NWUSHorny
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Does asking or being asked "wanna fuck" count as foreplay?
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Yes I do, I never ask for names. I'm fully verse and it rarely happens as a bottom, but I find when I top there are a lot of bottoms that have asked my name and can remember it when we hookup again sometimes years later, I feel bad that I rarely remember them at all let alone their names.
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or a gay sex resort like CCBC which a few guys have mentioned.
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At least central Illinois is closer to Chicago, St Louis and Indianapolis all of which have bathhouse than it is to Louisville. Housing is relatively cheap, taxes are extremely high, cost of living right around the national average. Decent cultural opportunities in Urbana-Champaign and Bloomington-Normal due to the major universities. I can't speak to the current sex situation but 30 years ago casual gay sex was readily available in parks, tearooms and ABS in all of the medium sized central Illinois cities. Politically the northern half of the state outside of Chicagoland used to be consistently ruby red, but the more urban counties have transitioned to purple or even blue in the in the last 30 years, while the southern half of the state has gone from deep blue to ruby red other than a small area in metro-east St Louis that has remained blue in the same time. It is too far from a major airport, and way to close to family for me.
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My only experience with living in a deep blue metro area, is that the casual sex scene is almost non-existent, so I would recommend against making that the only criteria. I'm in much the same boat. Taxes, cost of living and proximity to family are bigger considerations than political leanings, as well as the availability of sex.
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This is the way it should be, I've been this way as top for years. My experience as a versatile guy in fuck clubs is if a "top" worries whether or not there are loads in the hole before they are balls deep, they aren't going to fuck.
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I wish that was true here. I do +80% of my fucking in the fuckjoints, while I have developed a reputation for not being willing, I still frequently overhear it when a couple comes into the shower to clean up post fuck, and seems to often result in hard feelings on the part of the guy who feels entitled to it, "you got what you wanted . . . "
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My top 2 CumUnion parties were at Sanctuary LAX, the very 1st one they hosted had a couple of hundred guys and was an unbelievably piggish night (I may have been the 1st guy to start topping that night), and the one I attended this July, it had a much smaller crowd than the 1st one, but other than a few much needed rest breaks I either had my dick in an ass or a dick in my ass for the entire 5 hours and it doesn't get any better than that. Even the worst CumUnion I've gone to at Sanctuary LAX was better than the best I've been to in some other cities. I've also been to some really great CumUnion parties in Denver, Palm Springs (CCBC), Pittsburgh, Las Vegas and Edmonton.
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I agree, guys like that are looking for an excuse, you are their type but fucking isn't their thing. Unfortunately both parties end up frustrated.
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Unfortunately it is where I live. For most it isn't intentional, fucking simply isn't the common activity in the bathhouses so they really don't understand they are just wasting your time, but there are also a few that can't stand to see anyone fucking.
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While I'm no longer young and fit, but I can attest that being muscular and having a big dick do not help you as a bottom. Everyone wants you to fuck them, and even versatile tops frequently designate you as the only top in the hookup. Even at 54 and stocky I still don't lack for bottoms if anyone in the sex club is fucking.
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Let go of your inhibitions, be willing to switch positions and try positions the tops fucking you like as well as the ones you like. Be willing to give as well as take at an orgy. An orgy that has a high percentage of versatile men will have a lot more fucking, and as a result a lot more loads being shot in greedy holes than an orgy with just a few cum dumps hoping for tops to breed them. As an added benefit, orgies with lots of fucking keep guys excited and help them shoot multiple loads. Even as an older guy the stimulation of an active orgy shortens my refractory time. Don't be a drama queen, you can let guys know you are enjoying it without going to extremes. Use your fucking skills to coax those loads don't just beg and act hurt that they fucked you but didn't breed you. If I've been to a really good orgy, I rarely know exactly how many loads I have in my hole and I don't think I've ever been sure of more than 7, just that it is full of cum. The last CumUnion orgy I attended in Los Angeles, was pretty close to my perfect scenario and I'm sure I took 3 loads, probably more, and gave 2. What I do know is I spent 5 blissful hours with most of which I had cocks in my hole and/or my cock in holes. By an hour into it every hole I fucked was cummy and my hole was full of cum.
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I have no idea if it is psychological or physical, or some combination of the 2, but taking a load up the ass usually makes me hard and horny to fuck a load up an ass. Even after I have already cum multiple times, or have lost my hardon from watching guys doing the no mating dance at the fuck club instead of hooking up and fucking.
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Typical cock blocker, wouldn't fuck you and then tried to get you to do something else. The baths here are full of guys like that, at least here there is a 0% chance he would have fucked you if you had cleaned out. I think they get off on preventing guys from fucking.
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I'm impressed! I think I have a new aspiration.
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I won't tell the health department if you don't.
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Drive way on a well lit suburban street. He had messaged me that we were going to do it in the garage, but he met me at the end of the driveway and bred me right there. It was in the Palm Springs area.
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Sex is definitely not a spectator sport! I'm both an exhibitionist and a lover of group play.
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The hookup apps seem to have become the place for all sorts of very specific kinks. I can't say that I understand why anyone would pay money to listen to 2 guys fucking. Are there more normal exhibitionist/voyeur activities common?
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It doesn't seem to be the norm where I live, there are far more oral only guys (both bottoms and tops) than guys who are even willing to entertain fucking with a hookup.
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or a tampon. The 1st guy I barebacked used to shove one his roommates tampons up his creampied hole. I think I'll try to remember to throw the beach towel in the car before I go slutting.
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How? I don't think I've ever had someone try to literally chew my ass. I've had more than a few guys try their teeth on my cock or want to chew my foreskin, neither of which are pleasant.
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Maybe it is a lack of imagination on my part, but I can't say that I understand the worthless trash fetish at all, but the same is true of most fetishes. I see sexual fetishes as a means of enhancing the sexual act, they don't extend beyond that, and even so I'm uncomfortable with any fetish that is intentionally self destructive even if it is entirely fantasy.
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I'm okay with up to a couple hours session if we are fuckbuds and have been having sex for a while. I do have a problem with guys that think they are entitled to spending the rest of the day/night together on the 1st hookup.
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or around the base of their cock. Both are equally irritating to a versatile man.
