NWUSHorny

Yes, I've even recognized myself in a couple of "Where did you get (or give) your last load?" and blog posts here on BZ.

I may have a chance to spend the weekend in Phoenix sometime over the next month. I'm really hoping to find a good dog pile orgy, do either of the Phoenix bathhouses, or anywhere else, see that kind of action? What about cruising spots for quick casual hookups, I also love to fuck in the great outdoors, any recommendations? Convince me I don't need to make the 3 or 4 hour drive to Palm Springs to satisfy my inner sex pig.

Sex trips are an absolute necessity for sanity if you can't find the kind of sex you love where you live. It's only been 2 and a half months since my last one, and while I have traveled quite a few times for work it has all been during the week, I really have an itch to go to a big orgy event. I'm trying to figure out how to get at least a sex weekend in the next month.

I only have profiles on 3 of them, but suspect almost all of them work in PS. My personal list is BBRT has been great, 2nd most hookups would be Sniffies, and 3rd Squirt. It really isn't hard for me to find like minded pigs in PS or LA, for that matter.

Club 541 and CCBC are never miss spots for me. The hookup apps also work extremely well if you want more private encounters or if you get horny while resting up between the main adventures.

I can't believe Denver has lost all of its bathhouses. Club Z, the handful of times I've been seems pretty tame compared to what I was used to at Denver Swim Club and Midtowne Spa. I'm not sure exactly where I became poz, I'm pretty sure I caught it topping since I wasn't bottoming bareback. It happened in fall of 2017, after sticking my dick in 100's of cum filled holes in LA, San Diego, Palm Springs and Las Vegas. Slammer is certainly one of many possibilities given where I was traveling at the time.

If you want to fuck me or have me fuck you I'm not going to turn you down whatever you call it. My preference is fuckhole.

I rarely get up to Seattle, but if you know of any cruising spots or sex clubs that are the equivalent of what Denver has/had, I lived there for 9 years, I'm all ears.

No fuck Fridays were always the norm at both bathhouses prior to COVID, it has taken some time to return completely back to normal. I've never actually been to Sanctuary in Portland, but am a big fan of the Sanctuary events in LA. I have traveled for work more than 75% a lot of the time I lived in Portland, and because of my ability to sniff out decent cruising spots even in small cities, there have been times that I didn't put myself through the frustration of trying to hookup here for more than a year at a time and just hooked when I was outside the PNW. Eventually I will get my act together and move to a region I know I can find sex when I'm at home.

I was at Rooster Rock, I haven't been to Collins in several years. Your information about the "morality police on FetLife" could be a clue, even in the ABS, bathhouses, orgies and anywhere men cruise, I've long noticed a strong dislike of fucking and sucking among the fetish and kink practitioners. They seem to greatly out number the regular garden variety gay fuck pigs here in the PNW, but barely have a presence in cities and venues where it is easy to find like minded fuckers. If they are calling the police on us they must feel threatened by guys who actually fuck and or letting us know about the local custom of not fucking. I learned many years ago to stay away from the fetish themed events at the bathhouses, after being told by multiple attendees, not bathhouse employees" that my interests were not welcome at their events. I've also learned to check the bathhouse website calendar if I show up and can't find a parking place, 9 times out of 10 they are having a fetish event (or in the case of Steam massage or spa night) that will be pure frustration for me, so I turn around and go home.

@brnbk not sure if the Portland incident can fully explain it, since it also extends to Seattle, WA and across the border int Vancouver, BC. All 3 cities seem to share an affinity for fetishes and kinks, that I've never seen else where as well as a dislike of penetrative gay sex, or in many cases any kind of sex that involves a penis.

Interesting, I'm not from here, and did not know that history. Didn't most of the western world have similar prejudices and legal crack downs on gay sexual practices? While I find it hard to believe that it would still have an impact more than a century later, there is a definite a local prejudice against gay sexual activities that involve either anal or oral. Certainly the desire to engage in penis free gay male intimate activities is something I have not encountered anywhere else, yet is very prevalent here.

Two good reason not to drive it as deep as I can. Felching a freshly bred ass and seeing his reaction when I manage to squirt directly on his prostate.

My problem is, and I'm fully versatile, is that most guys here simply don't fuck or get fucked. Even for oral, which I consider foreplay not the main course, while there are more than enough cock suckers to go around for the limited number of men that allow strangers to suck their cock, there really isn't even an abundance of cock suckers. For the most part the legal issue is close to a moot point, it is legal in any private establishment that chooses to allow it, so you are safe from arrest and prosecution in the bathhouse, ABS, adult theater and even a few bars. We even have officially nude beach parks that have wooded areas that serve as cruising areas. One of my major problems is the guys that don't fuck or even suck, use the same hookup spots and create so much signal interference that it makes it difficult to even cruise for a random fuck. The hookup apps are no better, they are full of profiles of men looking for a relationship, a buddy to hang out with, or guys who only want to engage in cuddling and other forms of very preliminary foreplay, not find someone to fuck and breed with. For the most part parks have an enforced closing time, we don't have much opportunity for that. Especially when factoring in the cock blocking signal interference, an hour or 2 isn't enough time to find someone.

Interesting, I did not know that we were #1 for religiously unaffiliated. I did know we were #2 in the US for the highest % that identify as gay. [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.businessinsider.com/the-most-and-least-gay-cities-in-america-2015-3 and 5th in gay marriages (actually I thought we were 2nd or 3rd) [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/u-s-cities-highest-rate-same-sex-married-couples-n852716 but, there is a lot of, for lack of a better term, men who like men but are functionally lesbian, or gay romantic asexuals. I've often wondered if the gay marriages aren't predominately sexless.

I've seen some gear there, but the emphasis is very much on the sex. There may be exceptions, but in the US there generally seems to be an inverse relationship to the amount fetish gear and the amount of sex. I almost feel like you have to choose one of the other.

In most of the US, parents are notified and have right to opt their children out of the sexual education portion of health classes. I don't know how prevalent opting out is, but can tell you that 40 odd years ago roughly half of the kids in my small midwestern town were opted out of it by their parents, and sent to study hall. That area has become significantly more Evangelical Christian in the intervening years, so I would guess even more opt out today.

@brnbk there are certainly a lot of guys looking for relationships here, a huge percentage of the hookup app profiles express their desire for a relationship rather than casual sex, even in the bathhouses a significant percentage are looking for Mr Right instead of boning with Mr Right Now. I'm not sure why I would be attractive to them, I don't try to hide how slutty I am, and while I am a professional with a successful career and comfortably well off, but I don't make any effort to look that way when I'm looking to get laid. I have serious doubts that many gay men in Portland have been to conversion therapy, it isn't a particularly Evangelical Christian city, but does have one of the highest number of openly gay people per capita in the US. Portland does seem to have been ground 0 for the current cuddling movement, at least in the US. There are multiple cuddling clubs and events that have strict posted rules against any genital touching. One such cuddle party was the primary vector for local monkeypox outbreak in 2022. I too have been observing and trying to figure out the local scene, for many years, mostly out of the frustration of having to live in it. Originally I assumed I just wasn't finding where the horny promiscuous guys hung out, but eventually came to the conclusion that there is simply less casual hooking up here as compared to most cities.

Update: I went to the same beach again today. I managed to find a guy to fuck, found one to fuck me, and witnessed 1 other pair fucking. I also saw 4 or 5 pairs of guys sucking, quite a few circle jerks, even more guys just making out and playing with each others tits while totally ignoring the fact that they were naked and had cocks. I didn't see the guy from last week, maybe he decided to play it safe and stay out of the woods where guys might actually hookup and have more than foreplay. Not a bad day for me given the location.

If it were me, I would be figuring out how to maneuvering him into him fucking you while you fuck his bottom pal.

I'm starting to think online gay hookup profiles need to include a glossary of terms, both when they are filled out and for the reader of the profile. Far too many men interpret gay sex terms to mean something entirely different than I do.

I prefer being able to see and enjoy the fuck and orgy as well. That being said I'll fuck or get fucked anywhere there is action.

I've had it happen, and have done it for other guys, but it has always happened spontaneously in play spaces with a lot of activity.

There may be, but I'm not familiar with them. I have lived in Portland for the last 17 years, and have worked mostly but not exclusively in the western 2/3rds US and Canada during that time. I haven't found anything like what I experience in Vancouver, Seattle and Portland or the smaller cities of the Pacific Northwest anywhere else. I seem to have an instinctual ability to sniff out the gay cruising spots and readily find hookups even in most smaller cities, I can still find the gay cruising spots in the PNW, but often can't figure out how to close the deal and actually have sex or worse do and run up against attitudes about sex that are even more puritan than this guy, he at least sucked my cock and let me suck his. It mostly happens in the PNW bathhouses not cruising spots, but I have a special knack for attracting the guy that knows 1001 ways to have really great gay sex where no one has to touch each others icky dicks, or just wants someone to hang out and cuddle with, which is something I have not encountered anywhere else. I came of age sexually in the Midwest, where I can still easily find like minded hookups, and then fucked my brains out every weekend when I lived in Dallas and Denver, so it was quite a shock when I moved here. There is no way I could have stayed if my job did not involve traveling. For what it's worth, I just checked the BBRT sex party postings for: Vancouver, BC 3 postings 1 of which is a Cumunion total confirmed participants 3; Seattle, WA 2 postings both Cumunion parties total confirmed participants 2; Portland, OR 2 postings 1 of which is a Cumunion party total confirmed participants 8. So based on that measure alone Portland looks like the hot spot. If you need advice on hooking up in western Canada, I could easily help you out on Edmonton, Calgary and cities going east into far western ON. If you needed help in Vancouver, Victoria or anywhere in BC you would be better off asking someone else, even though I have spent a lot of time in that area.

The irony is, Portland is a large liberal city, with an exceptionally large out gay population, that prides itself on how open and accepting they are. However, I've never lived or traveled anywhere that was more uptight and inhibited about the act of fucking i.e. penetration with a penis than they are in the PNW of the US or the west coast of Canada. They live to cuddle, play kinks and fetishes, just don't ask them to touch your cock or let you touch theirs.