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read somewhere (but dont recall where) that US banks are refusing credit card charges for ALL adult sites, esp those that process outside of the U.S. UNLESS you contact your card issue and specifically inform them that it is a legitimate charge. Supposedly, something to do with fraud crackdown I buddy of mine who orders mine used to get ours thru Jenray but there was some issue with them. Think he used Aromaboy? this time
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i drove myself nuts trying to figure out why my ads would get flagged....of course someone doesnt have to have a valid reason....would see ads that were much more explicit that would go untouched..went over them word by word against the TOS and I couldn't see violations...would post a "why flagged" but no response other than it usually getting flagged too. Finally decided it wasnt worth it and kept posting anyway those folks eventually got tired or bored with flagging and it would stop -
as the gambling saying goes..."you can't win if you don't play"... instead of fearing the possible rejection be up ftont about it in the ad...dont have to state the reason if you dont want to, can simply list "bareback only" "absolutely NO condoms" ...if they ask why, then it is up to you to answer...you dont even have to answer the "why", just say you don't do it... as someone else said, those that would reject you at the door/in the bed aren't even going to respond if it is stated up front so it weeds out the rejection factor as you never know about it..it has been my experience that most guys that have "safe sex only" in their profiles are very flexible on it when it cums down to it...in the heat of the moment, they often will let you go bb...for that matter most that say "neg" are poz and they know it...because of the rejection they fear of never having sex again, they lie about it and MAYBE will tell the guy when they meet..but it is like guys that use pics from deades ago and they look nothing like that now...somehow thinking the decption at the door is going to go better than being honest upfront...I know which I would prefer.
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excellent...i do seem to have the best results with CL over all of the other sites combined...well, when my ads dont get flagged...LOL
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Bottoms: what's a top's best compliment?
BearOKC69_Poz replied to sites5's topic in General Discussion
definitely when he wants to breed me again...and then the next level when I am one of his regulars...and even higher when I am the only one that he knows that will do his particular sleaze -
would love to have an "utter asshole" do that to me...not only the repeated forced insertion but catching the semimelted liquid from the whole and being made to drink it for a bttm slut loose hole like mine, can see how it would tighten things up down there...making it pleasurable for both have inserted ice on my own and enjoyed it...admittedly the cylinder type of ice inserts easier than the cube...think I have seen very long cylinder trays for easy insertion in water bottles etc. Love the numbing effect and often will use ice cold veggies (cucs and butternut squash or other LARGE/THICK phallic gords for self-fucking when a live cock cant be had.
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While he may have been gone for 4 years, you just found out...so from your perspective, he did just die...it will take time...as suggested find somesort of support group or individual you can talk freely about it...it does help to verbalize and get things out...maybe visit his grave...right a letter to him...then burn it and throw the ashes to the wind..just some thoughts...no answers as processing it is a different journey for everyone...peace
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When Your Family Replies To Your Cl Ads
BearOKC69_Poz replied to RWHID's topic in General Discussion
Not exactly the same thing but had a co-worker answer an ad once, showing up on my door step...I had just started the job after being unemployed for 6 months and was scarred shitless that I would get fired. Nothing happened either sexually or at the job and while awkward at first I asked him if we were ok and he said yes and it was never spoken of after that. Was there for 10 years. As mentioned, once I got over my fear, quickly realized he had just as much at stake as I did. So risk is minimized. He answered your ad. Now maybe he was baiting you but unlikely. If you arent interested in a sexual relationship with him, I would just reply no thanks (if at all). Of course you will know, you cant "unsee" his response, but right now only you know. -
its happened to me a few times, both while getting fucked and fisted...tops never minded and were turned on by it that they could produce such a reaction
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Do Any Of Your Friends Know You Bareback?
BearOKC69_Poz replied to Scottyrim's topic in General Discussion
the really good friends know because they are the ones breeding & seeding me bare...LOL -
WARNING from the owner of Nasty Kink Pigs...
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Ethical? Unless you have permission from the property owner, it is probably considered to be vandalism and/or destruction of private property. Depending on if you get caught and local laws could result in arrest, fines etc.
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Do I as a Top Need To Ask Bottom If They're Cleaned Out?
BearOKC69_Poz replied to breederboy's topic in General Discussion
it is not a given, so if it is important to you (along with anything else that is a deal breaker), if not already in their profile...ASK -
Chia seeds. Nature's buttgrease. Great bottom food.
BearOKC69_Poz replied to a topic in General Discussion
Am type 2 diabetic and my Dr. approved the following as it seems to be keeping my sugar levels in an acceptable range (they were off the charts)...my daily NutriBullet breakfast smoothie (you can use fresh fruits but frozen are available year round at much less cost per serving esp when purchased at a Sams or Costco type store: 1 cup frozen strawberries 1/2 cup frozen blueberries 1/2 cup frozen cranberries 6 capsules of cinnamon Some fresh raw baby kale/chard/spinach prepackaged salad mix (or other super greens mix) 1 tablespoon of chia seeds 2 tablespoons of cold pressed milled golden flax seed Enough liquid (water, almond milk, etc) to the fill line of the large container NOTE: for less of a frozen smoothie consistency, let the frozen fruits thaw in the fridge the night before. I cant stand most green veggies either raw or cooked but liquified only adds an "earthy" taste, while not horrible, can mask with a single serve water bottle packet of a sugar free drink mix for flavor (orange, fruit punch etc). Sometimes instead of water will use a low carb chocolate or vanilla flavored protein/weight loss drink (about 8 oz). Avoid fruit juices since they are almost as bad as drinking sugar sweetened sodas, nothing but liquid sugar without the nutrients and fiber contained in the complete fruit. The chia and flax seeds have nearly zero effect on taste...even the cinnamon is barely noticeable due to all the fruit. -
do them from time to time on the toilet...as mentioned relaxes the ass muscles and seem to fully evacuate my bowels,,,plus it enhances the sensation of taking a dump too
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Two Poz Cocks in One Neg Boy's Hole
BearOKC69_Poz replied to Hotload84's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Great story and well written ... but I am confused...obviously some people ignored the "closed" sign but, if the door was "secured" how did these customers keep getting in and interrupting? -
There can be other reasons...maybe they just like the design (similar to guys flagging certain hanky colors and when you ask, they say...ewww, no way, I'm not into THAT...then why are you flagging...it goes with my outfit. With the popular Zombie Apocalypse, biohazard symbols are common. But that said, most likely they are Poz. But with anything, like hankies, use it as a conversation started...cool tat...any meaning?
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I've always been Poz friendly meaning if a guy knew he was Poz, I'd have him wear a condom but often it was a "don't ask don't tell" situation. I am a slut so I knew it was just a matter of time. Met this guy in an AOL chat room and went to his hotel room for some raunchy sex. I was just getting into raunch and he made sure I was poppered up to release my inner nasty pig. He had me eat out his unshowered ripe hole, then after he was sufficiently hard ordered me to give up my ass. He placed his big mushroom head against my then still tight hole and without anything other than his spit for lube, plunged balls-to-the-wall in. I yelped at the searing pain caused by his thick bare cock. He quickly stuffed his well worn and piss stained jock in my mouth and forced me to take a deep hit of poppers alternately holding one nostril closed. He proceeded to fuck me hard and rough. All the while making sure I was kept flying on the poppers. Eventually his pace quickened and he grunted "Are you Poz". There wasn't a question mark in his voice. More of a statement of fact. Through my buzzed state I quickly processed what he said and what it meant and replied "I guess I am now". He didn't dispute it and made a last complete thrust, his full weight pinning me flat against the mattress, releasing his cum deep in my raunchy hole. He withdrew and ordered me to suck his cock clean. It was then that I saw the pink tinged slime that was covering his cock. I obediently sucked him clean, tasting the unmistakable taste of my own blood on my tongue. Oddly I didn't convert then, it took a few more years and a hundred or more loads and cocks before it did happen but I will always remember how turned on I was by his statement and my calm acceptance of the news that I had taken a toxic Poz load. Still get mega-horned knowing I am taking another Poz load(s)
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tried 2 different browsers (safari & Firefox) but no play button on the vid...everything else on the page seems to be there and functioning :-(
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Bottoms How Much Do You Clean Yourself Out?
BearOKC69_Poz replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
rarely clean out and I let any potential top know that I prefer to have the shit literally fucked out of me and if any gets on his cock, as a good bttm, it is my duty to atm after...I understand if it is too much and can always move on to something else or get cleaned out ...sometimes will get cleaned out if the top insists on it but it is more prep time that could be spent fucking and getting off. Also warn the top that even if I do get cleaned out, esp if he is hung and knows what he is doing, something may work its way down anyway no matter how much prep is done. It is perfectly natural and it is a shit hole after all..honestly think some guys expect to find rose petals and rainbows up there...it aint called a shit chute for nothing...fudge packers etc. -
Bottom Jim: agree,,the couple of times I went to the Club, never got used, all advances turned down...not their "type" I guess. The dozen or more times at Midtown, guaranteed to take multiple loads. Basically if you want to pose/watch others pose (essentially a live skin mag), go to the Club. If you want to participate (live action porn), go to Midtown
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my experience has been similar to what others have said. The Club is for the young hung pretty boy types. It is all single-level. They request that you walk around with your towel on. Mostly condom/safe® sex. But it seemed better maintained and clean. Midtown on the other hand is sleazy. All shapes, races, ages and types. Mostly bareback. Multi-level. Roof top hot tub and deck. Basement saunas and hot tub. The maze is called "A shot in the dark" and it is that...only light is what seeps under the partitions from outside the entrance...tons of gloryholes. They did have a sling set up last time I was there in the maze. Also they have specialty rooms (doctors office, mirrors, exec suite along with the typical single and double cubicle rooms. Cant remember if the Club had the special rooms or not. Midtown was 12 hrs during the week but 8 hrs on weekends. Pretty sure Midtown is where I converted
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I have a strong gag reflex anyway and poppers dont help the situation...with poppers I have rapid breathing and if a cock is in my throat I cant breath at all what has helped me some is practicing on a dildo, that way you can control what is going on until you find what works best for you as far as position etc...of course cocks arent as flexible as a dildo and what works best with 1 cock may not work with the next due to variables like thickness, position, cock shape etc. also I seem to do better if I concentrate on actually swallowing the cock bit by bit
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prefer verbal during and esp when he is ready to cum...hopefully I can cum too and have been told by tops that they prefer it that way as my constrictions enhance their sensation
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Because I am POZ and don't hide it, I state my preference for bare cock upfront but will play with it if they insist....I handle the condom covered cock the same way if it is going in my mouth or up my ass...I get to keep the cum filled condom and will usually suck the cum out of it while he is there
