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  1. Another hot internal cumshot and nice breeding. The title is "Bareback Raw Breeding a 22 y/o Latino College Dude". This is the description attached to the video: "2 y/o grad student. I rim his ass; fuck him rough, hard and bareback. I shoot a heavy load up his ass. He likes it so much, at the end you can see he doesn't let me pull my dick out." http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=XMamM-G472-
  2. In your blog you wrote ...and here you said: What's next on your blog? Maybe the story of when you decided to do those "bad things"?
  3. I think that poptronic is dealing with his situation as newly pozzed extremely well. Because the 19 year old is so emotionally unstable and unpredictable it may be a better idea to be nice to him and support him until his blood test for HIV comes back negative after the 3 months window period. Then, disconnect yourself from him, but not before you know with total certainty that he is HIV-negative. Otherwise, if he keeps fucking around and by any chance he gets infected he will continue to blame you for any infection he may catch.
  4. Here's a nice internal cumshot: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=5FyDx-G285-
  5. Uh? Gay son? Homophobic parents? I don't know why this has to be turn into an issue of "gay politics" and "homophobia". Do you think that an intravenous HIV infection of a young man would be OK with any parent or girlfriend?
  6. I don't agree with the use of the term "gay" other than when referring to self-identity ("I am gay") because in most cases the correct and more accurate term is "all-male" or "men who have sex with men." I'm loving the book "Unlimited Intimacy" by Tim Dean but I don't understand why he keeps referring to "gay men" when he talks about men who have sex with men. What about someone like poptronic who recently tested poz and has to deal with not only his family but his girlfriend. He's not a "gay man." I've been having all kinds of sex with men and no sex with women and I don't consider myself a "gay man" either. For starters, I don't feel any different from any other man or boy when I was a boy myself. I grew up as a regular boy and never doubting my identity as a boy because I saw myself just like a regular boy. So I can't identify myself with a group of men who claim to have been "different" from the other boys. Hence, I couldn't say I'm gay. I have never felt oppressed or humiliated about my identity when I was growing up so I can't relate to this aspect of "being gay" either. Using "all-male" is more appropriate because it's inclusive. An "all-male sauna" is for bisexual men, bicurious men, gay men, men with fetishes, men who don't identify themselves with any of the sexual identities, men who were too drunk, etc. An all-male sauna is for men and the men who go to these saunas are men who like having sex with men or watching it, cruising with other men, etc. In his book Tim Dean keeps using "gay men" instead of men who have sex with men (MSM) but at the same time he's concerned that barebacking is tainting the reputation of the gay identity. If he only stopped using "gay men" to refer to men who have sex with men then the reputation of the gay identity would be unaffected.
  7. This is a tough one. Part of the problem that poptronic is having is a consequence of living in a society that does not accept male homoeroticism as normal but as a deviation left for those called "gay men". Contrary to what most people think, male-male sex should be part of the normal behavior of all men instead of sex between men seen as appropriate only for the men who are "weak", those who are not "real men." Women believe this crap and because they have very little sexual interest in other women they assume that the so-called heterosexual men have absolutely no interest in other men, only in women. When women learn that "their" man has been having sex with other men they feel inadequate for attracting a man who is not a "real man." I wouldn't know what to do in this situation because there are two issues: having sex with men and being infected with HIV. One possibility is to talk only about having sex with men but not the HIV. But this only if you are sure the girlfriend is OK.
  8. Young people are too concerned about their reputation and how other people view them. I would have never been able to do sexual stuff that I do now when I was younger. Saunas is the same thing, and most guys who go to saunas are in their 40's and older. Very few guys in their 20's frequent these places and when they do they are mobbed by the older crowd.
  9. Some bottoms forget that they are not the only bottom in the place. Actually, there's usually lots of competition, and may times younger bottoms who get more attention. Some of those who stop and look are sometimes other guys also looking to get fucked, but who get curious. They may even play with the hole, but they have no interest in fucking. Others may be tops who are walking around to see and make a decision. The first time I usually look around the sauna/bathhouse and find the best located rooms. Not all rooms are the same. I don't like rooms where the door is in a place where guys congregate or the hallway is too bright. I bring with me a couple of signs in glow-in-the-dark paint implying bareback as well as a special pair of shorts with a hole which also glows in the dark. Sometimes guys don't want to be seen walking into my room so I prefer a discreet room, hopefully in a darker area of the sauna. It works for me and even many bottoms stop by to comment on my setup.
  10. In your BarebackRT profile you say that you are looking only for Negative tops. Sub consciously chasing? I've been taking risks too but don't think of myself as chaser because I know I don't want HIV. My vice is sex too. Most of us are not chasers but addicted to sex and we would welcome a way of having all the sex we want without the fear of any kind of infection.
  11. I'm a bottom and I also enjoy whoring-out other bottoms at the sauna or sex club. But I refuse to whore-out picky bottoms, those who want cocks of a certain size or tops of a certain age or body type. Being whored-out means someone else is in control of who fucks you so being picky would defeat the purpose. How about trying to be less picky the next time around?
  12. This is what Juan Pablo Galavis, a star from the TV program The Bachelor, said about the idea of having a program with same-sex couples: Anybody finds this offensive? If I could replace "gay people" by "men who have sex with men" I would agree 100% because once you get women out of the picture men sex can get nasty and fun, "perverted" as Galavis says. He goes on to say: What does he think the show would be about? A bareback gang-bang on the sling where everyone fucks the Bachelor then he chooses the best top or best breeding as his life-mate? C'mon, it would be a very lame story of "love" between two men or two women. Boring...
  13. I have to agree with TigerMilner that Poptronic has to forget of trying to figure out how he pozed and move on and worry about himself and his health. hollywoodslut may be right when it involves two men who know each other a lot, either boyfriend of ongoing fuck buddy. But not when it's a hook-up on Craigslist and it's not even clear how the infection occurred. Was it by Poptronic, who is versatile, fucking a hole loaded with poz cum? Or through getting fucked? Eventually Poptronic will have to decide what to do with his sexual needs and decide whether to continue barebacking and with whom. Difficult decisions.
  14. Although I live in Canada and have a good drug plan, I can totally identify with the panic that poptronic is feeling. I would probably feel the same way because I don't want and I don't chase HIV. It is in cases like this that I start questioning things around barebacking. Sure it's a lot fun and it's been proven that many men will not stop in spite of the risks. And sure, meds are available and either the state or insurance companies pick up the bill and ultimately drug companies make a killing. They don't care who pays. I can't believe there can't be a safer way of enjoying raw sex without taking so much risks. Also, I'm not sure how old poptronic is because I think age determines certain medical and psychological factors. I think that as I age it would be easier to accept being poz. I would have been devastated if I learned I was poz when I was younger.
  15. Ageing has always been a difficult reality for men who have sex with men, no matter how much we try to glorify ageing with clichés such as "age is just a number." In a book about research done in 1965 on men who have sex with men in parks, The Tearoom Trade (1975), Laud Humphreys, the author, includes a section on ageing. He describes how ageing affects the sexual role that men take in sexual encounters, what he calls Inserter (top) and Insertee (bottom). Humphreys goes into details on who sucks who and who fucks who. It`s quite an interesting book to read. Although I`m now past the most popular age for being sexy and desired, 20`s and 30`s, and I can still get a lot of action, which surprises me, there`s no doubt in my mind that if I were a bottom in my 20`s AND with the mindset I now have, my possibilities for sex would increase significantly. I know there are many guys who prefer guys in their 50`s and older. But I consider this not to be the norm but just a special sort of fetish, as liking watersports or fisting. Some guys are into sex with older but many are repulsed by the idea of sex with anyone after 40. When I was young if I had only been surrounded by men 40 and older I would have never known I enjoyed bodies of men. I only find younger men attractive and older men don't turn me on unless the sex is very anonymous in darkrooms or gloryholes. I would have to agree with barebutt4tops, that as bottoms age it becomes more difficult to get tops. Although I enjoy bottoming, I also enjoy whoring out other bottoms but only if they are young. I whored out a couple of times older bottoms but I no longer do it because it does not turn me on as much as when I whore out a hot bottom in his 20s or early 30s. At a sauna, tops line up when I whore out a young bottom, as when the guy is older, many look at his face or body and leave the room.
  16. I find that only in gloryholes long cocks are a plus, especially when the partition is a bit thick. Otherwise I have no problem with small cocks as long as the top enjoys the fuck and breeds my hole. I don't understand bottoms who are picky about the cock that fucks them having to be big, especially those who are looking to be in a gang-bang or group action. I've met bottoms who want to be whored-out but insist that they only want big cocks. C'mon, a cumdump has to take all cocks and cum, not just the big ones. I once chatted with a bottom who was complaining to me about not getting enough action. I suggested he change his profile and eliminate the "only big cocks."
  17. Legends is one of the scenes from 100 Loads Fuck with Brad McGuire, Dawson (TIM), Ian Jay. It's a fucking hot scene where Dawson and Brad take turns on Ian's hole, who gets both loads. For some reason I find really hot when a bottom tops.
  18. I've noticed that some tops don't want to be thanked, especially when what they just fucked and bred was just a hole in a darkroom or pump & dump situation. Holes don't thank!
  19. I get the impression that many of the bug chasers in this site are quite vocal about their fetish and that gives the impression that most site members are bug chasers. I think that the common theme amongst members is not bug chasing but barebacking and breeding or getting bred, sloppy holes, etc.
  20. I much prefer anon sex scenes because for me anon sex is no more than sex with myself such as masturbation and watching porn alone, but enhanced by the presence of other bodies that I somehow make them part of my fantasy. Sexuality is not something I like sharing with anyone else so I mostly enjoy anon sex. I enjoy strong loving relationships but sex is usually not part of the mix.
  21. Why is having sex with men hotter than with women? No man would fully enjoy a soccer/football/MMA/etc game where women were part of their team or of their opponent's team. Having women involved in physical activities doesn't unleash the potential that is physically possible when only men are involved. Why should sex, also a physical activity, be any different? I don't believe when men tell me they are "straight" but I know they mostly enjoy and spend most of their time with other men either drinking, playing sports, and male bonding in general. Why don't they just have sex and truly bond? They are afraid of trying it.
  22. I thought Hep C was more common in drug users. In any event, Hep C shows that pozing does not give you the freedom that may guys claim it gives them. If I poz is going to be because I like raw sex in anon settings and not because I'm looking to be "free".
  23. I'm only saying that I usually recognize these versatile-bottoms who describe themselves as total bottoms because I see them at the sauna taking loads and then on the prowl for a hole to breed and go home. Like btm2bbread says: I guess most versatile-bottoms who describe themselves as total bottoms (no mention in their profiles of any activity as a top), being a top it's situational and more a need to unload. That's why when I stay at the sauna until early morning I do get some loads from horny bottoms who just want to unload.
  24. The central issue to your dilemma is "Afterward". That discussion should have happened BEFORE you had sex and that way evaluate his answer and make a decision. I'm against placing all the responsibility on the poz guy to reveal his HIV status, and this situation is the perfect example. gjboy1988 had the opportunity to bring up the issue because maybe the other guy is actually poz but he was waiting for gfboy1988 to bring it up. And the fact that gfboy1988 didn't bring it up implied to the other guy that gfboy1988 is already poz or is not concerned with HIV status. Maybe nobody is poz or bfboy1988 won't seroconvert. The only way to know is the HIV test but you'll have to wait about 12 weeks to be completely sure with the results.
  25. It's not only that I like anon sex, especially fuck & go, but anon sex is the ONLY way I like it. If it's not anon I don't really enjoy it, which sometimes creates a problem when I'm approached sexually by somebody whom I know. I don't mind massaging and all kinds of body contact, but sex is something I keep for myself and with others only in anon settings. I know I'm not alone here.
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