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hungry_hole

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  1. What's most important is to make sure your hole is clean.
  2. I like to see a bottom getting fucked on his back and the video showing the top's ass as he fucks. What I like to see is the top's hole opening and closing as he shoots his load deep inside.
  3. Although most bottoms don't care when the top cums too quickly (I don't mind!), I can understand gamma911's concern. Part of the top experience is to be able to fuck for a while before loading the hole with spunk. I admire those tops that can fuck for several minutes before going over the edge.
  4. I would prefer that the default value for HIV status in BBRT was "i don't want to tell" instead of the current "Ask me". Do guys who put "Ask me" really want to be asked? I much favor "Not sure" or "Don't care" And for HIV-neg I woul like to see a date of test.
  5. I totally agree. No matter what happens while I'm at the bathhouse, guys posing, walking around, I still enjoy the experience in general of being able to watch or even paricipate freely in sex. I was at a sauna last night, GI-Joe in Montreal. I think it's a great sauna, especially if you are into bareback. I was there for several hours and nobody mentioned a condom. Every fuck was raw. I'm an older bottom and although I still get fucked when I go to saunas I recognize that the competition with young botoms is tough. Those young bottoms get a lot of attention. I'm sure that if I were in my 20's the experience would be amazing. Some of the guys "posing" are looking for someone very specific, probably young.
  6. Hi, as a bottom in your 20's you won't have trouble getting guys to cream your hole. But your profile says "HIV Status: Poz, On Meds".
  7. The worst part is the embarrassment, and the fact that you are the bottom getting fucked bareback. And the shame is quite difficult to deal with. The disgust is part of this shame. Nobody likes pain and discomfort, but as everyone will agree, barebacking and STIs go hand in hand. I don't believe in God and in miracles, but I do believe that there is a way for men to have kinky, anon, raunchy sex in an STI free environment.
  8. In porn, I don't like hearing bottoms moaning and making other noises because I much prefer to hear the grunts and moans coming from the top. Too much nopise from the bottom masks the precious sounds of the top. When I'm getting fucked I much refer to talk to my top, and tell him how nice his cock feels in my hole.
  9. I'm sure it's not only me, but I find most Country Music artists on TV extremely hot: masculine, mid-late 20's and 30's, some hot early 40's, they dress sexy and most times they show a nice package thru their jeans. But their music theme (only one) is really boring: boy meets girl...yawn...There are some exceptions and sometimes they don't include in the story the predictable blond young woman.
  10. I find that when I talk dirty to my tops, such as "Go deep when you shoot your load" or "That hole is for your cock and cum", that many times brings them over the edge.
  11. There's a bunch of social rules that determine the way we can touch each other, even laws that prohibit free touch. If I touch a guy's package while on a bus I can be charged with assault. What's fascinating about saunas, darkrooms, parks, and other cruising places is that the usual rules are ignored, and the idea of being charged with assualt in these places because you grab some guy's package seems unaimaginable. But this article reminds us that technically anyone can decide to follow the rules and the law, and screw up everything for the rest of us, who want the rules ignored while we are cruising. When I leave the door open of my room, and I'm on my stomach, I want someone to come in without saying a word.
  12. I have a private gloryhole in my apartment. I made it with plywood (not just a curtain). The gloryhole is located just to the right as the guys walk into my apartment. Once they anounce their visit and ring me, I open the door of the building, unlock the door of my apartment, and I get behind the gloryhole, and wait. I cover the actual hole with a cloth, I don't see them and they don't see me, for totally anon action. Many ask to fuck thorugh the gloryhole so I usually clean myself in case. Anyone else has a gloryhole at their place?
  13. In my opinion, the best are always the anonymous encounters...they are so hot! But really, it all depends on what you fantasize about and also on your age and looks. If you are a really hot guy, masculine, goodlooking in your 20's or 30's, you can virtually choose what you want to happen. Do you want to get gang-banged in a public sling at a sauna? No problem, go ahead and very soon there will be someone fucking you and others will be watching, and even ready to take the top's place once he's done. But if you are in your 50's, 60's, and up, you could be on that sling for hours and no one will give you the time of the day (I'm talking in general becaause I'm older and I manage to find action). Why? Not only are younger men generally more attractive to men in general, but also there are too many older guys looking for sex. It's a matter of supply and demand. I was at a park yesterday, 4 older guys cruising around. One younger guy (30's) came by and everyone was after him. It looked pathertic, especially becuase the younger guys was also looking for younger. So, are you younger, older, attractive? Because there's also the possibility for totally dark rooms in some saunas or sex clubs, where looks plays less of a role.
  14. Sounds like an attempt of stealth breeding to me. In anon situations (which this is) it's up to the bottom to be vigilant about the condom, if afraid of being bred. I never blame the top for wanting to fuck bare.
  15. I make my own T-shirts with a black cloth painted with glow-in-the-dark paint, like the one in the picture. Becuase the sign glows at night, it can also be very hot when cruising at night in parks or saunas.
  16. Yes, and a young guy's package looks so much sexier, maybe because of a flat stomach. The reason why a kinky young guy is so hot, on a sling or a gang-bang, may be because most younger men are more controlled with their desires and fantasies. I became a slut at about age 45 and before that I wouldn't have dare to do the stuff I do now. Young slutty guys exist, but there are not as many as older ones.
  17. No matter how much we men try to minimize the power of youth, still there's nothing more universally erotic as male youth. For me youth in men is until around 35, and into early 40's in some cases. In general I would say that the most sought after men are in their 20's and 30's. I see that in the ads. I know, there are millions of guys in the world, tops and bottoms, who prefer sex with older men, 45+, rather than with younger ones. But I think that there are many more who prefer younger men in their 20's and 30's, maybe 90% of the men. The other difference is that men who like younger are generally disgusted by older men, as men who like older are not disgusted by younger, simply not turned on. Going back to the "boy" in a sling, I find that a big turn-on. At the sauna Steamworks in Toronto I've seen a young guy in his early 20's being pounded by several guys, and many watching. When the bottom is older the excitement is not the same.
  18. When I keep loads for several hours they really smell, some would say a nasty smell, but I like it.
  19. Thanks for the detailed info, AlwaysOpen. The idea of being in hurricane season is not very appealing. I'm flexible with dates so I'll see what's best.I will have a car so I will be able to cruise around.
  20. It's true that in most there are more bottoms than tops. And I also believe that most tops prefer younger bottoms. Of course there are exceptions and us older bottoms manage get fucked and bred too. At least I do. But what I've found is that after a while of bottoming many bottoms like creaming a hole before going home. In other words, more tops eventually show up. When I go to a sauna at night I like staying late and that way I get fucked by horny bottoms who wanna go home. And I must say, it really turns me on to get fucked by a guy I know is a bottom. I'll try Inn Leather and Slammers. And what other kinky place in Fort Lauderdale?
  21. Slammers seems really hot. Sove is a young bottom so I'm sure I'll never get the kind of action he gets but in the dark we are all pretty much the same. I'm planning a trip to Fort Lauderdale for September or October. Planning to stay at Inn Lather and of course visit Slammers. What other interesting places to stay at or sex clubs to visit?
  22. I've been going to the bath for years and I always get fucked bareback. Of course, I'm very awarw that I could poz any time. But I'm still Neg. There's a lot of anon sex at the saunas and this promotes role playing and all kinds of fun stuff. In other words, at these anon sex places "everything goes" including playing with your HIV status. And to me not telling the truth about HIV status it's OK in this kind of place. If you are very concerned about infections you can go to saunas, and even play in the dark areas, but at your own risk. Not because everyone is poz, but because these are sexual fantasy places.
  23. For me the main problem with open relationships is the issue of health. In this site one can find guys who want to get sick by purposely getting infected with HIV and/or wanting to aquire other sexually transmitted infections. But in general most people tray to avoid diseases and one way of doing it is by finding a monogamous relationship. At least for a while. We know that a large number of men are atracted to the more anonymous, impersonal sex encounters, where the only purpose is to cruise for sex. Once it becomes an "open relationship" how can you control the health issue? Personally, I can accept getting infected with some STI but I would have a hard time being responsible for infecting someone close to me, with whom I have a special sexual relationship. In the case of married men, this special person is the wife. How about having periods of open relationship and then periods of monogamy monogamous. Two people can then negotiate a certain period of time for the relationhip to be open, and even do all the tests and go back to monogamy. It would all depend on the two people and what their concerns areregareding sex outside the relationship. I think it could be very hot to re-establish monogamy after a really sleasy period, and knowing that you can experience both, over and over. Basically, a relationship doesn't have to be always monogamous or an open relationship.
  24. I agree in many ways with Bearbackstud, but instead of being alarmed, I'm puzzled why anyone who likes having sex so much would want be infected and probably not feel like having sex or being able to have sex. For instance with HIV, I don't know how my body would react and maybe I won't feel like having sex. Or genital herpes, which I think hurts quite a bit. Why would anyone claiming to like sex so much want any diseases that may prevent him from having sex? That's what puzzles me.
  25. When I'm at the sauna and I find places with too much light, I make an effort to find ways to turn some lights off, especially with public slings and gloryholes. For me the darker the place the better it is.
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