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I definitely draw a distinction between fucking and breeding. If I go to an orgy or fuck venue that is extremely active, I will likely fuck 30 or more holes for at least a few strokes, but at almost 55 I'm not going to breed more than 4 of them, and the volume of the last load will be small (I really miss my youth when I could cum 7 times a night for several consecutive days) Since I'm versatile the same is true on bottoming, I know I will get guys to fuck me that are not going to breed me. Recreational fucking is fun too.

The ones that make their holes easy access, move around and actively participate in the fuck and visible enjoy getting pounded.

The last time I was at Steamworks in Seattle I went to their 1st post pandemic Cumunion party. They no longer had a steam room. It had been replaced with a posing room that, if I remember right contained 3 slings for bottoms to pose in. There was still some pent up sexual energy left over from the pandemic, and some actual fucking taking place elsewhere in the facility, which was highly unusual even for Cumumion parties there.

Most of us were avoiding cumming in each other during the late 80's, when I came of age, through sometime in early 00's in an effort not to die young from an incurable. My personal belief is that term started within the gay community it started among bugchasers and indicated infection, but expanded in the last 10 years, with the avent of PREP, to mean any insemination of a gay man's ass.

No where near often enough, I've never been able to keep fuckbuds long in the city I live in now, so I only see them when I travel or they travel here.

For me it means at least 1 of us shot cum into a hole.

I had several for the entire 9 years I lived in Denver. Longest current fuckbud is coming up on 4 years.

I suspect that it is common for people that are deeply steeped in religion to try to suppress their gay urges, and hate themselves after they give into and act on their biological urges. It isn't just gays that develop all sorts of inhibitions and restrictions on sex that come from religious indoctrination, straight people tend to do the same.

While I've never been to a Horsemarket, I would think presenting your hole for easy access regardless of whether you are face up or face down or what piece of furniture you are on.

I'm at 0 given and 0 taken, I've been busy with work, and was not even able to find a ready and willing bottom at the bathhouse here in Portland in the time I alotted to the task on my 2 trips to date. I'm stressed and horny wishing I could blow off some steam/cum, but have come to the conclusion Im better off waiting until I go to LA in a week and a half, and Palm Springs the week after, rather than put myself through the frustration of trying locally and then hooking up to find they only do things that i consider foreplay.

Lucky slut, Chicago and Denver are great destinations for guys who enjoy hooking up with strangers.

The answer is yes, all of them. I find it is much more fun to try multiple positions, and finish in one that works great for both the top and bottom.

There are a few bottoms who have bodies that make enough natural anal lube/mucus that I can't tell. I even had one bottom that had not even been fucked yet on the day I fucked him for the 1st time that thought he had an accident, but what soaked my pubes was white and smelled just like cum. We now know it happens every time I fuck him, and since we almost always hookup at fuck venues the only way I would know he weather he is loaded or not is if he tells me. Fucking his ass is always a truly wet an amazing experience.

My personal preference is that he should. If I'm fucking a man, I know he has a cock and both cocks should be accessible and part of any sex play between 2 men. I'm bi, so if I wanted sex with only 1 cock involved I will fuck a woman. While it may not make a difference if you are trying to get fucked at an active venue in a city with an abundance of horny men, it is my observation is that introducing cock cages at fuck venue in cities that don't have much of a casual fuck scene depresses the amount of fucking even more. In the less active cities the chastity device is likely to be a conversation starter for guys who have no interest in penetration of any kind.

Have fun and good luck, you have a plethora of relatively local opportunities in LA and Palm Springs, San Diego used to have good bathhouses as well, so maybe I was just there on a bad night. Pretty much every Cumunion is a fuck free blue ball fest here in the PNW (Portland, Seattle and Vancouver, BC).

The MAGA have pretty much killed satyr. The Onion can't compete with "real" QAnon crazy stories.

As several others have said real dick is the way to go, I did not enjoy sticking inanimate objects up my ass before I lost my anal virginity and never will. You do have to relax and let your inhibitions go, which I suspect is easier said than done for some guys. I was very excited and opened up painlessly the very 1st time I got fucked, although I had selected someone who was on the smaller side to take my virginity. The 2nd guy to top me a couple of days later, was huge and did not cause a problem for me either, he and I became fuck buds, both of us had permanently loosened holes within a couple of weeks of the start of that relationship.

I wouldn't abandon the idea entirely, just don't be completely blatant about it, try to play it cool. I've doing it 35 years and have been successful at not getting arrested so far. My biggest obstacle is there are cities where it doesn't work, including the one I currently live in. It doesn't stop me from keeping a look out when I travel, so I have hooked up that way within the last several months.

Palm Springs Cumunion's have always been good for me. I've only been to a Cumunion party in San Diego once, and it was a total blue ball fest, I stayed 4 hours there was a little bit of sucking happening, but did not hear or see any indication of anyone fucking the entire time I was there. As to technique in Palm Springs at least at CCBC (I haven't been to a Cumunion All Worlds yet and don't have great luck there on non-Cumunion days) the usual cruising techniques work if you want to connect with the guy before he fucks you, or if you just need fucked and don't care who is fucking you jump in a sling, on a fuck horse or present your hole to the crowd on one of the benches and someone will stick their dick in it. Another good option for you since you are in Los Angeles, is the [think before following links] [think before following links] https://cumplayla.com/sessions/new which was formerly Cumunion event at Sanctuary LAX, that is the best most active Cumunion party I've ever been to. It is currently the 1st Friday of the month. Any method of hooking up you want to try works at this event just make your hole available, you will get fucked. A huge percentage of the fucking takes place on 1 or 2 long benches that bottoms can get on and offer both their ass and mouth simultaneously, tops work their way around the offered holes fucking who they please. They also normally have 1 or 2 slings, fuck horses, St Andrews crosses, several large beds, and smaller benches to fuck on. The last time I went in July, I was one of the 1 st in the door and spent the entire 7 hours, and other than some needed rest periods either had my pole in a hole or a pole in my hole the entire time. I have tried to get to that party a few times a year since they have been holding it, even a bad night at it is better than the best Cumunion party in several cities I've attended them in. I haven't been to a Cumunion at Slammer yet, but the parties at the now closed Club 1350, while not as great as the ones held at Sanctuary LAX were pretty damn good in their own right.

My position is exactly the same. It's ok for someone else, but he'll no for me.

I've never seen it in a tearoom. I've definitely found such things left on my car at outdoor cruising spots.

To @slaveboi point, Sniffles has pins on the map for a give tearooms and guys posting that they are there. I'm not sure it is a great idea, since law enforcement could very well use the info to make busts, but it is a resource to tell whether or not a location is active.

Ironically, I've always done quite well finding like minded Mormon pigs to rut with in SLC, and I have worked in SLC for extended periods of time. It has never been good for me in PDX and I've lived here since 2007. Maybe someday I will figure out why my hooking up style is completely incompatible with the PNW. It is equally incompatible in PDX, SEA, YYJ and YVR.

That's pretty much how I learned. Hopefully there are still libraries with a copy, I read it back in 1988 or 9, and still consider it invaluable. If you are trying to hookup at the urinals be on the lookout for eye contact and motion in the arms before looking down at the dick.

My VL goes above 100 occasionally, it is usually in the 30-50 range and I think has only met the under 20 threshold for undetectable twice in 5 and a half years, but was over a million before I started treatment. My ID doc has been reluctant to try to change my treatment because my CD4 count has stayed in the 850-900 range and was only below the 400 threshold while under going chemo, but even then the CD4/CD8 ratio remained in the normal range so it may not be a good measure. He has asked me about missed doses right after I finished chemo, but hasn't since and generally considers my HIV infection well under control. I would be concerned if my CD4 count dropped below 400, but would probably brush it off at 500.