NWUSHorny
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They are pretty common at Portland bathhouses, Hawks has gone out of their way to make them feel welcome. I'm okay if they are there to fuck, not just model.
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Any tops been able to train themselves to cum and keep fucking?
NWUSHorny replied to a topic in General Discussion
I wish I could still do this. In my teens and 20s I almost always came at least 3 times without a break when I hooked up. Sadly that dropped to twice by my 40s and twice only happens rarely in my 50s. If I'm at an orgy for 6 hours I can still occasionally manage 4 times. -
My problem is primarily with men who just want to cuddle, make out, play with your titties, or in many cases just hang out. It is fairly easy to ignore them on the hookup apps, but harder at the fuck venues. Too many of them will either waste your time trying to convince you to participate in their non-penetrative acts or lead you on for extended period of time teasing you with the idea that there may be an opportunity for a penetrative act. I don't personally consider or see the oral only men identifying themselves as sides. It reached the point long ago here in Portland where the fuck venue patrons in Portland that engage in either oral or anal penetration are in the minority. As an aside because of this acceptance you see more men openly showing off small endowments and openly engaging in all sorts of fetishes that I've never seen outside of the PNW. It is highly frustrating for those of us who consider oral to be merely a warm up act for fucking, when a majority aren't even interested in sucking. It is a region of self identified "power cuddlers".
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Did you ever write your advert for sex on a toilet wall
NWUSHorny replied to a topic in General Discussion
Absolutely, it worked better than the hookup apps do now in active tea rooms 30 years ago. -
Seems perfectly normal to me. I really prefer to live or work in a city where casual sex is readily available and can relieve the tension that way, but sadly that isn't possible in a lot of places.
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I've never quite been able to fathom the fundamentalist or modern evangelical mindset. My parents were members of different denominations, and were both raised by parents that were also multi denominational, so I got a wide variety of mainstream versions of Christianity growing up. The religious fighting in Northern Ireland between the Protestants and Catholics always baffled me as a child in the 70's and 80's since I was the child of a Catholic and a Presbyterian, and my Catholic parent was the child of a Catholic and a Lutheran. For that matter my Catholic great grandfather (who was around until I was 19) was the only product of a marriage of a German Jewish widow and an Irish Catholic widower. I think my somewhat unique background colored my views on the diversity of Christianity and religion in general.
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I've only had one too do that to me, I've tried it as top a few times, but find it way to painful to cum that way.
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I started fucking guys at age 20 and was fucked the 1st time at 21. I've never been monogamous, and started going to orgies around the 1st time In topped and became a regular bathhouse patron about 10 years later. At 54 it is hard to estimate, but would ballpark the I've topped 4,000 - 5,000 different men and been fucked by around 1,000. Most of the men who fucked me also bottomed for me so my total body count would be very similar to the number I've topped.
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I can feel for you, I love having sex with other men, but could really care less about being part of the LGBTQ+ "lifestyle". I can also see where adding in the snob factor from someone who is proud of his PhD in LGBTQ+ English Literature could be amplify that effect. We all have to navigate this on our own terms, and many of us while not in denial about our sexuality, it is not the only thing we are.
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Only the term is new.
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Is there a polite way to tell them that while you may think you know "1001 ways to have really great sex that doesn't involve using a cock", but all of them leave me sexually frustrated? They are just as big of problem at the fuck venues as they are on the hookup apps.
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My experience as a versatile guy, is that the vast majority of tops are at least a little bit versatile. So they tend to be interested in both your hole and pole. Bottoms are much more likely to be totally committed to their position.
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Palm Springs sex vacation destination
NWUSHorny replied to Openmouthpolicy's topic in General Discussion
Sounds like I need to try Club 541 next time. This summer there was some great late night cruising along the creek/river near the Tool Shed and Motel 6, it may have moved by now since guys were not being as discreet as the should, but i would bet there is some good park cruising somewhere near there. I know I either fucked some ass and or had mine fucked every night I went down there. -
I try to pull most of the way out to start, so at least some of the 1st squirt hits the prostate, before I bury the rest of it balls deep. This is also my favorite way to get bred.
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Can you get pozzed from a cumdump?
NWUSHorny replied to BritishCumdump's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I'm almost certain this is how I became HIV positive. I barebacked cumdumps at bathhouses and orgies for years, while only rarely allowing bare cock in my hole at all and never let anyone cum in me. While it is possible I was stealthed, it seems far more likely that I caught it from one on the cum filled holes I indiscriminately stuck my cock in. -
Is the Cumunion party at All Worlds worthwhile? I haven't been to one there, but my non-Cumunion experiences have been mediocre, i.e. lots of foreplay and sucking but very little fucking, at best. I always leave CCBC with empty balls and a full hole, and have not seen a condom used there in several years.
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The guys that want to waste your time, with all sorts of activities that they can do without having to even touch a dick.
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The weirdest thing I've seen in this regard was one night in Palm Springs, I happened across 4 guy going at it, one bent over taking it at both ends from the other 3, and several others standing around watching both the action and their phones. I hung back to start with thinking they were filming the orgy, but once I realized what they weren't filming I jumped into the fray. Eventually probably a dozen guys joined the fray and at least that many more showed up but just watched while diddling their phones.
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I don't know of anyone here that actually caught MP at a bathhouse or ABS. Ironically a no touching below the belt, clothed cuddle party was the disease vector for the 2 local guys I know caught it. From what I've heard the cuddle parties are still popular.
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I'm curious, did San Francisco see a brief but big increase in cruising fucking after COVID? Here in Portland the summer of '21 was the best I've ever seen it, and I've lived here since '07. Things tapered off gradually until Monkeypox hit in the summer of '22 before unfortunately returning to normal.
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I was in a park in LA this summer, where this form of cruising seemed to work. Once I got past everyone staring at their phones and looking like zombies, I managed to use Sniffles of a couple of decent fucks. Here in Portland, I have know idea what would actually work well for cruising.
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I believe we are fairly rare. It can be really difficult for those of us that moved to a place that the other rare breeds within the subset have flocked to. I live in the PNW an area that has a much higher than normal percentage of the population that is openly gay, unfortunately that does not necessarily translate into a sex scene that is full of "wanton lust",. It seems to have attracted a combination of those that are gay but want the heteronormative monogamous relationships, and those that are into kinks and fetishes of all sorts that don't see cock as the primary object in a sex act. We exist as some percentage of the population everywhere, but that percentage varies widely. It is actually easier for me to find guys into quick easy hookups in the smaller conservative Midwestern cities with almost no openly gay population that I've lived and worked in than it is in Portland or Seattle with their large gay populations. Here in the PNW even the local cruising spots and fuck venue, and there are a lot of them, are dominated by men either looking for Mr Right to start a long term relationship with or they are functionally lesbian, or I suspect in many cases both.
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Sounds like is the same as the PNW region of the United States. My sympathies.
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I see the same problem in Portland, it is perfectly acceptable to be openly gay and indulge in any and every fetish or kink, just don't ask them to fuck. They know at least 1001 ways to have "really great sex if you promise not to touch my icky dick and I promise not to touch your icky dick." The bathhouses both host events that cater to the men who want to see and be seen as gay but aren't into casual sex, it is probably the only way to keep the doors open.
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My peak years for acting on my sex drive were in my 30's. My sex drive hasn't diminished, I moved from a city where I could almost always find a willing partner if I had a free hour to one where I couldn't at 38. After spending 16 years here, the availability of casual sex will be a factor in where I decide to move next.
