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Filming can be a bit distracting but so long as not too disruptive a few small interruptions are ok I think. The partial solution I’ve tried is to set my iPad to record from a fixed position diagonally at one side of the foot of the bed. I find it hot to see full bodies in action and if I were to post part of the video there’ll usually be long portions where faces are obscured.

No doubt it’ll be a while before the ‘Grand tour’ will be easy to arrange but if you were expanding beyond Thailand and the Philippines I’d also suggest Taipei, as already mentioned, and perhaps Hong Kong. I have a soft spot for Macau, a short hop by boat or coach from HK, as I got a lot of action there and I had an epiphany to start barebacking when convinced by a sexy mainland Chinese guy who was working in Macau. He was very persuasive!

I’m not especially organised in relation to cellphone contacts so let me describe what I do as its a little different. A couple of years back I decided I needed some way to record details of hookups as I was losing track. I wanted to recall details of the guys and the encounters as well as means of contact. I was conscious that exchanges on the apps seemed to disappear after a while. I was mortified when suspended from Grindr and at an inopportune time (for no good reason I might add). I’ve also had temporary suspensions from twitter. I also wanted some security in case my partner were to browse my iPad. Most of my hookups, at least the ones where contacts are available, are via Grindr, BBRTS and, more recently, twitter. I try to retain contact details with each app allowing the electronic ‘black book’ or log to be a central repository or backup. With Grindr I mark the guys I’ve hooked up with by a star and add a note of date and brief key details. BBRTS I create a note in notes manager. I’ve never got the hang of the ‘buddy’ feature, perhaps its for paid version. For twitter I have created a locked list. I also have a few whatsapp contacts but these are usually also contacts on an app. i looked for a suitable app for storing a sex black book. Several were no good as they were tailored to heterosexuals. The one I settled on is called S-log (I.e. Sex log). I started with the free version but made two small payments to remove a cap on contacts and to activate password protection. It does all I need. You create profiles of partners and then create entries for sessions. Photos can be store on both the profile and the sessions entries so you can, for instance, keep screenshots of conversations from an app or more intimate pics.

Reminds me of my own visits to Lab a few months after yours. Similar number of fucks though I was both topping and bottoming. Regrettably I don’t recall being impaled by a guy with a 9” cock like you.

I don’t see a lot of Middle Eastern men in my home city. I do recall during my condom days (more than 6 years ago) lying in a room in a local bathhouse with the door open and suddenly looking up and seeing a stunning Arab guy at the foot of the bed. He indicated he wanted to fuck me and I showed my willingness. I motioned towards some condoms. He said he didn’t want to use them and encouraged me to go raw. He was so hairy (not what I was used to), so good looking and with a beautiful big hard cock I agtreed, which was very unusual for me at that time. He was a great fuck and I don’t know if he came in or on me. I do remember not worrying in the way I normally did when I occasionally ‘lapsed’ into barebacking - I had enjoyed it too much.

Wow guys have fucked in some wild places. Three examples come to mind that are ‘usual’ in the sense of being rest rooms and bushes but the context set them apart for me anyway: - in the basement restrooms at my university there were several showers installed, and while adjacent showers continued running we had understall sex while other users came and went. - in public toilets in Kowloon, Hong Kong. Not remarkable enough by itself but the context was that the guy only spoke Chinese, wejust cruised each other in a shopping street, and the pick up was a good twenty minute walk away as we went through alleys and department stores, not communicating in any language but lust, before finding the toilets. - in a disabled toilet at a busy South American airport. Again, context. This was a Grindr hookup with an airline staffer who turned out to be in sole charge of a gate for a delayed flight. - in bushes in Berlin’s Tiergarten within metres on one side of parking and a big Berlin road, and on the other side a few metres away down a slope to a park pathway. I got a quick snap of the guy’s big cock as we kept flipping and bred each other:

I rarely rim but when I do can find it wildly hot with the right guy in the right circumstances. Things came together with a sweet guy recently after we showered together. The guy managed to take a video on my phone for me and this still shows the position:

I naturally have only a little chest hair, if I leave it to grow it merely looks pathetic, so I shave it and my nipples. Also I’ve shaved my balls since was an adolescent as I was amazed at how the soft feel of my own smooth balls. As for the rest I’ve varied over the years starting with a bit of pube trimming, sometimes shaving all my pubes, ass hair, though to leg and pits sometimes. The trend anyway tends to the smoother. And this preference with my own body tends to be mirrored in what I tend to seek in casual sex partners, including a particular fondness for SE Asian guys who tend to be smooth (though that’s just a generalisation and many guys are sexily hairy). However, if I have a tendency towards smoothness as a notional preference I find I’m instinctually more complicated than that and in practice some of my favourite fucks have been with hairy guys. I’m fond of both hairy chest and smooth chests in partners. I’m not keen on hairy shoulders or backs. When topping I prefer hairless asses, but I’ve never thought to check in advance, I take as I find. I don’t rim often but where I do I’m much more likely to do so with a hairless asshole. That said, I showered with a hot guy recently and took the rare initiative to rim his hairy asshole and loved it. When bottoming I don’t care if a cock is hairy or not. I’m more likely to suck a cock, and deeper and for longer, if the pubes are trimmed.

I am sometimes asked my name and always happy to give one. I agree that it can come across as a sign of respect, that I’m a man not just a hole. Personally I don’t tend to initiate asking for names in advance, as I know some guys crave the anonymity, though I will often ask in the post-coital chat. I certainly try to treat the guys that I fuck with respect and friendliness but in my experience that hasn’t required names. While I’m out and comfortable in my sexuality I seem occasionally to strike some fairly nervous closeted guys. I can imagine them blurting out their real name without realising all that is required is just any name, real or invented. I suppose I wouldn’t want to give some of the nervous types a reason to suddenly back out of a hookup. There are many flakes on the apps!

You mention that poppers were stronger when you lived in Australia. There is, I believe, a joint therapeutics regulatory arrangement between Australia and New Zealand and those strong poppers may now be a memory in both countries. After a period of allowing weaker formulas I think, alas, that Australia and now NZ have phased all poppers out or are in the process of doing so.

You might like to browse the PrEP Discussion topics under the HIV/AIDS and Sexual Health Issues section. There’s some useful stuff there that might touch on your question.

I give and take deep inside. 💦

I’ve been using twitter as something of a ‘sex aid’ since the start of 2019, posting my own pics and seeing other guys’ sex pics. However, in the last year I’ve stepped things up a bit and am using it to make hookups. I’d like to hear about how other guys use twitter to hook up as I’ve had limited success and would like to learn from others as well as share. (As an aside, my twitter handle is @traveller _gay .) For those unfamiliar with twitter the key thing to remember is that it is not a dating app. Using it to hookup is a stretch, albeit a very rewarding one. The things I mention are done with settings set to sensitive content, so people don’t stumble on gay content generally. One approach is to post that you’re hosting in some locality and open to contact for guys who want to hookup. This was actually how I first realised twitter had this useful function. I responded to such an invitation and an hour later was being bred in a guy’s apartment. I’ve tried replicating this myself a couple of times when I’ve been visiting at a hotel in another town but so far without success. Another approach is to contact followers in a location who you’d like to fuck having seen their own posted content. Of course you have to this with care to avoid appearing to be some anonymous pest of the type that abound on all social media. However, I had my greatest success with this approach. I approached a guy who only posted his own content and there were many bareback videos of high quality of his frequent encounters, most of which appeared to be generated via twitter contacts. I said I’d like to make a video with him when I was in his city. He was up for it. When finally set up he brought a friend and we had a great threesome with me being the bottom and the two tops taking turns to fuck me raw or to operate the camera. Ultimately the most successful approach may not be so much to generate individual hookups, where Grindr etc may be easier, but to facilitate a network of fuck buddies since you can follow up with your hookups, posting videos of your sex together, watching their subsequent sexual exploits and them following yours. id be really interested to hear from other twitter users about how they’ve harnessed twitter for hooking up, what works, what to avoid.

I think all gay guys should be trained to do at least the basics. Perhaps 25 seconds without teeth connecting with cock. Practice could make most proficient to do a few moments of reasonable workmanship. However I believe that there are a minority of guys for whom their skills are so great that there’s an element of natural gift, or vocation, that goes beyond trying or experience. These guys are usually obvious almost as soon as you put your cock in their mouth. They’re all unique and the feeling divine.

If you ask a guy’s name you naturally need to give your own. You might be asked by the guy first. In either case you need to decide what name to give. To avoid forgetting my alias I use the same one each time. Only occasionally do I strike a minor problem such as where a hookup needs to ask for me at the front desk of a hotel. However, even where another real name is revealed, hookups don’t seem surprised as using a false name is almost expected.it might be different if one was seeking a LTR but I have one of those.

Yeah there are some real paradoxes such as hot anonymity and false intimacy of a name. There is a perversely significant connection when you know a guy’s face, voice, look of his cock or feel of his asshole, and yet long since forgotten his name if you ever knew it.

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I’ve been using twitter as a supplementary hookup site, it doesn’t always have same features of a usual hookup app but some of the differences are fun - like seeing videos of prospective hookup fucking other guys. I’ve set up some hookups using twitter, typically posting “I’m in x city on Thursday, local guys DM me if interested in hooking up”, responding to another guys post or even just messaging followers from that town. Once a guy who followed me from another city messaged to put me in touch at short notice with a young friend of his whose Grindr hookup had flaked.

I started wondering about recalling names when I set up an electronic record of hookups, including inserted partner details of dozens of guys I could assemble from apps, and realised that I knew guys who had bred me several times only by handles such as Thicccock 246.

I get tested for HIV and STIs 4 times per year. I have typically picked something up at 2 out of 4 tests. Since deciding to go bareback full time about 5 years ago I have tried some strategies to compensate for lack of condoms with PrEP at top of list. I have recently reduced the amount of oral sex in group settings in an attempt to reduce some throat infections and try to remember to use an antiseptic mouthwash after sessions (I’m not 100% sure how that helps, but it can’t hurt). In group sessions I try to wash my cock periodically though I admit it is often difficult to avoid its entry into multiple holes in heat of the moment. Actually I’ve been surprised recently at how few bugs I’ve gotten after multiple successive raw hookups on sex trips and have put this down to ubiquity of PrEP use with its mandatory STI testing to retain prescriptions.

An underwhelming 5 loads taken and 3 loads given so far. Worse still I’ve just had an operation which will put me out of action for three months. So very unlikely by year’s end to better my 2019 record of 53 loads taken or even match 2020’s skimpy 29 loads taken.

I rarely know guys’ names when I get naked and fuck through online hookups (similarly with bathhouses or cruising but the focus here is meant to be guys you might knowingly hook up with again). If I do learn names it’s usually while chatting as we get dressed. By a name I mean a first name that a guy uses in hookups, possibly a pseudonym, not just a hookup app handle ie what a guy you’ve just fucked might answer if you asked ‘hey, what’s your name?’. I’d be interested whether others usually exchange names. Only in recent years have I tended to seek out repeat hookups (my partner discouraged me making attachments when I fucked around) and I’ve now got a group of repeat buddies spread across several cities to call on but I don’t actually know all their names. I wondered about other guys’ experience.

A kinda weird but very hot Grindr hookup. Visiting a small city and arranged to walk to this guy’s house about 9.30pm. He told me to message when I arrived. I thought he’d meet me outside instead he sent a message to come to front door which would be unlocked, climb stairs to next level, take door on left. It was dark outside and the house was down a narrow lane off the street with houses on both sides and behind. I guessed the wrong house - luckily it’s front door was locked or I could have been in a heap of trouble. Located the right house and came in, climbed stairs opened bedroom door and entered the tiny dark room. I could just make out a dark naked body crouched down. I shut the door and the only light was some small illumination from an atomiser releasing scented mist from the floor. I started to undress but the guy immediately pounced on me to help perform that task in a slow sensual manner. Once my clothes were off I grabbed the body and hugged and kissed him though I still couldn’t see any features. There was a narrow single bed in the room and a small sofa and we fucked over all surfaces in the room - sofa, bed, floor - in a frenzy of sex in various positions all in pitch dark. He kept on taking sniffs of poppers every minute or so but I took only the single hit.eventually I came in his ass and we lay back and chatted a while - not loudly as he must have had housemates in other rooms. When it came time to dress he turned on the light and found the guy was a very dark good looking, South Asian.

I enjoy sharing my sexual adventures at @traveller_gay and hooking up and fucking with followers. Infuriatingly, I’ve struck problems with twitter rules and algorithms a number of times in last two months as during several lockdowns I lie in bed naked scrolling around twitter for hours, much much more so than usual. The algorithm declares this to be unusual activity and requires password resets. The algorithm detected a profile image that breached a rule (fair cop, an erect penis but hardly the only one). I changed it to a clip of a Grindr exchange where a hookup and I set up an anonymous scene (blindfold etc.). This was blocked for promoting violence (absurd, it was one of the most memorable and enjoyable encounter, sure his 19cm cock hurt a little but he heard my squeals and kindly passed me some poppers). At least the suspension automatically lifted when I substituted a new profile photo. Then I got a temporary suspension for following about 40 guys’ accounts in a row. That was probably foolish as I knew there is some kind of daily limit but they they don’t tell you what it is. The problem is that the algorithm seems now to have marked me out for scrutiny- I’ve just been given a 4 day suspension for some unknown offence, I followed a few new guys, unfollowed a few, tweeted a picture I.e. nothing at all. It baffles me. No twitter for me for another 3 days ...

Seem to get some of my best sessions at the weekly Sunday afternoon naked cruise event at the local cruise club. They only allow entry from 2 to 2.30pm and it remains open till 5 (reopening at 7 pm for regular crowd). As usual this week, a small crowd of guys waiting to get in so they can get their clothes off and get down to business. I was one of the first into the maze and soon hooked up with a couple of guys standing in a dark corridor. Feeling some lube on one guys cock I not so subtly brought my prelude ass to his attention with the desired effect. The tall lean guy had a pointy beard and a very long cock, I’d guess 8”, angled slightly upwards as I like it. He fucked me for a long time during which many guys had crowded around watching, doing their own things (fucking and sucking) and in some cases attempting to detach the guy from my ass to impale their own. Eventually he did move onto fucking another guy as is the custom at these events and I too went off for fresh meat. During the next couple of hours I topped a couple of times and was fucked by another guy and I saw the tall lean guy fuck another 5 or 6 guys and, surprisingly, saw him bottom a couple of times (surprising to see such an accomplished top being versatile- he wasn’t just big he was a highly skilled top). Eventually I was in a dark room and was groped from behind and didn’t see who was slipping their raw cock in my hole but it was done well and was bringing much pleasure. In the dark it seemed to be the girth as much as the length that was filling me nicely. In fact it was the guy with the long cock and despite all the asses he’d sampled that afternoon he whispered in my ear how great my ass felt and that he was going to shoot inside me. By great coincidence and with no use of hands myself I came at the exact same time as he bred me. Seemed like the right time to clean up and go.