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  1. onlyraw
    Oh - where is it? I hope to be able to make it back to Paris again next year and would love to make a pilgrimage. and - being into water sports- I have started a picture collection of urinals from around the world and would love to add a photo of this to my collection (one of my favorites was in Trinity college in Dublin - it was a gang urinal - one large (5’ tall by 6’ wide maybe piece of porcelain slightly curved at the bottom with a drain along the bottom- so basically you were just pissing against the wall - - unfortunately there was no one else there that I could take a piss with) - so I guess it was the complete opposite of a glory hole)
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    Although you are not technically his “student” He is in a position of authority- so he may need to be cautious… I work at a university and we have to sign and agree to very strict policies - I can be fired if I have sex with an undergraduate student (even though they are of legal age) and I would need to file a lot of paperwork (and get approval to have a relationship with a grad student) And if you live in an area that is not very accepting of gays (and if he is around 36 … he is still sort of new in his career) he may be cautious because he doesn’t want to - can’t risk - coming/being out i would advise staying as things are…. At least for a while longer to get a little further in your education- and let him get further established in his career and enjoy the friendship and mentorship he is providing for what it is
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    Hi Jamie/Splendidpup - welcome. I hope that you will find time to write about some of the experiences you had while you were an escort, I don’t think I’m alone in wanting to hear about some of your wilder experiences…. although if you do write some up - just remember one can’t talk about paying for sex on here
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    A fascinating concept- will have to remember this as an after dinner topic of conversation once I start having dinner parties again…. but what are the alternatives? unless you invite guys over to your place - or you do it in a public area - you will have to pay someone… either pay for a hotel room- or you go out to the bar (where theoretically you will need to pay for drinks) till you meet the guy(s) you want to go home with we do live in a capitalist society so you have to pay someone unless we form a coop so “we” own the bathhouse….. but that would get boring as it would be the same guys all the time- so it would need to be like a timeshare where you can swap your time for time at a different baths if any of us win one of those billion dollar lottery’s - maybe we should promise to use a few million to buy up some of the last of the bars and baths and turn them into non profits to ensure they survive
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    I know from previous conversations and posts on the site that several members are volunteer poll workers (and at least one that actually works for an elections office) and as we head into the election next week (well with early voting I guess we are already in the election) - I just want to say a huge THANK YOU!!!! For your work that is so vital if we are going to keep our democracy safe. and I hope you all have a very safe day - and that things go as smoothly as possible. (and that after the election we can go back to supporting and thanking our poll dancers) - but seriously- thank you and stay safe
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    Great story- so happy Ben has found the right man to help him discover his true nature of being a cum dump bitch and a urinal looking forward to the next chapters (when will Ben realize what that scorpion tattoo means and who else will he be shared with, and will he meet, get to play with David? Inquiring minds want to know)
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    I agree that A) guys should ask important questions before they agree to the hook up (preferably before you leave your house- but certainly before naked dick is lined up ready to enter B) when it comes to important questions- especially those dealing with health issues the questions should be asked clearly and not euphemistically-e.g. are you poz or neg? are you on meds or PrEP? saving “are you clean?” to meaning have you douched and/or showered (for those guys into scat or ripe sweaty sex)
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    In my experience from back in the day when we had more options bookstores were best for volume- tops were there just to drop a nut and go home followed next by the movie theater (but there you were sometimes in competition with the movie where guys would just go in to watch and jerk off) but the best quality fuck was at the baths partly as people were naked- and going to the baths was more of a time commitment than just swinging by the bookstore on the way home from work or a Saturday afternoon- and so I think you got a longer fuck - at least if you were in a guys room - along with maybe making out - or nip play - you could have “sex” in contrast to “just getting fucked” but if you clicked it your interaction could last longer that just getting fucked through a glory hole admittedly some baths had a glory hole section if it was a busy night and the bottom was in a sling ….
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    ErosWired gives very wise advice I would only add to let him know that you are there to listen- and I know that “real” listening - and non judgmental listening- can be very hard work and take a lot of energy- so be sure to take care of yourself too
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    Thanks for the correction - I hate people to think I was a tease sending them to the wrong place
  11. onlyraw
    For our British friends (or others who can get BBC Channel 4 There was a "fascinating" review of the upcoming Channel 4 show My Massive Cock (the latest addition to Channel 4’s Truth and Dare season celebrating the channel’s 40th anniversary, though they style it My Massive ****) that was reviewed in the Oct 25 issue of The Guardian sorry I cant see the show..... this review made it see VERY worthwhile [think before following links] https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2022/oct/25/my-massive-cock-review-channel-4 I hope some of our British friends will let is know more details. From this review it seems that most of guys are straight and having problems finding sex partners.... clearly they are limiting their search as I am sure they would find LOTS of guys on here who would relish the challenge.....
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    One of the few good things about hooking up online is that your ad can list the kinks and fetishes you are into- and you in turn can search for guys who list it as one of theirs I got interested in WS very early- not sure how or why - but it took few decades before I found someone else into it (a younger divinity student I hooked up with at a bar - the night you they were playing show tunes - totally random hook up) but it was a lot of fun to explore with him then it took a few more years before I found a few guys on Recon now Recon even has WS one of the official fetishes you can list (although being an English company you can not post any photos of pissing - or depending on the censors who review your photos- you can’t even post pictures of urinals) Best WS bottom I found was on Recon - cute, bright, nice, younger cub - who really enjoyed being naked, kneeling in front of his daddy- mouth open looking me right in the eyes while he drank- and swallowed- straight from the tap while beer is good for going right through the top fast - I also find Diet Coke goes through me fast- and makes my piss a little sweet ( or so I am told)
  13. onlyraw
    Or ”not that you asked, but I’m poz”
  14. onlyraw
    I agree that most tops are not really looking to schedule a first time fuck that far in advance so I like hntnhole’s idea to get a top to whore you out - and he can always use you during those times when a top doesn’t show another option would be to partner with another bottom - whoring each other out or just find tops who like groups or gangbangs so then you don’t need to worry about it one top still using you when the next top shows up (even if you have your formal schedule and I know you are taking lots of loads …. Watching you take one as I get there would turn me on also tops don’t always take the same amount of time to fuck - if a top is really turned on he may cum in 5 min - and some, if they are enjoying using you, may want to go for 30 or 45 min
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    Had a friend who (being a big bottom) was having an exam with a new dr - who, when it came time to for the prostate exam said “now this is going to hurt” and my friend said “no it won’t” I go to a gay health center, my first dr was really hot - so my prostate exams were always worrisome - even though he was very clinical and it was quick- damn it did feel good - fortunately I never “embarrassed” myself my last was by a female NP at the urologist’s office- I did not have the same problem - but going in for a biopsy this week
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    Oh no!! - I hope that you have the time and creative energy to rewrite them - or write new ones this is one of those rare stories on here where I am caught up as much in the great plot as I am with your really hot (hot!!!) sex scenes. I really care about these characters- and hope that your title is not ironic- and that you will find a way to get both our boys back on track to a happy future so that when you are done I can selfishly copy and print it out the whole story. If you finish as strongly as you started - this will be the perfect story to read on a cold snowy weekend while curled up in front of the fire.
  17. onlyraw
    Key point I think in this question I think is that you refer to this guy as a “sub” not a “bottom” it also depends on where and when you are hooking up I too like to know the sub/bottom I am playing with is “enjoying” himself- but also understand that we are enjoying things in totally different ways - and it is different if the guy is a sub or a bottom - but I like it when the guy I am playing with gets hard If the guy is just a “bottom” then I think you you might owe him some return attention - especially if it is at your house- (if however you are at the baths and it is early he may not want to cum yet as he wants to stay horny so he can stay in the mood to look for more cock - if however it is late and the place is clearing out than it might be nice of you) But if he is a “sub” than you most likely do not need to pay attention to his cock - in fact as some guys have mentioned they don’t want that kind of interaction (unless you are into cbt) As I mentioned I too like it (especially if we are having a rougher more aggressive scene than just a BJ) if the sub gets hard - it is an easier way of knowing I haven’t gotten too g to rough yet (having to keep verbally asking if it is too rough kind of kills the whole Dom/sub thing) Then - depending on the sub - not letting him get off (at least not frequently) is part of him being a sub - if he is going to be spending the night- I may not let him get off until the last fuck in the morning but if you like him and want him to keep coming back…. And maybe want more than a BJ - it is good to talk and get some ground rules set
  18. onlyraw
    Glad I found this thread as there has been a question puzzling me for awhile If you like a post is there / what is the difference between an “upvote” and the heart, “like” dose one or the other boost someone’s reputation score more than the other? thankd
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    I think it is so hot to see a naked guy drinking straight from the tap bonus points if he is hard while drinking it
  20. onlyraw
    I am “ok” with people following their prejudices if they as an “individual” are hiring someone to work in their home ( house cleaner, maid, butler, gardener, babysitter, or chief bottle washer) but as soon as you become a corporation (even an LLC and only have one employee) then the company looses all rights to follow the owners prejudices and need to be required to follow the law - “corporations” cannot have “religious beliefs” the owner of the company may have deeply and sincerely held religious beliefs that women supposed to be subservient to men, or that black people are sub human, or that gays are disgusting abominations and are going straight to hell - but the “corporation” can not base any HR policies based on those beliefs just like a restaurant or hotel is not allowed to turn a customer away just because they are black, a woman, or gay, no corporation should be allowed to turn away customers or deny benefits to employees based on the owners personal beliefs
  21. onlyraw
    First THANK YOU!!!! To all the poll watchers and election workers on this site for doing your part - I know this is going to be a big long and fraught election- I hope that none of you have to deal with any dangerous situation I will be sending you all lots of positive energy on Election Day JimInWisc - I grew up in Wisconsin so will be watching the results with great trepidation- fingers crossed
  22. onlyraw
    And even flogging needs a certain amount of skill if you are going to use any force (that is the great thing about a leather flog is that it can be erotic just being grazed against the skin- and then - if the top knows what they are doing- all the way up to full force) but yes - a single whip can cause real damage with an unskilled top i would look in the leather community- and maybe the big annual gathering in Chicago- you should find some skilled tops there- maybe even on doing classes and looking for some subs to be used for demonstrations
  23. onlyraw
    I agree that gay men are lucky that we get to set our own rules and whatever type of relationship you are in it is important that you both have the same expectations and good communication congrats to garsento!! And here is to a long and happy relationship
  24. onlyraw
    Daniel Radcliffe (smooth shaven, scruffy, or with beard) short, tight, compact build ( and nice furry chest- makes me wonder about the rest of him) that I just find sexy as hell - and he seems to be smart and nice and funny (which means he might be nice yo hang out with after sex) and if you have ever watched the movie Kill Your Darlings - where he played a young Allen Ginsberg…. And there is the scene when Allen G gets fucked for the first time …. Woof
  25. onlyraw
    Saturday morning cartoons were not this fun when I was growing up….

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