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nelliess

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  1. It sounds like he isn't preparing himself properly to take it. Sometimes I might have an issue if the guy has a really thick cock but a little bit of hole stretching and I'm good to go. If you try opening his hole up with your fingers first or suggest he do it himself might make things easier.
  2. I find TIM movies to be very hit or miss. All depends on the performers but the lighting has improved in recent movies. I have to echo the general frustration at the lack of proper breeding in most bareback scenes, which isn't limited to TIM movies. What is the point? We watch bareback porn for the same reason we bareback, to see guys getting or giving a load in their ass or down their throat. I don't need to see them cum, I want to know they've cum and the receiver has taken it all in.
  3. You can turn off the show distance feature while using the app. I find Grindr the least useful of all the hook-up app's. Too many twinks who aren't out and looking for cyber or phone sex. I'd rather have no cock than virtual cock. Scruff, Growlr or here in the UK Fabguys have better potential. But still not great if I'm honest.
  4. They're missing out on the best part of being a bottom. Seeing the tops expression or hearing his grunt as he nuts deep inside, knowing the pleasure you're both experiencing can't be beat. If you're going to get fucked bare it makes no sense not to go all in.
  5. I always sort of think that a fuck buddy is someone I'm attracted to enough to have sex with, but don't really see them as a potential partner. But that could be me doing what cam1972 was talking about and closing down my feelings for fear of rejection. I know that in the past I've resisted being fuck buddies with someone because I do want to be in a relationship with them and don't want them on any other basis. But that again closes off the possibility of it becoming more. Of course being gay has the one major problem, namely being attracted to men. We're awful at showing our true feelings or committing for fear that someone better will be along soon.
  6. I'm meeting a fuck buddy shortly and I was remembering first time we met I didn't even discuss safe sex or barebacking, just sat on his cock and let him jizz in me. Which is the pattern for a lot of my hook-ups now. This got me to asking myself what I would have said to that a few years ago? I would have been amazed that I was unshamedly being a barebacker. So, the question is did you ever think that it is something you would embrace so completely? Especially those of us who grew up during the first AIDS crisis and got the safe sex message drilled into us. I appreciate this may not apply to guys who have always barebacked or who have lived with hiv for a long time. But those who have decided to abandon condoms over the past few years, did you ever think you would?
  7. ​ Steve Richards and Matt Sizemore for me. And in fact all of the others mentioned.
  8. I've always found that keeping a fuck buddy at that level is always the hard part. I never get into a proper relationship very easily as I like to be really sure it will have some staying power. But, a lot of guys fall into having a relationship at the drop of a hat and sometimes I can tell they are angling towards having the 'I'd like us to be something more' moment, even when I always say right at the start that it's going to be friends with benefits and nothing else. A fuck buddy to me is just that. Someone I get along with for great sex and no drama or expectations.
  9. I'm kind of on the fence about this one if I'm honest. I'm not a woman., I don't have a cunt or a pussy, I have a cock and an ass and can fully understand the point that it can be demeaning to have those terms used after fighting so long against the prejudice that we were men trying to be women and not just men who like men. On the other hand I do love a guy being verbal during sex and sometimes I can really get in the moment and get off on someone using those terms. It's probably the 'wrongness' of it that excites me. It's probably best not to overthink this and just accept that we can do some weird shit during sex.
  10. I still find it pretty shameful that PrEP hasn't been approved by NICE and isn't available on the NHS, but I understand why. There's very little political pressure to do so. No-one is going to fight for the right of gay men to have condomless sex after all the safe sex campaigns, even when it looks like PrEP is actually a more effective solution. This is one of those rare situations where the free healthcare model lets us down. Since money is tight there's little incentive to approve treatments for 'lifestyle' situations unless its one with a powerful lobby behind it.
  11. My mind never says 'enough' but eventually I do run out of steam and just get too tired. It does kinda depend on the situation though. Some guys and after one load you're already over them. Other guys and you just wish the fucking and the loads will never end.
  12. When I was younger I was attracted to guys around the age I am now, and I still am. But my age range has expanded as I've learned it's all about the attraction. I don't really consider age at all now if there is some sexual spark with a guy. However I've found that it is true that you don't find many younger tops who are attracted to older. Which I do understand.
  13. I wish Jason Branch would make a comeback and do BB. He was my porn crush for years.
  14. Nothing beats a really good slow penetration, getting it all wet and loose. Once that's done you can take it out and ram it back in, but I love a good stretch to start with.
  15. Bumping this up as I'll be in Berlin Sun - Wed in mid-December. Where is best to go? Don't want anywhere thats too restricted in it's dress code but which still offers lots of sleazy fun.
  16. Interesting question. Here in the UK it was actually a Conservative (centre-right) government that made same-sex marriage legal and they are making a play for LGBT votes. If I was in the U.S. I would find it hard to vote Republican given the fairly lousy views they tend to hold on social issues, even though the Democrats are almost as unappealing on some of their issues. I've never let my sexuality determine how I vote exclusively in any case and I certainly wouldn't keep voting for a party out of any misplaced sense of gratitude. But I couldn't vote for a party that wasn't actively trying to get the vote of gay men and women.
  17. I'm a 'keeper' as well. It just seems like a waste if you don't let a guy's cum get as deep inside you as possible. Of course if i get fucked several times it's hard to keep it all in but I don't go of it by choice.
  18. i'm pretty sure it's Brett Bradley wearing the baseball cap. Who I think is one of the sexiest guys doing porn these days.
  19. Congrats. I voted for you, hope you win.
  20. Pipeworks, the best sauna, is closed at the moment with no sign of it reopening. The other sauna isn't great unless you like TV/TS You're best bet might be to post a meet on BBRTS but there aren't many twinks use it in Glasgow.
  21. Went to a guys place at the weekend who I'd been chatting to for a while on BBRTS. I had seen photos of his cock but they didn't do it justice. One of the thickest I've seen in a while. Deep throated it for good long time but couldn't take it all the way down my throat like I usually do. Gave his ass a good rimming then got down to the main event. I had to take a good hit of poppers and stretch my hole with my fingers to take him but once he was in it was fantastic. Pounded me on his couch then blasted his Poz juice inside. He messaged me today and told me he appreciated my moans of pleasure and wants to take my load as well next time. I think this one's a keeper.
  22. I'll take cum from a very wide range of guys, but I can't honestly say I'm 'no load refused'. Some guys are just too smelly, unattractive or insane to even consider letting inside me.
  23. Sensing a trend here. I like both but if I'm honest I'd always pick a scene with a black top/white bottom. Mostly because I Iove imagining myself as the bottom.
  24. It's generally a case of people, both doms and subs, having a personal definition of what these terms mean that other's probably don't have. To me a dom is a guy who will take charge during sex as that is what their partner wants and needs. They're not a guy who is selfish and bullying, that's just being a douche. I would class myself as mostly sub, but to my mind that's not the same as passive. I won't let a guy do anything to me I don't want them to, but I do want them to be sure of what they're doing and what they want. And if they aren't going hard or deep enough I'll grab them and make them. I don't think that identifying as sub is a particularly 'feminine' attitude. It's a guy who knows what he wants from the guy who's fucking him and who wants to give themselves to the moment. Edited to add: God, I love this site for being able to have discussions like this.
  25. Unexpected last night. Got a message from my buddy saying if i wanted to meet him at the house of a guy looking to take anonymous loads. I usually bottom but I was horny enough to top. We get there, let ouselves in and the guy is on all fours, facedown on the bed. We start rimmimg and fingering his hole. I tried to fuck him with just spit but he was too tight so I lubed him up and we take turns fucking his ass.. I blew my load deep in him then my buddy churned it up and shot his undetectable load in as well. After that I went in again, mixed it up and made sure our cum was planted deep. Gave my mate a deep snog,wiped off, pulled my jeans up and left. Don't normally do anonymous meets but that was pretty hot. ​
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