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I really wanna become a better fist bottom! I've taken a fist only a couple of times but it was hard work and took a lot of prep. I bought a fist dildo to practice with but I think it's a bit too big Well, practice makes perfect I guess. I love how intense it is!
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I would *love* to be one of the mares. It's such a big fantasy of mine!
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I recommend anything from Oxballs. Very stretchy and comfortable!
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I don't know that I suffer from depression as such, it's never got me down so much that I've felt the need to go and see a doc about it. However, in my daily life and my work situation, there are few moments where I could say i'm truly happy and having fun. The overwhelming feeling for me a lot of the time is just one of severe boredom with what society considers to be a "normal" existence. I have non-sex hobbies and passions that I enjoy but don't get the chance to practice them as often as I'd like. So when I'm getting fucked, playing with guys and taking cock... That's one of the times in life where I am really happy and enjoying myself.
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A variety of reasons I guess. Some guys might need them, others might enjoy how they feel, maybe some just like how they look. Even though I'm a bottom, I have a handful of different cock rings and I do enjoy wearing them, although I don't wear them often when I'm getting fucked. I do find my erections are harder for longer when I wear them, my favorite ones are the ones with a built in ball stretcher though. Feels great to have your nuts pulled down and away from your body!
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Jockstraps are very popular both for tops and bottoms. I do enjoy the thrill of being totally naked though.
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I like to take care of as many men, and as many cocks as possible. If i'm getting fucked and there's a guy or a group of guys watching and obviously waiting for a turn on my hole, I'll be sure to suck them or stroke their cocks with my hands, keeping them hard, horny and eager for my hole.
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Same problem here. I really wanna get more into fisting, I can four fingers and thumb easily up to the widest part of the hand but struggle to get past that. I don't know if my hole just physically can't open wide enough? I bought a fist dildo to practice with anyway.
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If you're a true cumdump/cumslut/cumwhore, you should be willing to put on a blindfold, spread your ass, bend over a fuckbench or climb in a sling and let any man who wants to fuck your hole and spray his sperm up your guts. It shouldn't matter whether you find the guy attractive or not, whether he has a big dick or not, hence why you should be willing to wear a blindfold. You should only be interested in getting cum up your hole. Nothing else matters.
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I've had something similar. One guy ordered me to strip as soon as I set foot in his apartment, then made me jerk off and cum while he watched. He wanted to get my orgasm done and out of the way as soon as possible so that I was no longer interested in my cock and only in pleasing him. It was a bit of a mindfuck but totally hot too.
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I love being a slutty whore and doing the nastiest things; taking every cock, cumload, getting drenched in piss, having total strangers use my body. I embrace it, i'm not ashamed to be a slut!
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As a bottom I usually cum once in a session, twice absolute maximum. I like to be the last to cum if possible so I stay horny and slutty for as long as possible. Once I've shot my load I generally need a little time to recover but if I'm exceptionally horny I can sometimes stroke myself to another orgasm although it tends to be harder work...
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Lots of good advice in here. Don't beat yourself up over it or get your head twisted or try to pigeon hole it. Getting your ass fucked feels great, it doesn't necessarily make you gay in my view. Plenty of non-gay guys love the feeling of getting fucked by toys or women with strap ons etc. The male g-spot is in the ass - a lot of guys couldn't care what's attached to the end of the phallic object they're getting fucked with as long as it feels good to them. To me, finding men attractive is what makes you gay (or bi), not solely enjoying taking things in your ass because that can be a by-product of any sexual encounter, regardless of the orientation of the participants. If if you are attracted to him, and you are gay, or bi, or whatever.... So what. Go with it, enjoy it and have fun!
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Yes. The more degrading, the better. Anything that reduces me to simply a hole for men to fuck is fine with me. Having it called simply a hole or a fuckhole is my favorite however. It's my primary sex organ in the respect that I am a bottom and therefore I don't use my penis to fuck men or women. My hole is primarily the main focus of my sexual encounters. However it isn't my sole sex organ, yet. I do still find myself stroking my cock a lot whilst getting fucked. However, if a top wants me to I will stop or tuck it away in the pouch of my jockstrap. And I still do masturbate quite regularly if I have a period where I've not been fucked for a while. Very rarely but when I do, they're amazing. I find that butt plugs and prostate toys give me internal orgasms more than cocks do. Absolutely. I love to be made to feel like a whore, passed around and used by as many guys as possible. 90% of the time it's limp and it flops and flails around hilariously, particularly if I'm bouncing on top of a guy. Yes, absolutely. Whilst I love getting sperm in one or both of my holes, there are also many other aspects to sex and being fucked that I enjoy. I enjoy being naked, being exposed, being watched and humiliated. I enjoy having men use my body for their pleasure. I enjoy feeling their hands groping and exploring every inch of my body. I enjoy being reduced to nothing more than a fucktoy, a piece of meat for men to stick their dicks into. And most of all I enjoy giving pleasure to men. I love the fact that, even if a man doesn't cum, my holes and my body made his cock feel amazing if only for a few minutes. Also I just love the feeling of a big cock stretching my hole open
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I love swallowing my cum
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I don't need to cum every day or every time I get fucked but I do find that I need to cum probably once or twice a week. My preference is that I find a guy who fucks me so good that I cum without ever touching my dick. Failing that, if I'm getting fucked and I haven't cum for a few days and am feeling particularly horny, I'll jerk myself off if the guy doesn't mind. If i'm going through a period where i've not had a fuck for a little while then yeah, I'll jerk off and shoot a load by myself - usually with some kind of plug or dildo up my ass and I always make sure not to waste my cum, either swallowing it, fingering it into my hole or using it as lube...
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White Boys Riding Black Rods..... Taboo Or Not Taboo?
bbsam replied to a topic in General Discussion
I understand where you're coming from but my take on it is that this is a power-play fetish - like many other fetishes and fantasies. The stereotype is that black guys have big dicks. Whether or not that's a harmful stereotype to perpetuate is up for debate but let's not kid ourselves, most of the time black guys do have cocks that are quite substantially bigger and thicker than those of a white guy of similar age/build etc. Am I wrong? When you then consider that white guys (and in particular white boys/twinks) can be seen as smaller, more innocent, maybe a bit nerdy, perhaps more feminine and weaker.... Then the fetish comes from seeing those guys owned, dominated and pushed to their limits by dominant black guys with huge cocks. Finally, when you then consider the socio-political aspect of it and take into account that for hundreds of years, black societies all across the world were dominated, humiliated and suppressed by their white counterparts and now the tables are turned (even if it is only in a scripted porn scene), people can get off on that role reversal. I've only ever been fucked by one black guy and I found all the above to be true. He was physically much more stronger and dominant than me and taking his huge cock in my hole was a real challenge for me. I definitely loved it though and am keen to take *a lot* more black cock in my ass! -
All totally normal, but as others have mentioned, the effects can be reduced if you bottom more regularly. Sometimes after a good fuck you just gotta sit on the toilet for a while and let whatever needs to come out, come out :lol:
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I love the idea of being a sex slave but some of this just sounds too far fetched. Castration? Teeth removal? Female hormones? No thanks.
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Having a guy sit on my face while I'm getting fucked.... that's heaven right there!
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I'm a total bottom and I love ass too! I love eating a hot ass and hole just as much as getting mine eaten or fucked...
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I like both, but I do love getting my tongue under the foreskin of a big uncut cock!
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I'm a submissive bottom and one guy once commented that I had "cute little nuts".... I don't think they're any smaller than average though. There's some pics on my profile, tell me what you think!
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This is common for many, if not all guys. Once you've shot the brain just switches off immediately. I've not found that i'm fully able to overcome it but certain situations help - being surrounded by lots of other guys who are still going at it, fucking, sucking etc helps. If at all possible, I like to be the last one to cum when playing with others as it keeps me horny, slutty and on edge for the duration of the session. One guy totally mindfucked me once when I went to his place for a hook up; as soon as I stepped in the door, before anything else had happened he made me strip, jerk off and shoot my load for him so that I wasn't concerned with my own orgasm when he was fucking me. That was an intense session.
