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You're not the only one looking for something more... I have a number of fetish interests and the list keeps growing. It's a big ask to find someone who'd be interested in a relationship and shares all my play interests, so over time I have come to believe that "play" is a separate thing to the physical side of what you share in a relationship. I'd never want to suppress my play interests for the sake of a relationship, but I'd be happy to emotionally commit. It's a tough job finding guys who understand this - guys seem to be very binary in their approach: no commitment playboys or monogamous commitment love puppies. My approach so far is to go to events, clubs, etc. and talk to guys - engage in person, play, see where it leads. Online sites work well for no-strings hook ups but there don't seem to be many guys looking for more around.

I'm planning on being there!

I'm a relative beginner at this so bear with me... Last Saturday was the Bear's party at The Greenhouse Sauna in Darlaston. It's a 90 minute drive from home but usually worth the trip - although the bear's party does seem to attract a lot of guys who are just out of shape, there are some nice bears and otters in the mix... First load was a guy I've played with before - I think he said he was a prison officer - anyway we went into one of the private cabins where he gave me a nice sticky load and to my surprise afterwards used his fingers to work it in - at first sensually but then quite roughly - very hot. Number two was a muscley smooth guy who was in one of the lounges enjoying attentions from several of us. I kinda recognised him - but thats normal when you go to these places as often you see the same guys. Anyway after a while we leave the other guys in the lounge for a private session in one of the rooms. From the outset it was intensely passionate - lots of licking, deep kissing, nipple play and rimming. Made a nice change from the pump'n'go you usually get in these places! Anyway alternately sucking and rimming was getting him close so I switched around and offered him my hole. As he began to push in I remember thinking he's a lot bigger than I'd normally take and the previous hole abuse had left me quite sensitive. Anyway to his credit he recognised my reactions and went slow until I was used to his size in me. Then the action ramped up and he pumped full strokes banging hard. Didn't take long for him to shoot... but after he shot he didn't stop. He flipped me on my back and carried on fucking his load in while expertly wanking me off and playing with my nips. I tell you - he must have had magic fingers and wash hitting my spot - a few minutes later I had one of those awesome whole-body orgasms that seem to go on forever and leave you weak and shaking. His hands covered in my spunk were used to lube his still hard cock and he slow fucked me as I recovered... very nice. Then a bit of a break - and a soak in the jacuzzi. Chatted to a few guys, and chilled for a bit. Then this guy gets in the jacuzzi - he's what I'd call an alternative type - tattoos and piercings - neck chains - everything in a kind of pagan theme. I'd seen him before and wanted to play but never had the chance. Anyway hands tend to wander under the bubbling water and it wasn't long before we were passionately exploring each other. The first highlight was when he dived under the water and introduced me to the delights of not only receiving an under-water blow job but masterfully done with tongue and lower lip piercings. The tongue piercing was a ball and the lower lip was a spike and were expertly used... and yeah he could hold his breath! That's when guy Number two gets in the jacuzzi and comes over to us and says "So you met my boyfriend too..." hehe. Small world! So not a huge load tally - but for me it's quality over quantity and I had a great day.

Visiting Antwerp 10-13 March - anyone around?

One of the few things I quite like about Squirt.org is that you can leave a mini review of the guy on his profile with a handful of sex emoticons to say what you got up to. It makes it easy to see who's likely to be a real player and who's just one-handed-typing. It seems to work quite well. Generally with online things, fairly early on I usually give out my number and say if u wanna meet, call and we can set it up rather than endless messaging. That usually is a good barrier to sort the serious from the fantasists.

Hey anyone in the bristol area want to meet up in the evenings? I'm staying in the Filton area but can travel.

Prefer to be "in gear" and by that I mean: sports gear: football/soccer, running, gym wear, motocross. Dainese Bike leathers. Rubber. Used/Worn work gear. Anything kinky and sweaty.

I went for the first time in December. I wasn't really sure what to expect, but it didn't disappoint. When I arrived they asked for my BBRT screen name and I was given a black bin bag to put my clothes in. Once changed I joined the queue for the cloakroom. This is my one criticism: the cloakroom process seemed very slow and inefficient and the queue was somewhat long and slow moving as there was only one guy handling the bags and tickets. I exchanged my bag for a numbered wristband, bought a beer and started to explore. Since it was my first time I started off by just watching and sussing out the scene, but quickly got involved fucking a number of guys. Some guys seemed to be very much in the mode of getting as much action as possible while others seemed very picky who they played with. There were one or two sling hogs who found a spot and stayed there most of the time, it wasn't problem, though, as at the beginning and towards the end it was not so busy you couldn't get a spot. As with all these things there were a lot more bottoms than tops and I felt that there was a lot of competition for the tops attention. Being versatile I think thats why I ended up fucking but not getting fucked which I have resolved to change on my next visit, tomorrow. If you see me there say hi, and even better give me a prod! Andy

I am in Bristol area (Filton) next Mon-Wed - is Lads Locker Room good?

I haven't been in a while but Lockerroom in Kennington had a sling.

When top I love to rim a guy and make his hole twitch with hunger - and if I get a taste of another guy's cum in there thats a real bonus. Like to rim afterwards too for the same reason. When bottom, getting rimmed first drives me wild with anticipation... love it!

Watch out as there is Tenevir and Tenevir-EM which are different.

For those of us this side of the pond... What does 86'd mean? I'm guessing it's not like 69'd! Ax

The Dean Street clinic in London will consult for PrEP. I believe they will sell you Truvada on a private prescription, which can be pricey, but they will also support you if you are buying Tenvir-EM from one of the online pharmacies, which is significantly less expensive. This support is done on the NHS so there is nothing to pay. When I started PrEP, they did blood tests to check the levels of drugs (and hence the medication is genuine) as well as regular tests for liver/kidney function and HIV - their level of support is excellent. They also asked I kept the serial numbers from the Tenvir-EM so they can record against my results. I get my Tenvir-EM from United Pharmacies which was recommended by a friend. They are listed on iwantprepnow.co.uk

+1 for this question. I now travel to NY/Boson for work and have failed to find where the pigs hang out.

The Greenhouse Sauna in Luton (short train ride from central london) has a bear's sunday on the last sunday of the month. There's a free buffet servers in the afternoon. I will say although you do get some nice bears there, statistically it is more chubs than bears. Pretty relaxed and friendly compared to london saunas too.

Just before Xmas I went to The Vault in London. As far as the kind of fun I like goes, it can be hit and miss but this was a good night... Lost count of how many guys I fucked - there are plenty of willing bottoms around, but did manage to snag some action with a spanish guy who took me to one of the alcoves and despite my reservations (he was a lot bigger than I'd usually take) he worked some magic on my hole and before I knew it he was balls deep and whispering in my ear telling me to beg for his cum. I begged. He came. I wanted more but there's so much competition for so few tops, so made do with the one load...

Need some advice... Until recently, for most of my encounters I have been top, but if I'm honest I am really versatile and want to flip. I find myself increasingly wanting to experience the bottom side of things more. Thing is, because I'm usually top, my hole is quite unpractised and therefore tight... So I've been stretching it with various toys ready, but it really doesn't like being stretched and it can be unpleasantly painful. Looking around there are various lubes that have "numbing" additives which may be useful, but I am unsure how effective they really are. I was thinking the other day - I have a tube of Voltarol Emugel which contains Diclofenac. Its intended to be rubbed in to sprained muscles but i wondered if it might be OK to use on my ass for numbing and the absence of pain would help me relax the muscles in my ass for a stretching session? Thats not a question I can really ask my pharmacist so any wisdom or other tips from the community on this? (I realise Diclofenac is one of the things that's I was told you shouldn't use when on PreP. In my case I haven't started PreP yet, so this should be OK for me.) Andy

May be of interest to some: I once heard of something allegedly done in the french pissoirs called "crouton-ing" where someone would put chunks of french-stick style bread in the pissoir - leave and come back later to collect once soaked. My french is a bit rusty but I believe this page refers to it: https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soupeur (To be clear, I personally prefer it fresh from the tap). Google Translation: The term soupeur and refers first of all individuals who take pleasure in eating food soaked in the urine of others, including the bread left voluntarily in public urinals ( urinals 2 ) then recovered to be consumed 1 (it was sometimes attached by a string 3 ). Rarely uses the term "croûtenard" which has yet the advantage of being more accurate 4 . This practice was particularly prevalent in Paris and Marseille until the years 1960-70, and there are several references in the popular literature of the time. There is also a practical alternative, which is to deliberately stop a urinal and wait for it to fill. The individual then urine itself in totally submerging his penis in the urine of previous users, where the most frequent expression, "dipping".

This might be a question or it might be a suggestion.... If I use this site from my laptop and have the browser window nice and big, I see an extra graphic at the top of the homepage and overlaid on it a link to "recent content". I use this a lot as I can check forum posts since I last logged in. Cool. If I make the browser window smaller then the graphic and new content link disappears. No big deal on the laptop since I can make the window bigger and it comes back. The problem is the iPad where my iPad Retina never shows the graphic and link. I've looked to see if a similar "new content" link exists anywhere else but can't see it anywhere. So can you make it so the new content link is available in a menu somewhere, make the graphic and option nor disappear or direct me to the new content link if I have missed it? Thanks

Luton greenhouse sauna has a bear's day last Sunday of the month. It's a short train ride out of London but I prefer it as there is less attitude then the London saunas and it is much friendlier.