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hungry_hole

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  1. To be fair, there may be bottoms who want to have a semi-slutty experience and who are not ready for complete slutty behavior. They may be sort of training to be sluts and for now they only have the guts to get fucked by certain type of guy. So no matter how annoying picky bottoms may be they have the right to choose who they have sex with. But closing the door as one leaves sounds good.
  2. Especially if they are on a sling...
  3. I went to a great sauna in Montreal on the weekend (GI-Joe) and as usual lots of bottoms showing off their hole either on a one of the public slings or in their room with the door open on their stomach, on all fours, or sling if the room had one. I noticed that some of these bottoms seemed to be very specific about the top they wanted to fuck them. Very picky. I had no interest in fucking any of them but as I walked the hallways I would occasionally stop in front of one of the open doors, even walk into the room to maybe play with their hole, and several would say "No thanks!" I don't know about other bottoms, but if I'm at a sauna with the door open it means I'm available to anyone. The only thing I object is when some guys wants to suck my cock and he's obviously not interested in fucking. But I always let anyone play with my wet hole because that may get him a hard-on. I don't mind either if the guy that is walking in is a bottom because if he wants to fuck me, who cares if he's a bottom.
  4. We usually ignore feelings of shame and becoming poz can certainly trigger many feelings of shame. Shame is misunderstood so we seldom deal with it properly. Depression is a direct consequence of feelings of shame. Because shame is such powerful and uncomfortable experience we shut down shame and experience feelings of depression or many times violence. Donald Nathanson, a psychiatrist from Philadelphia and an expert on shame, explains all of this very well with something he calls The Compass of Shame. You can watch a video at . Depression is the Attack Self of the Compass of Shame. The shame associated with becoming poz is triggered because there's a sudden end to an expectation one had of oneself. This experience will vary from person to person and social environments. In the case of poptronic, from what I have read, his expectations have to do with a family and friends expectations of a "heterosexual life" and in his case becoming poz forces a sudden stop to a series of dreams and fantasies which were joyful and exciting. Thus, the feelings of shame that are a direct result of this drastic change in mood. The video explains the Compass of Shame but in order to better understand Nathanson's concepts on shame it's best to read some articles available in the Internet. What Nathanson suggests is that rather than escaping from shame one should face it and learn from that experience so one can live a more emotionally peaceful life.
  5. Now that I'm a bottom over 60 , the best compliment I'm getting these days is two guys emailing me saying that they want to fuck my ass. One is a guy in his late 30's who's been fucking me bareback for several years. The other is a guy in his early 30's and I was the first hole he fucked and ever, it was bareback so he loved it and now he wants more. It's quite a compliment given the fact that there are so many hungry bottoms around.
  6. First, as a bottom I love it when in a bathhouse I get some guy to fuck me and breed me and leave right away without saying a word. It's so hot because it makes me feel like a real cumdump. frenchbbtop, from your point of view, and you are young, you can just make a small effort to after you cum, go to the steam, or relax in your room, and in in a matter of minutes you'll be ready for some more action. Just don't leave the place right after you cum.
  7. Because I don't use poppers I can't use them to relax my hole. It's true that pushing out opens out my hole and as kinky_hot said, it also makes sure my hole is clean. Relaxing is the best thing a bottom can do. I don't like huge cocks because I'm afraid of my hole getting hurt and then I cannot get fucked any more. But occasionally a big cock shows up and I try my best. A few weeks ago at a sauna a guy with a huge cock (for me) wanted to fuck me but I said it was too big. He insisted I guess because he likes to challenge holes so I made a huge effort to relax my hole until he went in all the way. When his cock was in all the way he pulled out and told me that he had just come in and didn't want to cum yet.
  8. Will be at the sauna in Montreal for the weekend March 28 until Sunday March 30. Looking for bottoms who wanna experiment with their slutty side.
  9. You're right, no need to tell anyone anything. From Wikipedia, "Addiction is the continued repetition of a behavior despite adverse consequences." I am then addicted to bareback because I know about the adverse consequences and I know that I don't want the adverse consequences but despite all of that I continue to bareback.
  10. I have no problem discussing HIV status. If the encounter is not in a sauna, gloryhole, dark room, outdoor anon, then I even prefer to discuss status. But you are right, no discussions in anon situations. Plus there is little point in discussing HIV status in anon situations because it is in these environments where most guys are likely to distort the truth, whether it's because they want to hide their status or just because it's all part of the sexual game. I don't like the BBrt default for HIV status to be "Ask Me". A better default would be one that more accurately represents the frame of mind of a barebacker which is "Don't care".
  11. I agree because no illness can be good. Last week I saw a doctor for some issue in one of my wrists and I was SO happy of being HIV-negative and not have to bring up the issue of being poz as one lists the medications one is taking. I find that little things like a visit to a doctor gets complicated with HIV. I'm facing the same dilemma that many men who bareback face, fucking bareback but not wanting to infect with HIV or any other STI. So I see the potential of PrEP but at the same time a part of me tells me that PrEP is playing with fire. I would not use it even if it were available in my area. Can we find any other way men can enjoy free sex with other men without having to risk infections? That would be a real solution.
  12. The issue here is not so much about the other guy's HIV status because Essence once he barebacks with this supposedly HIV-neg guy he will most likely continue barebacking with other guys. Once a guys starts barebacking then the chances of HIV infection increases. I guess this is what Poptronic is trying to convey. A decision to bareback should go together with the realization that HIV infection is now a likely possibility. And here is where to me age becomes relevant when making a decision to bareback. If by late 40's a guy is still fantasizing a lot about barebacking, then he might as well try it and take the risk. But younger guys should think about the consequences and what it means to live with HIV for a long time. Or, HIV may be incompatible with for instance having children. By late 40's guys should know what they want from life and which fantasies and fetishes they want satisfied before they become too old. Because I don't know how old Essence is I wouldn't know what to recommend.
  13. I often hear the terms "sleeping" and "dating" to refer to having sex, even in raunchy TV programs such as Jerry Springer. But I'm always surprised when I read posts in this site of guys talking about "sleeping with poz guys" or "dating poz guys", because "dating" and "sleeping" are used by squeamish people who think of sex as a bad and sinful act.
  14. I'm sure that for some members chasing HIV or purposely pozing others is more than a fantasy. But even then, I rather be given the opportunity to read some of those post and what these men have to say instead of pretending that these behaviors do not exist. I see Breeding Zone as a forum for guys to discuss "male breeding", bareback fantasies and all associated fetishes. Because barebacking is a high-risk behavior for HIV and STIs then HIV gets fetishized. But for many of us "breeding" has nothing to do with "infecting". P.S. I highly recommend the book "Unlimited Intimacy" by Tim Dean, all about bareback.
  15. I agree because I never intended to say that poppers themselves helps HIV infection. Here are some examples from another site where guys are discussing poppers that illustrate yours and my point: Rougher, double penetration, larger penetrations, huge cocks, hard thrusting, taking away initial pain. I'm sure all these help HIV infection.
  16. Young guys seldom consider the possibility that things in life change and so do fetishes and desires. I wouldn't be surprised if by 30 you are a slutty bareback take-all loads bottom.
  17. Most here have agreed that sloppy holes are hot not only when they are already loaded with someone's jizz, but also when the hole is somewhat loose but with enough muscle control to squeeze on demand. But the "tight hole" concept is still around and many bottoms like to use it. There's nothing worse that a tight hole when a top is shooting his load and the tight hole keeps tightening, making the experience an almost painful one.
  18. Those feelings of self-blame are probably quite difficult to overcome for someone who has recently pozzed because it's difficult to deny the personal responsibility aspect of the situation. But at the same time, when it comes to barebacking it seems very difficult for barebackers to be able to stop the risky behaviour. What should a barebacker who enjoys impersonal sex do? Rely on luck and hope to get old enough to stop having sex?
  19. I also think it's mostly luck. I have barebacked as a bottom for more than 15 years, some of those years taking hundreds of anonymous loads a year, and my last test is still HIV-neg. I also wish I were immune but most likely it's been circumstantial. Maybe if a bottom sniffs poppers while getting fucked it becomes easier for the HIV virus to enter the blood stream. I`m prefer regular size cocks instead of huge one mostly because I`m afraid of injuring my hole. Maybe this has helped me stay away from HIV for so many years. If a bottom is into big cocks he may get fucked by a huge cock that may not be poz, but that would stretch the hole and help the HIV virus of another top to enter the blood stream. I wouldn't say that it's luck but circumstantial.
  20. I think that most bottoms would admit that once you cum the experience of getting fucked changes and that the sex drive diminishes, at least for a few seconds. The few times it's happened to me I make the effort and try to ignore any uncomfortable feelings I may have for a few seconds because I know that after that I recover the sex drive. One solution for a bottom before something like a gangabang is to jerk-off before the whole thing starts. I once whored-out a cute young bottom at a sauna. I put him on a public sling in a dark room of the sauna. Because he was young he had a line up of guys wanting to fuck a young cumhole. In a only a few minutes he took 3 loads but the scene was SO hot for him that he came without even touching himself. After he came he got off the sling and wanted to leave the sauna right away and started freaking about the 3 loads he took, etc. etc. Now when I whore-out a bottom I ask him to have a clean hole and shoot his load before he starts bottoming. He can last forever if he first shoots his load and takes a small break. With one bottom we brought into the room another bottom for my bottom to fuck and breed his hole. After that my bottom to a small break and was ready for the sling.
  21. Sex in public slings in saunas can be really hot, but I seldom find public slings in darker areas of the sauna. For some reason most public slings in saunas have too much light and guys are shy to use it.
  22. Another hot internal cumshot and nice breeding. The title is "Bareback Raw Breeding a 22 y/o Latino College Dude". This is the description attached to the video: "2 y/o grad student. I rim his ass; fuck him rough, hard and bareback. I shoot a heavy load up his ass. He likes it so much, at the end you can see he doesn't let me pull my dick out." http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=XMamM-G472-
  23. In your blog you wrote ...and here you said: What's next on your blog? Maybe the story of when you decided to do those "bad things"?
  24. I think that poptronic is dealing with his situation as newly pozzed extremely well. Because the 19 year old is so emotionally unstable and unpredictable it may be a better idea to be nice to him and support him until his blood test for HIV comes back negative after the 3 months window period. Then, disconnect yourself from him, but not before you know with total certainty that he is HIV-negative. Otherwise, if he keeps fucking around and by any chance he gets infected he will continue to blame you for any infection he may catch.
  25. Here's a nice internal cumshot: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=5FyDx-G285-
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