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find91
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Briefs or boxer briefs. I need the support. In summer I go comando
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on the occasions that I have bottomed. Ass to mouth had more to do with connection. If I was really into the top then yeah I would turn around and suck that cock from my ass but it's pretty rare. Surprisingly I have no problem sucking on rosebuds before fucking or fistingLOL
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Only if the person is into scat play. The majority of tops like a well douched ass
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Good you declined. Humiliation play works because you have a connection with your top and even with all the name calling you know they actually do still respect you. When it comes from a stranger it's just mean. Some guys think they are the shit and that everyone wants them so they think they can go around and treat people disrespectfully. People need to get over themselves and realize you ain't young forever.
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Do tops even care if a bottom cums??! And why?
find91 replied to Japbtm's topic in General Discussion
Alot of tops care if their bottoms cum because that sense of making a bottom cum is validation that you are a good top. It assures you that you are good at what you do. This is similar to why sub bottoms what to make their top cums. It gives them a great pride in performing their duties. This is not to be confused with cumdumps that have a compulsory need for cum. All that being said ejaculating is not the end all be all for all bottoms. Some can't cum from being fucked. However they may enjoy being penetrated greatly but fucking may over stimulate their prostate and prevent them from cumming. While others may go through waves of anal orgasms but not actually ejaculate. My personal take is I am done fucking a bottom either when the bottom has fulfilled my pleasure ( this is in a sub/Dom context) or when the bottom is satisfied. How do I know if the bitch is satisfied???. I ask -
Unless you're face down ass up door open waiting with a plug. Then most won't get that you want to be drilled. Bottoms tend to out weight tops some so naturally you will get hit on as a top. A plug is more functional than it is giving signs of being a bottom or top. Great to keep your pussy from leaking those precious loads or wide enough to take those big dicks. But nothing says bottom like getting on your knee's and sucking dick or on all fours presenting your cunt. Best thing is a prelubed hole and guiding a top's hand to it. It makes the message clear.
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Honestly I could care less about a boys cock. Cages are great to make him focus on his cunt. Which is the reason I'm fucking u
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There's this false notion that if someone is promiscuous or self labels as a slut, they cannot be raped. Rape is consent and power. You told them you weren't ready and they still penetrated u without your consent. There are guys that get off on rape and the power they get from it.
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Yes I would especially now that I'm a little more vers. I probably do a chick version of me as well
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Focus on the ride actual enjoy it don't take it like some competition to be the most open hole. Like a lot have said above I find plugs help with opening up a cunt get a good set of plugs that size up to small , med, large. Double ended dildos work nice for opening up depth for longer cocks, but get the ones that are spongey and soft. The hard plastic ones just hurt and not in a good way. Also when playing make sure you don't you always have a good grip on your toys or toys with wide bases you don't want them getting stuck inside you and you have to go the ER. Learn how to do Kegels, having the ability to tighten and loosen your cunt at will is invaluable, tops love a responsive hole. I find silicon lube is much slicker but hat shit can be expensive depending on where u are and it does leave dark stains on dark fabrics( like a permanent oil spot) so put don't blankets. Again as other have said take your time and be careful while training and playing with your cunt. You don't want to damage it or hurt it to the point you have to stay off playing with it for a month and stop any good progress. A little goes a long way, playing with it for short periods daily or 3x a week helps you will see your stamina build up.
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When I top I can give a fuck about age. Men can be sexy from 18-60+. The daddy term now is pretty irrelevant because now I see guys that are 29 being called Daddy just because their hairy LOL. Back to the main question I do like fucking older bottoms, and it can really hot because one, they know exactly what they want and two due to their experience they know how to take and give a good fuck as a bottom. A lot of younger guys are now into the just get pounded out fuck like the top is suppose to me some fuck machine. That can be al well and nice but just like anything you do that all the time it gets boring. A lot of the older guys I fuck like to mix it up and are into the connection just as much as the sex. Also I think just because an older guy/Daddy wants is a bottom it does not diminish his masculinity, usefulness or beauty.
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Funny think is I'm not very hairy, just my Legs. My dad was a really hairy guy so I think naturally I've always like a more hairier guy. I always wanted to be more hairier, but theirs a point you realize. You are what you are you just gotta accept it. In western culture hair is very much tied to masculinity and when you're more of a top their tends to be than want for the hairy masculine look. That ain't me. I find I try not to focus too much on the things I don't have and focus on the positives I do. It did take a while to get their. I does not happen over night.
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Fisting; Loose sloppy cunts; prolapses and roses; Dom/Sub play( I'm Dom); watersports; a bit of light bondage.
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hehehe I never do. ?
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Some bottoms get a bit reluctant because they are use to the pop and go type tops, so the need some heavy persuasion LOL. From your posts I can tell you're a very hungry bottom so I'll probably be enjoying your ass for a few hours. Let's see how many loads I can pump into u hehe
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From my experience being a Bi guy that likes sex most want to fuck but as soon as you hint you want more they automatically rule it out. I've gotten both girls and guys tell me how they would love to have sex but I'm not dating material and we were regular fuck buddies LOL. From our discussions they fell I have "too many option" and they couldn't handle that I wanted sex practically everyday. I don't think an hour a day is too much to ask ( joking not joking LOL) I find most people have a hard problem separating romantic feeling from sex. They automatically feel that they must fulfill their partner sexually completely and when they can't they become insecure and the relationship usually dies. Sorry to be a buzz kill about it but it's just my experience with relationships
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Some tops love to dominate through pain. they get off on the fact that bottoms have trouble taking them it's a big boost to their ego. Tops like me that likes sluts one I feel that you have a loose sloppy hole, it means I can go to town on that hole and just fuck it. There will always be tops that like insatiable sluts. Just respect if he needs a break let him have one. Don't be ashamed of your mileage or your loose hole
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How Connected Do You Think Barebacking Is With Being Poz?
find91 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I think with Prep now you're seeing that theirs a distinct group of poz fetishist and Non poz barebackers. As the Op says in the pas they were very much linked but now you have a lot of guys more into getting breed, for cum and less about getting breed for seroconverting, or the fantasy of it. Most guys that I know that fantasize of it are already undetectable so it's more a reliving that the actual thrill of sero converting. But I may be wrong. -
Each guy is different, especially if you want to hit their second hole. I find missionary works with some, or even doggy with other. I usually pound and if I feel I ain't hitting that way I'll tell or just move my bottom bitch until I get past that second ring. Most tips will always appreciate ass to mouth. I sure do but if you get me hard again you have to take another fuck
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If you think girly noises are embarrassing. Imagine hole noises. I was fucking this sub and his sloppy cunt was making al sorts gurgling noises I could tell he was super embarrassed the way he covered his face. I just kept plowing his gaping hole cuz I'm a bit messed up like that lol
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Actually I prefer fucking masculine butch men and I still call their ass a pussy of cunt. I can only speak for myself but I'm not looking for a man with feminine traits. It's more the fact of the bottom taping into that aspect of just being a complete receptacle for my dick and seed. A pussy (vagina) only has two function to take dick and give birth. It's more of a play because I know it's an ass and not a real pussy, but it so much more a sexier concept that he is offering his ass "pussy" for my complete enjoyment. a man grunting is hot and I like the raw masculinity of it but I also like the juxtaposition of him offering his hole for me to use and wreck.
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I totally agree with you.
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Topping I like cumming 3-4 times. I usually just stay in my bottoms ass because I can stay hard after I cum. I guess that's where my love of sloppy holes and sloppy seconds came from LOL
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Very nice perspective
