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  1. I've run into a few guys I already knew at cruising parks. My lawyer, a professor at the university I was working, another professor who chair of Philosophy. We never acknowledged each other presence. Another time I met a guy from work, we had been in meetings together. I'm sure he self-identified as gay. I saw him once at the sauna in one of the Blackout events (lights off). I had the sling room and while I was on the sling he came into the room and started playing with my hole. I knew he had recognized me. He was going to put on a condom but I told him "No condoms". He left after saying he didn't bareback but a few seconds later he was back and without saying a word he stuck his cock in my hole on the sling, pounded it for a little while, bred my hole and left without saying a word. It was interesting when we had to be in meetings together and we never acknowledged any of it. Because I don't believe in any of the sexual orientation nonsense it does not surprise me to see a non-stereotypical self-identified gay man who is very masculine and a "ladies man", interested in experimenting with some sort of sexual script with other men. Men can offer other men an erotic and sexual experience that no woman can offer, such as totally anonymous sex, enthusiastic blow-jobs, fantastic group sex. There are two things that keep men away from sex with other men (1) Stigma of "homosexuality" and (2) STIs, which is also related to stigma in some cases such as HIV. If you can convince a man that he is not "gay" because he wants his cock sucked or if he enjoys sucking cock (or any other form of sex with men), and you can assure him that there is no risk of STIs, then it's easy to have sex with that man.
  2. No matter how lucky a 50+ bottom is or how much action he gets, he would get more if he were younger but with the same attitude. I can now be at a sauna laying on the sling in my semi-darkened room with a glow-in-the-dark sign on one of the walls saying "Cream my hole". I can get a lot of action but many guys come in and check who I am. I'm sure if I were 30 they would have creamed my hole but I would have never done this at 30.
  3. I can't imagine in a sauna too many bottoms feeling ashamed because they already have a load in their ass. On the contrary, most horny guys get hornier when they feel a load already in the bottom's hole. I did feel guilty once when while ridding my bicycle to a sex hook-up. I went by a cruising park and I was lucky to get bred by some guy who was cruising. After the guy bred my hole I continued my ride to the sex hookup. I felt quite guilty by the possibility of being caught with a load already in my hole. The guy seemed to me like the type that would not appreciate it. But he didn't notice the cum in your hole nd probably thought it was lube. For me the issue is more about guilt because if the cum you have in your ass is poz you are exposing an unsuspected individual to possibly poz. In my case the guy would have freaked out if he knew my hole had been loaded and just because I would be a higher risk guy for HIV. Some guys prefer to stay away from sluts in order to minimize exposure to STIs.
  4. Getting fucked by a guy using a condom hurts my hole. It feels similar to using a rubber eraser on my skin, which pulls the skin. Try the following: rub your index finger on the skin of the inside of your forearm. Then wrap your finger with a condom and rub the same area again, and compare the feeling. You can try the same using lube on your finger and then lube the condom and you will notice that when there is lot of pressure applied the lube won't help that much. Some cocks can put a lot of pressure on the hole not to mention those hard and long poundings. In fact, I don`t like to get fucked with a condom because I have the idea that the condom will irritate my hole and make it more susceptible to infections with the next raw cock and cum deposited in my hole. In terms of the top fucking raw, there is no question that pounding a hole with an unwrapped cock feels much, much better than with the cock strangled by the condom. And the orgasm feels so much better when the cock is free. I once got fucked by a really hot guy who had never fucked before and my hole was the first one he ever pounded. We went raw because I had been recently been tested and hadn't had sex in a while. The guy went absolutely crazy and he wanted to fuck me again almost right away. He told me that shooting his load in my hole was the hottest experience he'd ever had. We kept having sex but my problem was that he almost wanted to have sex too much and too often.
  5. To be fair, there may be bottoms who want to have a semi-slutty experience and who are not ready for complete slutty behavior. They may be sort of training to be sluts and for now they only have the guts to get fucked by certain type of guy. So no matter how annoying picky bottoms may be they have the right to choose who they have sex with. But closing the door as one leaves sounds good.
  6. Especially if they are on a sling...
  7. I went to a great sauna in Montreal on the weekend (GI-Joe) and as usual lots of bottoms showing off their hole either on a one of the public slings or in their room with the door open on their stomach, on all fours, or sling if the room had one. I noticed that some of these bottoms seemed to be very specific about the top they wanted to fuck them. Very picky. I had no interest in fucking any of them but as I walked the hallways I would occasionally stop in front of one of the open doors, even walk into the room to maybe play with their hole, and several would say "No thanks!" I don't know about other bottoms, but if I'm at a sauna with the door open it means I'm available to anyone. The only thing I object is when some guys wants to suck my cock and he's obviously not interested in fucking. But I always let anyone play with my wet hole because that may get him a hard-on. I don't mind either if the guy that is walking in is a bottom because if he wants to fuck me, who cares if he's a bottom.
  8. We usually ignore feelings of shame and becoming poz can certainly trigger many feelings of shame. Shame is misunderstood so we seldom deal with it properly. Depression is a direct consequence of feelings of shame. Because shame is such powerful and uncomfortable experience we shut down shame and experience feelings of depression or many times violence. Donald Nathanson, a psychiatrist from Philadelphia and an expert on shame, explains all of this very well with something he calls The Compass of Shame. You can watch a video at . Depression is the Attack Self of the Compass of Shame. The shame associated with becoming poz is triggered because there's a sudden end to an expectation one had of oneself. This experience will vary from person to person and social environments. In the case of poptronic, from what I have read, his expectations have to do with a family and friends expectations of a "heterosexual life" and in his case becoming poz forces a sudden stop to a series of dreams and fantasies which were joyful and exciting. Thus, the feelings of shame that are a direct result of this drastic change in mood. The video explains the Compass of Shame but in order to better understand Nathanson's concepts on shame it's best to read some articles available in the Internet. What Nathanson suggests is that rather than escaping from shame one should face it and learn from that experience so one can live a more emotionally peaceful life.
  9. Now that I'm a bottom over 60 , the best compliment I'm getting these days is two guys emailing me saying that they want to fuck my ass. One is a guy in his late 30's who's been fucking me bareback for several years. The other is a guy in his early 30's and I was the first hole he fucked and ever, it was bareback so he loved it and now he wants more. It's quite a compliment given the fact that there are so many hungry bottoms around.
  10. First, as a bottom I love it when in a bathhouse I get some guy to fuck me and breed me and leave right away without saying a word. It's so hot because it makes me feel like a real cumdump. frenchbbtop, from your point of view, and you are young, you can just make a small effort to after you cum, go to the steam, or relax in your room, and in in a matter of minutes you'll be ready for some more action. Just don't leave the place right after you cum.
  11. Because I don't use poppers I can't use them to relax my hole. It's true that pushing out opens out my hole and as kinky_hot said, it also makes sure my hole is clean. Relaxing is the best thing a bottom can do. I don't like huge cocks because I'm afraid of my hole getting hurt and then I cannot get fucked any more. But occasionally a big cock shows up and I try my best. A few weeks ago at a sauna a guy with a huge cock (for me) wanted to fuck me but I said it was too big. He insisted I guess because he likes to challenge holes so I made a huge effort to relax my hole until he went in all the way. When his cock was in all the way he pulled out and told me that he had just come in and didn't want to cum yet.
  12. Will be at the sauna in Montreal for the weekend March 28 until Sunday March 30. Looking for bottoms who wanna experiment with their slutty side.
  13. You're right, no need to tell anyone anything. From Wikipedia, "Addiction is the continued repetition of a behavior despite adverse consequences." I am then addicted to bareback because I know about the adverse consequences and I know that I don't want the adverse consequences but despite all of that I continue to bareback.
  14. I have no problem discussing HIV status. If the encounter is not in a sauna, gloryhole, dark room, outdoor anon, then I even prefer to discuss status. But you are right, no discussions in anon situations. Plus there is little point in discussing HIV status in anon situations because it is in these environments where most guys are likely to distort the truth, whether it's because they want to hide their status or just because it's all part of the sexual game. I don't like the BBrt default for HIV status to be "Ask Me". A better default would be one that more accurately represents the frame of mind of a barebacker which is "Don't care".
  15. I agree because no illness can be good. Last week I saw a doctor for some issue in one of my wrists and I was SO happy of being HIV-negative and not have to bring up the issue of being poz as one lists the medications one is taking. I find that little things like a visit to a doctor gets complicated with HIV. I'm facing the same dilemma that many men who bareback face, fucking bareback but not wanting to infect with HIV or any other STI. So I see the potential of PrEP but at the same time a part of me tells me that PrEP is playing with fire. I would not use it even if it were available in my area. Can we find any other way men can enjoy free sex with other men without having to risk infections? That would be a real solution.
  16. The issue here is not so much about the other guy's HIV status because Essence once he barebacks with this supposedly HIV-neg guy he will most likely continue barebacking with other guys. Once a guys starts barebacking then the chances of HIV infection increases. I guess this is what Poptronic is trying to convey. A decision to bareback should go together with the realization that HIV infection is now a likely possibility. And here is where to me age becomes relevant when making a decision to bareback. If by late 40's a guy is still fantasizing a lot about barebacking, then he might as well try it and take the risk. But younger guys should think about the consequences and what it means to live with HIV for a long time. Or, HIV may be incompatible with for instance having children. By late 40's guys should know what they want from life and which fantasies and fetishes they want satisfied before they become too old. Because I don't know how old Essence is I wouldn't know what to recommend.
  17. I often hear the terms "sleeping" and "dating" to refer to having sex, even in raunchy TV programs such as Jerry Springer. But I'm always surprised when I read posts in this site of guys talking about "sleeping with poz guys" or "dating poz guys", because "dating" and "sleeping" are used by squeamish people who think of sex as a bad and sinful act.
  18. I'm sure that for some members chasing HIV or purposely pozing others is more than a fantasy. But even then, I rather be given the opportunity to read some of those post and what these men have to say instead of pretending that these behaviors do not exist. I see Breeding Zone as a forum for guys to discuss "male breeding", bareback fantasies and all associated fetishes. Because barebacking is a high-risk behavior for HIV and STIs then HIV gets fetishized. But for many of us "breeding" has nothing to do with "infecting". P.S. I highly recommend the book "Unlimited Intimacy" by Tim Dean, all about bareback.
  19. I agree because I never intended to say that poppers themselves helps HIV infection. Here are some examples from another site where guys are discussing poppers that illustrate yours and my point: Rougher, double penetration, larger penetrations, huge cocks, hard thrusting, taking away initial pain. I'm sure all these help HIV infection.
  20. Young guys seldom consider the possibility that things in life change and so do fetishes and desires. I wouldn't be surprised if by 30 you are a slutty bareback take-all loads bottom.
  21. Most here have agreed that sloppy holes are hot not only when they are already loaded with someone's jizz, but also when the hole is somewhat loose but with enough muscle control to squeeze on demand. But the "tight hole" concept is still around and many bottoms like to use it. There's nothing worse that a tight hole when a top is shooting his load and the tight hole keeps tightening, making the experience an almost painful one.
  22. Those feelings of self-blame are probably quite difficult to overcome for someone who has recently pozzed because it's difficult to deny the personal responsibility aspect of the situation. But at the same time, when it comes to barebacking it seems very difficult for barebackers to be able to stop the risky behaviour. What should a barebacker who enjoys impersonal sex do? Rely on luck and hope to get old enough to stop having sex?
  23. I also think it's mostly luck. I have barebacked as a bottom for more than 15 years, some of those years taking hundreds of anonymous loads a year, and my last test is still HIV-neg. I also wish I were immune but most likely it's been circumstantial. Maybe if a bottom sniffs poppers while getting fucked it becomes easier for the HIV virus to enter the blood stream. I`m prefer regular size cocks instead of huge one mostly because I`m afraid of injuring my hole. Maybe this has helped me stay away from HIV for so many years. If a bottom is into big cocks he may get fucked by a huge cock that may not be poz, but that would stretch the hole and help the HIV virus of another top to enter the blood stream. I wouldn't say that it's luck but circumstantial.
  24. I think that most bottoms would admit that once you cum the experience of getting fucked changes and that the sex drive diminishes, at least for a few seconds. The few times it's happened to me I make the effort and try to ignore any uncomfortable feelings I may have for a few seconds because I know that after that I recover the sex drive. One solution for a bottom before something like a gangabang is to jerk-off before the whole thing starts. I once whored-out a cute young bottom at a sauna. I put him on a public sling in a dark room of the sauna. Because he was young he had a line up of guys wanting to fuck a young cumhole. In a only a few minutes he took 3 loads but the scene was SO hot for him that he came without even touching himself. After he came he got off the sling and wanted to leave the sauna right away and started freaking about the 3 loads he took, etc. etc. Now when I whore-out a bottom I ask him to have a clean hole and shoot his load before he starts bottoming. He can last forever if he first shoots his load and takes a small break. With one bottom we brought into the room another bottom for my bottom to fuck and breed his hole. After that my bottom to a small break and was ready for the sling.
  25. Sex in public slings in saunas can be really hot, but I seldom find public slings in darker areas of the sauna. For some reason most public slings in saunas have too much light and guys are shy to use it.
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