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I changed to predominantly barebacking about 5 years ago When I went on PrEP. While I’ve always frequented bathhouses that’s tended to be one on one. However, I’ve found that more and more I seem to be participating in group sex scenes. Sometimes in bathhouses but also in cruise clubs, sex parties and organised orgies. I’m hoping at some stage to get to one of these horse fairs and sex camps I’ve read about but I can’t travel to them for a while. Anyway I was wondering what other guys adopted as their hygiene settings for theses group scenes. I’m not a bug chaser and accept STIs are to be expected but worry sometimes both for myself and for the guys I go with later in one on ones who are themselves more careful. For my part my core hygiene practices are PrEP, showering beforehand, douching in advance, showering afterwards and 3 monthly STI checks. I don’t use condoms. I’m versatile so am topping and bottoming in group sex. As a bottom there’s not much I do in the orgy as I accept multiple loads. As a top I try to wash my cock after fucking guys before fucking another guy although I concede that I don’t always do so in the heat of action. I also try to wash my hands from time to time. I’ve never done much rimming but find I myself doing it when I’m really horny and into a guy, I prefer to know he’s clean which is more usual in bathhouses than some other scenes. I try not to do much sucking in group sex as my doctor often mentions which STIs have arrived orally or anally (and I’m not stopping the anal). I try to use Listerine when I get home as I read it can kill some STI germs in the mouth (perhaps that’s a myth). I should shower when I get home but tend not to, unless I’m in a hotel, as it would disturb my partner. I’m interested in other guy’s practices as orgies seem to be pretty unconstrained but I guess each participant plays a part in what they do or don’t do. -
I enjoyed the party but only a small portion of the 20 guys that registered turned up (which is regrettable but, it seems, par for the course). Quite a bit of sucking and fucking finished for me on my back at the bottom of a spit roast. The young Asian top came first causing a chain reaction with the middle guy drooping a load into me.
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Having my ear lobe nibbled. It’s not that I really want guys to do that or that I seek it out, it’s just that (with the right guy) when it unexpectedly happens it can be so gentle and intimate as to be a real turn on.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Good day for me, took two loads in two encounters. I had registered to join a bareback party in the late afternoon but before lunch decided to try Grindr. Got hit up by a young Asian guy, my type, almost immediately and was at his apartment within 30 minutes. A bit of a downer was that he messages to say ‘safe fuck only’ but I decided to try my luck. Most of my hookups get down to fucking pretty quickly but this guy was sweet (and really fit and good looking - with a big cock) and spent a lot of time on foreplay with caressing, licking, sucking, nipple squeezing, frottage and kissing. It was so hot I lost control and came before the main event. He made no fuss but jerked off on me and continued to cuddle and before long I was hard again. Laying on top of me he gently rubbed his semi-hard cock against my hole and was hard himself before long. With my legs in the air it was clear he was going to top me and he asked if I needed lube. He lubed up his cock and it was obvious he wasn’t going to use a condom. A great fuck ensued but, perhaps due to his safe sex ideas, pulled out at the last second, and came on my asshole. It occured to me that it was just as well I had hooked up before the party as I wouldn’t have wanted to come prematurely in a group scene. I got to the bareback sex party and things got under way. A hot young Vietnamese guy with a long hard but thin cock was getting particular attention. The main highlight for me was being the bottom in a spit roast where the Vietnamese guy came in the middle guy who then came in me. -
I’m planning to be there
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I’ve been to saunas in Hong Kong, Japan, Philippines, Singapore, Taipei and Thailand. I can’t recall a sauna in Macau where I successfully used Grindr. I loved the bathhouses in Tokyo and Osaka but it was several years back and all condoms. In Hong Kong I’ve used places in HK and Kowloon, variable quality, but haven’t used recently as I’ve now got a fuckbuddy there who insisted on screwing me exclusively on my last three visits, usually three times a night. I recall barebacking in saunas in Singapore, Taipei and Bangkok. I’ve visited Bangkok Babylon many times and barebacking is more common there now but probably still encountered condoms about 20% of the time.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Went to a bathhouse in a neighbouring city. Fairly quiet. First hookup was with an Asian guy standing in an alcove. He had a hard upward pointing cock, ok length but pencil thin, got my ass onto his cock for a few thrusts but he soon pulled out and I guessed he really was a bottom which I confirmed with a grasp of his ass, following which we headed for a room. I lubed up and was disappointed when he insisted on a condom. Reluctantly I donned a rubber and started entering him but he was one of these “please go slow” guys and the slowness, his tight asshole and the condom combined to kill my boner. I explained to him that the condom was making me soft and he didn’t object when I took it off and started entering him raw. However the damage was done and with his tightness, my softness and his disapproving attitude I soon gave up. Later in the evening I headed for the hot tub and joined a tall older guy. We chatted and he started plying with my cock with his foot. Then with his hands, he was quite taken with its thickness and hardness. Eventually we showered then headed for a room. This time he apologised about not being hard enough to fuck me. I said I’d see what I could do to help and started sucking his thick cut cock. I got it sufficiently hard that he was able to enter me and start thrusting. No suggestion of a condom, just raw meat. I soon took his load. -
I went off PrEP for 8 weeks over lockdown but am back on daily prep for over 2 months now. My sex drive has remained constant throughout although it may not be a great experiment as I had no access to bareback sex during lockdown, only with myself. Actually the other liberating effect of PrEP is my willingness to fuck with POZ guys. Previously I had notionally to treat everyone as a risk and use condoms or decline to fuck. I never asked people or knew what their HIV status was but suspect I’d have avoided sex if I knew someone was positive. Now I still don’t ask guys their status but sometimes I see it on a profile especially on BBRTS and I willingly fuck with them raw. In terms of sex drive this increases the opportunities for sex and reduces the stress. But it is also liberating in an emotion political sense somehow, one never wanted to shun people consciously but the risk of infection caused an almost instinctual drawing back, it seems that PrEP more than condoms helps restore solidarity and casual intimacy between gay men, or at least in my case. Prior to PrEP I never knowingly allowed an HIV+ guy to fuck me (they may well have done so, statistically it’s likely) subsequently it’s an unremarked common occurrence.
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I was wondering about the practicalities and issues of taking photos/videos at sex parties (bareback of course). I’m especially interested in experience of those that have hosted sex parties. I’ve had limited experience of such parties and have not organised one myself. I’ve been to about 6 or 7 away from commercial sex premises. Generally there have no photos and guys are encouraged to leave their phones inaccessible during the action. However, one organiser of frequent orgies that I’ve attended takes the role of official photographer and wanders around taking photos (no one else may). This practice is signalled in advance before you attend. Afterwards he edits the pictures to obscure faces and identifying marks like tattoos and makes them available in a Dropbox to guys who attended. I found myself featured in a couple of pictures, one I remember at the time was taken at the request of the guy I was fucking, in the other it was a group shot I had no idea was being taken. I found it a real turn on. I can see some risks of allowing anyone to take photos at a sex party - you could end up with all voyeurs and no action! More seriously since one can assume any photos taken could, and probably would, end up on the internet then many guys would be unwilling to come to the party if they could be identified in that way. The trusted official photographer would be a good solution. I also wondered if it would encourage or deter participation. I thought guys will find it hot and want to attend such a party. However, might it be more likely to turn guys away?
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It is the first room you pass with a sling, the only room that can be booked separately I think. I think the sling is set a little higher than other slings as it seems usually to be used for fisting though no one was using the sling yesterday afternoon.
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The BBSP event at a party room at Lateshift was held yesterday afternoon. I had a good time as I got fucked about 14 times, and topped 5 or 6 times, which is more than I get usually on a Sunday afternoon. Took 3 loads I think, it might have been 4. However, I’d prefer BBSP events to be held separately at a motel or someone’s home as I usually go to the Sunday afternoon late shift sessions anyway and I’d like the BBSP events to be extra (greedy I know). Plus the BBSP event was mixed in with regular lateshift cruising so the party guests didn’t stay in the party room and it was empty after 25 minutes or so with guys fucking all over the venue. I also had the indignity of one guy coming into the party room and fucking me with a condom on. I put a stop to that.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I had joined a bareback sex party group and had attended a session in a city hotel in June. This afternoon they held their event at the local cruise club premises during its Sunday naked session. Pretty successful event for me as I was one of the first guys in the side room allocated for the sex party group and a guy started sucking and then fucking me almost immediately. I was bent over the side of a bed and when he finished I just stayed bent over and a second guy immediately started fucking me. Then a third. Eventually it was 7 or 8 (though perhaps some had come around a second time I couldn’t see). I took at least one load then possibly two. Later I left the side room and joined all the guys there for the regular cruise club action, which is nearly all raw. That added a further 7 or so bottoming and 5 or 6 topping. Took a couple more loads. -
I have a fairly clear recollection as to when I learned to jerk off and it would have been about my 11th birthday give or take a month or two. I’m fairly precise as it was a period when my family moved to a new city but my brother and sister were kept at boarding school to complete a year and so didn’t join us for 3 months or so and I spent quite a lot of time alone. I was self taught although I saw a reference to boys “rubbing their penis” in a women’s magazine. I couldn’t figure out the rubbing business and kind of rolled my cock between both hands, not hugely practical. I had a small battery driven motor on which I attached a rubber eraser that spun around and could be positioned to flick the tip of my cock, very satisfactory and gave a really good orgasm. (I’ve seen something similar in an online sex shop in recent years and wondered if I should have sought a patent.) Later I adopted the standard technique to great success. Although I’ve never been caught I do recall spying through a crack in a divider between my side of the bedroom and my older brother’s, when he thought I was asleep, and especially liked the slapping of his balls that didn’t happen with my much smaller balls.
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I’m a bit squeamish when it comes to rimming. I like to do it most when I know the guy is clean (e.g. we’ve just showered or are at a bathhouse) and his asshole is smooth and hairless. I generally do it if the guy asks me or if I’m especially horny or poppered up. Strangely enough, also if I happen to be crouching down near a naked guy’s ass and I want to grab his attention (e.g. if I’ve dropped a lube sachet or poppers on the floor or am trying to put a cock ring on and don’t want the guy leaving while my hands and cock are otherwise occupied).
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I found that PrEP enhanced my sex drive. Before going on PrEP I had started intermittently barebacking, usually in response to a hookup’s preference or in heat of the moment, but I’d still carry condoms and was still in a condom mindset so didn’t get the full benefit of barebacking i.e. wasn’t spontaneous and stressed out over the raw sex (asking guys to pull out before cumming etc.). After PrEP I fully relaxed over the skin on skin and really enjoyed it. It’s undoubtedly liberated my sex life and, in addition to an increase in sex, all raw, over the 3 or 4 years on PrEP I’ve tried many things for the first time (orgies, sex parties, fisting, videoing sex, hookup apps, sex club, blindfolded anonymous sex). There’s no strict connection with PrEP but for me anyway it was my connection into a more varied sex life.
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My partner always used to fuck me raw so I guess he was the first but that’s not hookup sex which I used condoms for over many years. I lapsed into raw sex a few times in my condom period. The first time I recall was at a sauna while abroad. I had hooked up with a guy in a room at the sauna and I had him put on a condom when he tried to fuck me. However he’d go soft and ask to leave the condom off and I’d let him fuck me raw for a few strokes then put another condom on him and we’d start again. We did that 3 or 4 times but eventually I must have relented because he stuck around and we had some good sex. Good enough that we agreed to leave the sauna and go to my hotel on the explicit understanding that we would fuck raw. He must have been hot because usually I’d have been paranoid about that in the 1990s. He stayed overnight and fucked me several times.
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Taken 11 loads, deposited 8 loads. Steady progress for an exceptionally quiet year. Missing my cancelled trips to Bangkok, Sydney and Taipei which would certainly have boosted my load rate.
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I see that BBSP have notified that their next party will be next Sunday at Lateshift.
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I wondered how common it is for guys to rim. My experience is that it seems to be a minority of guys but may perhaps have become a little more common in recent years. Is that other guys’ experience or am I missing out? I enjoy being rimmed but only rim other guys rarely - though those occasions are often the most intense sessions that I remember most vividly.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Went to my local cruise club on Sunday afternoon when they have a naked session where you have to arrive between 2.00 and 2.30pm when the doors are locked and the fun begins (actually the fucking has been on for half an hour by then as guys are at it within minutes of the doors opening). Probably over 50 guys there in the hour I stayed. Naked bodies packed the corridors, dark rooms, slings. I got fucked about 6 times and took 3 loads. To even things up I fucked about 4 guys. I put a bit of ‘Elbow Grease’ in my asshole before I arrived at the club and didn’t need to add any lube while there - once the first guy had bred me I think his cum helped the other cocks to enjoy a slippery ride. -
I’ve been disappointed that BBSP hasn’t run a sex party in Auckland in July. Good on whoever set it up but there are plenty of guys eager for the next fuck fest.
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Sunday afternoons are the best at Lateshift. Everyone is naked and fucking like rabbits. This afternoon I was fucked six times and took three loads. At least two of the guys had big cocks, which I like, one had a knob much bigger than his cock itself which can be fun (others who fucked me may have had big cocks too but I never saw or touched them, they just came in behind in the dark). Also fucked three guys but being fucked was most fun.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Visiting another city and was bred by a short muscular Asian guy 2 hours ago in my hotel room in a Grindr hookup. Nice body and passionate which made up for his cock being smaller than it had seemed in his profile. While he was fucking me he was very complimentary about how good my ass felt. He made a curious comment about how good it was to be able to push his cock all the way in which I didn’t really understand. Took a good load. -
Just passed the half way mark for year and disappointed to have only taken 6 loads and deposited a further 6 loads. Easy to calculate that as 1 top and 1 bottom load per month. Will try to pick up the pace in 2nd half of the year.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BB4fking replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Local bathhouse restarted their monthly orgy night which has been in abeyance since March, after they reopened 6 weeks ago. In the orgy night they switch off lights and TVs in the upstairs part of the venue where there are some mazes, gloryholes, darkrooms, and 11 bed rooms, including a couple of doubles, for which the doors are fixed open on orgy night. Guys only issued with tiny towels so it is also naked night on orgy night as well as being darkish. Big turnout, post-lockdown guys are valuing the community contact, and body contact, in the gay venues, hopefully they’ll continue to frequent them. Lots of sex to watch as well as getting some. Nearly all BB I think. Topped and bottomed several times and eventually deposited a load in a guy doggy style with other guys standing by and watching.
