NWUSHorny
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I'd slightly rather have the frottage guy than the guy that knows 1001 ways to have "sex" without anyone having to touch a cock. Foot fetish guys are for the most part in the latter category, although I've had guys try to use their feet to jack me off.
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Personally I find the MAGA version of alpha superiority, like everything else about MAGA to be an inauthentic, completely superficial, professional wrestling style take on it. I usually can't tell real MAGA behavior and philosophy from parody.
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@BlackDude so that doesn't explain the gay men that I classify as functionally lesbian. I would put them in a different category than the other 4-play guys. They completely avoid your cock and won't let you near theirs. Bizarrely, some of them are into fisting, which is by most standards about as piggish as you can get. The 4-play guys that I don't consider to be functionally lesbian, enthusiastically include penile contact in their activities. They are into at very least frottage and jacking each other off. More often than not they do want to actually cum and/or get you to cum as long as they don't have to participate in penile penetration. I personally consider oral only guys to be in the guys who don't fuck 4-play group.
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This is an interesting thread for me in multiple ways. Thank you for posting it. The feminine ideology gay men incorporate into gay sex in the PNW overwhelms me at times. I had always thought about the relationship feature as being heteronormative, rather than feminine, but can easily see where it is feminine ideology. There are several more ways that this applies: I've frequently said that guys at the sex clubs here adopt a teenage girl's attitude about sex. They are horny and everyone knows it, but are trying desperately to at least keep up appearances of being a "good girl", which makes me wonder why the hell they are at a sex club. I always feel like I'm some sort of freak when I read the the majority of local hookup app profiles, where a lot of the text is devoted to telling everyone how much they love to cuddle. I would go as far as saying after 15 years of living here that I despise cuddling, and absolutely will not engage in it prior to fucking. I've also accused gay guys here of being functionally lesbian, i.e. they make out, engage in tit play, engage in hole play including dildos and fisting, but they won't under any circumstances willingly touch a another man's cock or let you touch theirs. This is the basis of my comments like "1001 ways to have 'great sex' where no one has to touch a cock" or "we can have sex if you promise not to touch my icky dick and I promise not to touch your icky dick." All of these would seem to play into some kind of weird gay version of the "feminine ideology of sex".
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I've had a few changes over the 30+ years I've been having casual sex. When I 1st started out, I was fairly picky about age and appearance. My biggest change is when I started getting fucking, I would fuck anyone I found attractive, but would only let guys fuck me if they had a bigger cock than I did. It took me almost a year to realize how much I liked to get fucked and that was it was too big of a limitation. The other big change happened in my mind to late 30's when I moved from somewhere where casual sex was readily available to somewhere where it was not. As a result of that move, my criteria to fuck is pretty much anyone who is willing able and sober enough to know they are having sex. Even if I'm traveling somewhere where finding willing partners is easy, I will still fuck with just about anyone not strung out on who know what. -
How many years did it take for you to participate? I've been watching some of the same guys for 15 years at the local bathhouse. There are a couple of them I've never even seen touch anyone else.
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I'll make a note, that if I ever go to RamRod or Slammer in Ft Lauderdale, to get pre-bred before I go just in case hntnhole is there and ready to rut.
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You ask 1st, which is different from all of the other replies, but it still doesn't make a difference. It generally doesn't even occur to me to ask before I discover it on my own. The only exception is when I'm about to fuck a guy I just watched get bred. Even then I'm in him before I get the answer.
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Having been a regular at a couple of theaters like that, I can assure you that more than half of them are regulars as well. When confronted with 2 guys actually fucking most of them will turn around and leave the area. They may ask you about it later, but neither the show or the tell will get them to participate.
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@LetsPOZBreed there are way too many "lurkers" in the public settings that are just there to masturbate over what us sluts are doing. I'm not sure what the tipping point is, but if they make even 25-30% of the men at a venue, it becomes extremely difficult for anyone to actually get any action.
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I can feel if you are really wet, and whether it smells like cum or artificial lube. The natural lube some bottoms produce, including me when I suck a guy I'm hoping will fuck me, smells like cum so I would probably believe you if you said none 😀
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I've been surprised a few times, if it is a bottom that produces a lot of natural lube when they get excited they can feel like they are loaded even if I'm their 1st fuck of the day. I'm certainly not going to turn them down, and most of them are so wet from their own excitement that the next top won't be able to tell whether I came in them or not. Like I said there is no right or wrong answer.
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Damn, you have a hot ass. I would definitely load that hole if I had a chance.
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This seems to be have become a common question for guys who are obviously trying to bottom in a public setting or on a hookup app. Since I'm versatile and hookup primarily in public settings, I have come to the conclusion that the answer does not really make a difference in public settings, and am guessing that it doesn't make a difference on the hookup apps either. If I'm topping, I don't even ask until I'm balls deep in them and feel the previous loads, at which point I'm not going to stop fucking them. If I'm bottoming, guys that ask before sticking there dick in me never fuck me regardless of the answer or after they watch me get bred, and guys that ask (like I do when I'm topping) after they already have their dick in my hole keep fucking regardless of the answer. Has anyone else found it to be different in public settings? Are the apps different? Have you ever actually connected with someone on the apps after asking or being asked?
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I don't count them out, half of the sex I'm getting at this point in life is from guy who are probably 20+ years younger than I am. I also know that if they live here and want to fuck or get fucked they don't have many options. I had never encountered a lot of the type on the hookup apps or at cruising locations that weren't there to have casual sex, before moving to the Pacific Northwest. Here they make up a huge percentage of the guys.
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Was he from the Pacific Northwest, if you spend an hour at sex club here you will encounter at least one of those guys, and more likely 2 or 3. Since guys here for the most part won't join a group you are out of circulation until you get rid of him. It's too bad the other guy didn't join in and start fucking you, that may or may not have gotten rid of the massage guy.
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I can't believe I forgot this one last night. Fetish guy, this is the guy that comes to the sex club just to model his fetish gear, spends his entire visit in highly visible parts of the club. If his fetish is underwater or jockstraps may bring an entire bag of them, change make a circuit around the club and change again.
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I have a couple: Guys who don't fuck: Guys that only want a relationship. They are on the apps and at the cruising spot, but make their profile very clear or are up front with you at the cruising spot, that they are looking for a relationship and will not even consider a casual hookup. If they think you are relationship material you will have trouble getting rid of them every time they see you somewhere. Attention whore, these guys will cruise you as long as you pay attention to them, and will do everything they can to keep your attention but never actually connect with anyone. If you are somewhere like a nude beach they may cruise you repeatedly over the course of the day, but will run away as soon as you approach them about actually doing something. Guys who have only way they can fuck. They only fuck in one position and/or place and if you can't make that position work instantly or the place isn't available right now they back out. These guys do occasionally fuck someone, but 9 out of 10 attempts are aborted because the other party took longer than 30 seconds to figure out how to do it and meet their very specific requirements. They will often try with you again on a different day, but not in the same day. Guys who do fuck: Sex addict, if he finds a willing partner that he is even remotely attracted to he will take the opportunity. Often bi and always fully versatile, does not spend all of his time actively looking, but is always aware and ready if an opportunity arises. I'm in this category. I think the list of types that do actually fuck is a much shorter list than those who don't. I'm no longer a younger guy, but seem to remember and still see a large percentage of younger guys who fall into a don't fuck category.
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Definitely! I want your hole too.
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Damn, I would love to flip with you!
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Did you fuck the 1st time you visited a bathhouse/sex club?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Slightly built, and with great balance! Sadly I will never qualify on either account. I have had several small gymnast types that I really enjoyed having on top of me in that situation, and I'm grateful for the 2 guys that have asked me to climb up rut myself on them while they were getting rutted, but I don't personally want a big clumsy oaf trying to balance on a moving strip of leather while riding me. -
I can be wearing a jock, presenting a lose cummy hole on bench or in a sling, and still get guys asking me to top them. That may be a reputational problem more than anything else, I do love to top and bottom. What really gripes me are guys I know are versatile, because I see them topping, but when they hookup with me will only bottom. I think we need a code for versatile. If @phukhole is who I think he is, that "one thing" is pretty hard to forget.
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@evilalex I think so, mostly I was thinking about having a little fun by getting something a little more colorful. The elastic on my current black jock is failing on the left side of the pouch, probably from always pulling my dick out the same way everytime. I can happily accommodate you . . . or if you ever decide to flip I'd be more than happy to help you with that as well. @Loveitraw that is pretty much what I think too. On the other hand as a stereotypical top, if I could find a way to advertise I like to take dick just as much as give it, I'm all for trying it.
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I was about to get a new jock for my upcoming sexcation. In the past I've always had either basic black or white, but doing a little research white seems to indicate masterbation and black is for BDSM, and I'm into neither of those things. I also see that navy blue is probably the color for fucking, which works for me since I lean towards blue clothing anyway. Does anyone actually pay attention to what the jock colors mean? What about a secondary color on a jock, does it have any meaning? I was leaning towards blue, maybe with a some red trim and will probably stick with that idea. Will that help or hinder in getting other guys to recognize that I'm primarily into fucking and am fully versatile? Since my dick seems to be all I need to attract guys that want to bottom for me, the primary purpose will be attracting guys that want to top or flip with me.
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Did you fuck the 1st time you visited a bathhouse/sex club?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
@KylerIsTrash I love being the "meat" in a fuck sandwich in any position you can make it work. There is no better feeling in the world than all 3 of cumming at the same time, even if it does mean having to lick up the bottoms cum after we calm down a bit. You are also very welcome to play with my cummy hole afterward. The only time I enjoy having fingers in or near my hole is after I have been fucked.
