And maybe he will become more sexual with you as you get loving yourself; and him, more

Already answered this once, but rethought it, and hell, I'd take a fist for a man I didn't even know, as long as we connected and he wasn't out of his mind. My hole is made for exploring, and anyone who is willing to go in deep has an open invitation to it