Well yeah night sweats are not at all uncommon before a guy is diagnosed. They are frequently the first noticible sign of HIV infection. You are due for another test. You say you feel that after over ten years your luck has run out. There are many on this iste who would definitely disagree with that point of view. All I will say really is that if you have sero converted try instead to look at it as a new beginning, no matter how you choose to handle it. Since you are in the "Deep South" please take care in choosing your physician. Best of luck and keep checking in here. You will get a lot of support! (Loads of support in fact! ~ sorry couldn't resist that)