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I took 29 loads this year down, for obvious reasons, from last year’s 53 loads. Being versatile I also deposited loads in 11 guy’s assholes down from 28 last year. Regardless of loads I bottomed 81 times and topped 96, i.e. 177 fucks for the year compared with 310 fucks in 2019. My aim is to get to 365 fucks in a year so we’ll see how 2021 turns out ...

@traveller_gay

Hooked up again with a friendly muscular Asian guy from Grindr. Hairy unlike many of the smooth Asian guys I tend to go with which makes a nice change. This is the third time we’ve hooked up since he first hit on me on Grindr almost three months ago so I guess that officially makes us fuckbuddies. He likes hugging with clothes on, gradual undressing, cuddling, kissing - foreplay I suppose you’d say - which, again, is unlike most of my hookups which are pretty quickly into sucking, fucking and breeding. While I wouldn’t be bothered with all guys, in his case it’s nice and it suits his friendly personality- but it’s not timewasting as it is with some guys, it’s really sexy, and on the first occasion we both came before the fucking even started - but it was so hot we were both hard again within 5 minutes. He has a big thick cock, which I like, and though he originally said he was versatile I have not yet tested that being satisfied to be a bottom on all our encounters. He bred me again this time and I’ll look forward to hooking up again over the holidays.

My sex life used to revolve around bathhouses almost exclusively. Then I discovered apps, mainly Grindr and since going on PrEP also BBRTS. I had been responsible for a twitter account in my work but had never used it in my private life until porn was forced off tumblr and I realised twitter was awash with amateur bareback pictures and videos combined with personal messages and commentary. About a year ago I realised guys were hooking up via twitter and so I started following more local guys. So far I’ve had two hookups, one where I responded to someone else’s announcement he was hosting that day, and another I initiated by messaging a guy who had been posting hot videos. That turned into a really hot threesome video session. Twitter is a really interesting environment for hooking up. It’s not really designed for this purpose, unlike sex apps, which can make it fun, frustrating and satisfying. The apps are controlled spaces whereas twitter is a bit rough around the edges when used for seeking sex. It’s has some qualities in common with old fashioned personal contact ads and others a bit like cruising on a beach or bar. There are no standardised profiles, as with apps, yet many twitter accounts present themselves along the lines of various fetishes. One aspect that I find quite exciting is the willingness to take videos and pictures, after all tweets are frequently visual. Whether the results are posted perhaps with twitter handles shown is a matter of negotiation. Some guys will mask their identities, others flaunt them, and of course sometimes one guy is identifiable with the other obscured. While in terms of quantity of sex Grindr is more productive for me, I enjoy exploring twitter as a hookup channel. Getting videos of encounters retweeted provides a kind of positive reinforcement. I’m interested in hearing of other guys’ experiences of what seems to be a still evolving gay sex environment.

I describe myself as versatile and I am. I fantasise and enjoy bottoming more than topping but end up topping more than bottoming simply by reason of opportunity rather than preference. I always seem to encounter a shortage of tops in bathhouses and cruise clubs although I do much better in getting topped using apps. My ideal is to flip a few times during an encounter.

I went into the city to attend two concerts, one at 2 pm (a gay choir) and the other at 6pm. I thought I’d try to find a hookup for the 3 hours in between and turned Grindr on. However, knowing the chances of striking out I also checked the movie listings and discovered a film festival at a venue close by both concerts so I picked up a ticket for a 3.30 screening. During the first concert I responded to a Grindr message that was nearby indicating interest in a quickie after the first concert and got a positive reply. However, I realised I wouldn’t have time to get done before the film and put him off to about 4.45 when I thought the movie would be over. Big miscalculation as it didn’t finish till 5.30pm and I had to head over to the other concert. The concert was only an hour long so I put the guy off till 7pm. I realised that I would by now appear to be those time wasting flakes that seem all too common on Grindr so my hopes weren’t all that high. However, we did indeed hookup and the guy - who was hot, fit muscular and hairy - was pretty forgiving. He had a very large cock - he’d already sent me a pic which was one reason I was very keen to make sure we connected as I wanted it in my ass. I hadn’t checked if he barebacked but I needn’t worry as he shoved it raw up my hole. I later noticed bottles of PrEP tablets next to his bed. Gave me a pretty good fucking before pulling out and sucking him some more. I expected to start again but he indicated it had got so late he was due to go out, he’d only been holding off for my delayed arrival. So no loads that day. The good news is he expressly raised the possibility of repeats with more notice so I think I’ve scored a fuckbuddy which will be a real bonus.

I have just returned from 5 days on vacation in another city where I took several loads. The idea was to have a “dirty weekend” away from home and from my partner. I had the foresight a few days before I traveled to message a guy in that city who has been posting some pretty hot videos on twitter of his sexual exploits. From the videos I could see he was hung, a top, barebacker and sometimes had a third guy with him. I didn’t know him and wasn’t sure he’d see my message or reply but was delighted to get an encouraging response. Once I checked into the hotel I messaged him again and he indicated he planned to bring a friend with him. Great! The guy indicated he’d video the session which was super hot and he agreed to share with me. When they both turned up we were soon all naked on the bed. Although I am versatile it was understood that I’d be the bottom and his skinny friend was first to enter me. He had a wonderful wide cock and on the first changeover I asked them to pause for a minute as it had been so intense I was at risk of cumming too soon. Before long the main guy was fucking me - he also had a big cock but without quite so much girth. They switched over a couple of times and both shot loads up my ass. Their video skills were very good and they had clearly worked as a team before so I am able to replay the event over again. A great evening was had by all.

Has a great Grindr hookup to balance out the time wasters and flakes. I was in another city for a dirty long weekend and exchanged messages over several days to find a time that fitted with his work. We were quite different to each other, at 25 he was half my age, and hairy while I’m smooth. He was taken by my smooth body and what he called, from seeing a pic, my “awesome thick uncut piece”. He was fit and had a great body and nice personality.I was pleased he agreed to me videoing the session. He arrived and we cuddled for a while, I loved caressing his muscular hairy chest, which makes a change from the slim hairless Asian guys I normally hook up with. We shared fucking doggy style and he was really enjoying pounding me. He came in me and I cleaned off his cock with my mouth. Given his youth he was hard again in less than 5 minutes and we resumes in doggy, missionary, flat on my stomach and on my side. He was a hard worker and was really sweaty from all the exertion. Although he didn’t come again it wasn’t through lack of effort. He’ll be first on my when I get back to that city in a few months time.

I’m honoured to have taken the same number of loads as drscorpio at 28 (as I’m versatile I also deposited 11 loads, but it’s not a competition).

Thanks for the post which is helpful as I’ve been confused by some terms and abbreviations used in some profiles. Two that I’ve come across in certain twitter profiles are ‘DL’ and ‘poly’. DL, sometimes expanded to ‘Down low’, appears to be - as I discovered from the Urban Dictionary - what used to be referred to as straight-acting. It seems likely to be more commonly used in the US and in subcultures following US slang closely. I came across the term frequently in profiles also described as poly but infrequently anywhere else. Poly in these self-referencing profiles, I’m pretty sure, refers to Polynesian and young Polynesian guys like to use US slang it seems. Where I live one would not call someone else, or at least not someone in your peer group, ‘poly’ as that would seem disrespectful. In this instance the urban dictionary seemed a bit off base as it seemed to suggest poly would mean polyamory.

Who knew twitter could be so hot? I’ve been on twitter since February 2019 - @traveller_gay - posting some of my sex shots but trying to raise the tone by adding some gay travel and gay art posts (no one retweets the art stuff whereas cum leaking from my ass seems popular). However, in the last 6 months or so I’ve noticed that as well as the porn it’s become quite the hookup app. I’ve now used it for a couple of hookups and over the weekend used twitter to set up a video shoot threesome which was great.

I’m visiting another city and got a few hours away from my companion so checked out Grindr. Various chats but the no-nonsense tone of one message grabbed my attention: “hey mate, you alone? What’s up? You interested in having a load dumped in you?” I was interested and before long he had me come to a unit in a light industrial area, explaining that his parent s owned the building and he was staying there overnight to attend a party. The industrial vibe to the place was hot and he’d thrown a mattress on the floor. We both stripped and I could admire his muscular body, with strong hairy chest, big biceps and a large shoulder tattoo. We were soon down to business with me on all fours. As he fucked me doggy he kept wedging my legs further apart which was painful but hot also. Eventually flipped me on my back which clearly had an effect as he soon pumped a big load into my ass.

Went to naked orgy night at local sauna. Despite the place being packed there seemed to be far more guys crowding around any guys getting it on than guys actually getting down to fucking. I topped and bottomed a few times though not enough to make the night a complete success. Probably the highlight was a session in a dark alcove off a dark room. The dark room itself had many guys in it and I felt a hairy bear close by me. Reaching down I felt his cock which was both thick and hard. But best of all it curved upwards, I love being fucked by a banana cock (As an aside, I have especially fond memories of hooking up years ago with a student with a really big banana cock in a city while on business - I was expecting to fuck him, as I was predominantly top in those days and in the days before apps I didn’t know his detailed preferences: so when, without warning, he shoved his cock hard up my ass I yelled in surprise). The bear gave me a good pounding and several guys pawed at us in the dark while we were at it. Not sure whether he bred me in the dark but he seemed pretty satisfied.

Congratulations on starting PrEP- sounds like you’re making good use of it already.

All guys at the bathhouse are looking for sex but some guys put off vibes that suggest they’re somehow off limits. Avoid doing that and, as a younger guy, you’ll have other guys approach you anyway. Don’t avoid eye contact. Don’t rush fast around the bathhouse studiously avoiding looking through doors or touching or acknowledging the presence of anyone. Don’t rush away if someone brushes or looks at you - you don’t have to go with them but polite contact will keep you in contemplation for other nearby guys. If you’re making the contact you’ll develop you own style and techniques- bold, tentative, vocal, whatever - but generally eye contact, a touch, a gesture is all it takes. Rejection is to be expected, don’t get upset, it’s not a rejection of you personally just rejection of a sexual encounter at that time. Hopefully the rejection will be polite, a small shake of the head with a smile or comment like ‘I’ve just come’, although some guys are needlessly rude or uncommunicative until you’re already in their room - learn from those rejections to be extra nice with the guys you’ll no doubt eventually reject.

I have changed in various ways. In terms of opportunities my first few years of sex tended to be in public restrooms which I confess only to have used twice in the last 15 years (once a street hookup in Hong Kong, the other a Grindr hookup at a South American airport). Now I prefer bathhouses and apps and there are more sexual choices available in the more relaxed setting of a darkroom, hotel or home. In terms of sex I’m far more adventurous now particularly in terms of group sex. Obviously the biggest change has been barebacking, although that’s probably down to the opportunities created by PrEP rather than solely a personal change.

i used to get STI testing at a sexual health clinic at the hospital and you went back to the clinic to get the results in an interview with the nurse. Then things got streamlined and you only came back in if you got a call i.e. a positive STI result. They always asked about contacts but as all my sex was at saunas I never knew who they were. I was not embarrassed with their questions as they were very professional and non-judgmental and knew I had multiple casual contacts from an interview at the test stage. They encouraged you to tell your hookups to get tested and offered to contact sex partners for you if it would be easier for you - a kind of service for the nervous, they would be discreet and not say who you were. With PrEP 3 monthly testing I no longer go to the clinic but just get tested at community laboratories around the city through prescription from my doctor. When I have a positive result he calls or, if he misses me, sends a text, calling me in for treatment and reminding me to contact any partners. With apps I don’t really know who people really are but I do at least have a means to contact them. I caught syphillis last year and found out through a test at a Pride event between my regular 3 month tests which was good as there were just two hookups to tell, the first of which I’d almost certainly got it from and the second I feared I’d passed it to (I felt a bit guilty as I’d talked him into barebacking). The second guy was very nice and thanked me for telling and went for treatment. Ironically the first guy, who was very young, had blocked me on Grindr- I can only speculate why, but suspect he was so immature that he’d already been tested and was either too embarrassed to face his contacts or imagined I’d infected him, silly behaviour in either case as communication is key when getting a positive STI result. Anyway despite the blocking I already had his phone number as we’d airdropped some videos of one of our encounters. I texted him the news but never heard back - probably should have asked the clinic to contact trace him given his uncommunicative behaviour.

Headed off to the cruise club Saturday evening. In the dark room I topped twice and also bottomed twice and was getting sucked both through the dark room glory holes and by guys kneeling on the floor. It was getting pretty tiring with all the standing fucks including lowering my body to adjust to different height of guys and glory holes. So eventually when one short Asian guy angled his ass for me I suggested we go to a room. Once there I stripped off and he lay on his back and I started pumping him. Ten minutes of that, after all the dark room action, and I was losing my hard on but he’d harden me up by withdrawing my cock from his ass and freshening it up in his mouth. He said he was loving my thick cock. He let me take a couple of pictures. Eventually I had to take a break and headed off for a coffee and rest. Later that evening I found him in the lounge checking his phone and I asked him if he’d like to finish what we started. Back in a room I was back pounding him on his back then bending him over on the bed doggy style. It looked like another long fuck and he begged me to cum in him. Then he mentioned he had already taken two loads - something immediately sparked in my brain, such a turn on, and I started pounding with a new vigour and soon gave him load number three.

I used to wear condoms always until about 7 years ago, then mostly but not always for a couple of years, and then hardly ever for the last 4 or 5 years while on PrEP. I actually didn’t have to ask guys to wear condoms earlier as most guys wrapped up automatically. In the transitional period when other guys started barebacking more frequently I did ask people to wear a condom a few times. Actually my decision to bareback and go on PrEP was precipitated by a hot Grindr hookup refusing to meet up a second time unless we went bare, a little challenging at the time but luckily propelling me into the delights of raw sex. In recent years I have occasionally to ask guys not to wear condoms, usually successfully.

I naively intended to make some use of condoms when I went onto PrEP and imagined I’d continue only occasionally barebacking as I had done in the year before starting PrEP. In fact, despite that vague intention, I stopped using condoms virtually from day 1. It was somewhat instinctual rather than conscious and matched the behaviour of the guys I had sex with. However, when I consciously thought about it I decided to continue fully bareback understanding the STI risks but valuing the many BB benefits in terms of convenience, sensation, intimacy and fantasy. Although a dose of syphillis was unwelcome I haven’t regretted my decision.

I did things by the book. Went off PrEP on 27 March and went back on daily regime on 27 May. Took an HIV home test before restarting and didn’t start fucking around until 7 days after restarting. Had a dose of chlamydia in September.

I think a distinction can be made between cumming while being fucked because you’re turned on anyway (say, with a guy you’re attracted to and you’ve been fooling around for a while and anything, say even a nipple tweak not just the fuck, may set you off) and a purely physical thing when being ass fucked which makes you cum. I think the topic relates just to this second aspect. For me it’s not that common, though a a thicker cock helps. A really long cock can give you a shock when it reaches certain spots and the sudden pain can sometimes makes you cum, but more likely to gasp or cry out. My absolute favourite are cocks that curve upwards and rub the prostate. A similar sensation that sometimes makes me cum is to move to a position flat on my front where I can’t move and there’s quite a focus on the top controlling things and impaling me.

Went to Sunday afternoon nude session at local cruise club. Once I had stripped and dropped my bag of clothes behind the counter i headed into the cruise area and it was less than a minute before I was being fucked. Once he had bred me the guy standing next to him was straight in there and gave me my second load. Ten minutes later a guy with a very big cock was fucking me and complimented my sloppy ass and asked how many loads. He said he wasn’t ready to cum yet but would be back later to give me a third load. However, a little while later a guy with a small cock dropped a lad in me. Finally the earlier guy with the big cock tracked me down and gave me my fourth and final load of the afternoon. I was ready to leave and found a cute Asian guy, Thai I think, on all fours in a room and I fucked him doggy still and came in his ass to end a great session.

Mine is @traveller_gay although I haven’t been able to travel much this year - might have to change the bold claim on my twitter that I’m ‘barebacking across the world’.

Took another 3 loads on the weekend at a group sex event, dropped my load in a guy, and then took another load yesterday with a Grindr fuckbuddy. So that takes me to 23 loads taken and 9 loads delivered for the year to date.