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How old were you started as a bareback TOP?
NWUSHorny replied to BreedingTop71's topic in General Discussion
It was 1993, I was 24. We were both grad students, I had fucked him safely several times at that point, he talked me into to going bare, he had to work at keeping me inside him instead of pulling out. A few days later we hooked up bareback again, I think I bred him 4 times in the 1st hour. -
Gloves aren't going to do much in a crowded room of naked people using the same furniture. Regular gyms, based on what we know are going to be a problem too.
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I agree on the stereotypical lifestyle must haves, I'm a miss on almost all of them. I do like to cook, but that is the only one I can identify with.
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Given the nature of gay sex parties, it seems like they are the perfect vector for this even if you don't have sex. Gyms could also become a problem. I'm trying to figure out if I need to stay home for a few weeks, it is the off season for gay sex anyway, things wouldn't normally pick up much until October by which time we will know if it is a growing problem.
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bareback What do you do when the top wants to use condoms?
NWUSHorny replied to a topic in General Discussion
As I've stated before on this thread, I like to fuck too much to turn a guy down if he wants to fuck me with a condom, or have me fuck them with a condom. I'm bi and occasionally hookup with women, and always wear a condom to prevent children in that situation. I agree with @BootmanLA on the dildo versus a condom covered cock, a real cock is always better than a fake one. I've never owned a dildo and don't want one. I do have to routinely refuse guys who want to play dildos instead of fucking where I currently live. I've never had that problem anywhere else, at least not in a sex club. -
Since I prefer to play in public adult settings, I don't think there are any sex acts that I have done that I haven't done in front of an audience. Yes I have been blown in front of an audience and will gladly do so again in the future.
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I don't think I can pull off the androgynous look, even if I shaved my beard. I also thought about oversexed addict, but that might be offensive to some people too. I've been called confused and been accused of being too stupid to make a choice by both straight and gay people. So maybe "choiceless" would work.
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I'm fully versatile, and in the over 50 and not in perfect shape cohort. I'm not sure it is a good corollary, but on my recent sexcation I pushed my dick into 120-130 bottoms of all ages and body types, evenly distributed over 5 days and was rejected only once. There were 2 days that I only succeeded in finding 1 guy to fuck me and for the entire trip got less than half as many guys to fuck me compared to the number I topped, the vast majority of guys who fucked me were in my age bracket and/or weren't the ideal body type themselves. More than 80% of the effort I put into having sex was finding guys willing to fuck me. I know it doesn't help, never did at any age or level of being in shape, that I'm 6'2" and have an above averaged sized dick who always tops, and tries to bottom in a group situation, so I can't say how much age versus other physical attributes have to do with it.
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One of the local bathhouses does that a couple of times a month here. They started out with just the top, bottom and versatile colors, but due to complaints have been forced to add a color for oral only, and one for I'm at a sex club but don't have sex. There are still complaints that the 2 that were added are insuffient to express what they are into. Generally speaking at least half choose the oral only option and a quarter or more choose the none of the above option. It does help to identify guys who actually fuck in some capacity, but it is still extremely difficult to get an orgy started when at most a quarter of the men flag as willing to participate in fucking.
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Maybe the solution for darkrooms would be small glow in the dark temporary tattoos(I don't think they have permanent ones, at least for versatile men we don't always want to be flagging both positions) For someone like me who isn't very subtle, maybe just spell out RAW POLE on the front and RAW HOLE on the back. What color should I get them made up in for my next sexcation?
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I don't really care about labels or titles in general, but had a curious thought based @TheSRQDudepost. Is there a different term for bisexual, other than bisexual? Homosexual has multiple: gay, queer and if you are a woman lesbian, heterosexual has straight, but I don't remember ever hearing an alternative label for bisexual other than shortening it to just bi. Who knows since it would be obscure, maybe if I knew the term I would like it and use it.
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Are these monkeypox specific vaccines or are they administering the smallpox vaccine that is also supposed to be effective? I'd get it either way if I was in an area where they are available, but curious about what they are actually giving.
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Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?
NWUSHorny replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I don't object to being asked, and always answer truthfully when I am asked. I haven't brought it up in recent years. -
That is never fun, however I would encourage you to try it at a different city or even a different club, there are places in this world where you can get a truly amazing experience.
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Sorry, but I disagree with you on this point. While I will concede that there is little or no medical research on the mental health effects of intentionally using a chemical to suppress your bodies natural sexual reaction. There is medical research on the positive effects of ejaculating on prostate health, as well as studies that indicate mental health benefits from the hormones released by natural arousal. While I will admit I don't see eye to eye with bottoms that do not want their penises included in sexual play, I also never, ever recommend using any drugs or chemicals that are not medically advised, and I don't see how drugs could possibly be medically advised in this situation. Until now I had steered clear of the chastity device aspect, and you know how I feel about that, and that is all I am going to say on it.
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From the perspective of someone who is not a total bottom, I would question why you want to use chemical means to prevent your bodies natural reaction to sexual stimuli? I mean your mind and equipment is responding the way it was genetically programed to work, is it really medically advisable to try to overcome that reaction. You don't have to top if you don't want to, if fact there are a lot of men who consider themselves gay that get a hard on in a sexual situation that don't top or bottom, as well as a lot of men who do top who view a bottom with a rock hard boner as sign they are doing a good job and are doing something wrong if you don't have one. Why fight your bodies natural reaction, when in a way that in the long run it may do more harm than good to both your physical and mental health?
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Not being exclusively either a top or bottom, I read it as purely a roommate with benefits and certain sexual obligations. I'm assuming that the cumdump is still responsible for his own living expenses other than housing? If so what happens if his, or yours as the top, work obligations interfere with the sexual obligations? I still don't understand how this helps with the diseases like COVID, monkeypox or meningitis since the cumdump will be exposed while out collecting load from other men that are for the most part at high risk, or in the case of COVID just through normal daily activities. It also seems like a pretty minimal benefit on the true STIs, you are proposing regular testing, but if you are fucking him at least almost daily if one gets infected you both will.
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This is my point. I'm not a prude and enjoy putting on show, but it needs to be for an appreciative audience. Families with children and patroling park rangers are not an appreciative audience and doing so not only effects the participants in the high risk act, it effects everyone who wants to use the area for a sexual hookup.
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Darkroom Behavior What Is Appropriate/Inappropriate?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Hard dicks in a crowded darkroom can have a hole impaled on them before you can react and say no, too. That was the what I learned on my 1st darkroom foray. -
Darkroom Behavior What Is Appropriate/Inappropriate?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I don't disagree with that. I also have to say announcing you don't fuck on entering the darkroom or staying in a darkroom while rejecting all advances, is contrary to the implied contract of entering such a space. My understanding was and is that touch is how play is initiated. If I'm in one I expect other men to try to get me to have sex with them. -
Reminiscing can be a beautiful thing.
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Darkroom Behavior What Is Appropriate/Inappropriate?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I don't remember there ever being a cage at Hawks, other than the upper orgy area was kind of like a big cage with a TV showing porn. The only place I remember the cross was in the original non-porn TV room, I think maybe it was in the hallway between the rooms they carved out of the original TV room and the new small TV room at the end but I'm not sure. That hall was pretty dark, but not what I'm talking about. The darkroom such as it was, was in a small curtained off room and either had 2 small benches along the walls or more of the time on large bench in the center for guys to bend over and get fucked. -
Darkroom Behavior What Is Appropriate/Inappropriate?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
It was on the right before going up the steps to the shower and sauna area from the front of the club. How dark it was varied by what they were using as a curtain at any given time. -
Darkroom Behavior What Is Appropriate/Inappropriate?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I'm willing to let that infraction slide on the rare occasions they are actually fucking, but not the more common scenario where the guys blocking the access are just making out for far longer than most guys take to breed. -
Darkroom Behavior What Is Appropriate/Inappropriate?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Right now in Portland we lack the physical place, and always seem to lack the pigish behavior that makes them actually work. I'm assuming Hawks will have one if they ever reopen. Most of the time at the old location it was only semidark, which can work quite nicely if you could get several uninhibited pigs in there at the same time which is difficult. There were a few Cumunion parties at the old location when it happened, but it did not happen every month even for Cumunion.
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