Need some advice... Until recently, for most of my encounters I have been top, but if I'm honest I am really versatile and want to flip. I find myself increasingly wanting to experience the bottom side of things more.
Thing is, because I'm usually top, my hole is quite unpractised and therefore tight... So I've been stretching it with various toys ready, but it really doesn't like being stretched and it can be unpleasantly painful.
Looking around there are various lubes that have "numbing" additives which may be useful, but I am unsure how effective they really are.
I was thinking the other day - I have a tube of Voltarol Emugel which contains Diclofenac. Its intended to be rubbed in to sprained muscles but i wondered if it might be OK to use on my ass for numbing and the absence of pain would help me relax the muscles in my ass for a stretching session?
Thats not a question I can really ask my pharmacist so any wisdom or other tips from the community on this?
(I realise Diclofenac is one of the things that's I was told you shouldn't use when on PreP. In my case I haven't started PreP yet, so this should be OK for me.)
Andy