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drscorpio

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  1. Will and Jake, Thanks so much for sharing with us!
  2. He is exhibiting controlling behavior. This isn't going anywhere good. I agree with MackyJay.
  3. Let's be civil to one another.
  4. It annoys me when posters say things like "guys in this town" or "people in my area" when they give us no clue where that might be. Worst of all are guys who clearly ARE looking to hook up who post poor-me messages about how they are hoping to find people. Otherwise, I don't care whether guys tell us their locale or not.
  5. I have met up with guys who saw me on hookup sites but contacted me because they knew from my posts that I was cool with Backroom topics. I have met a few guys from here when we happened to be at the same event (either Southern Decadence in New Orleans or Texas Bear Round Up in Dallas).
  6. I posted my normal CL ad I got an email with two blurry cock pics. It didn't look too large, but I was willing to start with it. When the guy showed up at my place, I saw that he was a lean, light-skinned black dude probably in his 30s. I brought him inside, and after I got the dog calmed down we got naked in the bedroom. I sucked him hard, and his cocked turned out to be a nice, solid 7" by 6". After making me deep throat it a few times, he bent me over the side of the bed. He tried to go in with just spit, but I stopped him and applied some lube. He second attempt was super hard and fast. I yelped a bit and asked for more lube. He was more gentle the second time, and when I indicated I was ready he began pumping hard and fast again. He re-positioned me a few times wanting more arch in my back or switching from legs spread to legs together. After a good 10-15 minutes of steady, deep fucking, he asked where I wanted the load. I told him to give it to me, and he upped the speed and intensity. After a few, he moaned and held still while I felt his cock throbbing out his load. He was headed back into his clothes almost immediately. He was out the door within 2 minutes after cumming. He did say he was in town on business for two day, so I invited him to cum again.
  7. Statistically speaking, an undetectable load is MUCH safer than a presumed negative one. Personally, I have no problem taking an undetectable load, and I felt that way even before I was on PrEP.
  8. Statistically you are safer taking his load raw on PrEP than you were taking them covered before. I assume part of the reason you went on PrEP was to fuck bare and still have it be safe. What are you waiting for?
  9. In the type of situation you are describing (a bareback orgy), guys will lie. They will tell you they are negative even if they are poz. They will tell you they will not cum inside you even though they plan to. If PrEP isn't an option (and I understand why it isn't), then you have to either not get fucked bare or accept some risk.
  10. I have been taking loads bare for over a decade. It's nice to now have some protection. I had some stomach upset at first. It got better over time and went away entirely when I started taking it at bed time instead of in the mornings. I haven't had a lot more sex. Part of that is I started PrEP right as the school year ended. It's always slim pickings in the summer in a college town in the country.
  11. Check out the second post in this thread which explains it all https://breeding.zone/topic/8630-stages-of-members-not-sure-what-to-call-it/
  12. I think the pig design but in outline like you suggested.
  13. All of this behavior from your boyfriend is Red Flag. He is demeaning to you (telling you your body isn't good, telling you cumming in you would be gross, the porn you like is nasty). He is controlling of you (don't complain or I will withhold sex). Breaking up over sex perfectly legitimate in the early stages of a relationship. Being with someone long term takes work. The sexual connection is what helps you get through the tough spots. Over time the other things like emotional connection start to matter more, but if you are not on the same page sexually to start with, it will be hard to make a go of it. But you don't need to break up with him "over sex." You need to break up with him because he is an abusive, controlling, sex-shaming shit bag who is shredding your self esteem. If you really don't know any other gay guys where you live, it is time to move. He is exploiting your sense of isolation to control your behavior. That will not lead to anything good. It may be that there is no malice with him. He may just have too many issues to be in a healthy relationship. Still, there is no reason for you to put up with this treatment.
  14. Had a CL ad up this evening looking for guys to unload in my ass. I got a nibble from a guy who was wanting to fuck a guy for the first time. After a couple of nervous emails (including one about condoms that almost sunk the deal) he agreed to head over. He was a handsome young black guy around 30 with a tight, lean body. I was naked when he arrived like he requested. He pulled out a rock hard thick 8 inches. I sucked hima bit, but he really wanted ass. I lubed him up, bent over the bed, and took a big hit of poppers. As expected, he rammed in way too fast and hard, but I gritted my teeth and took it. He pounded me hard and fast until he blew his load in 2-3 minutes. He apologized for how quick he came and asked if he could cum again. I agreed and showed him out. I have a plug in my hole. Once I post this, I will lick it clean while I jerk off.
  15. Next time use the report function. Mikey is gone.Also, don't spam the forum with identical messages. Thread is closed
  16. I have seen it on Tumblr. It looks to me like the camerawoman is making her straight boyfriend receive a bj from her gay best friend. Couldn't find it at first. "Girlfriend films gay sucking her boyfriend" worked.
  17. Moved this for you. I thought you might get more helpful replies here.
  18. Yes, take his load. Doesn't sound like you will regret taking it nearly as much as you would regret not taking it.
  19. I had already been doing it for a few years before I heard the term the first time. Like you I started out having sex in the pre-AIDS/pre-condom era. Around 1985, the safe sex message had permeated the environment enough for me to start using condoms in all sex. Within a couple of years, guys stopped worrying about them for oral because latex is nasty in your mouth. I got topped bare for the first time again in 1992 - it was Easter Sunday actually . After that first guy talked me into fucking bare again, I started talking tops into fucking me bare and loading me up. Fortunately, this was not hard to do. I moved to a new smaller town that fall. At first I went back to condoms because I didn't want a reputation in a small town. But soon I found that guys here wanted to go bare, too. In fact for a lot of these small town queers, safer sex messages had never really taken hold. By the time I heard the term "bareback" for the first time, I had been using condoms only on the rare occasion that the other guy insisted for years. I had not used a condom at all since 1995 or so. My thought was basically "thank goodness the rest of you are catching on." My feelings were essentially relief and excitement.
  20. I think admitting to barebacking is more of a taboo than actually doing it. Guys are happy to do it; they just don't want people to know they do it.
  21. Discussion of websites that feature pirated porn is against the rules. I am locking this thread.
  22. The fact that my doctor wanted to refer me to an ID specialist was annoying since the doctor was an hour away. I was willing to deal with that because he told me he thought the other doctor could give me better care. The fact that he did not follow up to make sure that happened was what I found unprofessional.
  23. My only consolation at this point is that they appear to be trying to get back up and running based on the messages rather than just shutting their sites down.
  24. I have used them before, too. Their website is not taking any new orders "Due to current market demand and supply issues we are currently no longer accepting new orders. All back orders will be filled as inventory becomes available. Please check back in 1-2 days."
  25. Has anyone found a place to order poppers in the US?
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