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Will be at the sauna in Montreal for the weekend March 28 until Sunday March 30. Looking for bottoms who wanna experiment with their slutty side. -
You're right, no need to tell anyone anything. From Wikipedia, "Addiction is the continued repetition of a behavior despite adverse consequences." I am then addicted to bareback because I know about the adverse consequences and I know that I don't want the adverse consequences but despite all of that I continue to bareback.
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Pre-sex hiv status discussion
hungry_hole replied to 1slut's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I have no problem discussing HIV status. If the encounter is not in a sauna, gloryhole, dark room, outdoor anon, then I even prefer to discuss status. But you are right, no discussions in anon situations. Plus there is little point in discussing HIV status in anon situations because it is in these environments where most guys are likely to distort the truth, whether it's because they want to hide their status or just because it's all part of the sexual game. I don't like the BBrt default for HIV status to be "Ask Me". A better default would be one that more accurately represents the frame of mind of a barebacker which is "Don't care". -
I'm 19 and ready to be Poz.
hungry_hole replied to JoseDelRey's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I agree because no illness can be good. Last week I saw a doctor for some issue in one of my wrists and I was SO happy of being HIV-negative and not have to bring up the issue of being poz as one lists the medications one is taking. I find that little things like a visit to a doctor gets complicated with HIV. I'm facing the same dilemma that many men who bareback face, fucking bareback but not wanting to infect with HIV or any other STI. So I see the potential of PrEP but at the same time a part of me tells me that PrEP is playing with fire. I would not use it even if it were available in my area. Can we find any other way men can enjoy free sex with other men without having to risk infections? That would be a real solution. -
The issue here is not so much about the other guy's HIV status because Essence once he barebacks with this supposedly HIV-neg guy he will most likely continue barebacking with other guys. Once a guys starts barebacking then the chances of HIV infection increases. I guess this is what Poptronic is trying to convey. A decision to bareback should go together with the realization that HIV infection is now a likely possibility. And here is where to me age becomes relevant when making a decision to bareback. If by late 40's a guy is still fantasizing a lot about barebacking, then he might as well try it and take the risk. But younger guys should think about the consequences and what it means to live with HIV for a long time. Or, HIV may be incompatible with for instance having children. By late 40's guys should know what they want from life and which fantasies and fetishes they want satisfied before they become too old. Because I don't know how old Essence is I wouldn't know what to recommend.
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I often hear the terms "sleeping" and "dating" to refer to having sex, even in raunchy TV programs such as Jerry Springer. But I'm always surprised when I read posts in this site of guys talking about "sleeping with poz guys" or "dating poz guys", because "dating" and "sleeping" are used by squeamish people who think of sex as a bad and sinful act.
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Why I am leaving all groups and this site
hungry_hole replied to Richard303's topic in General Discussion
I'm sure that for some members chasing HIV or purposely pozing others is more than a fantasy. But even then, I rather be given the opportunity to read some of those post and what these men have to say instead of pretending that these behaviors do not exist. I see Breeding Zone as a forum for guys to discuss "male breeding", bareback fantasies and all associated fetishes. Because barebacking is a high-risk behavior for HIV and STIs then HIV gets fetishized. But for many of us "breeding" has nothing to do with "infecting". P.S. I highly recommend the book "Unlimited Intimacy" by Tim Dean, all about bareback. -
Immune or Just Lucky. Did neg results change you?
hungry_hole replied to DarkroomTaker's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
I agree because I never intended to say that poppers themselves helps HIV infection. Here are some examples from another site where guys are discussing poppers that illustrate yours and my point: Rougher, double penetration, larger penetrations, huge cocks, hard thrusting, taking away initial pain. I'm sure all these help HIV infection. -
Whats the fascination for loads?
hungry_hole replied to cumslutfordaddy's topic in General Discussion
Young guys seldom consider the possibility that things in life change and so do fetishes and desires. I wouldn't be surprised if by 30 you are a slutty bareback take-all loads bottom. -
Most here have agreed that sloppy holes are hot not only when they are already loaded with someone's jizz, but also when the hole is somewhat loose but with enough muscle control to squeeze on demand. But the "tight hole" concept is still around and many bottoms like to use it. There's nothing worse that a tight hole when a top is shooting his load and the tight hole keeps tightening, making the experience an almost painful one.
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Those feelings of self-blame are probably quite difficult to overcome for someone who has recently pozzed because it's difficult to deny the personal responsibility aspect of the situation. But at the same time, when it comes to barebacking it seems very difficult for barebackers to be able to stop the risky behaviour. What should a barebacker who enjoys impersonal sex do? Rely on luck and hope to get old enough to stop having sex?
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Immune or Just Lucky. Did neg results change you?
hungry_hole replied to DarkroomTaker's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
I also think it's mostly luck. I have barebacked as a bottom for more than 15 years, some of those years taking hundreds of anonymous loads a year, and my last test is still HIV-neg. I also wish I were immune but most likely it's been circumstantial. Maybe if a bottom sniffs poppers while getting fucked it becomes easier for the HIV virus to enter the blood stream. I`m prefer regular size cocks instead of huge one mostly because I`m afraid of injuring my hole. Maybe this has helped me stay away from HIV for so many years. If a bottom is into big cocks he may get fucked by a huge cock that may not be poz, but that would stretch the hole and help the HIV virus of another top to enter the blood stream. I wouldn't say that it's luck but circumstantial. -
I think that most bottoms would admit that once you cum the experience of getting fucked changes and that the sex drive diminishes, at least for a few seconds. The few times it's happened to me I make the effort and try to ignore any uncomfortable feelings I may have for a few seconds because I know that after that I recover the sex drive. One solution for a bottom before something like a gangabang is to jerk-off before the whole thing starts. I once whored-out a cute young bottom at a sauna. I put him on a public sling in a dark room of the sauna. Because he was young he had a line up of guys wanting to fuck a young cumhole. In a only a few minutes he took 3 loads but the scene was SO hot for him that he came without even touching himself. After he came he got off the sling and wanted to leave the sauna right away and started freaking about the 3 loads he took, etc. etc. Now when I whore-out a bottom I ask him to have a clean hole and shoot his load before he starts bottoming. He can last forever if he first shoots his load and takes a small break. With one bottom we brought into the room another bottom for my bottom to fuck and breed his hole. After that my bottom to a small break and was ready for the sling.
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Sex in public slings in saunas can be really hot, but I seldom find public slings in darker areas of the sauna. For some reason most public slings in saunas have too much light and guys are shy to use it.
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Another hot internal cumshot and nice breeding. The title is "Bareback Raw Breeding a 22 y/o Latino College Dude". This is the description attached to the video: "2 y/o grad student. I rim his ass; fuck him rough, hard and bareback. I shoot a heavy load up his ass. He likes it so much, at the end you can see he doesn't let me pull my dick out." http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=XMamM-G472-
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In your blog you wrote ...and here you said: What's next on your blog? Maybe the story of when you decided to do those "bad things"?
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I think that poptronic is dealing with his situation as newly pozzed extremely well. Because the 19 year old is so emotionally unstable and unpredictable it may be a better idea to be nice to him and support him until his blood test for HIV comes back negative after the 3 months window period. Then, disconnect yourself from him, but not before you know with total certainty that he is HIV-negative. Otherwise, if he keeps fucking around and by any chance he gets infected he will continue to blame you for any infection he may catch.
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Here's a nice internal cumshot: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=5FyDx-G285-
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Uh? Gay son? Homophobic parents? I don't know why this has to be turn into an issue of "gay politics" and "homophobia". Do you think that an intravenous HIV infection of a young man would be OK with any parent or girlfriend?
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I don't agree with the use of the term "gay" other than when referring to self-identity ("I am gay") because in most cases the correct and more accurate term is "all-male" or "men who have sex with men." I'm loving the book "Unlimited Intimacy" by Tim Dean but I don't understand why he keeps referring to "gay men" when he talks about men who have sex with men. What about someone like poptronic who recently tested poz and has to deal with not only his family but his girlfriend. He's not a "gay man." I've been having all kinds of sex with men and no sex with women and I don't consider myself a "gay man" either. For starters, I don't feel any different from any other man or boy when I was a boy myself. I grew up as a regular boy and never doubting my identity as a boy because I saw myself just like a regular boy. So I can't identify myself with a group of men who claim to have been "different" from the other boys. Hence, I couldn't say I'm gay. I have never felt oppressed or humiliated about my identity when I was growing up so I can't relate to this aspect of "being gay" either. Using "all-male" is more appropriate because it's inclusive. An "all-male sauna" is for bisexual men, bicurious men, gay men, men with fetishes, men who don't identify themselves with any of the sexual identities, men who were too drunk, etc. An all-male sauna is for men and the men who go to these saunas are men who like having sex with men or watching it, cruising with other men, etc. In his book Tim Dean keeps using "gay men" instead of men who have sex with men (MSM) but at the same time he's concerned that barebacking is tainting the reputation of the gay identity. If he only stopped using "gay men" to refer to men who have sex with men then the reputation of the gay identity would be unaffected.
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This is a tough one. Part of the problem that poptronic is having is a consequence of living in a society that does not accept male homoeroticism as normal but as a deviation left for those called "gay men". Contrary to what most people think, male-male sex should be part of the normal behavior of all men instead of sex between men seen as appropriate only for the men who are "weak", those who are not "real men." Women believe this crap and because they have very little sexual interest in other women they assume that the so-called heterosexual men have absolutely no interest in other men, only in women. When women learn that "their" man has been having sex with other men they feel inadequate for attracting a man who is not a "real man." I wouldn't know what to do in this situation because there are two issues: having sex with men and being infected with HIV. One possibility is to talk only about having sex with men but not the HIV. But this only if you are sure the girlfriend is OK.
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Young people are too concerned about their reputation and how other people view them. I would have never been able to do sexual stuff that I do now when I was younger. Saunas is the same thing, and most guys who go to saunas are in their 40's and older. Very few guys in their 20's frequent these places and when they do they are mobbed by the older crowd.
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Some bottoms forget that they are not the only bottom in the place. Actually, there's usually lots of competition, and may times younger bottoms who get more attention. Some of those who stop and look are sometimes other guys also looking to get fucked, but who get curious. They may even play with the hole, but they have no interest in fucking. Others may be tops who are walking around to see and make a decision. The first time I usually look around the sauna/bathhouse and find the best located rooms. Not all rooms are the same. I don't like rooms where the door is in a place where guys congregate or the hallway is too bright. I bring with me a couple of signs in glow-in-the-dark paint implying bareback as well as a special pair of shorts with a hole which also glows in the dark. Sometimes guys don't want to be seen walking into my room so I prefer a discreet room, hopefully in a darker area of the sauna. It works for me and even many bottoms stop by to comment on my setup.
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In your BarebackRT profile you say that you are looking only for Negative tops. Sub consciously chasing? I've been taking risks too but don't think of myself as chaser because I know I don't want HIV. My vice is sex too. Most of us are not chasers but addicted to sex and we would welcome a way of having all the sex we want without the fear of any kind of infection.
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I'm a bottom and I also enjoy whoring-out other bottoms at the sauna or sex club. But I refuse to whore-out picky bottoms, those who want cocks of a certain size or tops of a certain age or body type. Being whored-out means someone else is in control of who fucks you so being picky would defeat the purpose. How about trying to be less picky the next time around?
