"All this wonderful PC crap is nice. But if you are so concerned, why would you even think of barebacking?"
What PC stuff? i think that being truthful is not "PC" but "C" and barebacking can be based just as easily on honesty as on deceit. The scenario you give is grey to me since the question "are you safe?" cannot be answered in the affirmative by someone with a raw cock. So the guy was most likely sharing in the illusion. If his question was "are you wearing a condom?" (I don't know how he couldn't know man its a fucking workd of difference between the good of bareback sex and the annoyance of sheathed psuedo~sex) then the answer should be honest. If he asks "are you going to pull out before you cum?" the answer should probably be given with whatever the honest intent is but here I will agree with you you All (or at least most) men lie.