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I've fucked a few FTM transmen at Steamworks in Seattle, or if you ever get to Portland there are almost always 1 or 2 of them at Hawks on a Saturday night. They really aren't that hard to find in the PNW, but I don't remember encountering one at a bathhouse anywhere else.

We need more full service gas stations.

I can only answer for myself, but I greatly prefer finding horny FTM men that are at a fuck venue to get fucked in all 3 holes, than men with congenital dicks that are sides, no matter how masculine or feminine the owner of the dick appears. I don't go to a fuck venue, i.e. bathhouse, to socialize, pose, cuddle, have foreplay, or even just do oral, I go to fuck and get fucked, so a horny uninhibited FTM that is there to get fucked is fine with me, I can and have enjoyed some great sessions with a few of them.

I want to Steam last night, it was a great night by local standards, but still frustrating for me. I have not been going to the baths very often for a couple of months, my work has taken a heavy toll on me, and while going to an active fuck venue and having a lot of sex in a couple hour span is wonderfully reinvigorating, that simply doesn't happen in Portland and I often end up spending 6-8 hours and leave with nothing but blue balls and frustration. I decided last night I would give it try but would definitely not spend more than 6 hours. Early on I fucked but did not breed a couple of holes before the blue balls no mating dance killed my hard on. Eventually I got fucked by a few guys, the 1st guy to fuck me fucked me for a long time before tapping out saying he didn't want to cum yet, but promised to breed my hole later, which to my surprise he actually did. Another guy bred me while I was in the cubby hole of the maze and got away before I even turned around to lick his cock clean and see who he was. Another big dicked guy who has been fucking me regularly but has never given me a load took a few strokes in my hole twice. The 2nd time he rode my hole was in the sling in the group playroom about 4 hours after I arrived, I was tired and had almost decided to call it a night after he pulled out, when in walked a cute guy about 30 who I have been swapping loads with for a couple of years. It was glow bracelet night, and he was in a jock and wearing a red bracelet for bottom instead of green for verse, but I know he is at least somewhat verse and a good fuck. Between getting my very cum sloppy hole railed in the sling by Mr. Big Dick and seeing the hot guy I been swapping loads with revived my hard on, so I decided to try to find him or at least a bottom offering himself up for a quick breed, which can be difficult in Portland, before heading home. I didn't find my cum swap buddy, but in the maze area a hole teasing cock blocker that I had been avoiding all evening was teasing an older bottom that I've fucked before motioned me over to join them, I didn't join them on the 1st circuit, but since he was the only bottom in the entire club openly offering his hole I did on the 2nd circuit. Mr Hole Tease Cock Blocker seemed to be somewhat taken aback when I actually joined them and had a bit of reaction when I grabbed his cock with the bottom who was trying to guide it into his hole (this guy loves to rub his cock in your cock and tease you with the tip on your hole for hours if you let him, but will never stick it in), he even made a comment about never having had 2 guys trying to handle his cock at the same time (apparently he doesn't frequent fuck venues outside of the PNW), and moved his cock further from the needy hole. The needy bottom moved himself so I could gain access to his hole, which was unfortunately still dry and tight, and before Mr Cock Blocker fully reacted I was balls deep in the bottom. To his credit Mr Cock Blocker didn't leave, but moved around to where he could give the bottom better access to his cock with his hands without letting him take it in his mouth and started playing with my tits and encouraging me. I fucked the bottom for about 10 minutes before I bred him, which seemed to excite Mr Cock Blocker. I then headed for the showers, got dressed and headed out. I walked through the maze and Mr Cock Blocker was still there teasing the same bottom, most likely preventing anyone else from taking an interest in him. Over all it wasn't a bad night for Portland I didn't have an encounter where I made the great pig sex "connection" with anyone, but I did get my pole in at least 5 holes and had a similar number in my hole. 2 guys bred me, and I did find a willing bottom to take my load before I went home and only spent 4.5 hours doing it.

My 1st experience with this happened when I was about 20 and had just started cruising for encounters with men. I was shopping at a Cub Foods, I kept passing a good looking guy who was about 30 who was obviously flirting with me, we wound up blowing each other in the washroom. The most uncomfortable time, and I did not act on it was at a fast food joint in Nebraska, the kid didn't even look 16 and I was in my mid to late 30's, I was driving cross country on I-80 and stopped for the night, I walked across the parking lot from my Motel to whatever franchise was next door, I didn't really pay attention to the kid when he took my order, but once I had my food he came into the dining room with a drink, sat at a table where I could easily see him stared at me and started playing pocket pool in a totally obvious way.

I had never encountered many trans/reassigned people in sexual situations prior to moving to Portland, but they are very much part of the scene here. I had encountered cross-dressers before in bookstores, but the bathhouses that I frequented in Denver where I started going to them both prohibited cross-dressing outside of the rooms. I specifically remember the poster on the wall at Midtowne Spa with George W. Bush's head photoshopped onto an obvious male body wearing fishnet stockings, high heels and pink lingerie that said "no crossdressing, not even you Mr President", because it made me laugh every single time I saw it. However Portland bathhouses did not seem to have that rule. I also had my 1st encounter with a FTM shortly after moving here in the adult theater, even that 1st time I fucked all 3 of his holes. FTM people have been common at Hawks since it opened (and even occasionally encounter them at Steam), and I have found them to be significantly hornier that the typical male since they are almost always there to get their brains fucked out, in a city that has very little actual fucking at its fuck venues. I travel and visit fuck venues in other cities quite frequently and I don't think I have ever encountered FTM people at them outside the Pacific Northwest (which includes Portland, Seattle and Vancouver Canada). I am also yet to encounter a FTM who has a functioning cock that is capable of topping, and have zero interest in getting fucked by a dildo or strap on period. I do have a problem a bit of a problem with cross-dressers many of whom seem to be there just to pose and who do nothing for me anyway. I'm bi, so if I want someone who looks like a woman I will find a woman to fuck. Since the pandemic Hawks has gone out of there way to welcome all trans individuals as it has leaned heavily into fetishes instead of trying to attract men who actually fuck and neither the cross-dressers or the partially transitioned MTF seem to be interested or conducive to fucking. They even have at least 2 employees who are transitioning MTF, the one that I see most frequently is obviously on female hormones, but still has her cock and balls. After reading this, I checked and discovered that Hawks has removed all of the masculine imaging from their website, possibly in an attempt to overcome that.

My 1st thought was do we really need more categories, but this fits me pretty well as a successful introvert, who doesn't do relationships and is also hypersexual.

Sounds like an awesome event!

It was fairly common for me back in the 1990's and early 2000's. While I never accepted payment or paid, I had some really fun adventures.

I can't say that I've ever burned out in sex, but I do try to make sure I do other things. The closest I come is when I return to Portland after a sexcation or business trip to an easy to get laid location, I typically wait a couple of weeks before putting myself through the frustration of trying to hookup here where sex isn't even readily available in the fuck venues.

I did it several times about 15 years ago when I had a broken bone in my foot. I didn't make the injury worse, and more importantly fucked some tension out.

They are pretty common at Portland bathhouses, Hawks has gone out of their way to make them feel welcome. I'm okay if they are there to fuck, not just model.

I wish I could still do this. In my teens and 20s I almost always came at least 3 times without a break when I hooked up. Sadly that dropped to twice by my 40s and twice only happens rarely in my 50s. If I'm at an orgy for 6 hours I can still occasionally manage 4 times.

My problem is primarily with men who just want to cuddle, make out, play with your titties, or in many cases just hang out. It is fairly easy to ignore them on the hookup apps, but harder at the fuck venues. Too many of them will either waste your time trying to convince you to participate in their non-penetrative acts or lead you on for extended period of time teasing you with the idea that there may be an opportunity for a penetrative act. I don't personally consider or see the oral only men identifying themselves as sides. It reached the point long ago here in Portland where the fuck venue patrons in Portland that engage in either oral or anal penetration are in the minority. As an aside because of this acceptance you see more men openly showing off small endowments and openly engaging in all sorts of fetishes that I've never seen outside of the PNW. It is highly frustrating for those of us who consider oral to be merely a warm up act for fucking, when a majority aren't even interested in sucking. It is a region of self identified "power cuddlers".

Absolutely, it worked better than the hookup apps do now in active tea rooms 30 years ago.

Seems perfectly normal to me. I really prefer to live or work in a city where casual sex is readily available and can relieve the tension that way, but sadly that isn't possible in a lot of places.

I've never quite been able to fathom the fundamentalist or modern evangelical mindset. My parents were members of different denominations, and were both raised by parents that were also multi denominational, so I got a wide variety of mainstream versions of Christianity growing up. The religious fighting in Northern Ireland between the Protestants and Catholics always baffled me as a child in the 70's and 80's since I was the child of a Catholic and a Presbyterian, and my Catholic parent was the child of a Catholic and a Lutheran. For that matter my Catholic great grandfather (who was around until I was 19) was the only product of a marriage of a German Jewish widow and an Irish Catholic widower. I think my somewhat unique background colored my views on the diversity of Christianity and religion in general.

I've only had one too do that to me, I've tried it as top a few times, but find it way to painful to cum that way.

I started fucking guys at age 20 and was fucked the 1st time at 21. I've never been monogamous, and started going to orgies around the 1st time In topped and became a regular bathhouse patron about 10 years later. At 54 it is hard to estimate, but would ballpark the I've topped 4,000 - 5,000 different men and been fucked by around 1,000. Most of the men who fucked me also bottomed for me so my total body count would be very similar to the number I've topped.

I can feel for you, I love having sex with other men, but could really care less about being part of the LGBTQ+ "lifestyle". I can also see where adding in the snob factor from someone who is proud of his PhD in LGBTQ+ English Literature could be amplify that effect. We all have to navigate this on our own terms, and many of us while not in denial about our sexuality, it is not the only thing we are.

Only the term is new.

Is there a polite way to tell them that while you may think you know "1001 ways to have really great sex that doesn't involve using a cock", but all of them leave me sexually frustrated? They are just as big of problem at the fuck venues as they are on the hookup apps.

My experience as a versatile guy, is that the vast majority of tops are at least a little bit versatile. So they tend to be interested in both your hole and pole. Bottoms are much more likely to be totally committed to their position.

Sounds like I need to try Club 541 next time. This summer there was some great late night cruising along the creek/river near the Tool Shed and Motel 6, it may have moved by now since guys were not being as discreet as the should, but i would bet there is some good park cruising somewhere near there. I know I either fucked some ass and or had mine fucked every night I went down there.

I try to pull most of the way out to start, so at least some of the 1st squirt hits the prostate, before I bury the rest of it balls deep. This is also my favorite way to get bred.