hungry_hole

I miss the times when at the sauna most guys played safe, but a few would secretly top bareback. I loved it when the guy fucking me would ask "Can I come inside?" and he would go crazy when I said "Go deep when you shoot". Once the guy was gone all I had was his load, wondering if it was poz. In those days guys truly appreciated a clean hole where they could unload.

I don't think anyone needs to apologize for wanting and expecting masculine behaviour in guys. In terms of bottoming, since my 20's when I started bottoming, it helped being masculine and having a nice body, which I used for my fetishes. I took "bottom" lessons from a bottom who was quite effeminate. Because I knew guys liked my body and attitude, I enjoyed the challenge of convincing another bottom to breed me, somewhere I used to do when horny for that scene. I would first get the guy really horny by letting him touch my body and kissing passionately. It was a matter of keeping the guy horny and finding the way of his hard-on into my hole. My hole was usually lubed so if his hard-on happen to venture into the opening, after they found my moist hole I knew that load was mine. Other times I would convince them to fuck me because they were so horny. I remember once leaving a guy's place with his load in my hole and he said "You tricked me". All this to say that I think masculinity is very compatible with bottoming.

You won't regret it. On the contrary, as a 23-yr old you'll really enjoy the attention of guys at a park or sauna. I started getting bred in my early 20's, when it was very easy to get guys to fuck me and want to breed me. Take advantage of it now. But make sure your hole is clean so you can enjoy the fucking. If you don't do it now, you will be sorry because it will be fun to start taking loads now that you are young. I know nothing about where you live, small or large city. But I would recommend you travel outside your area to a large city that has a nice sauna, like Steamworks in Toronto. I took my first loads at the YMCA in New York, spent 4 days, I hardly slept because the action was 24 hours a day. Guys would follow me, got fucked in the showers, and of course in my room. I knew all about sex at the YMCA from a friend of mine who was a bottom and taught me the ropes. It's the most exciting experience that I can have as a bottom, and I never get tired of it. A few months ago I spent some time at Steamworks Toronto, took many loads, two from the same top. For me getting bred is more than just feeling the cum inside my hole. Sometimes I feel it, when the guy cums a lot, but my enjoyment of the breeding is about hearing the breathing rhythm of the top change, or his moans and groans as he unloads. For me the audio is very important so I usually engage in some verbal interaction while the guy unloads. While the guy is unloading I would recommend you relax your hole because many guys get too sensitive right after cumming, so by relaxing I avoid the guy pulling out before letting the entire load drip inside. I don't like huge cocks because I'm afraid of getting hurt. My first load was with an out of shape older guy in his 50's, in the shower area. He was very horny with a young guy interested in him and he followed me into the showers. He left the showers right away after shooting, but he later came into my room and gave me another load that night.

Right on. The story was different decades ago when guys were terrified of anon cum. I find that guys no longer ask.

Some guys can love each other but also enjoy some kinky action together, like going to a sauna or orgies together. But other guys like their "romantic" relationship separate from the anon kinky action.

Until somewhere in the 1990's. Guys who even suggested having sex without a condom were shunned. Before the AIDS crisis guys fucked without condoms mainly because condoms were to avoid pregnancy. I took loads in saunas, YMCA, and dark rooms, but not because of culture. It wasn't even known as bareback. It was called getting fucked. I remember the first time a guy at the YMCA in Toronto pulled a condom to fuck me. I found it outrageous that he would do such thing. Suddenly, everyone stopped fucking for a little while or got into relationships. But then, in the 1990's barebacking started to appear again The drug cocktails started to appear in the 1990's and it was then when I went back to barebacking and taking anon loads But it wasn't because of culture, but now risk of HIV infection had been reduced because many guys were now Undetectable.

So? What did you do? How about getting on your knees in front to him?

How old is he? Most men have tons of fantasies and fetishes which cannot be fulfilled by just one man. So it's impossible for two guys who are in a relationship to depend only on each other for sexual gratification. Especially because it's many times more fulfilling that a sexual adventure be anonymous than with someone you know. If two guys like each other, enjoy each other's company, I recommend they first focus on the sex, but when emotional intimacy becomes a possibility, ignore the sex with each other because it's meant to die off, and focus on each other in every other aspect of life. I know a couple of guys who met at a sauna. They first had sex in the dark room, a totally anon encounter, and they have been married for many years. Their relationship reminds me of the British TV program "Naked Attraction". I think that every guy should care of their own "sex department" and can of course meet if the they want. Just focus on all aspects of the relationship.

When I was in my early 20's I had a very good friend who was gay and he was very open about his sexual conquests. He was in his early 30's and although I liked him very much, I wasn't interested in him sexually. He would tell me about his visits to the sauna and sex clubs in New York. In those days guys who liked getting fucked would not call themselves a bottom, like they do now. He would tell me about getting fucked by a Porto Rican and how they yelled "Papito, papito..." while shooting inside his ass. Listening to his sex stories would turn me on. So when I went to the YMCA specifically to have sex with anon guys, I knew what I wanted and what turned me on. I spent 4 days at the YMCA and from my friend I knew the drill: when he went to the sauna he would lie in his bed on his stomach leaving the door ajar. So, in today's language, I learned how hot it was to be a bottom from my bottom friend, so I was a bottom the first time I had sex with a guy. Getting fucked and taking loads became addictive. I was then young, in very good shape and I looked very masculine, so I got lots of attention because in those days guys who would be open about enjoying getting fucked were usually more effeminate. Some masculine guys would enjoy getting fucked but were more like closet bottoms. But I was open about enjoying getting fucked. The fun ended with the AIDS crisis. I still remember being at the sauna in Toronto and a guy pulled out a condom, something that had never happened to me before. Then in the 1990's I came back to getting fucked without a condom, but I was now a Bareback Bottom. I made the decision to again take anon loads when some guys would scold barebackers at the sauna. But for many years I had a lot of fun because the world was not full of bottoms like it is today. In the 1970's guys were embarrassed to admit taking the woman's role, as it was considered, as now guys are proud to be a bottom

In my case the "feeling old" started when I tuned 70. In my 60's I was keeping in good shape, riding my bicycle everywhere. In my 60's I remember meeting a young guy on a city bus, just though eye contact. We ended up in my bed fucking and the event finished with him breeding me. We met several times.

I restarted taking loads in the 90's, when most bottoms were were still afraid of anon loads and demanded condoms. I had taken loads in my 20's, when nobody even mentioned condoms. I knew how a raw cock felt and how nice it felt to have a load planted in my hole, so I started posting profiles referring to bareback. I had a profile in Gay.com under the handle "BarebackBtm" that got me a lot of action, as well as a phone service, and of course saunas. I remember a big guy contacted me. I was then in very good shape and the idea of this unattractive guy fucking me an d breeding me, was a turn on. He came over several times and every time he fucked me he would comment on how warm my hole felt, and how nice it was to cum inside. He was comparing it with fucking with a condom on, and missing all this.

I don't think it's easy to know exactly the reason a guy would choose one hole over another to breed. 1) Many guys get really turned on by a loaded hole. That's certainly happened to me, when I've been bred at the sauna, some guy who's been watching has jumped right after the other guy has pulled out, and added his load to the mix. 2) A young bottom hole gets a lot of attention and many guys who normally don't top, would for a nice young hole. 3) How a bottom manages his hole: while a guy is fucking me I play close attention to what the top needs and I vary the pressure my hole puts on the cock depending on the guy's reaction.

This is what makes you be able to perform as a top, being horny for a long time, with an erection, but without having to cum. Do you sometimes pull out of an ass because you are getting too close? Do you ever keep fucking a second round of holes instead of getting sucked?

This is why at this time I always open up my hole because I know it's best for the top to decide how much friction he wants on his cock right after cumming. So maybe I can get a second load. This second load is really hot, and it doesn't happen to often. Most times the top is gone right after he shoots, which I kind of like too.

I started getting fucked and taking loads in my early 20's, and it was very easy for me to get loads not only because I was young and in good shape, but because I was also very masculine. In those days bottoming was seen as something for the effeminate guys, while the masculine guys were supposed to be the tops. I would usually walk around the place, sauna or YMCA, and guys would notice me, and follow me into my room. In those days top and bottom wasn't a thing, maybe active/passive, so once inside my room I would get them horny by letting them touch my muscles and my masculine demeanour. I used to feel very masculine while presenting myself as a bottom, and felt proud about it because it helped me get loads. There's something very sexy about a young masculine bottom.