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At least you still have 2, Boston hasn’t had even one in over … close to 20 years? the closest one is in Providence RI (so that is in another state away and about an hour 45 away) But it is still a sad day when one of our institutions closes
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It’s been awhile since I have been to a cumunion - but as the other guys they are bareback parties (as the name suggests they are all about “cum”) - so I think you would not have much luck if you asked guys to use a condom at one but just because you go - doesn’t mean you have to get fucked - Go - check things out - if you realize it is not for you, you can leave…. Or just hang out in a corner and jerk off while you watch the action if you do go - please report back on your experience (and have fun)
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The other complication to this question is: how do you know they are not out? just because you see a guy wearing a wedding ring at the book store doesn’t mean he is not out to his partner for all you know maybe he is married to a guy who is a equal pig and waiting for his husband to come home with a sloppy hole that he can either eat out our fuck while his husband tells him about all the sleazy guys who fucked him and he may be on PrEP (so he is not putting his partner in that danger) And most of us took awhile to accept the fact that we were gay - and it is a different timeline for each of us - some know before puberty, some can’t deal with it until much much later in life (and it is not fair- or healthy to force someone out before they are ready) or maybe they are single but have a job they would loose if they came out (or actors or professional athletes who could lose lots of money if they came out) But with those public figures who are leading the charge of hatred and violence against our community- I don’t have trouble outing them (if - god forbid) Ron Desantis, or Margery Taylor Green, or any of those nut jobs on the far right were found out to be gay…. I would have trouble with them being outed - (even if I would not exactly welcome them to the family) (although I hate to admit it - that Stephen Miller is kind of hot) (so if anyone has fooled around with him - let me know 😉)
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Love this! If we all treated this as a universal rule - life (and sex) would be a lot more enjoyable for everyone
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Damn!!! I am loving this story- can’t wait to shoot my next load while Daddy J is shooting his load into his son!!
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I discovered phone sex lines decades ago- spent a fortune on it in my early years- so relieved when I discovered the back door to the Manhole line as it is free I use phone sex like other guys use porn. I find porn to be boring… and it is tge same every time you watch it. phonesex is different every time- and what I love about it is that it is interactive- I am not just watching it I am IN it - i am not just watching a guy getting fucked or drinking piss, Or getting gang banged - I am the guy fucking or getting fucked, I am the guy feeding some hot guy my Pissarro AND, I get to be in my 30s again- a tad more ripped- or have a bigger dick - or a smaller one, I can be smooth or hairy….. you can do what ever fantasy you want does it replace the “real thing” no…. But when you don’t have the time or energy to find the real thing…. It does the trick
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I didn’t get much in college but was luck yo graduate and move to Boston in the late 70s - it took me a little while to get up to speed—- but once I did I had lots of fun so probably by 24 I had lost count of numbers - much less names Got distracting when I would be around town and you would see someone on the T or in a store and you would wonder why they looked familiar…. And the a couple hours later you would remember that you had tricked a month before -
I love a nice hairy guy - I love a big bush, (but the armpits are what really get me - partly as they can be shown off in non sexual situations- even in public) but I don’t mind smooth guys - so long as it is all natural- with no shaving or trimming the difference in guys (hairy smooth, tall short, cut uncut, etc ….) Is what makes it all fun…. 😉
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I would agree that paying attention (and voting for) the down ballot races is very important as we are seeing in far too many places the most local elections can be truly important even if you don’t have kids - the school board will shape how the next generation thinks - they control what (and how) subjects are taught and what books are in the library and your state reps and senators…. While the democrats were busy fixating solely on winning the presidency- tge republicans were quietly winning state rep races - who then controlled tge re-districting ensuring they would then win the majority of congressional raves no matter what percentage of the state wide vote they got (just look at Wisconsin) So yes - please learn about and vote for every position- no matter how seemingly insignificant
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Which is why I say THE most important thing anyone on here can do, if they are going to be sexually active and not use condoms - is to have a Dr that you trust that you can be totally honest with- so that they know what to look for and what tests to run when you go in for an appointment and so that they know their stuff (like the difference between the multiple kinds of warts) and what they should be screening for based on previous history. (yes I know I have already said that on this chain- but I think it is worth repeating)
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Straight Dennis turned into a true Tina pos cumdump
onlyraw replied to joeri's topic in Chem Sex FICTION
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There is a scene in the movie Cruising (that came out in 1980) where the cop is in a fetish shop and they explain the hanky code to him so at least by 1980 is was well established (it is a horrible movie but I knew one of the actors so needed to go see it when it came out) but I also know that it can be different in every town. Although red for fisting and yellow for WS do seem to be universal- but good to know that in some other countries the Left and Right signify different things - moral of story is - ask a local…. (Who knows maybe just asking the question could lead to something and you won’t need to wear them)
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Gay sides on hookup sites and in in person sex venues?
onlyraw replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I will say that I love to cuddle….. after a really hot sweaty fuck … cuddle up - lick the sweat off his body … cuddle some more - maybe even nap … and then wake him up by shoving my cock back into his ass then as they say - rinse and repeat -
How about talking about massage therapists? obviously the MT who mid massage starts offering other services for additional fees- that is a tad obvious But if you are paying for the massage and you get more than a “just” a massage (but no extra fee is discussed)?
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Really sorry to hear the news i had a nasty case back in my youth- and not having insurance to pay for surgery I had to do out patient- which as it was a nasty case took about 2-1/2 years - every other week to have them burned off- (strangely though I think they saved my life as I got them just at the beginning of AIDS - and by the time I was “all clear” condoms were being used (so I didn’t get AIDs until after the cocktail had been discovered) So my advice is make sure you have a dr that a) you know, trust, and can be completely honest with b) is experienced and knows what they are talking about and what treatments would be best for you c) once you are all clear - ask about how often you should get a Pap smear…. Yes guys should get them too if tge have had warts as they are a great detector of potential cancer And don’t beat yourself up over this—- it happens hope it is not too bad a case and that you are up and about soon good luck and yes - for everyone else… if you are lucky enough not to have had anything yet - talk to your dr about what vaccines you might be eligible for (as most drs - unless asked- stop offering them to patients once they are out of their teens
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How very true And how very sad- I try and remember that when I approach guys online or reply to them- but don’t always succeed your tail is just another reminder to all of us that (except when dealing with toxic assholes like your guy) that we need to be kinder and polite- or at least not rude when dealing with guys online
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I suppose I could kind of understand his viewpoint if this were still back in the days before meds - or even the early days of meds when things were still scary but I am sorry— this is 2023 and guys by now should know that u=u and there is this little thing called PrEP …. So ya, he should get his head out of his 1980’s ass and get with the times sorry You had to deal with the jerk - and totally get how that can totally kill and horny slutty vibe you had going
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A great story- glad you are continuing it… sexy as all fuck …. But also love Matt’s inner conflict about being a total bb bottom and the double standard of bottoms who have multiple partners are “sluts” while tops who have multiple partners are “studs” looking forward to the next chapters
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Damn this is fucking hot!!! I will enjoy thinking of various versions of the next chapter….
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True - although it can be a bit of a mood kill to have to give a public health announcement at tge baths or in a back room And I agree that poz guys on meds are probably healthier than they are as we are tied into our health care more than others man’s getting fucked by an undetectable guy is safer than a “neg” guy who hasn’t been tested lately but also thanks to PrEP I think a lot more guys get the whole U=U thing these days than back a few years ago
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Also - if this poll had only been up a few days we are not getting a fair representation on the guys on here so hopefully more guys will vote (as I can’t be the only one pozed in the 95-99 category)
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It is amazing how much sci-fi has predicted (even the “computer” on Star Trek predicted “Alexis” ) As to the question raised A lot depends on if the people in the carousel are swiping at the same time the people outside are so that it is a mutual agreement- or are people getting into the carousel with the understanding that they will be fucking with whom ever wants them and they have no say in which case when I am in the mood to fuck i would definitely be the one doing the swiping but if I was in a slutty bottom mood- I would definitely get into the carousel- it would be hot to know that I am going to let anyone fuck me and I agree with eroswired that I would be really turned on by the idea that someone wanted to use me (as at my age I imagine I would be swiped more often than selected too)
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Is anyone using AI to generate erotic/explicit images?
onlyraw replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
The the other problem with AI, that was brought up in an interview with one of the screenwriters that are on strike- is that AI goes out and steals inspiration (content) from the web - content from other writers and artists created and uses that content without paying the original artist and yes - some AI stuff can pass - and I imagine that it will continue to get better but I don’t want a computer to get me off on here. Even though we pre on line - I would like to think it is another horny guy getting me off. I want to be able to look at your profile photo and stats and imagine you- naked and hard (maybe some cum still in your ass - or your cock still kind of plump after fucking someone) as you write your post I don’t want the Hal from 2001 to be getting me off -
The main thing is to make sure you have a good primary care physician that a) knows their stuff b) that you can be very open and honest with about who you are and what “risky” behaviors you may have I have hpv - have had it for a long time - and was one of the first at my clinic to get an anal Pap smear- every so often it comes back “abnormal” and I have to go to the specialist- who puts in the speculum and sends her camera in and then takes biopsies of anything that looks suspicious (not exactly fun but not that painful) and I keep going back to her every 6months until I get the “all clear” - which I did my last visit so at my annual in July I will go back to getting Pap smears until that comes back “abnormal” - then I’ll go back to tge specialist Rinse and repeat- as the say Hopefully- the specialist will catch anything before it gets out of control- I gather that it is not considered to be too fast growing a cancer- so long as you get it in time just another reason I am so grateful to live in Boston- where we have Fenway Health (a community health center specializing in Gay and Lesbian health) and all the specialty drs in the city so OP - sorry- long preamble to if you trust your drs - if they are not suddenly bringing you in for a follow up tomorrow- having to wait for your next appointment is probably a good sign but just make sure to follow up and be vigilant Good luck
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You are right- different men are different I myself like my bottoms to get hard - especially if it is a rough fuck - so that while he is whimpering and moaning because my cock is to thick and I am fucking him hard but then his dick gets hard - proving he is a good faggot bottom who likes it like that I will agree with you that dressed in jeans in the back room of the bar guys might think he is s stud with a huge cock - but then when he gets cruised- he has to publicly admit he is a sub bottom and that is is cage they are seeing/feeling (which could be the start of a hot scene…)
